Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[LaBianca]

Ito pa

april 2018 ang acct ni medicsman ginawa

ako july 9 naging thera sa gemszen so papaano na ako si medicsman

haysss... Ikaw sino kb talga kagagawa mo lang ng acct nung isang araw...

Kasuhan mo ng libel yan pag abogada ka na ahhhh wahahaha hina-harm ang reputation mooo!

[Frostburn]

Well bro asking you now?

Paano ka ng conclude agad na si mavic ay si medicsman? Regular guest at client ako ni ms mavic and she always tell a story about that person minsan ko pa ngang nakasalubong yan. Kay Ms.Mavic na nanggaling April 29 2018 ginawa ang account ni medicsman at naging thera si Ms.Mavic ay july 9 2018 so papano mangyayari yun. At bakit nya gagawin yan? She's not that kind of girl. Kung sisiraan at ngpapasikat ka lang wag mo nang balakin dahil hindi ka mananalo dahil mas kilala namin sya sayo. Kung nagamit nya man mnsan ang account na yun dmo ba naisip na baka client nya that time si medicsman.

[Frostburn]

Oo naman..

[The Queen Mavic2/Shiela]

Well bro asking you now?

Paano ka ng conclude agad na si mavic ay si medicsman? Regular guest at client ako ni ms mavic and she always tell a story about that person minsan ko pa ngang nakasalubong yan. Kay Ms.Mavic na nanggaling April 29 2018 ginawa ang account ni medicsman at naging thera si Ms.Mavic ay july 9 2018 so papano mangyayari yun. At bakit nya gagawin yan? She's not that kind of girl. Kung sisiraan at ngpapasikat ka lang wag mo nang balakin dahil hindi ka mananalo dahil mas kilala namin sya sayo. Kung nagamit nya man mnsan ang account na yun dmo ba naisip na baka client nya that time si medicsman.

Boom!

Bakit offline na sya after na sya after nyang magpost ng ganun...

alternick pa more

 

Medicsman labas kana ksi pati ako nadadamay sayo...

kokotongan kita pag nakita kita hahahaahha

 

Yaan mo pag ikaw reservation ko medicsman ilalagay ko na hahahahh

[FleurDeLune]

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[barrackbeard]

I used to have a gf in my work but one time we just fell out of love.

We decided to give space to each other while we assess our feelings.

However, she moved on very fast and soon had a new lover.

 

I knew I still love her but I am quite sure she doesn't feel the same way to me anymore, so I had to let go.

I started having panic attacks whenever I see her and my work was slowly getting affected.

 

I decided to seek help from a professional/therapist about my anxiety.

She really helped me a lot to get back on track and soon I am back on my feet.

She is in her mid 30s, single mom, and quite pretty and well-maintened body.

I started to feel attraction to her but I am trying to fight it as I know it's unethical.

I still visit her from time to time.

For now, I just enjoy her company whenever I have the chance and let things fall to where it should fall.

[jc44 - RETIRED]

Awww, all the old content is gone

 

Anyway, to repost: it will always depend on both parties to make it work. Definitely the circumstances will he unique. But in the end, the couple will have to work to make their relationship last, just like any other couple.

 

Siguro, kelangan din ng personal clarity, lalo na sa client. Talaga bang mahal mo yung thera? Or baka naman akala mo pagmamahal, yun pala infatuation na may halong libog lang? Or baka akala mo special ang trato sa iyo ni thera, not knowing na ganun siya sa lahat ng client niya?

 

Love that is not reciprocated isnt love. It is infatuation. Mas malala, baka obsession na.

Edited November 2, 2018 by johncarter44

[Kingkongphils]

 

As what I always tell her, "Di bale nang ako ang masaktan huwag lang ikaw dahil ako ang may pananagutan sa nararamdaman ko. Ang importante masaya ako kung anong meron tayo ngayon kahit malabo sa hinaharap."

Hmmm.. Parang narinig ko na etong exact words na ito boss.... Unconditional love pla ang magandang tawag matagal ko na hinahanap ung term na yun. Para sakin, I can probably give unconditional, but I could not give un ending love. Kailangan may katapusan dn ang ginagawa nya, like what one GM said on the previously closed forum, kailangan may timeline, and I guess thats the right approach. Sakin lng the good thing about loving, is that it makes you want to be better, to do better. Kung hindi mo nakukuha yun e I think its bound to fail.

[Sharp Snipes😎]

Hmmm.. Parang narinig ko na etong exact words na ito boss.... Unconditional love pla ang magandang tawag matagal ko na hinahanap ung term na yun. Para sakin, I can probably give unconditional, but I could not give un ending love. Kailangan may katapusan dn ang ginagawa nya, like what one GM said on the previously closed forum, kailangan may timeline, and I guess thats the right approach. Sakin lng the good thing about loving, is that it makes you want to be better, to do better. Kung hindi mo nakukuha yun e I think its bound to fail.

