drEVILmba Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 The nice thing about this thread is that you findd that there are others like you and even some others who worst off than you. makes your problem a little easier to carry and solve. Thank you. Quote Link to comment
lustfulbitch Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 lustfulbitch, umm... are you lost? the message isn't for you.. it's for FHM... remember? hmm... whatever. ok sorii was lostam still lost....i don't know what to doi can't think straight anymore Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 to fhm, you again? i thought you got the message... grabe ang hirap mong kausapin. to lustfulbitch,this is too much of a coincidence na. Quote Link to comment
lustfulbitch Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 to fhm, you again? i thought you got the message... grabe ang hirap mong kausapin. to lustfulbitch,this is too much of a coincidence na. i tiold u....im not being paranoid....i know im not....its a setup.... for u to pour out all ur emotions it is really to much of a coincidenceand u know it.... Quote Link to comment
alpha_q Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 wow... senti people pala are here... Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 to fhm, you wanted to know what's happening? haven't i told you again and again... that it's over. so stop bothering me!!!! i'm really ok now... just leave me alone... Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 lustfulbitch, yes it's too much of a coincidence.. and you're getting me too worked up and paranoid and freaked out. Quote Link to comment
shrike Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 to fhm, you wanted to know what's happening? haven't i told you again and again... that it's over. so stop bothering me!!!! i'm really ok now... just leave me alone... sometimes it's hard to let go of something too precious even for words ! Quote Link to comment
vicaner Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 I was reminded the other day that we always have a choice – we can choose to handle our life challenges and relationships with love or with fear. I tried recently to resolve a delicate relationship challenge, but fear was my guide. The result was conflict. I felt myself spiralling down into sadness and anger. I experienced an escalating loss of control, and the less I felt in control the more afraid I became. The more afraid I became, the more I tried to fix things - but from a place of fear, which made things worse. After a few days of this, I stopped – it wasn’t working. I was withdrawing and risking the permanent damage of a dear friendship and love.I was reminded that there was another way to deal with things, a way that felt to my ego like losing or giving in, but to my heart felt like relief and opening. I learned that it is more painful to try to hold back love, than to love even with the risk of hurt. Sometimes in an attempt to protect ourselves from pain, we create an even deeper pain, the pain of closing our hearts. I went back to my friend but this time without holding back my love. I let the love I felt for this dear person flow, even though it hurt to care so much and despite my fears of risking it all by opening so much. And what occurred was magical. Everything changed. The results I had failed to create using fear and pushing now emerged withgentleness and care. The relationship was taken to a new level of trust andsharing. Sometimes we do the most damage to our valued relationships by holding back our love out of fear – ironically we then create the thing we are the most afraid of, conflict and even the loss of the relationship. Don’t push the ones you love out of your heart. Risk it all by lovingmost. During this festive season, consider who it is in your life that you have pushed out of your heart? You cannot change others, you cannot make them love you or like you. But you can keep them in your hearts and love them. This truly would be a year-end gift worth giving, and not to them but to yourself. Wishing you and yours a peace filled 2004, and a time of gratitude, love and joy. Quote Link to comment
shrike Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 Wishing you and yours a peace filled 2004, and a time of gratitude, love and joy. Ain't ur avatar from the chaos space marine legion ? Quote Link to comment
vicaner Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 Ain't ur avatar from the chaos space marine legion ? actually it's the ATLAS assault mech from the Mech commander game in Xbox. FYI bro Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 vicaner Posted on Dec 16 2003, 06:38 PM QUOTE (shrike @ Dec 16 2003, 05:36 PM) Ain't ur avatar from the chaos space marine legion ? actually it's the ATLAS assault mech from the Mech commander game in Xbox. FYI bro lost ako don ah. can't relate. to my baby, please hurry home. we have to talk. Quote Link to comment
drEVILmba Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 Hay nako... hirap magplano ng wedding ng iba lalo na kung ang sarili mo ay empty inside Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 (edited) dear DREVILMBA huh?? u ok?? empty feeling?? why's that? lord_r:sis is that u in ur avatar?? kewl! heheh ughhhh baby?? that ur ex? vicaner, kewl. thanks for the post...missu hehe... sweetp Edited December 16, 2003 by sweetpsyche Quote Link to comment
shrike Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 LORD R: Damn ! I love those pair of eyes Quote Link to comment
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