cutiechavez Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 ano mas kadiri? ma in love sa pokpok, or ma in love sa katulong? parang pareho lang kadiri bro wag naman ganun, be thankful nalang hindi mo need mamasukan as katulong, or d mo need makipag sex para sa money, tao din sila, kinulang lang sa choice sa buhay, Quote Link to comment
Cartof Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 Have been close to having this problem before. I've probably been infatuated with my fair share of theras in the past. Kind of hard not to, the good ones are not only beautiful, they can also be really warm and charming. Problem is if I have what it takes to take the next step. Can I provide for this woman, considering how much her earnings are from this line of work. For those that have a kid(s), would I be able to love their kids as my own? Knowing the extent of their experience, will I be able to satisfy them in bed? There are all sorts of questions that I can't be too sure that I can answer in the positive, so I've tried to keep myself from developing feelings. It just gets hard at times. Some of these ladies are genuinely amazing and are only living in hard times and have very little recourse than to do what they do. Quote Link to comment
Madvillain Posted August 19, 2021 Share Posted August 19, 2021 better fall in love with an office lady or even a mall saleslady if you want someone simple.... Quote Link to comment
Terminator15 Posted August 19, 2021 Share Posted August 19, 2021 Possible but mahirap Quote Link to comment
Zarbor Posted August 21, 2021 Share Posted August 21, 2021 It’s been 15 years for us although we have not seen each other since Feb 2020 - l guess it’s a good thing still Quote Link to comment
Player Number 1 Posted August 24, 2021 Share Posted August 24, 2021 Acceptance is the key Quote Link to comment
harry1001 Posted August 25, 2021 Share Posted August 25, 2021 This is hard. But maybe worth it? Quote Link to comment
wreckage Posted August 25, 2021 Share Posted August 25, 2021 Sabi nga ng mga die-hard romantics: "pinagtagpo pero di pinagtapos", "nagkakilala pero di nagkatadhana" Masakit na masarap - I have been almost victim to this type of infatuation/emotional relationship and I've had my fair share of bad "break-ups" - the thing is our reality dictates to just live in that moment for what ever its worth you could end up with a friend in the end Quote Link to comment
kepner2010 Posted August 25, 2021 Share Posted August 25, 2021 To avoid such development of feelings, just put up a mindset of a business relationship. It may be a cold approach, but like restaurants, you frequent the place because of good food and ambiance, but you never fall in a romantic relationship with the restaurant. I also have a number of favorite theras which I frequently visit (before the COVID-19 pandemic) I am close to them as friends. Quote Link to comment
Terminator15 Posted August 25, 2021 Share Posted August 25, 2021 Reality check: 1. You need to accept na other men would be touching her 2. If you want her to stop, then you should be able to provide her needs Quote Link to comment
Madvillain Posted August 26, 2021 Share Posted August 26, 2021 you just have to avoid and have multiple thera partners, pag nag exclusive ka sa 1 thera, it's all downhill from there, you will end up falling in love with that thera... better to have multiple para no emotions 1 Quote Link to comment
Iceh0t Posted August 27, 2021 Share Posted August 27, 2021 Not a good foundation to start a relationship. Quote Link to comment
kenL Posted August 27, 2021 Share Posted August 27, 2021 Almost had a relationship with a thera.... Pero may gf ako at that time, getting to know stage pa lang un with thera and getting to break sa gf.. kaso nkita nia ako sa trinoma with gf, so epic fail ang thera moment ko sna.. too bad.. Quote Link to comment
deatheater06 Posted August 27, 2021 Share Posted August 27, 2021 (edited) i got a fair share on this topic. gusto ko si thera pero she got a huge wall. iba daw ang personal sa work. i asked her if we can progress to the next level. ayun di ako sinagot. she kept me hanging there. i think she is just protecting herself from pain and disappointments or i should say the harsh reality of her job. i really care for that lady. SEX is not just a physical act it is the invincible force that penetrates the SOUL Edited August 27, 2021 by deatheater06 1 Quote Link to comment
BabyInvisible Posted August 28, 2021 Share Posted August 28, 2021 I agree from the previous post na infatuation lng at hindi talaga love, marahil sa nakukuha nila ung hindi nila sa current circle nila, madali sabihin na tanggap mo ung ginagawa nila habang wala ka pa sa puntong magka relasyon kayo pero kadalasan un din ang sisira sa relasyon nyo. 1 Quote Link to comment
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