sweetpsyche Posted November 14, 2003 Share Posted November 14, 2003 a poem i got somewhere and i wish to share it to you guys... A time will come when my life will cease. But when that time comes I ask that you remember these things… …Bury my body but don't bury my beliefs. …Bury my heart but don't bury my love. …Bury my eyes but not my vision. …Bury my feet but not the path of my life. …Bury my hands but don't bury my diligent efforts. …Bury my shoulders but not the concerns I carried. …Bury my voice but not my message. …Bury my mind but don't bury my dreams. …Bury me but don't bury my life.If you must bury something, let it be my faults and my weaknesses' but let my life continue on in you. - by Ronald Rohr Quote Link to comment
jt2003 Posted November 14, 2003 Share Posted November 14, 2003 With apologies. You'll never read this. But may I go through a million hells, me alone, before you have even just a distant glimpse of one. Quote Link to comment
Domeng Su-gat Posted November 15, 2003 Share Posted November 15, 2003 alex!! share namn sino?? :boo:hihihi....mmmm teka.. mailbox to eh hindi chizmiz thread hehe..sa TA na lang... haha.. peace domeng!! *runs towards alex* i neither confirm nor deny nuninuninuni Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted November 15, 2003 Share Posted November 15, 2003 alex!! share namn sino?? :boo:hihihi....mmmm teka.. mailbox to eh hindi chizmiz thread hehe..sa TA na lang... haha.. peace domeng!! *runs towards alex*i neither confirm nor deny nuninuninuni well u dont have to...i know..i can see the answer in ur eyes... errr i mean,... Gary V's eyes haha Quote Link to comment
Domeng Su-gat Posted November 15, 2003 Share Posted November 15, 2003 alex!! share namn sino?? :boo:hihihi....mmmm teka.. mailbox to eh hindi chizmiz thread hehe..sa TA na lang... haha.. peace domeng!! *runs towards alex*i neither confirm nor deny nuninuninuni well u dont have to...i know..i can see the answer in ur eyes... errr i mean,... Gary V's eyes haha lupet mo dear! Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted November 15, 2003 Share Posted November 15, 2003 lupet mo dear! hahaha *toink DOM* mmmmmm mukhang off topic na tayo ah.. sige balik natin.. Dear Domeng, thanks for the trust hehe u have my word take care.. sweetp Quote Link to comment
Domeng Su-gat Posted November 15, 2003 Share Posted November 15, 2003 hahaha *toink DOM* mmmmmm mukhang off topic na tayo ah.. sige balik natin.. Dear Domeng, thanks for the trust hehe u have my word take care.. sweetp sa sinabi mong yan..tyak ko maraming maiintriga ako nga naiintriga na e Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted November 15, 2003 Share Posted November 15, 2003 for everybody who has reacted to my posts, i deeply appreciate you guys. things will be fine... these are just problems that should be logically solved. i have decided to see this in a logical way.. the way i am used to... to fhm, if you are a variable you are equal to zero because you are a nobody. you are nothing. therefore if you are nothing then you are equal to zero and can be deleted. no matter how many times you appear in the different equations of my life... you can always be deleted. Quote Link to comment
vicaner Posted November 15, 2003 Share Posted November 15, 2003 lady psyche havent been able to post that "letter" yet as I am still to get it, hopefully by next year i'll get the chance to do so, that is if I still have the guts to post it here. Found this article from the PDI youngblood section w/c i'll post. feel free to delete it if it has already been previously posted (didnt get the chance to check out all the previous ones eh). more power to all of us who are moved by the written word. He's Getting Married TODAY, I will attend an execution: my own. I will watch it with both eyesopen and I will not cry. I will not break down just because the man I haveloved since forever will marry someone else. I will watch him promisehimself to a woman who will never love him like I have. I will watch thembind themselves to a vow I should have taken. I have loved Oliver almost all my life. I have known him since I saved hissix-year-old hide from a bully named Ricardo who wanted to rid him of histwo yellowed front teeth. I was five at the time, but having grown withfiveolder brothers and a hellion of a sister, ''Totoy Cardo'' was a piece ofcake. Oliver was so overcome with embarrassment at having a girl to protect hisscrawny neck that from that time on he made it a point to be the rescuer,not the rescued. As time