How would you know if you really, genuinely love someone?

[kano_d_great]

When it’s one way. You don’t expect her to return it. 

[Aqualung]

Everything revolves around the person you love.

[noooodles]

Kahit alam mo na lahat ng baho nya, literally and figuratively, labs na labs mo pa din sya. Ibang usapan na syempre kung kukunsintihin mo mga masasamang ugali nya o gagawa ka ng paraan para magbago sya

[tinylurker]

Naiisip mo siya every minute kahit busy ka.

[Serious Joker]

when that person's happiness comes first before yours.

[renegadeboy25]

You still love her even when you see her flaws

[king B]

when the person is perfectly imperfect for you.

[Psari19]

Pag laging iniisip sya hindi dahil gusto ko ng sex  kundi dahil  sa ugali nya at masayang kasama.

 

[InsomniacNinja]

you disregard all her flaws or suddenly see them as her assests. You feel comfortable when you're with him/her

[razeyhamirez]

16 minutes ago, Ed Atwan 6 said:

you losers are probably wiling to give all your life savings to the prostitute that you love  

 

HAHAHAHA grabe profound mental retardation na ang tawag diyan. Hindi love

[Bigshotbob32]

Mas inuuna mo siyang isipin kesa sa sarili. You want her to have the best of everything. Maging masaya siya lagi.

[FF]

you admire her not only for her bv or fv but also for qualities beyond the physical. you respect her because of her values and principles. you want her kasi if ever it the relationship develops into something serious willing ka to spend the rest of your life with her.          

but this takes time comrade. sometimes the intense attraction of love at first sight fades quickly as you get to know her better. sometimes naman din the attraction grows stronger lalo na pag nareaize mo over time na nasa kanya ang physical + non physical qualities na hinahanap mo sa babae.  Or ma realize mo na behind the facade is a monster waiting to be unleashed.

reminds me of this sweet sexy and intelligent girl i met . bright and funny pa. Went out about 4 times. Dumalaw pa ako sa kanila , met her family and she cooked a helluva dinner .

Until we kinda had a  fight ( i was late for a date and she had to wait for me in the hotel lobby for 2 hours ) and she morphed into a vicious bitch who uttered all sorts of mean things. Pag pasok sa kotse all through dinner at a resto she was fuming and kept ignoring my attempts to explain and patch things up. Went i brought her home ( dna kami nag coffee masungit talaga ) she slammed the car  door hard as she got down.

i ghosted her after that and she had the temerity to call me after about a week of no paramdam wanting to pick a  fight with me over the phone. I just said " sorry we're done " and ended our convo right there.                                        

[Bigshotbob32]

Just now, FF said:

you admire her not only for her bv or fv but also for qualities beyond the physical. you respect her because of her values and principles. you want her kasi if ever it the relationship develops into something serious willing ka to spend the rest of your life with her.          

but this takes time comrade. sometimes the intense attraction of love at first sight fades quickly as you get to know her better. sometimes naman din the attraction grows stronger lalo na pag nareaize mo over time na nasa kanya ang physical + non physical qualities na hinahanap mo sa babae.  Or ma realize mo na behind the facade is a monster waiting to be unleashed.

reminds me of this sweet sexy and intelligent girl i met . bright and funny pa. Went out about 4 times. Dumalaw pa ako sa kanila , met her family and she cooked a helluva dinner .

Until we kinda had a  fight ( i was late for a date and she had to wait for me in the hotel lobby for 2 hours ) and she morphed into a vicious bitch who uttered all sorts of mean things. Pag pasok sa kotse all through dinner at a resto she was fuming and kept ignoring my attempts to explain and patch things up. Went i brought her home ( dna kami nag coffee masungit talaga ) she slammed the car  door hard as she got down.

i ghosted her after that and she had the temerity to call me after about a week of no paramdam wanting to pick a  fight with me over the phone. I just said " sorry we're done " and ended our convo right there.                                        

Have you thought for the "What if" dito?

[FF]

4 minutes ago, Bigshotbob32 said:

Have you thought for the "What if" dito?

nope. a big NO NO kasi for me ang mean bitch with a vicious mouth.

Comrade a bit of advice .... list down TEN THINGS you cant stand in a woman ( wag lang physical . Ung ugali very impt). Like kasama sa list ko ung burara , hindi practical sa buhay , tamad , nagger , mean , mapangmata etc.

If she ticks off one or two in your list ...kaya mo bang tanggapin ?

[Bigshotbob32]

17 minutes ago, FF said:

nope. a big NO NO kasi for me ang mean bitch with a vicious mouth.

Comrade a bit of advice .... list down TEN THINGS you cant stand in a woman ( wag lang physical . Ung ugali very impt). Like kasama sa list ko ung burara , hindi practical sa buhay , tamad , nagger , mean , mapangmata etc.

If she ticks off one or two in your list ...kaya mo bang tanggapin ?

Yes. Mahirap yan. But no one is perfect right? Nagkakaroon talaga ng flaws ang isang tao, you cant have it all ika nga. But what is important is you learn to accept her flaws. And the reason behind it. Like ikaw ung may mali e. 2 hours un, I dont think any lady would still be smiling if she waited for 2 hours diba? Like ako ayaw ko ng topakin na babae, ung basta na lang magagalit. Madalas din namin pag awayan ni gf niyan. Lagi kong sinasabi na napaka liit na bagay kelangan bang pag awayan, tapos totopakin na din ako. But later on, inexplain niya sa akin na sometimes she is just having a bad day, tapos ako lang napagbuntunan ng inis and galit. And she is sorry for it. So natutunan ko na tanggapin.