Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Mr.Bing]

Siguro medyo OT ako haha but who experience "First therapist you ever with, never dies?" I remember my first spa therapist, still remember that session until now gusto ko ulit maulit yung session namin, yun nga lang di na siya active sa spa kapag tinatanong ko sa thread. hehe

Same here bro, actually wala na sya sa dating spa na pinupuntahan ko, as in sya ang First ko sa spa na ganun then un ndn pala ang huli, I still remember that rush and nervousness at the same time hahahahahahahahaha!

[IgniT1on]

Same here bro, actually wala na sya sa dating spa na pinupuntahan ko, as in sya ang First ko sa spa na ganun then un ndn pala ang huli, I still remember that rush and nervousness at the same time hahahahahahahahaha!

hahaha uu naalala ko din yung kaba lalo pag malapit ka na sa spa lol at yung first encounter/session with your first thera, maghahalo ang kaba at excitement hehe damn I miss her, those newbie days is gold Edited April 17, 2018 by Romant1co

[Kaleidoscope14]

Tagal ko na rin di nagpupunta. Hopefully naaalala pa ako ng thera ko since sya lang rin kinukuha ko haha

[Brodyyy]

grabe ung thera ko 1 time lang nag duty tapos di na bumalik. hoping makita ko siya ulit. sobrang sarap niyan humalik nakakainlove

[rontan2014]

grabe ung thera ko 1 time lang nag duty tapos di na bumalik. hoping makita ko siya ulit. sobrang sarap niyan humalik nakakainlove

 

Ibig sabihin hindi lang ikaw nasarapan, baka binahay na yun at naunahan ka.

[PointPolaris]

Been in that spot. Sarap nung thera, nag papa anal pa. Tapos drama nya love ka nya, all baloney anyway

[BlackHoleSun]

I'm in love with a thera, but there are circumstances that forbids us to be together.. Tanggap ko siya at mahal ko siya... i told her that she is very special to me... sent her gifts, flowers, went to the her spa to do nothing but talk to her and just gaze at her (promise wala kaming ginagawa natunaw lang ako sa titig nya but I give her money still every time I visit her.. )... but i never told her yet that I Iove her dahil alam ko namang hindi pwede.... I have never been to any other spa or mp.. I am also not a regular spa goer... i visit this site mainly to check her.. first and most likely last thera ko na siya.... it breaks my heart to read FRs about her, parang dinudurog yung puso ko pagnababasa ko ung mga FR... sa ngayon, i stopped communicating with her... 15 days na kami hindi naguusap sa FB... nakakalungkot lang kasi hindi niya ko kinakamusta.. it made me feel like she was just being nice to me because its her job.... saklap... i am well educated.. i came from a prestigious school and took a career which only a few can ever afford... i am financially stable.. lahat ng naging GFs ko were her opposite.. lahat ng GFs ko were aggressive and sophisticated as our profession requires... but there is something about this thera which made me fall head over heels... I feel like she's my damsel in distress and I'm her knight in shining armor... kaso mukang high paying client in a nice car lang ang tingin niya sakin.... i'm not ugly, pero hindi din naman ako artistahin.. i've had 5 GFs.. hindi din naman ako DOM, I'm only 30yrs old... saklap...

Medyo nakaka-relate ako sa pinagdadaanan mo, more or less. Nakita ko rin yung last reply mo and if I may give my two cents about it, masasabi ko na how you are looking at the situation is affected ng pinagdadaanan mo.

 

Based on experience, you need not be serious all the time. I guess ganun talaga some or maybe most of us are hopeless romantics pero na-realize ko na in the end yung something special na nararamdaman mo started really with companionship. Try not going for a serious tone and just enjoy the presence of each other, both in actual and virtual.

 

Kung gusto mo pa rin ituloy always remember that FRs will always tear your heart off. But trust me, it pales compared to seeing posts of her with her boyfriend. Now it will boil down to trust and acceptance. Kung di mo kaya then tigilan mo na. Naniniwala ako na di ka pa talaga nagmamahal kung di ka pa nasasaktan. And through that pain you will come to understand your boundaries at kung saan ka lulugar.

 

Best of luck brad and whatever happens always remember that life is good!

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

I'm in love with a thera, but there are circumstances that forbids us to be together.. Tanggap ko siya at mahal ko siya... i told her that she is very special to me... sent her gifts, flowers, went to the her spa to do nothing but talk to her and just gaze at her (promise wala kaming ginagawa natunaw lang ako sa titig nya but I give her money still every time I visit her.. )... but i never told her yet that I Iove her dahil alam ko namang hindi pwede.... I have never been to any other spa or mp.. I am also not a regular spa goer... i visit this site mainly to check her.. first and most likely last thera ko na siya.... it breaks my heart to read FRs about her, parang dinudurog yung puso ko pagnababasa ko ung mga FR... sa ngayon, i stopped communicating with her... 15 days na kami hindi naguusap sa FB... nakakalungkot lang kasi hindi niya ko kinakamusta.. it made me feel like she was just being nice to me because its her job.... saklap... i am well educated.. i came from a prestigious school and took a career which only a few can ever afford... i am financially stable.. lahat ng naging GFs ko were her opposite.. lahat ng GFs ko were aggressive and sophisticated as our profession requires... but there is something about this thera which made me fall head over heels... I feel like she's my damsel in distress and I'm her knight in shining armor... kaso mukang high paying client in a nice car lang ang tingin niya sakin.... i'm not ugly, pero hindi din naman ako artistahin.. i've had 5 GFs.. hindi din naman ako DOM, I'm only 30yrs old... saklap...

