falling for a client Falling For A Client - (For Theras' Perspective Only)

[Tanya of Tokyo]

Wag nalang, masasaktan ka lang.

soo far never pa naman ako fall in love sa Guest, ayoko magpaiyak ng guy dahil lang s gsto ko intindhin ng lalaki ang work ko o msaktan sya s mga nkkita at nababasa nya. 

 

[menyeks]

8 hours ago, Tanya of Tokyo said:

Wag nalang, masasaktan ka lang.

soo far never pa naman ako fall in love sa Guest, ayoko magpaiyak ng guy dahil lang s gsto ko intindhin ng lalaki ang work ko o msaktan sya s mga nkkita at nababasa nya. 

 

Much better nga 

[darwin2k4]

On 9/1/2022 at 7:38 AM, boyromantico said:

 

So yeah, there are a lot of heartaches but there are scenarios where love wins too.

 

I agree with this. Love wins.

[niksonne]

4 minutes ago, darwin2k4 said:

I agree with this. Love wins.

I agree with this too pero mahirap nga talaga...

[Anonymous]

wag majojowa ng client. wag n wag. lalo na pag may asawa. dahil ung binigay mo yung BEST mo para saknya. After all kabit ka pa rin. lalo na yung akala mong tulong na binigay nya isusumbat na. nakakatawa. dahil di mo yun hiningi, pero still sumbat pa din. gusto lng nya advantage nya. pero yung feeling mo wala syang pake. di ka nmn sya pipiliin pero pinipilit kanya mag stay para maging ganon ka lng dahil masaya sya. di lahat ng thera kanyang bayran. minsan gusto lng din nmin maging masaya at peaceful ang life. if gusto kang iwan. let it free. mag hanap ka nlng ulit ng ppayag na magging kabit mo.

[handsomebob]

On 9/1/2022 at 7:38 AM, boyromantico said:

There are many success stories i heard through the years, dunno kng their situations are still the same but eto mga examples ko:

Mavic of Midas - still together with GM/Spa Owner BF

Maxie of Midas - 2 kids with a GM BF

Kaith of Kremlin - 10 years together with a GM BF

Mika (recept of Midas) - married a GM. Still together.

Jaira of Luxe - Just gave birth, still together with GM BF.

So yeah, there are a lot of heartaches but there are scenarios where love wins too.

 

is MIKA here the recep, MIKA UMALI?? yung anak ni LLOYD UMALI?

if so, I think ang napangasawa niya is yung may ari ng isang car shop or car accessories company since well known car show model yan, but i could be wrong kasi before yung bf niya is BELMONTE yung last name...

[Gerald Bourne]

On 12/6/2022 at 10:09 AM, Tanya of Tokyo said:

Wag nalang, masasaktan ka lang.

soo far never pa naman ako fall in love sa Guest, ayoko magpaiyak ng guy dahil lang s gsto ko intindhin ng lalaki ang work ko o msaktan sya s mga nkkita at nababasa nya. 

 

👍

[masterev]

On 7/27/2022 at 1:55 PM, airwayworlds said:

Maraming ganito. Tropa ko 10 years nang kasal. Regular pa ako dati ng asawa nya 🤣

May tropa din ganito, kahit nag gain weight ung thera, staying strong parin sila at may anak na sila, pinakasalan pa nya sa simbahan. 

[darfil]

On 11/3/2022 at 10:29 AM, Chiananicole said:

Lahat ng Therapist HinDi nila gusto magtrabaho sa iligal business, hanapbuhay  nakakasira ng dignidad ng Isang pagka babae, DAHIL sa hirap ng Buhay at sitwasyon nila sa pang- Araw Araw kailangan at buwan buwan ubligasyon binabayaran kailangan nila sumugal sa trabaho iligal,sa panahun now practical na mga tao.dahil sa Hirap ng Buhay.

101% true

Edited December 17, 2022 by darfil

[Noname01]

Sa mga thera dyan share nyo naman pano nyo nasasabi na more than GM na tingin nyo sa isang GM? May sign ba hahaha

[Auto Boy]

I truly wish that any GM to Thera relationship will be successful if it was meant to be and a sincere relationship

[Exec]

1 hour ago, Auto Boy said:

I truly wish that any GM to Thera relationship will be successful if it was meant to be and a sincere relationship

 

Months ago,  I did put some effort in finding articles about relationships with sex workers.  Those articles are rare specially if written in the perspective of a man married to or living with a woman sex worker.  If you look deep enough,  you'll find a few.

 

In the modernized parts of the West and NA where prostitution is already decriminalized,  many such relationships have succeeded.  It is difficult in the Philippines as the prejudice here is still quite strong.  It is not unusual that many will look down a sex worker more so her profession.  Inevitably,  the society will mature and it is good to be on the side of modernity.

[Marbel]

I would just like to share my personal experience as a GM... And our relationship going for 2 years. 

