lord_rochester Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 to fhm, you wanted to know what's happening? haven't i told you again and again... that it's over. so stop bothering me!!!! i'm really ok now... just leave me alone... Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 lustfulbitch, yes it's too much of a coincidence.. and you're getting me too worked up and paranoid and freaked out. Quote Link to comment
shrike Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 to fhm, you wanted to know what's happening? haven't i told you again and again... that it's over. so stop bothering me!!!! i'm really ok now... just leave me alone... sometimes it's hard to let go of something too precious even for words ! Quote Link to comment
vicaner Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 I was reminded the other day that we always have a choice – we can choose to handle our life challenges and relationships with love or with fear. I tried recently to resolve a delicate relationship challenge, but fear was my guide. The result was conflict. I felt myself spiralling down into sadness and anger. I experienced an escalating loss of control, and the less I felt in control the more afraid I became. The more afraid I became, the more I tried to fix things - but from a place of fear, which made things worse. After a few days of this, I stopped – it wasn’t working. I was withdrawing and risking the permanent damage of a dear friendship and love.I was reminded that there was another way to deal with things, a way that felt to my ego like losing or giving in, but to my heart felt like relief and opening. I learned that it is more painful to try to hold back love, than to love even with the risk of hurt. Sometimes in an attempt to protect ourselves from pain, we create an even deeper pain, the pain of closing our hearts. I went back to my friend but this time without holding back my love. I let the love I felt for this dear person flow, even though it hurt to care so much and despite my fears of risking it all by opening so much. And what occurred was magical. Everything changed. The results I had failed to create using fear and pushing now emerged withgentleness and care. The relationship was taken to a new level of trust andsharing. Sometimes we do the most damage to our valued relationships by holding back our love out of fear – ironically we then create the thing we are the most afraid of, conflict and even the loss of the relationship. Don’t push the ones you love out of your heart. Risk it all by lovingmost. During this festive season, consider who it is in your life that you have pushed out of your heart? You cannot change others, you cannot make them love you or like you. But you can keep them in your hearts and love them. This truly would be a year-end gift worth giving, and not to them but to yourself. Wishing you and yours a peace filled 2004, and a time of gratitude, love and joy. Quote Link to comment
shrike Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 Wishing you and yours a peace filled 2004, and a time of gratitude, love and joy. Ain't ur avatar from the chaos space marine legion ? Quote Link to comment
vicaner Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 Ain't ur avatar from the chaos space marine legion ? actually it's the ATLAS assault mech from the Mech commander game in Xbox. FYI bro Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 vicaner Posted on Dec 16 2003, 06:38 PM QUOTE (shrike @ Dec 16 2003, 05:36 PM) Ain't ur avatar from the chaos space marine legion ? actually it's the ATLAS assault mech from the Mech commander game in Xbox. FYI bro lost ako don ah. can't relate. to my baby, please hurry home. we have to talk. Quote Link to comment
drEVILmba Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 Hay nako... hirap magplano ng wedding ng iba lalo na kung ang sarili mo ay empty inside Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 (edited) dear DREVILMBA huh?? u ok?? empty feeling?? why's that? lord_r:sis is that u in ur avatar?? kewl! heheh ughhhh baby?? that ur ex? vicaner, kewl. thanks for the post...missu hehe... sweetp Edited December 16, 2003 by sweetpsyche Quote Link to comment
shrike Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 LORD R: Damn ! I love those pair of eyes Quote Link to comment
free2decide Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 hi is it okay if i hang out around here guys? Quote Link to comment
shrike Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 hi is it okay if i hang out around here guys? post away FREE. anything you wished you can send but haven't for various reasons. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
matsutsu Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 hi is it okay if i hang out around here guys? wala pang nag-dedeliver sa iyo? just kidding Quote Link to comment
LostCommand Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 hi is it okay if i hang out around here guys? If you read the backposts like thenm or and can relate, and if you like to write, well, you are in!rgds, LC Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 If you read the backposts like thenm or and can relate, and if you like to write, well, you are in!rgds, LC exactly!!!! :boo: so share ur letters now Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 to lustfulbitch, hope we're still ok. i gave you my trust and friendship.. something that i seldom give to anybody. please take care of it. hope we're still ok. Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 sweetp, my baby, my ex... bei ko. he's returning home sa dec. 28... we'll talk things out.. see if we could still salvage something... Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 sweetp, my baby, my ex... bei ko. he's returning home sa dec. 28... we'll talk things out.. see if we could still salvage something... lord_r ohhh i see.well i wish u the best...hope u two will able to work it out. sweetp Quote Link to comment
lustfulbitch Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 to lustfulbitch, hope we're still ok. i gave you my trust and friendship.. something that i seldom give to anybody. please take care of it. hope we're still ok. lord rochi hope that we're still ok...thanks for giving me ur friendship and trust....thanks for choosing me as one of those peoplewho u give it to...thanks....i'll behave.... :upside: Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 lustfulbitch, i love you bitch. Quote Link to comment
lustfulbitch Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 lustfulbitch, i love you bitch. have i complimented ur eyes....forgive me for noticing just now same lord r.....how is shu qi ur best friend izzy right? thanks,im a bitch and proud of it Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 dear... i hope someday you'll cry for me,like I cried for you.i hope someday you'll need me,the way I needed you.i hope someday you'll miss me,the way I am missing youI hope someday you'll love me, the way I am loving youJust hope that when that time comesI will still be heremissing, caring and loving YOU. justme Quote Link to comment
lord_rochester Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 lustfulbitch, please edit this post...isse's (not izzy) ok.. i guess.. she's with MTC now.. i don't see her around though... i hve a pm for you. Quote Link to comment
sweetpsyche Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 Do you know that you have the cutest smile?Deep inside me, hoping and wishing that smile is for me.. Its sad to know that your heart is set for someone else,but this never stops me from loving you...I will always be here, hoping that one dayyou will be mine. Hoping we are destined for each other. But seeing you everyday is fine with me,few minutes chat, hi/hellos are enough for me.As long as I see you happy,my heart contents. If fate decides to keep us apart,we have no choice but to do our part,you go on your way,I will go on minewith my heart wishing you will always be fine. If you ask me where I am ...My reply will always be here . Quote Link to comment
shrike Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 If you ask me where I am ...My reply will always be here . awwwww. how sweet SWEET P Quote Link to comment
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