 

Be careful about that damsel in distress feeling, that's a trap. She probably may be in distress, but she seems to have it under control. The fact that she did not contact you is part of a very common attitude that Theras have that "kung ano ipakita mo sa akin ganoon din ipakita ko sa iyo", that is a safe and practical attitude for them. As you say, you are successful and have a good career, that puts you in an asymmetric relation with her, and she is aware of that, so you can't blame her if all her defenses are up and she refuses to fall- you have a long road and torturous ahead if you want to be with her.

 

You left her because you cant take the FRs. That's okay, as many have pointed out men aren't made to "share" their "loved ones", so no big deal. If you can't accept her job as part of her, eh malabo nga yan. As many others have said, get her out of the industry kung talagang mahal mo, but that is an incredibly difficult proposition. Also, what do you really know about her to commit to such? It's probably just novelty and that feeling of being a white knight. Let her go, okay lang yun, she never expected to ba saved anyway.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

Been in that spot. Sarap nung thera, nag papa anal pa. Tapos drama nya love ka nya, all baloney anyway

 

Yeah, the only reason to really get close is to do either very intimate or very "interesting" things. Its just that higher level that we all secretly want- sex with something akin to love, but not the commitment, not the every day slog of being together and having obligations. Like my friends always say "take the steak, but not the f**king cow".

[Chupapi Muñañio]

I hope my friend and Myrtle end up together.

He really loves that girl.

And I think he frequently visit Myrtle in her new work.

[Chupapi Muñañio]

Hmmm.. Sino ba yung friend mo?

Walang MTC account yun since I'm the only reason pumunta sa spakol yun at nakilala si Myrtle.

Sila Jason lang at mga staff ng Banawe nakakakilala sa kanya dahil 4 times a week daw pumupunta yun since January nung nakilala niya si Myrtle.

Edited April 24, 2018 by Thugsoulja6g

[Chupapi Muñañio]

laki na pala na-invest nung friend mo, sana nga lumago ang pag-iibigan

Well actually mahal na rin naman ni Myrtle yung friend ko kaya lang di matuloy tuloy since my BF pa si Myrtle at that time.

Now single na pwede na.

At baka magalit kayo sa friend ko kasi ayaw niya ng pabalikin si Myrtle sa work na to.

Bantay sarado kahit yung ex niya bantay sarado din wag lang bumalik si Myrtle dito kahit wala na sila.

[Chupapi Muñañio]

ame="Thugsoulja6g" post="12519385" timestamp="1524550210"]Well actually mahal na rin naman ni Myrtle yung friend ko kaya lang di matuloy tuloy since my BF pa si Myrtle at that time.

Now single na pwede na.

At baka magalit kayo sa friend ko kasi ayaw niya ng pabalikin si Myrtle sa work na to.

Bantay sarado kahit yung ex niya bantay sarado din wag lang bumalik si Myrtle dito kahit wala na sila.[/quote

haha sa dami ng pwede pagpilian na thera ngayon sige lang

baka si sexycool ang magalit, di man lang natry si myrtle haha

Hahahahaha

Yung hinayupak na stalker na yun.

na nagsend ng information about her work sa BF niya.

Edited April 24, 2018 by Thugsoulja6g

[Kingkongphils]

Well actually mahal na rin naman ni Myrtle yung friend ko kaya lang di matuloy tuloy since my BF pa si Myrtle at that time.

Now single na pwede na.

At baka magalit kayo sa friend ko kasi ayaw niya ng pabalikin si Myrtle sa work na to.

Bantay sarado kahit yung ex niya bantay sarado din wag lang bumalik si Myrtle dito kahit wala na sila.

Ouch.. Dapat downlow lang. Pag naka broadcast mas lalo madami natatakam lalo madami gusto "umagaw" o mag try... Well anyway.. Choice pa dn ni myrtle kung umalis na cya or hindi, or kung mag stay sya hngang san ang boundaries nya... Good luck sa friend mo.. Id say keep us posted kaso baka gusto nyo private affair... Edited April 24, 2018 by Kingkongphils

[Chupapi Muñañio]

Ouch.. Dapat downlow lang. Pag naka broadcast mas lalo madami natatakam lalo madami gusto "umagaw" o mag try... Well anyway.. Choice pa dn ni myrtle kung umalis na cya or hindi, or kung mag stay sya hngang san ang boundaries nya... Good luck sa friend mo.. Id say keep us posted kaso baka gusto nyo private affair...

Oo nga eh kasi parang gusto din magbalik ni Myrtle dito dahil mukhang hindi pa talaga siya nagresign at nag popost pa na babalik siya.

Well support nalang siya kung talagang gusto ni Myrtle bumalik.

Hmmmm.. I doubt kung talagang wala na sila nung ex nya bro..

Yun din ang iniisip ko.