Kingkongphils Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 (edited) Mali ata tayo ng thread sa usapan..haha...thera falling for client dto... I dont recommend thera falling for client... REAL TALK, snay na mga GM sa pasweet ng mga thera to gain regular clients.. we GMs got nothing to loose... fall for me or not, its a win win for us to be frank... Ang tanong.. KUNG MAHAL MO NGA TLGA SI CLIENT, ano kaya mo isacrifice? At gaano ka kasigurado na ung GM n un feels the same way sayo...Actually that is true. Ang notion parati kawawa c GM, pero in reality after the. Dust settles, pera lang ang nawala sa GM. And whay is money anyway, kikitain mo dn naman yan. Pero ung thera mawawala una ung customer na malaking mag tip, pag na in love cya e natural hindi na cya g na g dun sa customer na magaling mag tip. Sayang yun, at ung iba pang chance na kumita cya ng mas malaki dahil sa love na yan. E atvl the age of 25 medyo pa decline na ang mga thera, kaya time sa kanila e very important. Edited October 26, 2018 by Kingkongphils Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 This will hurt but i call that bull. Lahat sa mundo ntn ngyn involved ang pera. Ang bigger issue is learning how to manage it. Kung mahal nyu isat isa at hindi nya agad agad kaya magstop cuz of financial issues, atleast set a deadline kung kelan sya magstop soon. Kung kaya m nmn sustentohan ilipat m sya sa mas marangal na work. Money is the thing thats keeping her sa work n yan so involved tlga ang pera. U 2 just choose to ignore it Agree din ako dito. Kaya sila andyan dahil sa pera, dahil kulang sila sa pera. At kung darating ka na wala ka dn ibibigay na pera e ano ka pa sa buhay nya. Para ka dn ung mga naka asa sa kanya kung ganun. Unless you are really open and okey sa trabaho nya e I think its okey pero ung hindi ka mag bibigay at mas masaya ka na humilata sya sa iba at ung pera mo e nasa iyo pa dn, nku hindi love yun. Libog lng yun kung ganun. Gaya ng sabi ni sir, I think the fairest is to give her a timeline or ultimatum kasi kung naibigay mo na ang lahat lahat syo pero gusto pa dn nyang mag trabaho e si thera naman ang may mali nun at its time to let go. Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 hi sir i appreciate all the insights of my fellow gms here and i thank you all for that, but we are looking at this ladies only on the 1 side of the coin, lets flip the coin and look at their human side, oo they do this to earn moneyfor their families and obligation pero tao din cla they do fall in love kelangan lng is you just have to be patient and trust them, hindi ako impokrito aaminin ko everyday is hell for me thinking of what she does for a living, but that is life i choose it eh kaya i have to live with it, we have our plans and we have our time line for next year on when she will quit the biz.mga sirs with all due respect lets look at this ladies fairly cause from what ive learned is that not ALL are mukhang pera, ive had my fair share of theras na mukhang pera tlga and i can mention 1 if u want pero this thera loves of mine is one of a kind iba sya, you may think that im just in love kaya ganun pero everyday na i get to know more of her iba sya from others thanks mga sir sa lahat ng insights nyo Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 pahabol po pala kahit na thera sila babae pa din sila and they need someone to be at their side they need men that wont give up on them, it just unfortunate na ganito ang work nila. nga pala oo ganito dn ang work nila but they have their limitations hindi dhl thera sila all out na cla just my two cents thank u po ulit Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 Ang tanong how do you handle it. Do you give her money and then let her go to work? Do you provide for her and let her go to work? Or you just keep what is yours, magbigay lang ng konti and let her just work? Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 ayaw nya tanggapin ang binibigay kong pera napag usapan n nmn yan before we bacame official. ayaw nya na maglalabas ako ng pera for her, (byad sa house nya dt, byad sa house nya sa province, budget nya, budget sa bahay nya for her kids parents and siblings, utility bills, clothes, shoes, food etc...) ang gastos ko lng like normal couples is that when we go out on dates syempre ako na un. simple lng sya. ang prinsipyo nya is nagtratrabaho sya so hindi nya kelangan ang pera ko, ang kelangan nya is ako ung time, ung effort ung understanding ung support emotionally, ayaw nya mahirapan ako financially. mahirap mga sir, masakit sobrang sakit araw araw pero gaya nga ng sinabi ko nawawala ung sakit na un pag kasama mo na sya at the end of the day dhl sobra syang magmahal at mag alaga, tska pinasok ko ito kelangan harapin at tanggapin dyn ko sya nakilala eh. tska kidding aside mike murphy nga dba so navy seal frogman just suck it up...... Quote Link to comment