passed, muscles filled out this lanky frame andthose two front teeth began to sparkle. He combs his hair, and he takes abath daily now. In short, he has become a fine specimen of manhood. The best part is, he lived up to his promise: he became my self-appointedguardian (well, I don't know if that's the best or the worst part). He wasjust always there, sticking to me like glue. It used to drive me nuts thathe never let me out of his sight. When I was 12, I ran from the infirmary on my way home. I had found out inthe most humiliating way that I had become a woman: there was a big redstain on the back portion of my skirt. The jeers and the taunts followed methrough the school corridors. Oliver dashed after me and offered toaccompany me home. I declined, of course. He seemed to understand mydiscomfiture and promised to drop later with the things left in school.WhenI reached home I was told that I needed to jump three times on the stairs(which I did) and to wash my face with my blood (which I didn't do). Oliverdropped by in the afternoon, sporting a black eye and a bruise on his arm.When I asked him what happened, he said he had walked into a closed door. Ibelieved him. But a few days later, minus the dysmennorhea, I found outthatOliver got into fisticuffs because some guy made a disgusting remark aboutme. Nobody had ever fought for me before that. And when you're 12 anddiscussingin class how King Arthur and fairest of them all, Lancelot, fought forGuinevere's love, you tend to get ideas. I loved Oliver then. When we were in high school and I found out that the school's heartthrobandone of my most ardent suitors, Richard, was involved with a bustier girl,itwas to Oliver that I ran. When I didn't graduate as valedictorian and I gotso drunk, it was Oliver who took me home. He didn't even mind that Ibarfedall over his dad's car (which he borrowed without permission). When I decided to go to UP and he went to Ateneo, we celebrated bypartying.When I lost my mom in a car accident, he took care of everything. When my dad followed my mom less than a year later after a heart attack, hewas there again. By this time he was an appendage of my life. He used tocheck out the guys I came to know. Nobody dared to get serious with me--notwhen Oliver had a black belt.I didn't know how to define our relationship.Ididn't know what we were. We definitely were more than friends, better eventhan best friends. It was like we were a couple, but formally not one. Wedid all the things that couple did like hang out and neck but alwaysstoppedwhen things got too hot. Since we never defined what we meant to each otherwe never said ''I love you'' or whatever serious couple told each other. As a result, I remained a chaste princess while my prince caroused andsowedwild oats, but still had the energy to monitor my movements. I didn't mind. After all, I was so sure we'd end up together. I always thought that in theend, it would be us. I loved him. I managed to convince myself that helovedme (what else could it be?). Little did I know that love doesn't conquerall, it only conquers the weak. I didn't think he'd be so stupid as to get a girl pregnant on the samenightthey met at a party. I didn't think he'd be so stupid as to forget to usesome form of contraception. After all, he had given me a lecture on safesex. And I didn't think he'd be so stupid as to marry the girl. But maybe Iforgot that after all he was a man, and men have been known to be stupidabout these things. Their brain is located in a region other than betweenthe ears. What could I do? Kicking him in the groin and punching him in the eyeseemedlike a good idea then. Don't blame me; he was the one who enrolled me in aself-defense course. But I did not feel better. Seeing him bent over inpainonly made me angrier. I wasted my life for this lousy excuse of a man? Icould not believe it! I wanted nothing more than to run to him and beg himto wake me up from the stupid dream. I wanted him to take me some placewhere we didn't know anybody. No pain, no memory, no humiliation. I wantedto just forget it ever happened but since I flunked in the School forMartyrs, I couldn't, for the life of me pretend, it didn't happen. Icouldn't pretend he didn't hurt me. I couldn't pretend everything was fine and dandy and exactly the way it wasbefore. We didn't talk for a month. For both of us who were practicallyinseparable, that was like an eternity. I ducked into corners whenever Iwould see him. I wouldn't take his calls. I wouldn't see him. And for sometime hate was my reason for getting