Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[King Koopa]

Hindi lahat showy so sa tingin ko, if she's willing to go out with u i mean for dates ba, then kung okay lang sakanya na wag pumasok just to be with you, pag madami siyang time magreply sayo.

 

If she's willing to go out with you na pero ayaw pa nya umalis sa work nya kahit ano sabihin mo paano yun?

[leeminho]

Komplikado yan ako 12 years ko ng problema yan sa ex kong mpa. Till now gusto ko sya we are dating.

Kaso mahirap mayaman na sya. Kaya equal kayo. Di mo na masisilaw sa pera. Hehe

totoo yan. kung tutuusin nga mas may pera pa sila kesa sa customer haha!

[Chupapi Muñañio]

I asked this many of times dito at sa mga kaibigan kong thera. I dont think they will answer this. Cguri just like any pagsuyo sa ibang babae e you just do what you feel, you cant really know if she loves you or not. Kasi nga naman what if she says gusto ka lagi kasama. Would an invitation mean she loves you. E ayaw nya naman sabihin syo na love ka niya kaya libre ka, and then dahil wala cya makuha syo she DOs another man, at ikaw naman ang magagalit sa kanya. So I think there is no real answer for this. Baka pag sumama na sya syo at talikuran ang work na ito tska mo masasabi na love ka nya but you have long ways to go my friend. You cant have your cake and eat it too.

Hindi lahat showy so sa tingin ko, if she's willing to go out with u i mean for dates ba, then kung okay lang sakanya na wag pumasok just to be with you, pag madami siyang time magreply sayo.

I am not a Thera, taga-tira lang ako.

 

You will know that in-love na iyo si Thera if she goes out with you without any expectation of moneys.

 

You will know that in-love na sa iyo si Thera if she is the one supporting you financially.

 

Well I ask this because of my friends predicament..

Tinanong ako..

Una palang advice ko sa kanya ay ang no.1 rule ng industry na to..Yan ay wag kang maiinlove sa thera..

Eh na inlove si mokong..

Pero apparently inlove din pala sa kanya si thera..

Kaya lang the catch is my BF si thera sa ibang bansa..

Sabi ko sa kanya Yun lang..hahahahaha

[D'Greyman]

If she's willing to go out with you na pero ayaw pa nya umalis sa work nya kahit ano sabihin mo paano yun?

Willing ka ba tanggapin sya kahit ganyan trabaho nya? Yan ang malaking tanong dyan

[mong23]

Nainlove ako sa thera ko and totoo na merong some form of paranoia na you will doubt if nagsasabi siya ng totoo. In the end you will realize naman if both intentions are real or plastikan lang. In my case i fell in love knowing and accepting who she is and not what she does. Despite ng trabaho nya falling inlove with her is beyond me. Minsan di talaga napipili yan nararamdaman and kahit alam mo ang reality na kung sino sino ang humahawak at pinapaligaya nila. Kasi katawan lang niya ang nahawakan ng iba pero yung puso nya ikaw ang nakahawak at nakadama.

[Kingkongphils]

Nainlove ako sa thera ko and totoo na merong some form of paranoia na you will doubt if nagsasabi siya ng totoo. In the end you will realize naman if both intentions are real or plastikan lang. In my case i fell in love knowing and accepting who she is and not what she does. Despite ng trabaho nya falling inlove with her is beyond me. Minsan di talaga napipili yan nararamdaman and kahit alam mo ang reality na kung sino sino ang humahawak at pinapaligaya nila. Kasi katawan lang niya ang nahawakan ng iba pero yung puso nya ikaw ang nakahawak at nakadama.

Thats effing good statement bro. Its the simple truth about love..

[BuffPanda]

In my personal experience what proved the thera was into me was having me come by at her insistence for the highest level of ES and rejecting any tip.

 

This is from a top thera of a certain spa here. Sadly I wasnt able to give her the amount of emotional investment she wanted and settled for a casual relationship.

 

That aside, it's dangerous to fall for a therapist. You never know what they're offering to their other clients or if their "GFE" is exclusive to you or a select few (or all).

[R i r i]

Is this true? Is this a theras perspective?

Yeap! ☺

If she's willing to go out with you na pero ayaw pa nya umalis sa work nya kahit ano sabihin mo paano yun?

You should ask yourself first kung tanggap mo ba siya? Then kung no. Just Leave. If yes, Then try to lend a helping hand. Wala naman kami sa spa kung wala kaming mga reasons, maybe some of you think na madaming ways para mag earn , hindi naman lahat ppwede don, lets face the reality na mayroong mga taong gusto ng mabilisang pag-unlad (in terms of money) , may mga andyan na ganda lang pero hangin ang laman, meron naman dyan badly needed na makaipon agad, may pinapagamot, may 9 kapatid at siya ang panganay, pero meron ding luho lang talaga Sa simula syempre risky din saming mga thera na umalis sa wala namang kasiguraduhang bagay. Pero babae kami impossibleng hindi namin kayang iwan yan, sino bang gustong magtagal sa ganyang linya ng trabaho? maging totoo lang kayo samin, it might take time but itll be worth it kung gusto mo talaga. Mahirap para sainyo pero hindi din naman madali para samin.

