Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[JosephConrad]

Cluster fuzk...

[MyFriend]

I have fallen and its a sack of confusing emotions.

A few months ago gusto ko lang naman magpa massage and happy ending. It was supposed to be a one time escapade but apparently it wasn't. Naging regular client ako nya, I assume getting her services 3 times in a month is already considered as a regular client.  During the course of  1 month as a regular client, I would ask her out for a date but she would say no. I would send her gifts and give small amounts of money but still she would say no to a date. 

We chatted every day and every hour. Pag hindi ako nagpaparamdam sa chat ng more than an hour nagtatampo sya. And in the course of us chatting incessantly an attachment between us grew. We were already liking each other on the second month although of course I still send her money, larger amounts at this time. When I told her I'll book for a session the night after tomorrow. This makes it our 4th and I was surprised what she told me, magdala daw ako ng CD.

Then she now agreed to go out with me. Nagpasundo sya sa malapit sa house nya. That first time to go out wasnt really a date kasi I asked kung may gusto ba sya puntahan or kainan. She said mag takeout na lang and we can check in a motel. Shempre di na ako tumanggi kahit na hindi yun ang ineexpect ko. This happened 3 times on the 2nd month and was pretty much transactional. We go out and eat lunch or dinner then check in a motel. Afterwards I hand her the money.

Since we go out almost every week I changed my offer. Instead of giving her money every time we go out I offered to give money on a regular basis instead. She thought about it and she agreed. Para masulit ko yun money I give regularly, we would go out twice a week. Going out means having dinner or lunch then check in a motel. Even with money involved, nagkakaroon na ng feelings maybe because of the frequency of our dates. It wasnt liking her anymore but I was falling for her already and I believe she had fallen also too. She said I love you to me.

On the 4th month wala ng weekly money nor even transactional payments. She would be the one asking me if im free so we can go out without any money involved and then have sex. Then it progressed to seeing her almost everyday for lunch, dinner or even just coffee. There will always be sex at least once a week, sometimes up to thrice.

The situation seems to be a feel-good story that will have a happy movie ending. Nope kasi may complications. She has a toddler child and a jowa houseband (palamunin), and I am twice her age.

I mentioned there is a sack of confusing emotions. There are feelings of happiness, jealousy, anger, inferiority, disgust, worry. These feelings are stressing me out and is affecting my mental and physical health. So I ask ano ang gagawin nyo kung ikaw ako?

 

to be continued...

[Farrel]

41 minutes ago, MyFriend said:

I have fallen and its a sack of confusing emotions.

A few months ago gusto ko lang naman magpa massage and happy ending. It was supposed to be a one time escapade but apparently it wasn't. Naging regular client ako nya, I assume getting her services 3 times in a month is already considered as a regular client.  During the course of  1 month as a regular client, I would ask her out for a date but she would say no. I would send her gifts and give small amounts of money but still she would say no to a date. 

We chatted every day and every hour. Pag hindi ako nagpaparamdam sa chat ng more than an hour nagtatampo sya. And in the course of us chatting incessantly an attachment between us grew. We were already liking each other on the second month although of course I still send her money, larger amounts at this time. When I told her I'll book for a session the night after tomorrow. This makes it our 4th and I was surprised what she told me, magdala daw ako ng CD.

Then she now agreed to go out with me. Nagpasundo sya sa malapit sa house nya. That first time to go out wasnt really a date kasi I asked kung may gusto ba sya puntahan or kainan. She said mag takeout na lang and we can check in a motel. Shempre di na ako tumanggi kahit na hindi yun ang ineexpect ko. This happened 3 times on the 2nd month and was pretty much transactional. We go out and eat lunch or dinner then check in a motel. Afterwards I hand her the money.

Since we go out almost every week I changed my offer. Instead of giving her money every time we go out I offered to give money on a regular basis instead. She thought about it and she agreed. Para masulit ko yun money I give regularly, we would go out twice a week. Going out means having dinner or lunch then check in a motel. Even with money involved, nagkakaroon na ng feelings maybe because of the frequency of our dates. It wasnt liking her anymore but I was falling for her already and I believe she had fallen also too. She said I love you to me.

