Cleoerwin Posted January 11, 2014 Share Posted January 11, 2014 After the usual Introduction like name, place, age and your job, sometimes women seems not interested anymore. How do we keep them hooked? Quote Link to comment
Turninglong Posted January 11, 2014 Share Posted January 11, 2014 (edited) Ask them about their love life. Start by asking them if she has a boyfriend.If she says that she used to have one but it's already history, try probingabout the relationship she had w/ her ex & try to empathize. Girls usuallyappreciate people who listen to them, instead of those who always want to talkabout themselves. But if she says that she already have a boyfriend, now that'ssomething else coz why should she be chatting w/ somebody else if she shouldbe chatting w/ her boyfriend. However, she could be dissatisfied w/ her boyso she's looking around. You may also ask about her current relationship &get some tips from that. You might eventually get closer to her that way. Edited January 11, 2014 by Turninglong Quote Link to comment
Cleoerwin Posted January 12, 2014 Author Share Posted January 12, 2014 Ask them about their love life. Start by asking them if she has a boyfriend.If she says that she used to have one but it's already history, try probingabout the relationship she had w/ her ex & try to empathize. Girls usuallyappreciate people who listen to them, instead of those who always want to talkabout themselves. But if she says that she already have a boyfriend, now that'ssomething else coz why should she be chatting w/ somebody else if she shouldbe chatting w/ her boyfriend. However, she could be dissatisfied w/ her boyso she's looking around. You may also ask about her current relationship &get some tips from that. You might eventually get closer to her that way. Thanks. Quote Link to comment
Bentong Senior Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 alamin ang kanyang mga hilig Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 The key naman is, do not try too hard. Try to make it as natural as possible. If you try too hard kasi, everything will just feel forced and you wont really establish a good connection or impression. There are many self-help tips naman na nagkalat sa internet at kung ano anong media and some of them are useful. But do not so much adhere to them like its an experimental plan to the point na hindi ka na nagpapakatotoo sa sarili mo. At the end of the day, you want her to accept you for who you are and not what you are trying to be. Para sakin, I had my hits and miss. Yung miss, talagang crash and burn. Pero ganun talaga eh, meron talagang mga potential partners na talagang hindi kayo mag-kli-click. Na kahit ano gawin mo wala talaga kayong chemistry. Ok lang yan, huwag mo panghinayangan its an indication na talagang hindi kayo meant para sa isat isa Sabi nga ni Idol Sylvester Stallone, if you need to walk on egg shells, then probably you are not just meant for each other. Kasi meron naman dyan na di mo na kelangan ng A-game para magclick kayo 1 Quote Link to comment
dinibdib Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 always think and create an interesting topic that needs to be discussed. Quote Link to comment
B L A D E Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 just keep in touch with her Quote Link to comment
sharkymiketrot Posted April 21, 2015 Share Posted April 21, 2015 Say things that she wants to hear... Compliment her. Quote Link to comment
suade Posted August 12, 2015 Share Posted August 12, 2015 ask open ended question Quote Link to comment
Walang4ever Posted August 22, 2015 Share Posted August 22, 2015 Ask about whats her likes and dislikes Quote Link to comment
silvio.blackwater Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 The key naman is, do not try too hard. Try to make it as natural as possible. If you try too hard kasi, everything will just feel forced and you wont really establish a good connection or impression. There are many self-help tips naman na nagkalat sa internet at kung ano anong media and some of them are useful. But do not so much adhere to them like its an experimental plan to the point na hindi ka na nagpapakatotoo sa sarili mo. At the end of the day, you want her to accept you for who you are and not what you are trying to be. Para sakin, I had my hits and miss. Yung miss, talagang crash and burn. Pero ganun talaga eh, meron talagang mga potential partners na talagang hindi kayo mag-kli-click. Na kahit ano gawin mo wala talaga kayong chemistry. Ok lang yan, huwag mo panghinayangan its an indication na talagang hindi kayo meant para sa isat isa Sabi nga ni Idol Sylvester Stallone, if you need to walk on egg shells, then probably you are not just meant for each other. Kasi meron naman dyan na di mo na kelangan ng A-game para magclick kayoOnce again i agree with sir edmund. These things come naturally. Two way street eto just like most relationships are, if your chatmate feels comfortable, the convo will flow effortlessly. Tapos mapapansin nyo na lang ang haba na ng thread nyo. May friend ako in a group setting ok naman kame, pero sa chat ang iksi lang ng inaabot ng usapan namin. Makita ko dun sa tropa ko kachat nya yung same girl, nobela naman usapan nila. So sila yung nagclick, sakin miss. It happens chill lang men. Quote Link to comment
jelly bean Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 Just be yourself. It's gonna be difficult to pretend in the long run. Quote Link to comment
Manto5 Posted August 24, 2015 Share Posted August 24, 2015 Be a good listener and encourage her to talk about herself, her dreams and ambitions. Quote Link to comment
global4 Posted September 8, 2015 Share Posted September 8, 2015 Conduct a background information para marami kang topic to discuss with her. Quote Link to comment
MODERATOR Alex_Corvis Posted September 8, 2015 MODERATOR Share Posted September 8, 2015 Just ask a lot of questions ABOUT HER. Kahit ano, basta about her. Pero in a not too eager way na parang atat sa lahat ng lalabas sa bibig nya. Of course kelangan makinig ka and imomorize mga sinasabi nya, kasi pwede mo mapag tagpi tagpi yung details to be used as a topic for future convo Just relax din and imagine you're talking to a friend, hindi crush. Quote Link to comment
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