cutemetrix Posted November 30, 2005 Share Posted November 30, 2005 Mga toll how will you handle this situation :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
JUPITER Posted November 30, 2005 Share Posted November 30, 2005 Since I'm not a moron, I'll leave her. heheh Quote Link to comment
babymaker Posted November 30, 2005 Share Posted November 30, 2005 Since I'm not a moron, I'll leave her. heheh<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Since I am not a moron too, I will leave her as well. :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
arrow Posted November 30, 2005 Share Posted November 30, 2005 (edited) i'll talk to her...ask her why..try to digest what she says...then leave,letting her know how foolish i am to allow that to happen,coz in this case somehow it is my fault...ask myself how it happen...then go back to my life... Edited November 30, 2005 by arrow Quote Link to comment
Clinks Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 Since I am not a moron too, I will leave her as well. :thumbsdownsmiley:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> That makes the three of us Quote Link to comment
chabacano Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 well, sana tuluyan at panagutan nu'ng guy yung chika ko.pag hindi, bahala sila sa buhay nila, he-he. Quote Link to comment
bill lomita Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 (edited) Gagawin ko muna sa kanya ang lahat ng kamasutra position at pag nagsawa na ko, iiwan ko na siya, para patas na lang kami. Edited December 1, 2005 by Bill Lomita Quote Link to comment
Tanya08 Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 i guess guys.. nde nyo na sya kelangang iwan pa yung girl... kse sa tingin ko yung girl na mismo ang lalayo senyo.. Quote Link to comment
russ Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 this is the kind of a situation that would never want to be in... what will i do?? probably id leave her... Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 If Impregnated by the other:I will say LO! BEHOLD! ALLELUJIAH! If she was not impregnated, I may still not know that she was cheating on me, and I could have even end eup marrying her. Now that I know that she was cheating and got impregnated .... I am sorry, it is a choice she made ... I will make mine then ... LEAVE If Impregnated allagedly by me, and she was then cheating PROVE IT..... Quote Link to comment
Hudson Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 I would let her try to explain herself and learn if i have failed her in any way and to understand why she did that to me. I would not have much to say just " Get out of my life". Quote Link to comment
diver_703 Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 ang gagawin ko, bubuntisin ko nanay nya at kung may kapatid na babae bubuntisin ko din, tapos bubuntisin ko sya pag kapanganak nya tapos iiwan ko silang lahat... di magkakapatid ang mga magiging anak nila... Quote Link to comment
astig_supah_ganda Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 saklap naman nun sa mga guys... Quote Link to comment
Manticore Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 Sounds like a topic straight out of the Jerry Springer Show. heheheh. We seem to have a double standard in our society about infidelity. Men get to do so with more frequency, and are often held in great esteem by their peers for demonstrating their machismo, while society tends to tolerate their behavior because it's considered 'typical'. Women, on the other hand, are condemned once they are found out. Truth is, anyone is capable of making mistakes. Whether one is able to forgive depends not on common sense, but on how much you truly love your partner. Of course, all bets are off when the relationship wasn't serious to begin with, or was more 'convenient' than romantic in nature. The saying, "to err is human, to forgive, divine," rings loudly in such cases. Quote Link to comment
babymaker Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 We seem to have a double standard in our society about infidelity. This "double standard" is called the standard of NATURE. When men make babies with other women other than his wife, as long as nobody finds out, he sends his love and support, and is more than capable of doing so (rich), everyone is still happy. When women make babies with other men and tries to pass of this baby as her husband's baby, this is a grave and terminal injustice not only to her husband, but to her husband's WHOLE FAMILY. The baby is not of the blood of the father, not of the grandparents, not of the uncles, not of the aunties, not of the cousins. Any of you try being in the position as GRANDMOTHER or GRANDFATHER and you will cry WAR when you find out the grandchild you have been loving all these years was nothing but a FAKE. Bullshit if anyone says napamahal na... blood is always thicker than water. Quote Link to comment
