Waterbearer Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 What do you talk about on your first date? Quote Link to comment
DaChosen1 Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 It depends. Blind date:- I may have a few scripted plans for different scenarios. However, I usually let it fly spontaneously and be myself. So far, none of my blind dates ended on that one date. - Try to fish for something to talk about. I ask questions and just listen. My biggest assets---I'm a listener, I keep eye contact at all times, and smile a little bit but not too much. - If I can feel that the date will be the first and last because we do not click at all, we may not talk much about anything. (Why the hell am I doing here? I've got to stop letting people set me like this. I will k*ll the person who set me up.) :thumbsdownsmiley:  First date with someone I kind of know:- Same tactics as above though much relaxed. Friendship is my first goal; get to know the girl more beyond what I already know. Hobbies, families, about their friends, and most of all about themselves are always excellent topics. I make sure the girl feels at ease with me and sense that I’m interested in really knowing about her. Quote Link to comment
DUBFAN Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Outlook on life, where they are now, where they want to someday be, or be doing. How much they are enjoying life now, or not enjoying. Priorities :thumbsupsmiley: Family :cool: Us Quote Link to comment
Leonardo007 Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 its always better if you at least have an inkling on your date's interest... kung wala... well... why not make it the topic of your conversation... you could probably try checking if your interests are the same as the other, or something like that =) oh, and it may also help not to think too much about everything being a date... talk casually... marami namang pwedeng maging topic sa mundo diba? kung wala talaga, try doing something which would not require you to talk much... like watching movies or watching live band performances... what ever the case, always remember to keep your ears open. hindi lang ikaw ang gustong magpakilala =) Quote Link to comment
willow_boy Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 The usual "probing" type of questions such as interests, hobbies, mutual friends (if any), etc. Basically, all the questions that you typically ask to know the other person more and vice versa. Â Pero, as much as possible, I do some research about her before the first date para hindi naman maging boring ang usapan namin. Quote Link to comment
Sweetie_Mar Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Hmm...it depends with whom I dated. Usually we talked about ourselves and be familiarize with some personal info's. We can talk anything under the sun but I prefered a guy who initiates a topic with sense in which we can exchange point of views and at least learn something about it. A guy with less talks,senseless talks and exagerated talks usually end up in just one date . I also prefer a date with guys with broadminded coz I enjoyed listening and talking with them and surely the date will not be boring. Quote Link to comment
bembrat Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 it's usually impromptu for me. Quote Link to comment
tensyonado Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 you're respective interests Quote Link to comment
Dr.Love Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 Usually nakikinig lang ako kasi yung girl yung kwento ng kwento. Quote Link to comment
boynextdoor6969 Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 kung ano yung gusto niyang kainin and ano movie na gusto niya panoorin Quote Link to comment
averno Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 anything under the sun, mas ok yung ganun e Quote Link to comment
mushee Posted May 1, 2006 Share Posted May 1, 2006 talk about ourselvesour familyour pastour future plans Quote Link to comment
agamulach_experience2000 Posted May 2, 2006 Share Posted May 2, 2006 In my case we talk about interests and look for common ground. That way I can earn pogi points, hahaha... SSSSShhhh, secret naten to ha... Quote Link to comment
King`Of`Klubbs Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 I don't talk about myself.I don't talk anything about her, either. I don't probe much.Inaasar ko lang sya na tipong patawa. Basta kailangang tumawa lang sya.Probing and talking about ourselves would come little by little on the second and third date. Quote Link to comment
ganjaman318 Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 it's but smart not to talkof yourself, you have to be genuinely interested in your date...if the interest is reciprocated, then you're in like flynn! :mtc: Quote Link to comment
kaila_win Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 We always look for something in common between us. we talk about work, hobbies, friends, etc. Quote Link to comment
ayanousflip Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 We always look for something in common between us. we talk about work, hobbies, friends, etc.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Â Â Â same also, with a twist of laughter and naughtiness so the conversation would be a lot livelier hehehe Quote Link to comment
DomPerignom Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Anything under the sun. I constantly try to figure out what she's most interested in talking about and go on from there. Quote Link to comment
epfidemic Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 nothing in particular ... damn .. it should not be a rehearsed dialogue ... feel free .. not intimidated ... and dont make her feel special ... just be gentle Quote Link to comment
hammerdrill Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 her i think it's safe to talk about HER and get to know HER. if she reciprocates it's a good sign.  safe date ideas i think would be: how many brothers and sisters do you have?what do you do for fun?common friendshometowncompliment her clothesbreak the touch barrier (without being a perv :thumbsupsmiley: )make her smile with a very funny jokeor a very corny jokelet her see you in your element ( do or show something you're good at without being mayabang )learn a magic trick ( this one is reallt good ) goodluck! Quote Link to comment
astig_supah_ganda Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 its all about me..hndi ako makasingit sa dami ng tanong e.. Quote Link to comment
Lingerie_girL Posted July 30, 2006 Share Posted July 30, 2006 it depends sa ka-date ko.... may guy kase na hindi masyadong masalita eh.....usually about ourselves muna eh.... tsaka yung mga plans in the future....meron din kaseng gusto ibang topic eh, yun bang politics or business, sports, etc...... Quote Link to comment
warmheat Posted July 30, 2006 Share Posted July 30, 2006 infos and syempre im trying to observe him yung actions or gestures and expression nya..how his eyes move Quote Link to comment
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