YourBabe💗 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 Hayyysss mahirap tlga both sides .. Tska iba iba tayo ng pagkatao , prinsipyo , diskarte at abilidad .. 1 Quote Link to comment
Marco_W Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 Bro, kung true love hanap m try m burahin mtc acct m, stop going to adult places and go out meet people. maybe u'll find that there are a lot of girls na simple lang din, and everything you want and see sa thera loves m now but minus the heartache and the constant selos na nararamdaman m. kahit sa love, dapat balance ang puso at utak. peace. PS. sorry for furthering the topic but yes this should be in the other thread ayaw nya tanggapin ang binibigay kong pera napag usapan n nmn yan before we bacame official. ayaw nya na maglalabas ako ng pera for her, (byad sa house nya dt, byad sa house nya sa province, budget nya, budget sa bahay nya for her kids parents and siblings, utility bills, clothes, shoes, food etc...) ang gastos ko lng like normal couples is that when we go out on dates syempre ako na un. simple lng sya. ang prinsipyo nya is nagtratrabaho sya so hindi nya kelangan ang pera ko, ang kelangan nya is ako ung time, ung effort ung understanding ung support emotionally, ayaw nya mahirapan ako financially.mahirap mga sir, masakit sobrang sakit araw araw pero gaya nga ng sinabi ko nawawala ung sakit na un pag kasama mo na sya at the end of the day dhl sobra syang magmahal at mag alaga, tska pinasok ko ito kelangan harapin at tanggapin dyn ko sya nakilala eh.tska kidding aside mike murphy nga dba so navy seal frogman just suck it up...... Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 ayaw nya tanggapin ang binibigay kong pera napag usapan n nmn yan before we bacame official. ayaw nya na maglalabas ako ng pera for her, (byad sa house nya dt, byad sa house nya sa province, budget nya, budget sa bahay nya for her kids parents and siblings, utility bills, clothes, shoes, food etc...) ang gastos ko lng like normal couples is that when we go out on dates syempre ako na un. simple lng sya. ang prinsipyo nya is nagtratrabaho sya so hindi nya kelangan ang pera ko, ang kelangan nya is ako ung time, ung effort ung understanding ung support emotionally, ayaw nya mahirapan ako financially. mahirap mga sir, masakit sobrang sakit araw araw pero gaya nga ng sinabi ko nawawala ung sakit na un pag kasama mo na sya at the end of the day dhl sobra syang magmahal at mag alaga, tska pinasok ko ito kelangan harapin at tanggapin dyn ko sya nakilala eh. tska kidding aside mike murphy nga dba so navy seal frogman just suck it up......Ouch... Well whatever makes you happy. Good luck and I hope u survive this Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 28, 2018 Share Posted October 28, 2018 thank u mga sirs ill take my chances with her muna life is a risk nmn Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 cgro nga tama kayo mga paps ang hirap isipin na sinira nya ung pangako nya sa akin na hindi sya lalabas kasama ang guest nya pero ginawa nya pa din khpon ayaw nya lng aminin pero nararamdaman ko..... grabe ang sakit hindi ko matanggap ang hirap d ako makatrabho ngyn gusto ko ng mag inom wala ako makausap wala ako makasama. galit pa sya skn dhl ganun ang hirap ano ba dpt kong gawin i give up na ito or lumaban pa tulungan nyo po ako Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 wala n nga ako sinasabi sa work nya pero ung lumabas sya kasama ang client nya iba na skn un ibig sabihin palagay loob nya sa tao na un kaya sya sumama, tama ba iniisip ko or dhl lang mas malaki kikitain nya sa labas, tang ina ang hirap ayoko ng ganitong pakiramdam tang ina tang ina nmn Quote Link to comment
Schindler Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 Sir, sa kabilang thread po tau.. theras side po kc itong room.. Quote Link to comment
TheMayor-Retired Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 wala n nga ako sinasabi sa work nya pero ung lumabas sya kasama ang client nya iba na skn un ibig sabihin palagay loob nya sa tao na un kaya sya sumama, tama ba iniisip ko or dhl lang mas malaki kikitain nya sa labas, tang ina ang hirap ayoko ng ganitong pakiramdam tang ina tang ina nmnBetter move on ka nalang Sir, hindi naman kailangan ng another girl or any other person para lumigaya ka. Hindi naka depende buhay mo sa kanya. Think of this as a moment of failling forward. In order to mature you have to go through growing pains. Sabi mo nga Sir suck it up, So suck it up some more you are better than this. Mas maraming bagay sa buhay na mas important na pagtuunan ng pansin like your family, spiritually, work or business. Lahat yan pwede magpayaman sayo kung hindi man sa financial atleast as a person. Pagka nalampasan mo na yan and take a look years back tatawanan mo nalang at sasabihin mo ang tanga ko pala noon. And lastly, I think doon tayo dapat sa kabilang thread. Hehe.. 1 Quote Link to comment
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