K0RN - RETIR3D Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 Y wud a thera fall for a client, curious lang What sacrifices would a thera do if she falls for a client? Will she quit her job? ano mngyayari sa family? Will she sacrifice family for love sa GM? To be fair, both GM and CLIENT aminin na natin are parehong PAASA, kasi kailangn nila isat isa, never will there be a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP... at the end of the day magsusumbatan lang yan, ending status "single" Well said. Pero may very slim chance na maging successful yung relationship nila as long as BOTH exert their efforts into the relationship. Quote Link to comment
Ragingbull3000 Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 Well said. Pero may very slim chance na maging successful yung relationship nila as long as BOTH exert their efforts into the relationship. Slim chance is closest to having no chance... Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 hindi nmn cguro, right now im in a relationship witb a thera top pa sya, we are making things work for our relationship its just the quality time that we spend together matters, oo aaminin ko masakit sobrang sakit pero mahal ko sya at the end of the day nawawala na ung sakit pg mgkasama kmi, hindi lng mgkasama dhl mg make love, kasama ko sya to have a simple dinner sa labas minsan sa bahay nya she cooks for me, masakit but i really love her kaya kailangan lawakan ang pag iisip at itapon ang ego to make this work 1 Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 ang hirap pero its worth it lalo na pag genuine at walang money involved sa relationship hindi ung benefactor - scholar ang dating kungdi parang normal couple lng Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 ang hirap pero its worth it lalo na pag genuine at walang money involved sa relationship hindi ung benefactor - scholar ang dating kungdi parang normal couple lngAre you allowing her to work kasi hindi mo kayang tustusan ung mga kailangan nya? Ot kaya mo naman ayaw mo lng? Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 kaya ko nmn pero ayaw nya ako mahirapan at gusto nya walang money involved sa relationship nmn Quote Link to comment
Ragingbull3000 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 Etong sinasabi..no offense..pag mahal mo di mo na masikmura ituloy pa nya trabaho nya... hayaan mo pa ba na hawakan cya ng ibat iabng lalake hbng kayo na?... at the end of the day itaga mo sa bato...ung trabaho nya ang isisisi mo pag nghwalay kayo😎😎😎😎... 3 Quote Link to comment
Ace12345 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 lagi natin sinasabi sa sarili natin bawal mainlove pero hindi mo tlg maiiwasan. mas lalo na pag madalas mo cya kinukuha at hindi ka nagsasawa sa kanya.,, shout out to Ms. J.... Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 Etong sinasabi..no offense..pag mahal mo di mo na masikmura ituloy pa nya trabaho nya... hayaan mo pa ba na hawakan cya ng ibat iabng lalake hbng kayo na?... at the end of the day itaga mo sa bato...ung trabaho nya ang isisisi mo pag nghwalay kayo... kaya ko nmn pero ayaw nya ako mahirapan at gusto nya walang money involved sa relationship nmnI would re quote the quote of sir anthony3k. Kung kaya mo nmn why would you allow her to go on. I would understand kung hindi mo kaya, pero to say na ayaw nya na there would be money involved and then turns around and makes out with others. Yup true no money involved but there are some men involved. If you ask me kung kaya ko din lang I wouldnt allow her kht mag tanim ako ng bala sa airport.. Hahaha.. Pero kung hindi ko kaya masustentuhan cya well tatangapin ko. I would never in my wildest imagination accept the ayaw kong tanggapin ang pera mo kasi mahal kita but mag huhubad cya sa harap ng iba. Sakin kunin mo na lahat ng pera ko, bsta wag ka nang mag ganyan. Well but then again kung masaya ka naman na you share her and you still have your money e ayus lng yun, but I would never call that love. Gaya nga ng sabi ni sir anthony3k, ung trabaho pa nya ang masisis mo sa paghihiwalay nyo. But then again, who am I to say whats love and not love. Its just thay I dont believe na kaya ng isang nagmamahal na pabayaan mag trabaho ang mahal nya sa buhay sa ganyan trabaho kahit na alam nya na may magagawa cya para doon. Again kung hindi kaya okey lng, pero kung kaya try your best to take her out and keep her out. Bsta gusto nya, kung ayaw nya, ibang usapan na yun. Quote Link to comment
Ragingbull3000 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 Ibaon mo lang sa loob..... Iwasan mahulog ang loob..... Quote Link to comment
