How Important Is The Sexual History Of Your Partner?

[Angel on Top]

Pag wala nito wala na din gana at wLa ng pagmamahal ang partner ko skin .

[j]

Pag wala nito wala na din gana at wLa ng pagmamahal ang partner ko skin .

di ko maintindihan kung paano ito related sa history?

[black cat]

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Yes... such principle applies both to females and males. You should also have second, third, fourth and maybe, even, a fifth thought about men who are sexually hyperactive, i.e., those whom you called "screwing around."

But even at this day and age, double standard pa din ang morality natin. Reason why some girls, even if they have the "need", they still don't engage in casual sex.

[dibdba]

But even at this day and age, double standard pa din ang morality natin. Reason why some girls, even if they have the "need", they still don't engage in casual sex.

 

Society frowns upon girls who engage in casual sex. Double standards, of course. When a young guy goes on a sexual rampage, we just say boys will be boys. When an older guy goes on a similar adventure, we say he has aged gracefully and only natural that he gets younger girls.

 

On the other hand, if a young girl has had more sexual partners than her numerical age, she is labeled a slut. If an older woman tries to seek out casual sex, she is also labeled a slut--but an older one. The very few who escape this judgment are called cougars, but most are often also called sluts, or rather old sluts.

 

Sexual history, like any other form of history is important as an indication of the future. If a guy has had sex with every available girl he's met, it is safe to predict that he will have sex with every available girl that he's going to meet. There might be an exception though--if the girl can suck a golf ball through ten miles of garden hose, she has a chance of keeping him loyal. His problem then is that many guys would like to meet his girl.

[jwynn]

yes, it is important to me as i don't want to end up with a girl who has been screwing around.

 

which would you rather have, a master key that can open numerous locks or a shitty lock that can be opened by any key?

[j]

But even at this day and age, double standard pa din ang morality natin. Reason why some girls, even if they have the "need", they still don't engage in casual sex.

could be due to the double standard that girls refrain from sharing their complete history? or they give enough to be within the proper image of what a partner should be?

[j]

 

Sexual history, like any other form of history is important as an indication of the future. If a guy has had sex with every available girl he's met, it is safe to predict that he will have sex with every available girl that he's going to meet. There might be an exception though--if the girl can suck a golf ball through ten miles of garden hose, she has a chance of keeping him loyal. His problem then is that many guys would like to meet his girl.

may naisip pa akong difficulty sa situation na ito.

 

it's highly improbable that a girl can suck a golf ball through ten miles of garden hose on their first try. there would have been a training or learning phase. you cant be an expert with out practice right?

[BB-8]

Too many sexual partners is okay, basta namimili naman. For example, the girl is obviously pokpokish and not pretty, but he had sex with her pa din. I'll get turned off for sure. Even if I liked him at the onset, I'll be discouraged to pursue it na. Yukky na kse yun. I feel that my reputation will get tainted once patulan ko that kind of guy. Something like that.

 

I hope I got my idea accross na.

 

quality over quantity.

[black cat]

could be due to the double standard that girls refrain from sharing their complete history? or they give enough to be within the proper image of what a partner should be?

I am not sure why you said that. Have you encountered girls who lied about their sexual history?

[black cat]

may naisip pa akong difficulty sa situation na ito.

 

it's highly improbable that a girl can suck a golf ball through ten miles of garden hose on their first try. there would have been a training or learning phase. you cant be an expert with out practice right?

Well, if one is in love, you'll do everything to please. So if you were able to please pala ibig sabihin dami mo na kasi naka-sex? Why do you think that way?

[dibdba]

may naisip pa akong difficulty sa situation na ito.

 

it's highly improbable that a girl can suck a golf ball through ten miles of garden hose on their first try. there would have been a training or learning phase. you cant be an expert with out practice right?

 

The thing is, there are just some girls who are good in sex. Most girls can give head, but there are the few who can make your butt defy gravity as it rises off the bed. And who is the guy who wouldn't want a girl who knows mc?

 

Everything is about balance and context. Yes, a girl can only be good in sex if she's had some practice, maybe with countless partners or with one master and a couple of clueless nerds. If she's one of the talented few and is disease-free, I'm guessing most guys will overlook her sexual history and gladly take her in as a partner.

[j]

I am not sure why you said that. Have you encountered girls who lied about their sexual history?

i think there is a difference between not telling everything and lying.

 

i've encountered girls who would gloss over details, skip a few numbers, give a vague statement and demand to move on or just keep silent. i wouldn't know if a girl was definitely lying as they would never admit to it.

[j]

Well, if one is in love, you'll do everything to please. So if you were able to please pala ibig sabihin dami mo na kasi naka-sex? Why do you think that way?

 

think in what way? that being great in something requires practice?

we can say that sex is a physical activity. physical activity needs refinement. you may be talented but you need to work at it. being talented would mean that it would just be easier for you or that you would have an advantage with it.

 

i think there the difference between willing to please and actually being able to do so.

let's say i am willing to run a marathon. i even believe i can finish the marathon. my chances of being able to achieve this would increase with training and conditioning.

 

bakit naman kelangan agad madami ang nakasaex pag able to please? it could be na may good instructions during? may willingness and a good idea of what to do? or at least may kaunting previous trials and error. at mabilis mag learn.

 

why would you conclude that my reasoning was like that?

ang point ko is that just like a skill, you get better when you continue to work at it. may point na you get really skilled and that point is different with each individual. pero may difference between someone who is willing but attempting it for the first time and someone who has already gone through the process.

like writing. bihira yun makukuha agad in the first try. siguro may rare individuals who are geniuses that can do so on the first try. on an average a few tries are what is needed before you can get the hang of it. once you're comfortable, then you can go about improving.

Edited March 20, 2016 by j

[j]

 

The thing is, there are just some girls who are good in sex. Most girls can give head, but there are the few who can make your butt defy gravity as it rises off the bed. And who is the guy who wouldn't want a girl who knows mc?

 

Everything is about balance and context. Yes, a girl can only be good in sex if she's had some practice, maybe with countless partners or with one master and a couple of clueless nerds. If she's one of the talented few and is disease-free, I'm guessing most guys will overlook her sexual history and gladly take her in as a partner.

 

i'm sure there are those who are extremely talented. i would think they would be few though. kaya nga maswerte if you encounter one.

 

on an average, they would need to work on it to be good. skill rin naman yan and you need to put in some time to hone your skill di ba? we're referring to the average person, not those rare finds.

 

multiple partners are not bad. life is all about experience and you need to go through certain experiences right? siguro it's important how prudent you were in these experiences.

[j]

 

Everything is about balance and context. Yes, a girl can only be good in sex if she's had some practice, maybe with countless partners or with one master and a couple of clueless nerds. If she's one of the talented few and is disease-free, I'm guessing most guys will overlook her sexual history and gladly take her in as a partner.

 

no arguement here naman.