Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[neymarjr]

it's difficult and challenging!

good luck sa mga maiinlove

[shampooh]

Pagbinulungan ka ng suki mong thera safe ako ngayon pwede mo iputok sa loob paktay ka na nyan

[PreventerWind]

In fairness nmn talaga sa thera. Money will always be involved. In my point of view mas mahirap pag ung thera asa industry kht na may kaya sya or ung family nya e may kaya. Kasi karamihan sa kanila wala dn alam na mapupuntahan. Yes masabi natin na ayaw kasi mag batak ng buto, pero minsan mas sa kanila isacrifice na nila ung katawan nila para maka provide ng mas malaki sa family nila. One thera friend said, medyo nag away daw sila ng family nya kaya nakitulog sa apartment ko. Well wala naman ako dun, pero she said, nasigawan dw nya magulang mya kasi na stress daw sya, kasi short of prinepressure sya na magbigay ng mas malaki. Parang gusto daw nyang sabihin na, kung alam mo lng ang ginagawa ko para lang sa pera na yan... Kinda breaks your heart when you hear it. Well life is not fair but probably if you stick with it, maybe it will find a way to balance it in the end. Same din cguro sa pag ibig. Maybe it will happen maybe not, hindi ka naman pababayaan...

Ganyan din sir problema nung thera na kakilala ko. Pinalayas daw sya sa bahay nila eh. Tsk tsk.

[paladin71]

Natawa ako noong nabasa ko ito sa fb...

 

"Masakit kapag yung mahal mo may feelings pa sa Ex nya.

 

Pero may sasakit pa ba kung isang araw magising ka na lang na SILA NA ULIT AT IKAW NA ANG EX."

 

May sagot ako dito... mas masakit yung nagtanong ka kung anong nangyari sa inyo, ang sinabi ay naging tayo ba? 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😳😳😳

[paladin71]

Ako'y gigising na

Sa panaginip kong ito

At sa wakas ay kusang lalayo sa iyo

 

Sumabay sa agos na isinulat ng tadhana

Minsan siya'y para sa iyo

Pero minsan siya'y paasa

Tatakbo papalayo

Kakalimutan ang lahat

 

Pero kahit saan man lumingon

Nasusulyapan ang kahapon

At sa aking bawat paghinga

Ikaw ang nasa isip ko sinta

 

Kaya't pasensya ka na

Sa mga kathang isip kong ito

Wari'y dala lang ng pagmamahal sa iyo

Ako'y gigising na

Mula sa panaginip kong ito

At sa wakas ay kusang lalayo sa iyo

Diba nga ito ang iyong gusto?

O, ito'y lilisan na ako

 

- Kathang isip. Song by ben&ben

[fuckboi]

Pagbinulungan ka ng suki mong thera safe ako ngayon pwede mo iputok sa loob paktay ka na nyan

 

hahaha yare!

[Stewart Gilligan Griffin]

Pagbinulungan ka ng suki mong thera safe ako ngayon pwede mo iputok sa loob paktay ka na nyan

Paano kung sabi ni thera wag mo ipuputok sa loob pero nung sinabi nya yun pumutok na sabay pa kayo hayzzz

[shampooh]

Mas.masarap yun; nalala ko ex ko; first meet namin tagal nya mag come so tinanggal ko condom; sabay kami nagcome sa loob; that time kasi sawa na alo sa condom; kakasawa araw araw co dom dba; so pag kami nag walk dati nakasanayan na namin na wala condom hahaha

[Brodyyy]

Hindi ko alam kung na love at first sight ako sa isang thera pero I really can't stop thinking of her. Ung mata, ung ilong at ung labi sobrang perfect lahat. Gandang ganda ako sakanya.Tapos laplapan talaga to the max ang nangyare. She said she doesn't normally do it. Yung FK. Gusto ko siyang ligawan. Any tips? Kahit friends lang would be perfect.

[c@rl0]

Cge push nyo Lang feelings nyo tutal eh minsan Lang mabuhay. Siguraduhin nyo Lang di kayo ma obsessed. Hahaha

Kung di mo Kaya ilabas si thera, shut up ka na Lang sa feelings or relationship na gusto mo. Pareho talo in the end.

[BlackHoleSun]

Meron talagang player na thera. They would really make you fall in love with them. But in reality, they only love themselves.

Until they encounter a GM they like na todo pa-fall. Being a player does not mean you are not susceptible of being played at. Most of the time, “players” sila kasi this is how they defend themselves and keep themselves sane. But when the tables are turned hindi rin nila kakayanin.

 

Therapists will always bank on “love” to win customers and have regulars. Pero it does not mean they only love themselves. True, meron dyan iilan na scarred na from past experiences and are on a self-destructive downward spiral. But most are really just trying to make a living. Para sa pamilya nila, sa pangarap nila, sa anak nila kung meron. The impression on us GMs may be different, but its a difficult way of living din. Kaya most of the time they appear to only love themselves kasi they go through or have gone through more crap than what we usually take.