 

Exactly boss. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE is the best term to describe.

[mikemurphy0305]

Mahirap talaga Ma in Love sa kanila, everyday kelangan mong harapin sa sarili mo na ME makakasama na naman s’ya na ibang lalake, ang hirap tanggapin pero kelangan tibayan mo ang loob mo kung gusto mong mag work ang relationship n’yo, napakarami pang lalake na gustong kunin s’ya syo dahil ginagamit nila ang weakness ng thera na kelangan ng pera kya binibili nila ang feeling ng thera, nakakainis pero wala lng magagawa dhil part ng Risk yan pag ng mahal ka ng isang thera. Siguro dun mo din masusubukan kung mahal ka tlga ng GF mo na thera. Andun pa ung mga lalaking mga Aya sa labas ng spa para mgawa nila ung mga gusto nilang gawin na hindi pwede gawin sa workplace. Right now im in deep s@%t im so in Love with her pero parang nagbago na s’ya sa akin ginawa n n’ya ung mga hindi n’ya dapat ginawa. Iniiwasan n’ya na din ako its Been 4 days na hindi ko na s’ya nakikita, and im so lost im so down right now, gusto ko na nga tapusin tong buhay na ito andami ko ng lumalabas na problema sa trabaho dhil D nko makatrabaho ng maayos kaka isip sa kanya at kung ano bang nagawa ko para bigla siyang magbago skn, hindi ko na alam ang gagawin ko andami ko ng iniiisip isang araw na lng cguro bibigay na ung katawan ko para matapos na ito

[CardingTigas]

Eto lang yan mga tol, Don't get involved, it won't end well, constant stress lang yan...yang love-love na yan hindi naman nyan mapapakain yun family ng girl eh...but if you love drama in your life, then go for it...

Edited November 3, 2018 by CardingTigas

[CardingTigas]

Mahirap talaga Ma in Love sa kanila, everyday kelangan mong harapin sa sarili mo na ME makakasama na naman sya na ibang lalake, ang hirap tanggapin pero kelangan tibayan mo ang loob mo kung gusto mong mag work ang relationship nyo, napakarami pang lalake na gustong kunin sya syo dahil ginagamit nila ang weakness ng thera na kelangan ng pera kya binibili nila ang feeling ng thera, nakakainis pero wala lng magagawa dhil part ng Risk yan pag ng mahal ka ng isang thera. Siguro dun mo din masusubukan kung mahal ka tlga ng GF mo na thera. Andun pa ung mga lalaking mga Aya sa labas ng spa para mgawa nila ung mga gusto nilang gawin na hindi pwede gawin sa workplace. Right now im in deep s@%t im so in Love with her pero parang nagbago na sya sa akin ginawa n nya ung mga hindi nya dapat ginawa. Iniiwasan nya na din ako its Been 4 days na hindi ko na sya nakikita, and im so lost im so down right now, gusto ko na nga tapusin tong buhay na ito andami ko ng lumalabas na problema sa trabaho dhil D nko makatrabaho ng maayos kaka isip sa kanya at kung ano bang nagawa ko para bigla siyang magbago skn, hindi ko na alam ang gagawin ko andami ko ng iniiisip isang araw na lng cguro bibigay na ung katawan ko para matapos na ito

Nako brader, baka kailangan mo na ng professional help, mahirap yan, hndi ka na maka trabaho nasisira pa ulo mo kakaisip dun sa girl, wag ka ma ooffend brother ah, been there done that, pero eto garantisado it will not end well para sayo, kasi sya at the end of the day, madali sa kanya makakahanap ng papalit sayo pag naubos ka na, take this with a grain of salt, pairalin mo yun isip mo brader...huwag mo sayangin buhay mo para sa ganyan lang...believe me, s@%t is about to hit the fan if you won't take control of your life...

[jackie8820]

Rule no. 1: There are no rules, just be prepared for the ride of your life. Exciting...rollercoaster of emotions. No judgement, everyone is free to love and to be loved. No rule of thumb to follow. Magpakatotoo lang po tayo. It will be a memorable experience.

[Kingkongphils]

Nako brader, baka kailangan mo na ng professional help, mahirap yan, hndi ka na maka trabaho nasisira pa ulo mo kakaisip dun sa girl, wag ka ma ooffend brother ah, been there done that, pero eto garantisado it will not end well para sayo, kasi sya at the end of the day, madali sa kanya makakahanap ng papalit sayo pag naubos ka na, take this with a grain of salt, pairalin mo yun isip mo brader...huwag mo sayangin buhay mo para sa ganyan lang...believe me, s@%t is about to hit the fan if you won't take control of your life...

This is so true. Madali ka nyang palitan pag ubos ka na.