Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Richang]

On 10/6/2021 at 2:37 PM, PeopleSupport said:

Imposible maging successful ang relationship sa thera if hindi mo sya mai-aalis sa work nya.. Ok lang na doon mo sya nakilala.. pero habang nandoon sya.. turture yon.. isipin mo na lang na pag hatid mo sa kanya sa work.. may naghihintay na ibang lalaki sa kanya.. or pag sinundo mo sya.. hindi mo alam kung ilan ang naging guest nya at anong service ginawa nya doon.

 

Agree. Yan ang nararamdaman ko. Not in a relationship naman, pero i really like my thera. Sarap usapan pag bumibisita ako sa spa. Nagcha chat din madalas lalo sa gabi. Nagseselos na nga ako pag may nababasa akong mga FR sa kanya. Pero naiisip ko nman n mali kase alam kong hindi nman sya ma in love sa akin at married ako. Special lng sya sa akin. Hanggang dun n lang.

[Madvillain]

8 minutes ago, Richang said:

Agree. Yan ang nararamdaman ko. Not in a relationship naman, pero i really like my thera. Sarap usapan pag bumibisita ako sa spa. Nagcha chat din madalas lalo sa gabi. Nagseselos na nga ako pag may nababasa akong mga FR sa kanya. Pero naiisip ko nman n mali kase alam kong hindi nman sya ma in love sa akin at married ako. Special lng sya sa akin. Hanggang dun n lang.

same here bro, special lang siya sa iyo and di ka niya magugustuhan kasi she was the most in demand thera during that time and even though I was separated I knew BF sa may lugar nila, a foreigner who financially supports her and a good friend who went the best mileage from her (standard lang kasi mileage ko, hahahaha )

 

 

[Richang]

22 minutes ago, harahirana said:

same here bro, special lang siya sa iyo and di ka niya magugustuhan kasi she was the most in demand thera during that time and even though I was separated I knew BF sa may lugar nila, a foreigner who financially supports her and a good friend who went the best mileage from her (standard lang kasi mileage ko, hahahaha )

 

 

She is continuing her studies habang working sya sa spa.  The only thing i can give her is to keep on motivating her not to stop school at pilitin nyang makatapos. Full support ako sa kanya, not financially ha. Kse ayaw nya din tumanggap ng ayuda sa akin. Telling her also to put a timeline sa pag work nya sa spa. Pag na reach nya na yun, leave already if she wants to live normally na walang tinatago. Hindi habambuhay nasa spa sya. 

[burnout31]

1 hour ago, Richang said:

She is continuing her studies habang working sya sa spa.  The only thing i can give her is to keep on motivating her not to stop school at pilitin nyang makatapos. Full support ako sa kanya, not financially ha. Kse ayaw nya din tumanggap ng ayuda sa akin. Telling her also to put a timeline sa pag work nya sa spa. Pag na reach nya na yun, leave already if she wants to live normally na walang tinatago. Hindi habambuhay nasa spa sya. 

I agree with your Sir, motivation and moral support 👍

[Richang]

12 hours ago, burnout31 said:

I agree with your Sir, motivation and moral support 👍

I am proud of her.  We first met, high school graduate lng sya. Everytime magkukwentuhan kame, we always talk about her finishing her studies. Now, she is already in 3rd year. More than a year n lng at graduate n sya ng college.

[burnout31]

3 hours ago, Richang said:

I am proud of her.  We first met, high school graduate lng sya. Everytime magkukwentuhan kame, we always talk about her finishing her studies. Now, she is already in 3rd year. More than a year n lng at graduate n sya ng college.

Grabe Boss, your the man! just keep it up, 

[Mollig]

Happy for you guys.

On my end, a thera that has become dear to me just got annoyed when I tried to help her out. She wouldn't take money from me and wanted to do this herself. She said she wanted to study a certain course, so I looked up free online options to help her do this, as well as find ways she could turn her actual day job experience into credits for certificate courses. She found it annoying. I haven't really visited her as a customer since a few months ago, but we're still friends. It still kind of sucked hearing that from her though. She had plans to stop working at spas this year. She was hoping to have done that last month, but she's still in the industry.

[Richang]

8 hours ago, burnout31 said:

Grabe Boss, your the man! just keep it up, 

Actually, no financial assistance from me. Ayaw nya.

[Stallon6]

On 10/7/2021 at 9:22 PM, Mollig said:

It's nice hearing stories from those that have made things work out. I don't see many of these in the thera's perspective threads.

Probably, those theras that have fixed their lives dont wanna look back or even left this site.

[malp05]

Mga Sir, question lang din.

In your perspective, matatanggap mo ba na yung girlfriend mo eh nagwawalk dati? 

In my opinion kasi, oo pwede mong tanggapin pero hindi mo maaalis sa isip mo na nagawa niya yun at pwede niyang gawin yung anytime. Kaya mo bang tanggapin yun habangbuhay? 

[Madvillain]

17 hours ago, Boytukmol said:

The million dollar question is how do you stop? Alam mong ginagago ka na, alam mong niloloko ka na, alam mong pera pera lang lahat, pero d mo parin matigilan 🥺 

How do you "break-up" and pano panindigan yon... 😒 help 😒

I think to remedy this is kung titikim ka ng iba......para makita mo there are options!

[burnout31]

1 hour ago, Boytukmol said:

I just did it... finally gathered the courage to end it... d ko na talaga kaya. Pera pera lang talaga. Sya pa ang defensive 🤦‍♂️ i just hope na mapanindigan ko na to... wish me luck guys 🤞

Bro your emotional health is much more important. Better to keep yourself busy and something to hold onto habang nasa stage ka pa na ganyan.. Good luck Sir!

[deatheater06]

mas ok yung client-thera lang.

don't go below the belt.

masakit.

 

[Richang]

On 10/11/2021 at 6:26 AM, harahirana said:

I think to remedy this is kung titikim ka ng iba......para makita mo there are options!

Agree. Look for other theras para mag stop k n sa kanya. Pero dapat hindi k uli mag fall s susunod.

[Harding]

23 hours ago, deatheater06 said:

mas ok yung client-thera lang.

don't go below the belt.

masakit.

 

sa dami ng thera choices. di ka mauubusan ng flavors . baka ikaw ang magsawa