 

Kaya para saken don’t dismiss your feelings lalo na kung mutual naman. Tipong after N visits ramdam niyo na may chemistry kayo. Kung anuman yung nararamdaman mo, as a GM be direct about it. Tell her what you really feel. Kung libog lang ba yan o love na talaga haha. The more both of assumes what really is going on between the two of you, the more na magiging mahirap. Fubu lang ba o full on relationship? Pwede meet outside or sa spa lang? Mag-tip pa ba or in-kind na lang? Your thera will appreciate it, I assure you.

[aquaman12]

labs mo nga, labs ka ba? for some reason they can easily switch off their feelings and continue sa work to pursue their goals. unless very deep na ang feelings and you have the moola to make it last

[MrPerfect]

Until they encounter a GM they like na todo pa-fall. Being a player does not mean you are not susceptible of being played at. Most of the time, players sila kasi this is how they defend themselves and keep themselves sane. But when the tables are turned hindi rin nila kakayanin.

 

Therapists will always bank on love to win customers and have regulars. Pero it does not mean they only love themselves. True, meron dyan iilan na scarred na from past experiences and are on a self-destructive downward spiral. But most are really just trying to make a living. Para sa pamilya nila, sa pangarap nila, sa anak nila kung meron. The impression on us GMs may be different, but its a difficult way of living din. Kaya most of the time they appear to only love themselves kasi they go through or have gone through more crap than what we usually take.

 

Kaya para saken dont dismiss your feelings lalo na kung mutual naman. Tipong after N visits ramdam niyo na may chemistry kayo. Kung anuman yung nararamdaman mo, as a GM be direct about it. Tell her what you really feel. Kung libog lang ba yan o love na talaga haha. The more both of assumes what really is going on between the two of you, the more na magiging mahirap. Fubu lang ba o full on relationship? Pwede meet outside or sa spa lang? Mag-tip pa ba or in-kind na lang? Your thera will appreciate it, I assure you.

Appreciate your comment, but...

 

But i tried to communicate my feelings... pero it was not communicated back. There was some signs, but i misinterpreted the signs. I guess Im just being misled... I was already being played. Madami siyang regular na kinikita sa labas.

[10speed]

Appreciate your comment, but...

 

But i tried to communicate my feelings... pero it was not communicated back. There was some signs, but i misinterpreted the signs. I guess Im just being misled... I was already being played. Madami siyang regular na kinikita sa labas.

 

Yan ang dapat mong labanan sir. Meron at meron siyang kinikita sa labas at dapat intindihin mo yun.

 

Well kaka-break ko lang sa kanya dahil nga na-discover ko na meron siya ka-relasyon na seryoso din kaya hindi ko kinaya dahil mas matagal na sila. Nagkagulo lahat. Pero kahit ganun nangyari we still communicate until now, nagbe-beg siya na kung may babalikan siya e ako daw ulit pero sa ngayon sobrang stressed na ko kaya hayaan na lang muna panahon mapagsabi kung magiging kami ulit. Kahit papaano friends pa rin naman kami baka dahan-dahanin mag simula ulit?

[BlackHoleSun]

Appreciate your comment, but...

But i tried to communicate my feelings... pero it was not communicated back. There was some signs, but i misinterpreted the signs. I guess Im just being misled... I was already being played. Madami siyang regular na kinikita sa labas.

 

I was right to assume your experience went the sour route. I forgot to comment na kung pipiliin mo talaga pumasok sa isang relasyon with a thera, seryoso man or with benefits lang, open your mind to the fact that you are not the only man in her life. Unti unti kang kakinin ng selos at paranoia sure yan, lalo na kung nalalagi ka dito hahay taena kada FR kulang na lang mabaliw ka. If you can’t accept the fact na ganun, then I guess this type of relationship is not for you. Sorry bro.

 

But it does not mean you can’t make it work. My advice, learn from what you have experienced and if it happens again adjust accordingly na lang.

 

 

Yan ang dapat mong labanan sir. Meron at meron siyang kinikita sa labas at dapat intindihin mo yun.

 

Well kaka-break ko lang sa kanya dahil nga na-discover ko na meron siya ka-relasyon na seryoso din kaya hindi ko kinaya dahil mas matagal na sila. Nagkagulo lahat. Pero kahit ganun nangyari we still communicate until now, nagbe-beg siya na kung may babalikan siya e ako daw ulit pero sa ngayon sobrang stressed na ko kaya hayaan na lang muna panahon mapagsabi kung magiging kami ulit. Kahit papaano friends pa rin naman kami baka dahan-dahanin mag simula ulit?

I had a previous one na toxic kasi may ka-live in na. It was my first though so medyo magulo at masakit haha pero over the past month or two medyo nag-lie low ang lahat. Apparently she quit the industry due to several reasons, her partner included. Now she’s working legit and she’s very thankful kasi mula nung nakilala niya ko tinutulungan ko kasi siya na makahanap ng paraan para makalabas sa industry. When we meet I listen to all her rants and partake some advice. I give her gifts in kind to support yung mga napaguusapn naming solutions sa problema niya haha. Small steps, but I’m happy na yung relasyon namin helped her move forward. We still communicate and ayaw niya na bitawan kung anong meron kami so I just oblige. I’m still all to helping her anyway.

 

During the course of this I came to know of a lot of things in this industry. And a lot of things a thera like her goes through. Malalaman mo talaga kung hanggang saan ang kaya mo.