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Mistress Or Legal Wife Which Would You Choose


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  • 2 weeks later...

I'm happy with my legal, as in. But I'm also happy with my other one. Is it just me or is anyone in a similar situation?

 

Yung happy ka naman and walang major problems and yet you're also happy dun sa isa. And hindi ka naman serial womanizer as in you're just an average joe who just happens to have another one. I don't know, I'm not confused or seeking advice I just want to know if anyone is in similar situation?

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human as we are, we always are satisfied for a time, then becomes unhappy and find a new thing. same with my iPhone and LED TV, after a year i'll go and change them. for partners, well basically its the same mind set. when we court them even if it takes years its ok since you want it. once you got it then it goes downhill from there. from hot romances to stone cold nights. I cant speak for all but, if I'm going to marry someone, i'll make sure that i'll love her til the very end. I know there will come a time of temptation and tests, I hope I would overcome them. actually GF/BF relationship pa lang madami na potential 3rd parties.... sexier, younger, feistier, better in bed perhaps... haaaayz...

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Well

 

Lahat naman dito nasabi na. Eto na lang dadagdag ko.

 

Simple lang naman kasi problema eh. Kung di ka na masaya at tingin mo hindi ka na nagiging mabuting tao sa kinakasama mo, eh di hiwalayan mo ng maayos. Make clear terms. Leave the person with a bit of dignity. Then do what you want. Para sakin, affairs are for cowards. Ayaw mo na pala, eh di panindigan mo at hiwalayan mo.

 

Second, I do not believe that we should always pursue things that makes us happy. Happiness is not a gauge kung tama o mali ginagawa mo. At minsan kelangan isakripisyo natin mga bagay na nagpapasaya satin para sa huli yun tama ang mangingibabaw. Yan kasi ang hirap, basta masaya tayo, blurred na yun line ng right and wrong. Pilit natin lolokohin sarili natin na tuwid ang isang bagay na kitang kita namang baluktot.

 

Ang happiness, parang pera din yan eh. You can be blissfully happy and feel you got everything you want doing something dishonest. Or you can be a little happy and at the same time feel something is missing. Pero huwag ka, ang lahat ng utang ay may kabayaran. Life is not fair but it is just. The devil has a way of collecting. Umutang ka ng kaligayahan sa maling paraan, malaking interes sisingilin nyan sayo. Isipin mo, si Napoles siguro nung di pa sya nabubuko naguumapaw din kaligayahan nya. Pero ngayon na nakakulong sya at buong pamilya nya minumura ng tao, malamang nagiisip sya ngayon kung worth it ba ginawa nya.

 

Sana makinig yun mga dapat habang di pa huli lahat.

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Lahat naman dito nasabi na. Eto na lang dadagdag ko.

Simple lang naman kasi problema eh. Kung di ka na masaya at tingin mo hindi ka na nagiging mabuting tao sa kinakasama mo, eh di hiwalayan mo ng maayos. Make clear terms. Leave the person with a bit of dignity. Then do what you want. Para sakin, affairs are for cowards. Ayaw mo na pala, eh di panindigan mo at hiwalayan mo.

Second, I do not believe that we should always pursue things that makes us happy. Happiness is not a gauge kung tama o mali ginagawa mo. At minsan kelangan isakripisyo natin mga bagay na nagpapasaya satin para sa huli yun tama ang mangingibabaw. Yan kasi ang hirap, basta masaya tayo, blurred na yun line ng right and wrong. Pilit natin lolokohin sarili natin na tuwid ang isang bagay na kitang kita namang baluktot.

Ang happiness, parang pera din yan eh. You can be blissfully happy and feel you got everything you want doing something dishonest. Or you can be a little happy and at the same time feel something is missing. Pero huwag ka, ang lahat ng utang ay may kabayaran. Life is not fair but it is just. The devil has a way of collecting. Umutang ka ng kaligayahan sa maling paraan, malaking interes sisingilin nyan sayo. Isipin mo, si Napoles siguro nung di pa sya nabubuko naguumapaw din kaligayahan nya. Pero ngayon na nakakulong sya at buong pamilya nya minumura ng tao, malamang nagiisip sya ngayon kung worth it ba ginawa nya.

Sana makinig yun mga dapat habang di pa huli lahat.

Very well said bro.

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  • 3 months later...

Ok.

 

Sabi nila mas minamahal daw ang kabit.

 

Pero ang kabit walang peace of mind.

 

Kaya kawawa si kabit. Kahet mas mahal mo yan at nagagawang bumalentong sa kama, hindi mo mabibigay ang kumpletong kaligayahan kasi tinatago mo at di maipagmalaki.

 

Masaya lang yan sa umpisa. Eventually maghahanap na yan ng pwesto na gusto siya ang nasa una. Human nature yun eh.

 

 

 

Teka lang ha, binasa ko ng buo tong thread na ito. Baket me nagka copy paste? Lol.

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Depende yan sa circumstance siyempre. Kahit ba may legal wife ka pero dysfunctional na ang relationship niyo. Kung objectively speaking, nagkakagulo ang relasyon dahil sa wife mo, you have all the right to go after and pursue a long term relationship with your mistress. Kung objectively speaking ay dahil sa side mo, ask yourself 1.) kung sino talaga ang mahal mo, kung 'di mo masagot, 2.) sino ang hindi mo kaya mawala sa buhay mo.

 

Hindi dahil pinili mo ang mistress mo ay automatically masama ka na. Bakit? Kasi maaaring sa side ng spouse mo or dahil sa circumstances or both, kung bakit nag lead ito sa pagkakaroon mo ng kabit. Pero siyempre, this requires having objective and aware na pag iisip sa mga pangyayari. Kung may nagawa ka bang mali at kung nagawa mong mali ang nagdala sa inyo kung nasaan kayo ngayon.

 

Kaya kung ako talaga tatanungin, pro-divorce ako eh. But that's another story.

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