Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Jaybee10]

2 hours ago, Janine of Beppu said:

Thank you ❤️

Sa lahat ng GM's Dyan di lahat ng thera Pera lang habol sa Inyo may mga thera din Po like me na kaya iwan lahat para sainyo na kaya mag Bago. -sheena 

 

 

It’s sad that your story doesn’t have a happy ending.. yet. Some of us can share even sadder stories, but it’s not about any of us.

All i can say is that there’s an invisible hand working mysteriously among all of us in this strange place. So don’t despair- rather, celebrate the kind of love you can offer to somebody that you can give up so much for something so uncertain.

Someday, at a time you may not expect, that invisible hand will guide someone to you- one truly deserving of the kind of love you offer.

I wish you well. 

Edited November 12, 2021 by Jaybee10

[rabbit1]

Move on sheena its not worth it. You'll find another man. Balik k na please.. 😜

[AdLibitum]

I had experienced dating a therapist who was new on the job and never really wanted to work in the first place, but was persuaded by her friends and wanted some extra money.

 

She was young and was about to graduate from college, I didn't pick her, she was called to service me at random, and when our eyes met, I instantly knew she had a thing for me. After abit of lackluster massage but very engaging conversation, I just went for a kiss, she was taken aback but slowly eased into it and kissed back.

 

We dated a couple more times and no need to explain what went on afterwards. I learned she worked as a casino dealer as well and was scheduled to leave for Laos to work there as an online casino dealer. She told me she didn't expect to really like me and initially only agreed to dating me just as a souvenir when leaving.

 

We video called almost everytime when she was on break and I was off work. I was beginning to really like her for real and not just out of lust. Then I learned she had a boyfriend she was still together with, the guy was.... I should say not the type who gets a lot of girls, was short, dark, and looked nerdy (Guess thats why she was more attracted to me lol). Anyway, I felt bad and told her I didn't like that she was with someone who had done nothing wrong to her. She said she was gonna break up with him soon anyway, still I chose to call it off with her. 

Though I didn't expect her reaction afterwards, she blocked me on social media, blocked me on messaging apps and didn't want to talk to me again..

From time to time I still stalk her account on social media but her account progressively became more private until you can no longer see anything inside without being friends with her (she can only send  you a request but you cant request her). Wonder how she is now, that was probably 4 years ago.

[jubal]

I think mag work lang ang relationahip between a sex worker and a patron if both can separate the sex from the love. 

Both should check if they can love each other while having sex with others.

[Richelle]

On 11/10/2021 at 4:30 AM, Grifter09 said:

Minsan kasi nkkdala kpg close n kau ng fav mo thera, minsan nga ngdala pa ko cake sa knya nun Bday nya, palagi ko pa sya dti pumunta sa work place nila, kaso nun lately hindi na pumapasok &  nalaman ko sa friend nya myroon na sya iba.. 🤔😪

Wag po madala at work lang din nila yun na sumaya at gumaan loob ni client. Unless nakilala mo ng totoo outside of work yung tunay nyang pagkatao. May buhay sila outside of work kaya ingat lang din po para di ma disapppint at malungkot. 

[sasha.camat]

Naalala ko naman yung nging gf ko sa Goodlife dati. Haha. Instant attraction yun and proud to say sya lng talaga at wala kasabayan.

Mahirap nga lng mafall sa thera kasi you know their job and earning from it is necessary. She did go back to school kaso di tinuloy din. Masakit yung breakup kasi thru txt lng. 

Last I heard, nakapangasawa ng lawyer. Very happy with her new life. Genuine happiness.

[ely_Malib]

it happen to me .. i got this thera a jolly thera..  every session is kulitan  i enjoy that , she have a police bf that time . well i don't care.   then i found myself longing for her, she transferred to different spa I followed her wherever she go. I really enjoy every moment with her. un na yun.. hahaha falling in love  not really  I   just enjoying the moment with her. bitin noh  

[MadeYouLook]

A lot of interesting experiences on this thread. The first time that this was introduced to me, ang naisip ko agad, for sure meron mga GMs na madali ma-fafall sa mga thera. Especially the girlfriend vibes that you get to experienced with them.

At the end of the day, its probably safe kung iisipin mo na hindi lang sila sayo ganun. Other guys will also have the 'special' treatment that you have experienced with them. So hindi ka ma-aattached emotionally sa thera and sa experience.

[Balmond1983]

Before may thera talaga ako na binabalik balikan and pakiramdam ko something is not right na. Un pala na fa fall na ako. Then i stop visiting her na. Kasi I know naman na wala din naman patutunguan. Pero until know pag naiisip ko, what if? 🥺

[Sakoh San]

I have my fair share of this thing...falling in love with my thera.  During that time she  quit  being  a thera and instead take on the job of being a Recep sabi niya for me daw yon. Perhaps it was true but perhaps it was not.  Talaga naman nakakataba ng puso ...its masarap isipin na she is doing it for me. Eventually like someone said its like being in a two different world. The relationship lasted for more than two years.

Now I have a thera na nkaka inlab talaga. Sana wag naman akong ma fall completely...

[francis019]

fellow gm's tanong lang? do you think it's practical to be in love with a thera? sa mga nag try mahirap ba?

[deatheater06]

7 minutes ago, francis019 said:

fellow gm's tanong lang? do you think it's practical to be in love with a thera? sa mga nag try mahirap ba?

Mahirap. Back read ka para magkaroon ka ng insights. 

[d i e g o]

On 11/12/2021 at 4:16 PM, Janine of Beppu said:

Thank you ❤️

Sa lahat ng GM's Dyan di lahat ng thera Pera lang habol sa Inyo may mga thera din Po like me na kaya iwan lahat para sainyo na kaya mag Bago. -sheena 

 

 

walang pera, tapos hindi pogi. kaya walang humahabol 🤣✌️

[ChoPaeng]

agree ako dito kaso meron din talagang theras na may "IT" factor. maybe a combination of looks, skills and connection.

If you fall talaga mahirap umahon.

[croix23]

On 11/17/2021 at 10:16 AM, francis019 said:

fellow gm's tanong lang? do you think it's practical to be in love with a thera? sa mga nag try mahirap ba?

Like lahat ng relationship.. Ndi madali pero ndi impossible.. Adjustment both sides.. Everyone has fault nmn.. Case to case basis.. 

Edited November 18, 2021 by fortz05