up in the morning, for breathing, forliving. Hate and I became good friends. ''God brings men into deep waters, not to drown them but to cleanse them,''somebody once wrote. I didn't want to be cleansed. I just wanted to drowninpain and misery and utter desolation. I wanted to wallow in the dark anddeep pit of despair. I know a thousand and one cliches that say this can bea blessing and that I should be thankful. But thankful is the last thingI'mfeeling right now. I've always thought that there are three kinds of women:those who break, those who mend and those who are broken themselves. Before this hit me, I assumed that I belonged to the first or secondcategory. Now I know I'm in the third--so hurt and broken up inside. Mygrandmother used to say that there is nothing you can do about pain when itgives you a silly grin except grin right back. All I could manage was a wrysmile, a killer headache and the worst hangover the day before his wedding. Evidence of that is the disgusting sight of mashed potatoes and barbecue,thrown up not three meters away from where I was lying prostrate on thefloor and the awful stench of cigarette on my hair. Frankly I don't want togo. I want to wallow in misery in my messy room, crying, retching andstinking, surrounded with Michael Learns to Rock(whose songs are dedicated to the broken-hearted) CDs. But I have to go andattend the wedding. I have to bathe and prepare and put on that atrociouspeach (it's not even my color!) gown. I'm not doing it for the groom, my one true friend and love, Oliver.Neitheram I doing it for the bride, my younger sister, Sandra who needs me. I'mdoing it for my unborn niece who has the great fortune of having me as heraunt. Call me stupid, but I've always known my place. If it isn't besidetheman I was destined to marry, if it isn't behind my sister, who will takehisname, wear his ring and bear him a child, then it must be with my niece,cradled close to my heart so that she will know both of our love. Regards, Hope *Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then you'll know how toGive..... Treat every moment as if it's the last day, then you'll know howto Treasure......* Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted November 15, 2003 Share Posted November 15, 2003 vicaner Posted on Nov 15 2003, 08:00 PM lady psyche havent been able to post that "letter" yet as I am still to get it, hopefully by next year i'll get the chance to do so, that is if I still have the guts to post it here. Found this article from the PDI youngblood section w/c i'll post. feel free to delete it if it has already been previously posted (didnt get the chance to check out all the previous ones eh). more power to all of us who are moved by the written word. QUOTE He's Getting Married TODAY, I will attend an execution: my own. I will watch it with both eyesopen and I will not cry. I will not break down just because the man I haveloved since forever will marry someone else. I will watch him promisehimself to a woman who will never love him like I have. I will watch thembind themselves to a vow I should have taken. Ouch.. you have deeper pains that i do... been through that situation though... i didn't know him as long as you did.. but he did get married... just recently caught a glimpse of him and it still hurts.. Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted November 16, 2003 Share Posted November 16, 2003 lady psyche havent been able to post that "letter" yet as I am still to get it, hopefully by next year i'll get the chance to do so, that is if I still have the guts to post it here. Found this article from the PDI youngblood section w/c i'll post. feel free to delete it if it has already been previously posted (didnt get the chance to check out all the previous ones eh). more power to all of us who are moved by the written word. Dear vicaner, no problem po... i'll look forward to that hehe.. guts? mmmm i'll bet u have... btw thanks for the post the story is indeed touching... hope i wont be on that situation... i just hope... sweetp Quote Link to comment
vicaner Posted November 16, 2003 Share Posted November 16, 2003 Ouch.. you have deeper pains that i do... been through that situation though... i didn't know him as long as you did.. but he did get married... just recently caught a glimpse of him and it still hurts.. uhmm..lady or lord_rochester? just to emphasize please so that peeps wont think i'm taking credit for this piece, this is from the youngblood section of PDI ( a very nice column! ) I feel your pain, some people just love too deeply and feelings resurface even years after. love really brings us to the heights of ecstasy and the very depths of despair. lady psyche hi baby sis! Quote Link to comment
