Exit Lines

[Kapit_tuko]

I guarantee it won't be easy

I guarantee that at one point or another

One of us is going to want to leave. -- RUNAWAY BRIDE

[gig0l0]

i must admit that im learning a lot from this forum. im one of those people who find it so hard to end a relationship...

 

[checkline_princess]

minahal nman kta eh, pero noon un... bglang nwala eh... pasensha kna ha?...

[gig0l0]

ganun ba talaga kadali sabihin yun? bakit hirap na hirap ako...

 

[wjc-934]

minahal nman kta eh, pero noon un... bglang nwala eh... pasensha kna ha?...

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grabe! :boo:

 

mukang napaka dali mo namang masasabi yun...

 

ang sakit pakinggan nun...

[Tanya08]

ganun ba talaga kadali sabihin yun? bakit hirap na hirap ako...

 

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maybe bcoz nde mo lng tlga kayang makasakit ng damdamin ng iba...

 

pero sa totoo lng mahirap tlga.. kya everytime na nkikipag break ako.. minsan i cut my hair short.. gusto ko kseng parusahan sarili ko kse nakasakit ako ng taong minahal ko din nman... and nde rin ako nakikipag bf agad agad.. kung pede nga lng akuin ko n lng yung pain and hurt ive caused them during the break up aakuin ko, para nde na cla mahirapan ako n lng.

 

hehe minsan nga iniintay ko na makarecover muna cla at maging frends na ulit kme bago ako makipag bf ulit.. hehehe. sounds ridiculous ba? hehe well thats just me. :hypocritesmiley:

[Wacky Dreamer]

"Binata't dalaga pa tayo. Marami pang pwedeng mangyari."

hehe I guess it's the culture these days

[gig0l0]

ang hirap pa rin. tama si tanya...hirap makasakit ng ibang tao. pano ba mapapadali makipagbreak.... di ko talaga alam.

 

sa lahat ng ayoko...nakakakitang babaeng umiiyak sa harap ko.

 

[Tanya08]

ang hirap pa rin. tama si tanya...hirap makasakit ng ibang tao. pano ba mapapadali makipagbreak.... di ko talaga alam.

 

sa lahat ng ayoko...nakakakitang babaeng umiiyak sa harap ko.

 

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yeah naalala ko tuloy nung breakup ko sa isang exbf ko umiyak sya harap ko as in hagulgol tlga sya nde ko alam gagawin ko niyakap ko n lng sya, tapos iyak p rin sya ng iyak sa balikat ko... sa sobrang guilt ko ive almost gve my body to him(1st ko sna sya nun kung natuloy).. buti n lng nde sya nagtake advantage.. ask nya kse ako kung bukal saken yun sabe ko 'no' ayun bigla n syang tumigil sa pagiyak.. buti n lng walang nangyare.. sheesh! nde ko tlga kayang makasakit pero i have to.. nde ko rin kse kayang magpanggap n mahal ko cla kung nde nman tlga..

[antwanshakeel]

one way is to start getting cold with him /her until she finally says `break na tayo'

[Tanya08]

aw! i hate this process, bkt nde n lng kaya deretsuhin.. papatagalin pa e, papasakitin pa ulo ng girl.. parang torture to..

[gig0l0]

one way is to start getting cold with him /her until she finally says `break na tayo'

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this sounds like my style. eto lang kaya kong gawin e.

 

[Chickquero]

...goodbye forever.

[Tanya08]

this sounds like my style. eto lang kaya kong gawin e.

 

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ah ok... hmm... e pano kaya kung vice versa ganyan ang gawin ng girl sayo? anong gagawin mo? ok lng b sayo yun? being cold until you finally say na break n kayo?

[JANITOR]

ah ok... hmm... e pano kaya kung vice versa ganyan ang gawin ng girl sayo? anong gagawin mo? ok lng b sayo yun? being cold until you finally say na break n kayo? 

