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Why Do Handsome Men Fall For Ugly Women?


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Depending on the situation, maybe some people just aren't going for looks anymore,  maybe they've dated some beautiful people back then, but found out they're only beautiful on the outside. Hindi ibig sabihin na pumili nalng sila ng pangit, it's all on how that person makes them feel. He/she may not be a looker but they know how to treat their partner right and thats all that matters.

 

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On 12/5/2013 at 4:35 AM, viral said:

Handsome or at least very presentable men can and do end up with - pardon the term - ugly women. Or to be more politically correct, aesthetically challenged females. As Private Ryan said, fallen from the top of the ugly tree.

Prime example: Manny Villar and Cynthia "Battleaxe" Aguilar - Villar.

Damn! OP shooting some shots there! At the time of your original post Cynthia was 63, and is now 73. You try and look hot, sexy and beautiful at either of those ages lol. Also according to Wikipedia they married in 1975, so that's 48+ years of marriage. That shared history, multiple kids and all the successful businesses they built together probably make it difficult to just leave and find a new "hotter" wife.

As with many things, with time looks will fade. So if you're looking for a marriage partner that will hopefully be with you for the rest of your life there's more important things like compatibility, shared values/goals, personality, intelligence, etc.

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It’s subjective really. Not all handsome men fall for ugly ladies. The ones who do are probably looking for something or someone that fills the gap in their lives. Most good looking men/women have certain insecurities which they are never able to share with equally good looking partners for fear of being ridiculed. However, if they are able to share their feelings with someone less attractive than them, then the rationale is something like this: 


ugly girl: This guy is better looking than me and is a catch. I need to make sure I am attentive to his needs and give him a shoulder to cry on so that he will like me.

handsome guy: She is such a good listener and is so calm and she has no drama. 

The roles could also be reversed. How many times have you heard the “beautiful or handsome partner” say that their “ugly” partner is sweet and caring? This happens a lot more than we realize. All people ever want is to be cared for and loved and if someone gets love and attention  from a less attractive person then maybe that’s all they need. It’s about validation and fulfillment for humans.

 If that validation can be had with a beautiful gorgeous partner rather than an ugly one, then 100% of folks would choose the former. However, it does not happen that often so people settle for the easier option.

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