[King Koopa]

Yeap! ☺

You should ask yourself first kung tanggap mo ba siya? Then kung no. Just Leave. If yes, Then try to lend a helping hand. Wala naman kami sa spa kung wala kaming mga reasons, maybe some of you think na madaming ways para mag earn , hindi naman lahat ppwede don, lets face the reality na mayroong mga taong gusto ng mabilisang pag-unlad (in terms of money) , may mga andyan na ganda lang pero hangin ang laman, meron naman dyan badly needed na makaipon agad, may pinapagamot, may 9 kapatid at siya ang panganay, pero meron ding luho lang talaga Sa simula syempre risky din saming mga thera na umalis sa wala namang kasiguraduhang bagay. Pero babae kami impossibleng hindi namin kayang iwan yan, sino bang gustong magtagal sa ganyang linya ng trabaho? maging totoo lang kayo samin, it might take time but itll be worth it kung gusto mo talaga. Mahirap para sainyo pero hindi din naman madali para samin.

 

Tanggap na tanggap ko sya as in I'm helping her get out of work na din pero syempre hindi biglaan ang process at hinihingi ko din tulong nya to cooperate and learn how to do things. Thanks for the great insight on this!

[CalebV3]

My 2 cents: I've had more than my fair share of GFEs. There are therapists whose pretend-sweetness is easy to see through, but there are also many amazing GFE providers, those that really make you, even with a skeptical mind, ask what if? questions (What if I'm in love? What if she's in love with me too?)

 

But love transcends money and sex. If you can take away the sex and still say you love the therapist, then sure go for it. Follow your heart (or some other clichés). If the absence of sex changes what you feel, pare libog lang yan, wag ka tanga.

 

The converse is also true for theras: if they want to spend their life with a GM (you) even in the absence of money, then that just might be love. If not, pera-pera lang yan. Nabentahan ka ng GFE and you're hooked on the product.

[D'Greyman]

Yeap! ☺

 

You should ask yourself first kung tanggap mo ba siya? Then kung no. Just Leave. If yes, Then try to lend a helping hand. Wala naman kami sa spa kung wala kaming mga reasons, maybe some of you think na madaming ways para mag earn , hindi naman lahat ppwede don, lets face the reality na mayroong mga taong gusto ng mabilisang pag-unlad (in terms of money) , may mga andyan na ganda lang pero hangin ang laman, meron naman dyan badly needed na makaipon agad, may pinapagamot, may 9 kapatid at siya ang panganay, pero meron ding luho lang talaga Sa simula syempre risky din saming mga thera na umalis sa wala namang kasiguraduhang bagay. Pero babae kami impossibleng hindi namin kayang iwan yan, sino bang gustong magtagal sa ganyang linya ng trabaho? maging totoo lang kayo samin, it might take time but itll be worth it kung gusto mo talaga. Mahirap para sainyo pero hindi din naman madali para samin.

This is so true. Di lang naman sa pelikula nangyayari to.

[Kingkongphils]

My 2 cents: I've had more than my fair share of GFEs. There are therapists whose pretend-sweetness is easy to see through, but there are also many amazing GFE providers, those that really make you, even with a skeptical mind, ask what if? questions (What if I'm in love? What if she's in love with me too?)

 

But love transcends money and sex. If you can take away the sex and still say you love the therapist, then sure go for it. Follow your heart (or some other clichés). If the absence of sex changes what you feel, pare libog lang yan, wag ka tanga.

 

The converse is also true for theras: if they want to spend their life with a GM (you) even in the absence of money, then that just might be love. If not, pera-pera lang yan. Nabentahan ka ng GFE and you're hooked on the product.

Magandang sukatan to for both thera and GM. Although what makes it complicated e sa part ng thera. Kapag tinanggal mo ang pera, she xan still say that she loves you but she still needs money kaya she wont get it from you but her circunstances will make her get it from another thru her "work". So which would you prefer?

Si miss baobei cguro makasasagot nyn. Financially ano ang tama na? For me cguro kung kaya mong ibigay ung prinoprovide nya sa family nya (yes bubuhayin mo talaga family nya) you can ask her to stop. Pero kung ung bigay mo e tama lang para sa kanya lang, I think mahihirapan ka. So miss baobei, real talk in your case how much will it take to make you stop?

Edited March 27, 2018 by Kingkongphils

[Kaleidoscope14]

As someone already said here, take away the lust and passion then see what remains. If you still want to be with her, weigh your options kasi you'll most probably want her to leave her job; that puts more responsibilities for you to support her and her family. If di ka willing magcommit full time, wag ka na manggulo baka maging stalker ka lang rin na panira ng buhay.

[Danlim]

She's just looking for a stable provider, don't fall for it.

[johnlove]

I have a therapist girlfiriend - but only for 45 mins once every two weeks.

 

Seriously speaking, these ladies already have lots of financial and emotional problems, let's not add to that. Stay married with her for 45 mins to 1 hour, depending on the package you get from the mp/spa.

The best way to help is to avail of her services often, and let what happen in mp/spa stays in mp/spa.