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bakit mo pa pipilitin ang taong ayaw sa'yo, let him/her be kung saan sya mas masaya, ganyan naman talaga ang pagmamahal laging may sakripisyo....

[gig0l0]

ah ok... hmm... e pano kaya kung vice versa ganyan ang gawin ng girl sayo? anong gagawin mo? ok lng b sayo yun? being cold until you finally say na break n kayo? 

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I think it’s ok. Because I’m familiar with the style, I would know where she’s leading me into. But if I’m really (madly) in love with the girl, I have my way of bringing the fire back….since she’s my girl, I should know how to win her back.

 

So far…this hasn’t happened to me.

 

Tanya, I can sense that you are implying that this is not a good exit strategy? One of the advantage of this strategy is you slowly create a gap….so that when the time comes that you really need to talk about breaking up…it wouldn’t be as painful. Just be sure not to forget to put closure in the end.

 

Your thoughts…? Anyone?

 

[Tanya08]

I think it’s ok. Because I’m familiar with the style, I would know where she’s leading me into. But if I’m really (madly) in love with the girl, I have my way of bringing the fire back….since she’s my girl, I should know how to win her back.

 

So far…this hasn’t happened to me.

 

Tanya, I can sense that you are implying that this is not a good exit strategy? One of the advantage of this strategy is you slowly create a gap….so that when the time comes that you really need to talk about breaking up…it wouldn’t be as painful. Just be sure not to forget to put closure in the end.

 

Your thoughts…? Anyone?

 

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ic, i understand now....

[antwanshakeel]

ah ok... hmm... e pano kaya kung vice versa ganyan ang gawin ng girl sayo? anong gagawin mo? ok lng b sayo yun? being cold until you finally say na break n kayo? 

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tough luck if it happens to you. there will always be risks in relationships. as the saying goes `do unto others what you want others do unto you'.

[Sin™]

..."I have a tootache, i need to go to the dentist" tapos 'wag ka na magpakita.

 

..but seriously, kung tingin mo naman she's not really the type

you will want to spend a really really long time with, manage the

expectations, tell her in the beginning that it has to end sometime

but you want her smiling when it does, smiling because of the good

memories of the times you spent together and that she might even

feel that it was all worth it.. (or something along that line)

 

..i used that line before, and it worked like a charm. It was a hassle

basta hindi na lang ako nagpakita and nung magkita pa

kami, it's like walang nangyari and we're friends and dated her that

same night. Ha!

 

-Sin™

[seiba]

gamitin yung invisible powers..

now you see.now you dont..ahehehehe

hindi na magpapakita forever...

[veco]

ang impt is sabihin yung totoong reason.. whether hindi na mahal, may iba na, or anything..

[gig0l0]

give her reasons to despise you...

 

fabricate stories if needed..

 

[Guest Camerie]

Showing your partner that you're being cold is a good strategy for a break up so that your partner would feel that there is something wrong already with the relationship and he won't be left clueless... It's hard if you'll make your partner that nothing has changed and that you still love him so much when in fact you don't already. It would be harder for him if you break up with him when he doesn't see nothing wrong with the relationship because you didn't become cold anytime in the relationship. At least when you become cold to your partner at a certain point, he'll feel it eventually and know what to expect.

[Sin™]

..sabi nga "Leave them better than you found them"

 

..so whatever it is that you would do, do it in such a way that you'll

leave them feeling good about themselves.

 

-Sin™

[gig0l0]

Showing your partner that you're being cold is a good strategy for a break up so that your partner would feel that there is something wrong already with the relationship and he won't be left clueless... It's hard if you'll make your partner that nothing has changed and that you still love him so much when in fact you don't already. It would be harder for him if you break up with him when he doesn't see nothing wrong with the relationship because you didn't become cold anytime in the relationship. At least when you become cold to your partner at a certain point, he'll feel it eventually and know what to expect.

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Well said!! :thumbsupsmiley:

 

Precisely what my point is. Make her feel that you've changed. Break it to her gently...