Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[IgniT1on]

Before meron pero since pandemic bihira nalang kami nagkakausap. Pero medyo natuto na rin kasi pag nagkaroon ka nang emotional attachment sa thera lagi mo siya iniisip at inaalala. Pero maisip mo na di naman din siya ganun sayo hahah.

[MinsanLang]

 

27 minutes ago, Boytukmol said:

Day 3 done... miss ko na talaga sya pero kelangan ko tiisin... i know this too shall pass. 🙏

Kaya mo yan bruh

[Madvillain]

20 hours ago, Boytukmol said:

Believe me guys, kung malaman nyo if sino ung thera, gano katagal na kami, and ano na pinagdaanan namin, you'd understand why i feel this way... but thanks for the pep talk... day 2 done

way way before din sir may nakilala din ako na ganyan, akala ko happy ever after na sila nung girl -- the guy is one of the kindest online person I know, and si girl naman napaka sweet pero naka ilang years din sila and hindi nagtagal sayang na sayang....bumalik pa nga si girl sa spa for a short while pero umalis din agad, but I feel for you and hope that you're situation gets better!

[malp05]

Umay tong mga to bro, wag kayong umasang masasave niyo yung girl. Etong girl ko ngayon akala ko hindi na magwawalk. Pero enough na talaga nung nakita kong nagpost nanaman siya. Umay. Ayoko na. Ang masasuggest ko lang, mahalin niyo ng sobra yung girl. Then pag nagloko kayo na mismo makakarealize na mali yung ginagawa niyo at kayo na mismo yung makikipagbreak/lalayo

[cutiechavez]

4 hours ago, malp05 said:

Umay tong mga to bro, wag kayong umasang masasave niyo yung girl. Etong girl ko ngayon akala ko hindi na magwawalk. Pero enough na talaga nung nakita kong nagpost nanaman siya. Umay. Ayoko na. Ang masasuggest ko lang, mahalin niyo ng sobra yung girl. Then pag nagloko kayo na mismo makakarealize na mali yung ginagawa niyo at kayo na mismo yung makikipagbreak/lalayo

saang ktv mo na meet

[Emperor Eye]

On 10/11/2021 at 12:00 AM, malp05 said:

Mga Sir, question lang din.

In your perspective, matatanggap mo ba na yung girlfriend mo eh nagwawalk dati? 

In my opinion kasi, oo pwede mong tanggapin pero hindi mo maaalis sa isip mo na nagawa niya yun at pwede niyang gawin yung anytime. Kaya mo bang tanggapin yun habangbuhay? 

Mahirap yan bro. It takes a lot of courage to step in that shoe. Nasa sayo kasi yan. kung talagang matatag ka. At kung kaya mo mag turn ng blind eye sa past nya and love her sincerly moving forward. Nde ako against it, kasi besfriend ko ung wife nya ngayon happily married sila with 2 kids. Wife nya dati nag wawalk and worst may sex scandal video na I myself napanood ko. ang magandang lesson kasi jan...

"Everyone deserves a second chance" 

 

and also hindi lahat ng Thera gusto ang ginagawa nila now. wala lang silang choice kasi dito lang talaga sila kumikita for the meantime pang tustus ng gastos , pagkain or pang skul nila. Kaya ako I salute lahat ng thera na working - thera / student - thera 

Edited October 14, 2021 by Emperor Eye

[deatheater06]

L-O-V-E them includes their dark past. Accept that ganun ang past nila.

lawakan ang pag-iisip.

wag maging selfish.

 

--can you love me even in my darkest?--

[burnout31]

23 minutes ago, deatheater06 said:

L-O-V-E them includes their dark past. Accept that ganun ang past nila.

lawakan ang pag-iisip.

wag maging selfish.

 

--can you love me even in my darkest?--

Agree

[Mollig]

I would be lying if I said that their past wouldn't affect me. however, I'm not going to be one to bring that up because I participated in and contributed to that past. When you love someone, you love them despite their flaws or past. You love them as a whole, and those are things that help make her who she is. The most important thing is to focus on the person.

But what if the theras had been burned in the past before? Where they've decided to never take a chance with a client ever again. Most theras are wonderful people and I have no doubt that they'd be able to find love out there, but it's just sad that their past hurts prevent them from giving a chance to those that would love them despite having an idea of what they've been through so far.

Edited October 15, 2021 by Mollig

[malp05]

16 hours ago, Emperor Eye said:

Mahirap yan bro. It takes a lot of courage to step in that shoe. Nasa sayo kasi yan. kung talagang matatag ka. At kung kaya mo mag turn ng blind eye sa past nya and love her sincerly moving forward. Nde ako against it, kasi besfriend ko ung wife nya ngayon happily married sila with 2 kids. Wife nya dati nag wawalk and worst may sex scandal video na I myself napanood ko. ang magandang lesson kasi jan...

"Everyone deserves a second chance" 

 

and also hindi lahat ng Thera gusto ang ginagawa nila now. wala lang silang choice kasi dito lang talaga sila kumikita for the meantime pang tustus ng gastos , pagkain or pang skul nila. Kaya ako I salute lahat ng thera na working - thera / student - thera 

Ayun, mahirap talagang timbangin pag ganyan ang reason nila. Pang gastos, school, etc. Pero tibay talaga ng sikmura kailangan ko para sa ganito. Feeling ko wala ako nun. Parang hindi ko kaya. Kahit ilang beses kong isipin na malalagpasan din ito, parang hindi ko pa din kaya eh. Lalo na pag nakikita mo yung post niya tapos may mga nagcocomment. Nakaka sira ng ulo.

[malp05]

16 hours ago, cutiechavez said:

saang ktv mo na meet

Di siya thera bro, nakita ko lang sa fb

[malp05]

13 hours ago, deatheater06 said:

L-O-V-E them includes their dark past. Accept that ganun ang past nila.

lawakan ang pag-iisip.

wag maging selfish.

 

--can you love me even in my darkest?--

What if ginagawa pa din until now? 

[deatheater06]

4 minutes ago, malp05 said:

What if ginagawa pa din until now? 

it's your call.

for me if tatamaan ako ulet sa thera. matic aalisin ko na sya sa work nya. i can provide naman. i'll give her new options or should  i say a "fresh start"

if di mo kayang alisin sya at walang kang resources to support her. di tiis tiis ka muna. endure the pain.  

nagmahal ka ng thera. accept the reality.   

 

[cutiechavez]

learn to play their game

[malp05]

9 minutes ago, deatheater06 said:

it's your call.

for me if tatamaan ako ulet sa thera. matic aalisin ko na sya sa work nya. i can provide naman. i'll give her new options or should  i say a "fresh start"

if di mo kayang alisin sya at walang kang resources to support her. di tiis tiis ka muna. endure the pain.  

nagmahal ka ng thera. accept the reality.   

 

I can support her kung gugustuhin ko sir. Ang winoworry ko, kung sure ba akong totoo to? What if ginagawa niya pa din? I'm having trust issues na kasi. What if sinupport ko din then mababalewala din hanggang huli? Yung mga ganung thoughts sir.