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Sa panahon ngayon, ang kasal ay parang label na lang sa character ng isang tao. like for example, pag si guy or girl is still single by the time they reach 30 then people, especially immediate family, will think something is wrong with them. Kesyo tibo si girl or bakla si guy kaya hindi pa nag-aasawa. Ang siste eto ngayon yung nagiging dahilan kung bakit nagpapakasal ng hindi pa handa ang karamihan kasi sa takot na mapintasan ng ganun. Isa pa, pinalaki tayo sa mentalidad na you'll only achieve "true and blisssful happiness" once you have tied the knot...pero kalaunan magkakasawaan din... hindi man maiwasan pero karamihan nahilig kasi sa mga love story na bunga ng kathang-isip kaya paniwalang-paniwala sila sa mga ganyang bagay na minsan malayo na sa realidad... wag ka na magtaka kung bakit mas kinakagat ng madla ngayon yung mga palabas na may temang may kinalaman sa mga kabitan kasi yun ang mas accurate portrayal na commonly pinagdadaanan ng karamihan na nasa isang relasyon...

 

..long story short, bahala ka sa buhay mo kung gusto mo magpakasal pero tulad nga ng sabi ni kuya kim na dapat din nating tandaan na ang buhay ay walang poreber, este, weder-weder lang .... bow!

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On 11/14/2024 at 9:40 PM, HimuraButosay said:

 

Nope.  Getting married is a traumatic experience; especially for me.

Can sympathize. Seeing other failed marriages, why bother right? Why tie up with someone and end up being a hindrance sa future plans ng isat isa, should the relationship fail?

At least that's how I thought before. Marriage is a commitment. so temptations, this hobby, go out the window when that time comes. Everyone has a tendency to cheat, but what we can do to prevent that is avoid and resist circumstances that make us cheat.

 

Pero then again, higher bar this time. I would ideally want to spend enough time with the partner to know if we really can work it out for the rest of our lives. Actually learning each other, and growing together, before tying the knot.  Welp, wishful thinking though 😂

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