Ragingbull3000 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 I would re quote the quote of sir anthony3k. Kung kaya mo nmn why would you allow her to go on. I would understand kung hindi mo kaya, pero to say na ayaw nya na there would be money involved and then turns around and makes out with others. Yup true no money involved but there are some men involved. If you ask me kung kaya ko din lang I wouldnt allow her kht mag tanim ako ng bala sa airport.. Hahaha.. Pero kung hindi ko kaya masustentuhan cya well tatangapin ko. I would never in my wildest imagination accept the ayaw kong tanggapin ang pera mo kasi mahal kita but mag huhubad cya sa harap ng iba. Sakin kunin mo na lahat ng pera ko, bsta wag ka nang mag ganyan. Well but then again kung masaya ka naman na you share her and you still have your money e ayus lng yun, but I would never call that love. Gaya nga ng sabi ni sir anthony3k, ung trabaho pa nya ang masisis mo sa paghihiwalay nyo. But then again, who am I to say whats love and not love. Its just thay I dont believe na kaya ng isang nagmamahal na pabayaan mag trabaho ang mahal nya sa buhay sa ganyan trabaho kahit na alam nya na may magagawa cya para doon. Again kung hindi kaya okey lng, pero kung kaya try your best to take her out and keep her out. Bsta gusto nya, kung ayaw nya, ibang usapan na yun.In addition to this, tanggapin na lang natin "DI TAYO MAPAPAKAIN O MABUBUHAY SA PAGMAMAHAL LANG"... 1 Quote Link to comment
Marco_W Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 This will hurt but i call that bull. Lahat sa mundo ntn ngyn involved ang pera. Ang bigger issue is learning how to manage it. Kung mahal nyu isat isa at hindi nya agad agad kaya magstop cuz of financial issues, atleast set a deadline kung kelan sya magstop soon. Kung kaya m nmn sustentohan ilipat m sya sa mas marangal na work. Money is the thing thats keeping her sa work n yan so involved tlga ang pera. U 2 just choose to ignore it kaya ko nmn pero ayaw nya ako mahirapan at gusto nya walang money involved sa relationship nmn 1 Quote Link to comment
Ragingbull3000 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 Mali ata tayo ng thread sa usapan..haha...thera falling for client dto... I dont recommend thera falling for client... REAL TALK, snay na mga GM sa pasweet ng mga thera to gain regular clients.. we GMs got nothing to loose... fall for me or not, its a win win for us to be frank... Ang tanong.. KUNG MAHAL MO NGA TLGA SI CLIENT, ano kaya mo isacrifice? At gaano ka kasigurado na ung GM n un feels the same way sayo... Quote Link to comment
Trooper69 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 Dapat sa kabilang thread nag post si Boss MikeMurphy. Hehehe Sa Falling for a Thera thread. Tama ka rin boss, pera 2x lang tlga, walang personalan.Mali ata tayo ng thread sa usapan..haha...thera falling for client dto... I dont recommend thera falling for client... REAL TALK, snay na mga GM sa pasweet ng mga thera to gain regular clients.. we GMs got nothing to loose... fall for me or not, its a win win for us to be frank... Ang tanong.. KUNG MAHAL MO NGA TLGA SI CLIENT, ano kaya mo isacrifice? At gaano ka kasigurado na ung GM n un feels the same way sayo... Quote Link to comment
Cloudwolf Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 Gustong gusto ko na ulit makita siya sayang lang at wala na siyang panahon para sakin , hindi katulad dati isang text o chat lang sa kanya andyan na siya agad para sayo, ngayon yayayain mo na nga lang siya lumabas ng KAYONG DALAWA gusto isama pa yung isa pang girl na alam niyang ayaw kong isama kaya nga DALAWA mahirap ba yun? Hi Jerome sana makaramdam ka din minsan. Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 (edited) Mali ata tayo ng thread sa usapan..haha...thera falling for client dto... I dont recommend thera falling for client... REAL TALK, snay na mga GM sa pasweet ng mga thera to gain regular clients.. we GMs got nothing to loose... fall for me or not, its a win win for us to be frank... Ang tanong.. KUNG MAHAL MO NGA TLGA SI CLIENT, ano kaya mo isacrifice? At gaano ka kasigurado na ung GM n un feels the same way sayo...Actually that is true. Ang notion parati kawawa c GM, pero in reality after the. Dust settles, pera lang ang nawala sa GM. And whay is money anyway, kikitain mo dn naman yan. Pero ung thera mawawala una ung customer na malaking mag tip, pag na in love cya e natural hindi na cya g na g dun sa customer na magaling mag tip. Sayang yun, at ung iba pang chance na kumita cya ng mas malaki dahil sa love na yan. E atvl the age of 25 medyo pa decline na ang mga thera, kaya time sa kanila e very important. Edited October 26, 2018 by Kingkongphils Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 This will hurt but i call that bull. Lahat sa mundo ntn ngyn involved ang pera. Ang bigger issue is learning how to manage it. Kung mahal nyu isat isa at hindi nya agad agad kaya magstop cuz of financial issues, atleast set a deadline kung kelan sya magstop soon. Kung kaya m nmn sustentohan ilipat m sya sa mas marangal na work. Money is the thing thats keeping her sa work n yan so involved tlga ang pera. U 2 just choose to ignore it Agree din ako dito. Kaya sila andyan dahil sa pera, dahil kulang sila sa pera. At kung darating ka na wala ka dn ibibigay na pera e ano ka pa sa buhay nya. Para ka dn ung mga naka asa sa kanya kung ganun. Unless you are really open and okey sa trabaho nya e I think its okey pero ung hindi ka mag bibigay at mas masaya ka na humilata sya sa iba at ung pera mo e nasa iyo pa dn, nku hindi love yun. Libog lng yun kung ganun. Gaya ng sabi ni sir, I think the fairest is to give her a timeline or ultimatum kasi kung naibigay mo na ang lahat lahat syo pero gusto pa dn nyang mag trabaho e si thera naman ang may mali nun at its time to let go. Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 hi sir i appreciate all the insights of my fellow gms here and i thank you all for that, but we are looking at this ladies only on the 1 side of the coin, lets flip the coin and look at their human side, oo they do this to earn moneyfor their families and obligation pero tao din cla they do fall in love kelangan lng is you just have to be patient and trust them, hindi ako impokrito aaminin ko everyday is hell for me thinking of what she does for a living, but that is life i choose it eh kaya i have to live with it, we have our plans and we have our time line for next year on when she will quit the biz.mga sirs with all due respect lets look at this ladies fairly cause from what ive learned is that not ALL are mukhang pera, ive had my fair share of theras na mukhang pera tlga and i can mention 1 if u want pero this thera loves of mine is one of a kind iba sya, you may think that im just in love kaya ganun pero everyday na i get to know more of her iba sya from others thanks mga sir sa lahat ng insights nyo Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 pahabol po pala kahit na thera sila babae pa din sila and they need someone to be at their side they need men that wont give up on them, it just unfortunate na ganito ang work nila. nga pala oo ganito dn ang work nila but they have their limitations hindi dhl thera sila all out na cla just my two cents thank u po ulit Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 Ang tanong how do you handle it. Do you give her money and then let her go to work? Do you provide for her and let her go to work? Or you just keep what is yours, magbigay lang ng konti and let her just work? Quote Link to comment
mikemurphy0305 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 ayaw nya tanggapin ang binibigay kong pera napag usapan n nmn yan before we bacame official. ayaw nya na maglalabas ako ng pera for her, (byad sa house nya dt, byad sa house nya sa province, budget nya, budget sa bahay nya for her kids parents and siblings, utility bills, clothes, shoes, food etc...) ang gastos ko lng like normal couples is that when we go out on dates syempre ako na un. simple lng sya. ang prinsipyo nya is nagtratrabaho sya so hindi nya kelangan ang pera ko, ang kelangan nya is ako ung time, ung effort ung understanding ung support emotionally, ayaw nya mahirapan ako financially. mahirap mga sir, masakit sobrang sakit araw araw pero gaya nga ng sinabi ko nawawala ung sakit na un pag kasama mo na sya at the end of the day dhl sobra syang magmahal at mag alaga, tska pinasok ko ito kelangan harapin at tanggapin dyn ko sya nakilala eh. tska kidding aside mike murphy nga dba so navy seal frogman just suck it up...... Quote Link to comment
YourBabe💗 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 Hayyysss mahirap tlga both sides .. Tska iba iba tayo ng pagkatao , prinsipyo , diskarte at abilidad .. 1 Quote Link to comment
Marco_W Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 Bro, kung true love hanap m try m burahin mtc acct m, stop going to adult places and go out meet people. maybe u'll find that there are a lot of girls na simple lang din, and everything you want and see sa thera loves m now but minus the heartache and the constant selos na nararamdaman m. kahit sa love, dapat balance ang puso at utak. peace. PS. sorry for furthering the topic but yes this should be in the other thread ayaw nya tanggapin ang binibigay kong pera napag usapan n nmn yan before we bacame official. ayaw nya na maglalabas ako ng pera for her, (byad sa house nya dt, byad sa house nya sa province, budget nya, budget sa bahay nya for her kids parents and siblings, utility bills, clothes, shoes, food etc...) ang gastos ko lng like normal couples is that when we go out on dates syempre ako na un. simple lng sya. ang prinsipyo nya is nagtratrabaho sya so hindi nya kelangan ang pera ko, ang kelangan nya is ako ung time, ung effort ung understanding ung support emotionally, ayaw nya mahirapan ako financially.mahirap mga sir, masakit sobrang sakit araw araw pero gaya nga ng sinabi ko nawawala ung sakit na un pag kasama mo na sya at the end of the day dhl sobra syang magmahal at mag alaga, tska pinasok ko ito kelangan harapin at tanggapin dyn ko sya nakilala eh.tska kidding aside mike murphy nga dba so navy seal frogman just suck it up...... Quote Link to comment
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