Mistress Or Legal Wife Which Would You Choose

[jjiraiya]

punyeta. kung hindi mo na nakakantot asawa mo di hanap ka ng iba. it sucks when you are still young pero you just f#&king wonder when you'll get "lucky" with your own god damned wife. oo, may pinaghuhugutan ako

[jettpayter]

Wife

Wife

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

Stay with your wife...The mistress will always be around while you still want her to be.

The wife will always be the wife no matter what.

 

Never make the mistress the wife, because whatever your complains are about your

wife before, it is highly probable that the mistress turned wife will be worse. Plus if

you lost interest with your wife, it is very likely you will lose interest with the mistress.

 

Yup. This is true. In the end, if you can't be happy with one, its doubtful you can be happy with the other. Remember, as a relationship matures you take the good with the bad and you need to compromise- there is no such thing as perfection. Of course if you can afford to discard them left and right, Kudos to you and more money for the lawyers.

[markalbert]

Wife

[Edmund Dantes]

 

 

@Coffeeholic & @Edmund Dantes, i deeply appreciate & respect your honest opinion -thanks

 

just to make it clear guys, when i'd said "there is no right or wrong" case to case basis (is just how you look into different perspective)

 

i'll give you few scenario on what i really mean.

 

if i said to choose his LEGAL WIFE (i don't think everyone will agree)

 

this is RIGHT: coz you are already legally married as simple as that at yun ung tama sa mata ng mga tao at ng nakakarami. baka naman kase nde mo na makita yun bagay na hinahanap mo sa wife mo yun mga nakikita mo ngayon sa mistrees mo kase ayaw mo na kase talagang makita sa kanya (kase sa iba ka na tlaga nakatingin)

 

this is WRONG: coz on the first place you are not going to be into that position (trying to choose), if you still love your wife & staying with her..hindi ba na parang mas masakit yun, kase nag-mahal ka na nga ng iba (means you don't love her that much anymore)

& now mas lolokohin mo na lang sya ng mas-matagal at hindi na lang un wife mo lolokohin mo, kundi pati narin sarili mo lolokohin mo.

 

 

 

if i said to choose his MISTRESS (i don't think everyone will agree as well)

 

this is RIGHT: coz nag-mahal ka (ang tao kapag nag mamahal, walang mali lahat ng bagay nagiging tama) kase masaya ka & yun ung nararamdaman mo right now with your MISTRESS..

singing the line("WE HAVE THE RIGHT LOVE AT THE WRONG TIME") seriously you are just being honest on what you really feel & not everyone have the guts to do it (ang iwanan ang lahat para sa word na LOVE,

despite the fact you know na may masasaktan ka)

 

this is WRONG: kase makakasakit ka at "KAILAN PA NAGING TAMA,NA MANAKIT NG TAO?"

& yun tao na un ay ang taong nagmahal syo at nangako na mamahalin ka for the rest of your life.

ang taong minsan minahal mo rin ng sobra-sobra (maybe exactly just what you feel right now with your so called MISTRESS)

 

anyway now kahit sinong piliin mo, makakasakit ka pa rin its eighter your LEGAL WIFE or your MISTRESS (maybe both),

remember lahat ng bagay na gagawin mo or decision you'll make, have all the consequences

(piliin mo kung ano or sino yun makakapagbigay syo ng word na CONTENTMENT)

 

 

Happiness is closer to the experience of acceptance and contentment than it is to pleasure. True happiness exists as the spacious and compassionate heart’s willingness to feel whatever is present. -Noah Levine

 

 

cheers! happy Friday guys..

 

 

Hindi naman dapat ganito dapat kakumplikado eh. Simple lang ito.

 

Kung ayaw mo na sa legal wife, di hiwalayan mo ng maayos. Make the terms you can mutually agree on, part ways, give respect, then start seeing someone new again. At least that way you do not need to be dishonest. Dishonestly is what makes it all wrong. At kung mahal mo yun mistress, bat mo gagawing mistress? legitimize it. Tsaka di ba unfair yun sa babae? handa na nga ibigay lahat gagawin mo pang pangalawa lagi sa buhay mo. Nobody who loves deserves that.

 

Para sakin, affairs are for cowards. Hindi kaya panindigan ginagawa nila kaya kelangan magtago lagi at bahala na kung me masaktan.

 

Yun naman lagi ang problema eh, me masasaktan na di dapat. Im not just talking about the wife or the mistress. Pano yun madadamay sa crossfire. Sabi nga ng isa dito, you can not choose casualties.

 

Madali kasi balubaluktutin tama at mali. Madali gawing subjective. Pero ang mahirap, panindigan yun consequences pag me nasaktan na

[hotB]

Kay wife padin ang crown .. Kahit anung gawin ng mistress its still the wife na magwawagi ..

[kaulayaw]

In the end it's all about you making a choice, for men, it is the thrill of the hunt and the eventual conquest. For women , there's more emotional attachment to it... just be prepared with the consequences of your choice and hopefully you dont regret anything in the end.

[Strada2008]

Can I have both? I admit I am selfish..wanna have the best of both worlds...stability from the wife...great romp from the mistress..

[dinibdib]

my only wife

[JoshuaJacob]

Legal Wife to have a home looking forward too after the night out. And considering this is a lasting relationship.

 

Mistress is you want to do SEX that the Legal Wife do not want to do in bed. Because the Mistress will ALWAYS stay in sexy shape, smell good and look good to make you stay. And she does special things in bed to keep you in her hands.

 

[calmado]

Legal wife (sayang mahati ang conjugal property)!

[Strada2008]

Wife pa din...mistresses will always be on the side...

[bakedzitiguy]

wife

[chelly]

dont be hurtful...stay with the wife and stay the hell away from the mistress.

dont be hurtful...stay with the wife and stay the hell away from the mistress.

[thedood69]

Wife siempre