How to continue a conversation with a girl you like on chat or in pers

[FZ4]

Listen more. Talk less.

[perfectstranger]

be a good listener and ask open ended questions. hindi yung answerable by yes or no lang. then don't drag the conversation too long because it will definitely become boring. don't be too clingy message her again after 2-3 days. if you notice that she's responding positively (hindi yung napipilitan lang) then you can upgrade to daily. just keep it relatively short so that it will not be a hassle for her.

 

just be as honest and sincere as you can so that when you finally meet, she will not see you as a different person.

[DorkVader]

Although I have no experience chatting I guess this is what I will do. I will talk about things that are interesting to me. I will not sound like somebody I am not. I will be a good listener. If my chat mate finds me boring or whatever, it's fine. I will move on. At the end of the day you want someone who shares the same interests, right? Believe me, pretending to be someone you're not isn't cool. Lalabas at lalabas din. Mapapahiya ka Lang.

[Freddie C.]

dapat style pacman ang gagawin. pero tuloy na news yung chat at instagram post niya to another lady

[Elwood]

Seryoso na may halong sense of humor!!!

['cholo15]

Always talk about her, if she feels that you're interested in her then the conversation between you two won't go stale or boring.

[Soo-yeon]

Share something about yourself then ask her to share too. Kakairita yun tanong ng tanong parang imbestigador. Pag ganun ka-chat ko, di ko na nirereplyan. Know her likes and make it the subject of your conversation. Wag puro sex at pangmamanyak cause nakaka-turn off din yun (makes me think kung may utak ka ba talaga sa taas na ulo mo o yun utak mo napunta lahat sa ulo mo sa baba).

 

Just my view based from my own experience.

[Deity.DImsum]

Explore things she/he likes, be an active listener.

[Kingkongphils]

Makinig ka lng, mag ipon ng topics or ideas hbng nakikinig and then pag naubos ung kwento may nakaabang ka na. Kaya maganda mag practice ka sa iba ibang tao, kht sa taong hindi mo type. This makes for a good topic dn sa mga nakwekwento syo. Pero pag one question one answer lng ang napapala mo sa kanya e malamang sa alamang d ka nya type.. Hehehe... Pag ganun either kalimutan mo na cya or just dont quit asking questions or magkwento ng kht ano, it would not really matter kasi nga like. What I said malamang d ka nya type. Kung nahihiya lng sya kaya one question one answer cya e eventully sa daldal mo e mapapalagay ang loob nya. Its just like looking for the g spot.

[staringatdsun]

be genuine. be spontaneous. be respectful.

[lawhandyman]

1. don't be creepy

2. don't be clingy or needy

3. don't rush

4. don't drag the conversation too long

5. be respectful and considerate

 

just don't be an assh*le.

[kalliope]

Check

[Robmeister]

Just be a creative conversationalist. Talk more about her interest and and not yours. Talk more about her life and what is happening around the globe.

 

Do not chat / reply to her like you are doing a novel. Just reply with a smart, interesting and short open ended type of answer.

 

If she is the type of a person that gives you a reply like "k", "yup", "haha" after you tried the mentioned tips above. then stop chatting her for a while. Try it again later today or tomorrow.

 

If she has been that way for like always, then dump her. There are other women besides her.

[clandestinecuddles]

Hi , good morning , greetings , nasl and do you have fb and pic wont get you anywhere. You dont have to be mr google but at least know how to start an interesting conversation.

[jessetiu]

be sincere and not just trying to get into her pants.