ninong03 Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 kailangan pa bang i-memorized yan?! iwanan mo. Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted December 1, 2005 Author Share Posted December 1, 2005 Totoo ba yun TANYA? yung girl n mismo yung aalis?Mahirap mapunta sa ganung sitwasyon.Hopefully wag mangyari sa atin yung mga TOL :cry: :cry: :cry: Quote Link to comment
Tanya08 Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 Totoo ba yun TANYA? yung girl n mismo yung aalis?Mahirap mapunta sa ganung sitwasyon.Hopefully wag mangyari sa atin yung mga TOL :cry: :cry: :cry:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> yup! well kung nde nman tlga likas na masama yung girl at tanggap nman nya na nagkamali sya, cguro nde nman nya gagawing ipaako sa bf nya yun kung nde nman tlga yung bf ang dad.. malamang mahihiya yun at yun nga kusa n syang lalayo sayo without even saying goodbye.. wala na yung muka na papakita sayo.. Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 wla ng kelangan pag usapan.hiwalay na, ginawa nila un, deal with it. Quote Link to comment
xycho_g Posted December 2, 2005 Share Posted December 2, 2005 what if you got her pregnant and caught her cheating on you?.... ayan para mas mahirap...haha... Quote Link to comment
hoodsy2004 Posted December 2, 2005 Share Posted December 2, 2005 Hiwalay na yan! I've known this guy na naka-ONS nya yun girl at may bf yun girl tapos may nabuo. Ginawa nung girl pinaako dun sa bf nya pero kinuha nyang ninong sa binyag yun tatay... Quote Link to comment
bongjuan Posted December 2, 2005 Share Posted December 2, 2005 A good girlfriend would not cheat. A good boyfriend would not give her any reason to cheat. That said, I don't want to have someone else's kid, and would dump a cheating a whore faster than bad diahrea. Quote Link to comment
Manticore Posted December 3, 2005 Share Posted December 3, 2005 This "double standard" is called the standard of NATURE. When men make babies with other women other than his wife, as long as nobody finds out, he sends his love and support, and is more than capable of doing so (rich), everyone is still happy. When women make babies with other men and tries to pass of this baby as her husband's baby, this is a grave and terminal injustice not only to her husband, but to her husband's WHOLE FAMILY. The baby is not of the blood of the father, not of the grandparents, not of the uncles, not of the aunties, not of the cousins. Any of you try being in the position as GRANDMOTHER or GRANDFATHER and you will cry WAR when you find out the grandchild you have been loving all these years was nothing but a FAKE. Bullshit if anyone says napamahal na... blood is always thicker than water.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Physiological differences do put women at a disadvantage where infidelity is concerned. If she chooses to keep the child, there is no way to conceal the fact of her pregnancy. That men typically assume the role of breadwinner often renders women completely dependent on their husbands for financial support. If women had the luxury of keeping the whole affair a secret (and were not prevented from ending their careers in lieu of motherhood), then perhaps both genders would have an equal footing. As you pointed out, however, this is simply not the case. Passing off one's baby as her husband's when it is not is a terrible thing to do, but the same goes for having an illicit affair or an illegitimate family. The erring party still has to answer for their actions...if they were ever found out. Forgiveness is still up to those who've been wronged. It's a matter of pride and understanding. Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted December 3, 2005 Share Posted December 3, 2005 super sakit... end of story na yun i guess time to say goodbye... Quote Link to comment
AutoPimp Posted December 4, 2005 Share Posted December 4, 2005 Ouchie .. I'll need to have some time to think first, what did i do to make her do such actions or Kung may nagawa ba ako that leads her to cheating. If i'll leave her tapos iiwanan pa siya nung naka preggy sa kanya, baka mabaliw na yun, kawawa naman di ba? Hindi ko muna iiwan yung girl, i'll take care of her muna since minahal ko naman siya before mangyari yun eh. I could spent some time with her to nurse her pero im sure na hindi ako aabot sa point na aakuin ko na yung baby. I still have a life to leave, if she choose to be miserable, let me have a part of those sufferings but in the end let me continue my life and be happy. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
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