OUR STORY: We first met and were in a GF/BF relationship 13 years ago. We are very young then, just around in our late 20's. We were passionate to make something of ourselves - we both dreamt big! We thought we were a match. To cut the painful story short - She chose another man over me! To be honest, I had some regrets letting her go but I believe it was for the better since I also had to leave for Singapore and pursue my dream as to be the Best Engineer that I can be... She eventually married the "other man" she chose over me and they had a child.

At first, we still kept in touch as friends through social media, SMS and calls while I was in SG for a while. She was candid on the fact that they were both not making enough here in Philippines and to make it worse, their child had a condition that required them to be "more" financially stable. Thus, she had to leave for Taiwan (as an Production QA) to pursue Greener Pasteur while her husband has to stay in Philippines to take care of their child.

We had a big argument before she left for Taiwan because I strongly advised against their situation - It should be the other way around! I explained that her husband should be the one to leave the country to work and provide for their family, not her. She, as a mother, should be the one to stay and take care of their child but she ignore my plea. During this time, I was hurt and was also convinced that she no longer needed my advise from thereon. Thus, caused us to stop our communication.

Fast-forward 13 years into the pandemic, she was forced to come back home in Philippines because she lost her job in middle-east while I was offered a year earlier by my company to manage our investments here in Philippines.

Again, to cut the long story short, we had an opportunity to meet again but this time we already are very different. I already have a family of my own and she was separated from her husband (not legally) and left with their child. She was forced to work odd-jobs and once was in Pasay as a **you know what** to support her family

At first, I was so disappointed on what she has done and what she had to went through. It was very far from her plans. And then it struck me, what if she chose me? What if we chose each other? Thus, I made her stop working and just supported her financially. I also had a lot of time because I have the opportunity to work at home during the pandemic. In fact, we already have our own child together but she had a miscarriage **OUCH!**

I tried to support her as much as I can emotionally and financially... Or at least until she could get back on her feet and not let her be eaten up by flesh-slavery industry - my apologies for the term.. After more than 2 years of answering most of our "WHAT IFs" she's again leaving for Taiwan since the pandemic is over. She is a very strong woman... I have to admit that I LOVE HER but perhaps, I'm just an instrument to give her a little push into the path of her dreams again.

This time, she's no longer starting from scratch but from a good experience. Goodluck to her! Goodluck to me! Goodluck to us! Godspeed!

Thanks for having time to read my... our story!

 

 

[Gundamo]

22 hours ago, Marbel said:

I would just like to share my personal experience as a GM... And our relationship going for 2 years. 

OUR STORY: We first met and were in a GF/BF relationship 13 years ago. We are very young then, just around in our late 20's. We were passionate to make something of ourselves - we both dreamt big! We thought we were a match. To cut the painful story short - She chose another man over me! To be honest, I had some regrets letting her go but I believe it was for the better since I also had to leave for Singapore and pursue my dream as to be the Best Engineer that I can be... She eventually married the "other man" she chose over me and they had a child.

At first, we still kept in touch as friends through social media, SMS and calls while I was in SG for a while. She was candid on the fact that they were both not making enough here in Philippines and to make it worse, their child had a condition that required them to be "more" financially stable. Thus, she had to leave for Taiwan (as an Production QA) to pursue Greener Pasteur while her husband has to stay in Philippines to take care of their child.

We had a big argument before she left for Taiwan because I strongly advised against their situation - It should be the other way around! I explained that her husband should be the one to leave the country to work and provide for their family, not her. She, as a mother, should be the one to stay and take care of their child but she ignore my plea. During this time, I was hurt and was also convinced that she no longer needed my advise from thereon. Thus, caused us to stop our communication.

Fast-forward 13 years into the pandemic, she was forced to come back home in Philippines because she lost her job in middle-east while I was offered a year earlier by my company to manage our investments here in Philippines.

Again, to cut the long story short, we had an opportunity to meet again but this time we already are very different. I already have a family of my own and she was separated from her husband (not legally) and left with their child. She was forced to work odd-jobs and once was in Pasay as a **you know what** to support her family

At first, I was so disappointed on what she has done and what she had to went through. It was very far from her plans. And then it struck me, what if she chose me? What if we chose each other? Thus, I made her stop working and just supported her financially. I also had a lot of time because I have the opportunity to work at home during the pandemic. In fact, we already have our own child together but she had a miscarriage **OUCH!**

I tried to support her as much as I can emotionally and financially... Or at least until she could get back on her feet and not let her be eaten up by flesh-slavery industry - my apologies for the term.. After more than 2 years of answering most of our "WHAT IFs" she's again leaving for Taiwan since the pandemic is over. She is a very strong woman... I have to admit that I LOVE HER but perhaps, I'm just an instrument to give her a little push into the path of her dreams again.

This time, she's no longer starting from scratch but from a good experience. Goodluck to her! Goodluck to me! Goodluck to us! Godspeed!

Thanks for having time to read my... our story!

 

 

Awe.. Good luck, wish you all the best!

[Marbel]

28 minutes ago, Gundamo said:

Awe.. Good luck, wish you all the best!

Thanks!