forbidden Posted November 16, 2003 Share Posted November 16, 2003 Ouch! that must be extremely difficult to bear. But then again, how do you know that this person is the one and not another person? I've always wondered about that because I believe that you can put two people together and they can be "the one" for each other if they both make an effort and think that way. I don't know, what are your expereinces? Hello to the sweetest p around - sweetp! I hope you are just chilling and kicking back today over there where you are Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted November 17, 2003 Share Posted November 17, 2003 Ouch! that must be extremely difficult to bear. But then again, how do you know that this person is the one and not another person? I've always wondered about that because I believe that you can put two people together and they can be "the one" for each other if they both make an effort and think that way. I don't know, what are your expereinces? Hello to the sweetest p around - sweetp! I hope you are just chilling and kicking back today over there where you are hello forbidden, what is difficult to bear? the story posted by vicaner?mmmmm i've been asking that question as well since i've learned how and what it is to fall inlove... have asked lotsa people, read lots of books, but unluckily noone or nothing has given me a satisfying answer... i guess we will never know if, as what an old adage states.... unless we try. thinking and making effort that they really are meant for each other? nnnahhhh i think thats not enough... coz sometimes, its hard to deny that there really are certain forces in nature that is beyond our control... forces that affect our relationships. whatcha think? hehe... sweetp Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted November 17, 2003 Share Posted November 17, 2003 YOU!!! yes you!!! hope u will explain to me what u mean on that letter...it better be good..... if not.. i'll forever be disgust you! :grr: and no i am not mad.. i am ANGRY!!!that was way out of line...no offense.. but the truth is.. bumaba tingin ko sayo.. esp kung totoo yun.. angryme. Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted November 17, 2003 Share Posted November 17, 2003 waahh crapola... sorry typo... alisin nyo BE*deym kakahiya...ggrr bat di ko to ma-edit? post ko naman ah..bat error lagi??help me how to edit!!! ppleaseee.. thanks Quote Link to comment
vogharth Posted November 18, 2003 Share Posted November 18, 2003 Months has passed... and you still use that lame excuse... Of course your were hurt... you were misunderstood... you were misjudged...You've made mistakes... you have a past that you're afraid that people might know... you've become a different person and you can't even accept who you've become... stop on hanging to those lame excuses... move on... be who you are... love... Quote Link to comment
MODERATOR Alex_Corvis Posted November 18, 2003 MODERATOR Share Posted November 18, 2003 MY dearest, I didn't do it, I didn't do it. I swear to GOD i didn't do it.Cross my heart I didn't do it.I would never do such a thing to you!I will not say sorry because i Didn't do it.Geez, please believe me. Confused me Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted November 18, 2003 Share Posted November 18, 2003 alex_corvis Posted on Nov 18 2003, 12:11 PM MY dearest, I didn't do it, I didn't do it. I swear to GOD i didn't do it.Cross my heart I didn't do it.I would never do such a thing to you!I will not say sorry because i Didn't do it.Geez, please believe me. Confused me if my exbf gave me that letter i would probably believe him and then i would be in the same situation i tried so hard to get out of... alex corvis... this is not for you ah... just thought it would be appropriate to get your letter format... my dear ex-bf, if you say you didn't do it, then you didn't do it.you don't have to cross your heart.you said you wouldn't do such a thingyou don't have to say sorry because you didn't do it right?so geez, i believe you. stupid me. now good thing he hasn't denied anything... he's still clueless that the relationship is over. so another letter would be my dear ex-bf, i would like to inform you that i already know what you didwhen you asked me to be your girlfriend you said you'll love only meyou treated me like a princess, you treated me like a princess. but our fairy tale is through... it's over.the day you decided to cheat on me.yes i know my dear, you cheated. you come home to me... knowing things are alrightthat maybe we could finally plan the wedding that you want but my dear, you cheatedso i regret to tell youwe are over a long long time ago. Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted November 18, 2003 Share Posted November 18, 2003 A Lonely Night Phone Call by Kim Spencer I couldn't resist...my mind was a whirl Just not a good night for this lonely old girl I wanted so badly to hear the sound of your voice To dial your number....there was no other choice I held my breath as I heard the first ring And then through the second the tears started to sting And At last a click and your sweet voice so low Saying into my ear a friendly "hello" I smiled and thought of a hundred things to say But remembered that most of them we had said today So I uttered a sweet and warm return "hello" Then listened to stunned silence......and thought, "ut-oh" Then your voice..recovered, but yet a bit strained I imagined your face, smiling, but just a bit pained I wanted to hang up, right then and there Then all the things you said to me came back, and I didn't care You talked to me like a bothersome relative or old friend And in the back of my mind..I thought, this is the end I hear professions of love so strong and so deep But only in daylight, and in secret you'll keep So, I ended our talk and hung up the phone And went back in the shadows to wait all alone For something that may never see the light of day As you showed me our love must be hidden away. Quote Link to comment
ravenreigh Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 To RC, I'm beginning to LOVE YOU !!!!! :cry: Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 another letter... tonight has been a pretty good night.i was able to relax, take a break, watch a movie and laugh.something that i haven't done in a long long time.you know all of this.you deliver all the things that i needed to do. you wake me up in the morning.you ask me for updatesyou give me more responsibilities you witnessed confessions of loveconfessions of friendships for three years you have been part of my lifeone of the most important part of my lifeyou reminded me time and againof my work, my responsibilities you reminded me too that i have friendsand a boyfriend who loves meand sometimes you made me realize the truthabout my boyfriend cheating on me you witnessed my eccentricityand my weirdnessyou witnessed my sadnessand my happiness i have grown to love youafter three years of undevoted love from you tonight was pretty goodbut tonight was the saddest night of my lifefor tonight i lost youand i could never have you back. NAWALA CELLPHONE KO!!!!! HUHUHU.... Quote Link to comment
ravenreigh Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 To RC: I know it's not right, But I really have to....I have to keep my distance and sacrifice our friendshipTo keep my self from not falling unto you.I'm sorry............ :cry: Quote Link to comment
MODERATOR Alex_Corvis Posted November 21, 2003 MODERATOR Share Posted November 21, 2003 gising naparokya ni edgar gising nabuksan ang iyong umaga gising nahalina at silipin ang pagdilat ng umagatahimik at saksakan ng ganda gising nanandiyan na ang umaga gising nanais kong makita ang ngiti sa iyong mukhaat pungay ng iyong mga mata kanina pa kita pinagmamasdankaninia pa kita tahimik na binabantayanhindi gumagalaw, hanggang wala ang arawsadiyang nakatanga, nakatitig lang sa iyong mukha gising na nandiyan na ang umaga gising namayron sana akong gustong sabihin sa iyona di mapaliwanag ng husto gising na nandiyan na ang umaga gising nahindi ko maintindihan ba't di mapantayanang kasiyahan na nadaramatuwing nandiyan ka *nakakainis isipin na di ko alam ang gagawinngunit walang magagawa di pa kayang amininang pagkakataon ay dapat pang palampasindi na lng kita gigisingin Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted November 22, 2003 Share Posted November 22, 2003 dear one... glad to have u back again even as a friend.i do miss you and the times we shared... i miss not only you but what i was when u were here....dont worry, fear not. for i bring no harm to u and on ur life. we both have our own journey to tread..lets lead our lives the way we think we should, and we think is right not just for you and me but for the people who are dear to us. again. thank you. justme Quote Link to comment
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