*Jessie* Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 I want it frank, straight and honest. Para sa may asawa, planong mag asawa, open mag asawa, or may jowa. No matter how happy you are with your partner, do you still see yourself getting involved with another person? Why, why not? 2 Quote Link to comment
silvervic Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 Involved as in deeply involved? Well, IMHO, there are different levels of involvement in relationships. Pero whatever level that may be, ang deepest and most serious involvement na aatupagin ko is towards my wife. Siguro naman I can be friendly with women but not to the point where my emotional involvement towards them are greater than that of my involvement with my wife. So, to answer your question, I say no, I don't see myself being involved (as in in a serious, romantic, or even sexual relationship) with another woman. For me, gulo lang un. Gusto ko simple lang ang buhay. 1 Quote Link to comment
jc3187 Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 hmmm napapaisip ako ah, I would not know im not in any situation now Quote Link to comment
sleekee Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 yes, coz it has happened to me before. but once you're in the situation, you would rather not have put yourself into it. Quote Link to comment
Miggz Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 (edited) If I'm happy and things are going great, the decision not to fool around is so much easier Edited November 20, 2013 by Miggz Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 Involved as in deeply involved? Well, IMHO, there are different levels of involvement in relationships. Pero whatever level that may be, ang deepest and most serious involvement na aatupagin ko is towards my wife. Siguro naman I can be friendly with women but not to the point where my emotional involvement towards them are greater than that of my involvement with my wife. So, to answer your question, I say no, I don't see myself being involved (as in in a serious, romantic, or even sexual relationship) with another woman. For me, gulo lang un. Gusto ko simple lang ang buhay. I somewhat expected this answer from you, silvervic. Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 hmmm napapaisip ako ah, I would not know im not in any situation now I think you do know your answer very well. Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 (edited) This might be a very straight to the point question but Ive thinking about it for quite some time so I thought of creating a topic related to this. I am interested in the answers I will get. The question is for men and women to answer. BTW, I am kinda hoping to get good responses in spite of a huge possibility for most of us to hold back due to a loooooot of reasons. Edited November 20, 2013 by *Jessie* Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 If I'm happy and things are going great, the decision not to fool around is so much easier I feel you, man. Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 yes, coz it has happened to me before. but once you're in the situation, you would rather not have put yourself into it. I can imagine. And nobody in his/her right mind who would want to put themselves in that situation. Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 NO. Tapatan na. I have played around before and cheated once on an ex to get back at him but I think it's safe to say that if and when I am in a relationship or perhaps if I'm married then I wouldn't get myself involve with another person. It IS tempting. And masarap daw ang bawal. Pero I chose to be happy with that person hence I will be with him. So true. It IS tempting. SOOOOO tempting. It never leaves because temptation is in our heads. It stays unless we cut our heads off. I am glad you're setting you mind to choose the right and best decisions. Quote Link to comment
lone ranger one Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 Once your committed to your marriage.No More Fooling around. I have friends who try to cheat or fool with other women. End result is they have another family to feed and support or end up being single. Women now are more determined to raise a family alone. Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 Especially if lust overpowers you. But it is your (in this case, my) choice to be happy with someone Thanks for your topic, sis! Uh oh, lust when too much, just like other things, is bad enough. Haha! It should be pointed to the right direction Thanks for sharing sis. I kindov think the question is too revealing so some might not leave any comment at all. Lol Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 Once your committed to your marriage.No More Fooling around. I have friends who try to cheat or fool with other women. End result is they have another family to feed and support or end up being single. Women now are more determined to raise a family alone. Very realistic and reasonable. Thanks for sharing LRO. Quote Link to comment
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