Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Ayuzak Amishim]

Saludo ako sayo sir and courage to share your story. If I may ask how do you keep your relationship be strong and flourish given that you guys have different status?

Simple lang boss, be transparent to each other. Pinasok niyo yung ganung relation, magtataguan paba kayo? Mahirap yung habang tumatagal saka palang nalalaman yung kung anu man yung meron sa isa't isa kaya mas okay yung ilabas mo na kaagad lahat ng baraha then nasa inyo na lang kung tanggap niyo isa't isa

[chessboxin]

Simple lang ang buhay. Walang dapat mag dikta sayo kung anong relationship ang magpapasaya sayo, pero wala ka rin dapat sisihin pag pumalpak ang relationship mo kasi wala naman nagpilit sayo na pumasok dun.

 

In short you reap the rewards but you also bear whatever burden.

 

Maiksi lang buhay natin. On average, 70 years lang tayo sa mundong ito. Pag napasaya ka nya kahit 2-3 years lang, magpasalamat ka na.

[Momochichang]

Sinasabihan ko lagi mga thera ng I love you pero tumatawa lang sila..

[dexterslab69]

I dont see anything wrong with falling in love with a thera. But if you really love one, shouldnt you take her out of her current situation? The way I see it, if you still allow her to see other guests and it does not bother you, then you are either using her to get freebies and/or you are currently in a relationship with somebody else and the thera is just a side chick. So please dont be that a**hole and say you love somebody when your actions show otherwise.

Edited January 23, 2021 by dexterslab69

[Mambamentality824]

Sana mabasa mo ito miss HAZEL of Siren Spa. I loss your contacts. Amiss danaka malagu. Pls pm me kung San ka ngayon. <3

[xxx0909]

Simple lang boss, be transparent to each other. Pinasok niyo yung ganung relation, magtataguan paba kayo? Mahirap yung habang tumatagal saka palang nalalaman yung kung anu man yung meron sa isa't isa kaya mas okay yung ilabas mo na kaagad lahat ng baraha then nasa inyo na lang kung tanggap niyo isa't isa

Salamat sa pagsagot sa tanong ko sir. Sabagay you only live once nga naman so enjoy lang until nandyan pa. Kung naiitindihan nyo naman yung status differences nyo go lang. Anyways, goodluck sir and wishing you the best

 

On topic:

 

Hindi naman masama or mali ma fall sa thera kasi may kanya kanya story naman sila bat sila pumasok sa ganun work and tao rin naman sila.Ang masasabi ko lang is matinding pag unawa at lakas ng loob kung sakaling nahulog ka talaga. Yung tipong makakayanan mo basahin or balewalain yung FRs ng ibang GM sa kanya and kaya mong lihisin yung mga negative na pumapasok sa utak mo kung ano pinag gagawa nya sa cubicle or room etc.

[manoy buknoy]

I dont see anything wrong with falling in love with a thera. But if you really love one, shouldnt you take her out of her current situation? The way I see it, if you still allow her to see other guests and it does not bother you, then you are either using her to get freebies and/or you are currently in a relationship with somebody else and the thera is just a side chick. So please dont be that a**hole and say you love somebody when your actions show otherwise.

 

Eto pakinggan nyo mga thera.

[newklys]

I definitely agree with this one. Theras deserve love too, just like the rest of us. One never really chooses love's timing. Kung sa thera nahulog ang puso mo, as long as the feeling is true, then there's nothing wrong with that. However, if you really love her, you have to completely accept who or what she is. And dapat siya lang. Nobody deserves to be told you love them pero side chick lang pala. And since most of theras out there are really there for livelihood, you should take her out of her current occupation.

 

 

I dont see anything wrong with falling in love with a thera. But if you really love one, shouldnt you take her out of her current situation? The way I see it, if you still allow her to see other guests and it does not bother you, then you are either using her to get freebies and/or you are currently in a relationship with somebody else and the thera is just a side chick. So please dont be that a**hole and say you love somebody when your actions show otherwise.

[chessboxin]

pinaka mahirap yung matagal kayo magkasama (sometimes years kayo magkakilala), tapos bigla na lang hindi macontact at blocked ka. Kahit naman siguro gaano katigas ang puso mo, kahit papaano nagka attachment ka din sa isang tao na nagshare kayo sa isat isa ng buhay, kasiyahan at problema nyo.

 

pag may feelings na involved na, dyan mo marrealize na kahit maglabas ka ng isang milyon may mga bagay talaga na di mo mabibili. Kaya imbis na maging malungkot ka at mag mukmok sa gilid, maging thankful ka na lang na nabigyan ka ng magandang panaginip, even just for a while.

Edited February 3, 2021 by kannon

[godfinger]

pinaka mahirap yung matagal kayo magkasama (sometimes years kayo magkakilala), tapos bigla na lang hindi macontact at blocked ka. Kahit naman siguro gaano katigas ang puso mo, kahit papaano nagka attachment ka din sa isang tao na nagshare kayo sa isat isa ng buhay, kasiyahan at problema nyo.

 

pag may feelings na involved na, dyan mo marrealize na kahit maglabas ka ng isang milyon may mga bagay talaga na di mo mabibili. Kaya imbis na maging malungkot ka at mag mukmok sa gilid, maging thankful ka na lang na nabigyan ka ng magandang panaginip, even just for a while.

maraming hindi nabibili ang isang milyon

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

Its good to know that this thread is open and active again.

[Iceman7]

I have been hearing stories about GMs trying to play the role of the White Knight by offering financial assistance during these hard times to their Thera Loves. But only to ask for their money back later.

 

My thought on this is if you are not able to part with the money why offer it in the first place? Is one trying so show they have wealth when they really don't have that kind of cash to spare?

 

There are some instances where I can see when the GM would get angry and want their money back, like if one where to offer 20k to help with the mother and child of the Thera only to find out her BF/Pimp baby daddy is doing nothing but playing games on the computer getting free sex and the possibility of part of that 20k goes to the BF/Pimp baby daddy weekly allowance.

Or the possibility of the 20k really being used so the Thera and her BF/pimp baby daddy can go on vacation somewhere.

 

I would get mad AF myself and make a big deal about it as well and want my money back.

 

But what I am getting at is if you know you can't part with the money don't bother offering it.

 

Times are tough right now and I know there are going to be more situations where money is going to be asked for.

Edited February 7, 2021 by Iceman7

[Shade of blue]

Once na nahuli mo ang gf mo na nag lie and na feel mo na may ibang gusto lalo na inuulit ulit nya makipagkita or tumatakas masakit pala sobra

Kaya ever since hirap na ibalik ang trust sa kanya

[dreyk]

Ang lahat naman nadadaan sa tamang usapan diba. Kailangan lang pareho kayo merong pagkakaunawaan sa isat isa at tiwala na makakayanan ang lahat. Hndi naman nakukuha sa pabibigla bigla ang lahat, dapat marunong tayo umintindi at umunawa. Mahirap maitama ang mga bawat pagkakamali pero kung magkakaroon ng tiwala at supporta malalampasan lahat lalo na kung kayong 2 nagtutulungan. Hndi biro magkaroon ng ganitong relasyon dahil pareho kayo kailangan magkaroon ng malalim na pagunawa. Masmatatag ang pagsasama hndi lang sa saya kundi sabay nyo haharapin ang bawat problema. Pagpapahalaga at importansya ang kailangan ng 2.

[DarkPill]

Acceptance is the key.