On the 4th month wala ng weekly money nor even transactional payments. She would be the one asking me if im free so we can go out without any money involved and then have sex. Then it progressed to seeing her almost everyday for lunch, dinner or even just coffee. There will always be sex at least once a week, sometimes up to thrice.

The situation seems to be a feel-good story that will have a happy movie ending. Nope kasi may complications. She has a toddler child and a jowa houseband (palamunin), and I am twice her age.

I mentioned there is a sack of confusing emotions. There are feelings of happiness, jealousy, anger, inferiority, disgust, worry. These feelings are stressing me out and is affecting my mental and physical health. So I ask ano ang gagawin nyo kung ikaw ako?

 

to be continued...

parang ang hirap nga ng situation mo sir. had a somewhat similar exprience years back without the houseband.
but for me, I think she has to make the decision about the houseband (I hope not married). for the toddler, I guess the both of you should discuss. based on your story it appears she has fallen for you, but I hope she has fallen for you for you and not fallen for you for other reasons. i think sa lahat ng relationship, important ang communication, best to talk it over.

best of luck sir 💪

[Farrel]

On 6/12/2024 at 8:01 PM, Amour said:

share ko lang po 😊

I’m a former thera/recep for x numbers of years. I had this regular GM na kilala ng karamihan.. mabait, galante, good looking, sobrang bango , very caring and understanding.. umabot sa point na love na ang tawagan namin. He’s giving me everything without me asking for it. Im grateful for that.. Lumalalim ang samahan namin hanggang ako na yung umiwas, as in itinigil ko na pagiging thera/recep ko kasi I’m sure inlove na ko sa kanya..  I didn’t let him know, basta bigla nalang ako umalis. Di ko pinagpatuloy kung anong meron kami kahit sobrang happy ko sa kanya.. kasi alam ko in the end masasaktan ako dahil darating yung time na baka mag hanap na sya ng ibang thera or someone special. 

karamihan din ng thera na iinlove sa GM pero kailangan pigilan. karamihan din kung ano ano na nagagawa dahil inlove na kay GM. 

natutuwa ako kapag may nalalaman ako tungkol sa mga thera-GM na nagkakagustuhan o nagiging mag bf/gf.. but i also feel bad na madalas pag galing sa ganitong industry yung mag partner, hindi nagtatagal yung relationship or may isa talagang di makukuntento sa partner nya.

Marami din ako natutunan na maganda/mabuting aral sa pagiging thera/recep ko., may mga naging kaibigan at mga natulungan at naging masaya din ako 😊. 

Naghanap ako ng desenteng trabaho after ko umalis as thera/recep. (7-8 yrs ago) I’m very happy on what I become and what I have until now. 

Sarili pa rin natin ang magdedesisyon sa huli kung ano yung dapat natin pairalin, puso o utak. Alin man dyan, isipin parin natin yung pros and cons. At yung sa tingin natin na hindi pagsisisihan. 


 

may kanya kanya naman tayong story. happy that you learned, grew and is now happy.

agree hindi madali kung mag evolve ang GM-thera relationship but I think just like any other normal relationship, if open sila sa isa't isa (at sa sarili nila) and their actions support what they say, maybe may chance na maging forever? 😊

[handsomebob]

@MyFriend

the last statement did it for me, may anak and a partner....it might be bad for you once malaman yung relasyon niyo., my suggestion is to try more fishes in the sea. you have the resources as what you said and her saying i love you was just in the moment.

baka pag malaman ng asawa nya saktan ka pa, not worth the risk sir!

good luck

[plug]

12 hours ago, MyFriend said:

I have fallen and its a sack of confusing emotions.

A few months ago gusto ko lang naman magpa massage and happy ending. It was supposed to be a one time escapade but apparently it wasn't. Naging regular client ako nya, I assume getting her services 3 times in a month is already considered as a regular client.  During the course of  1 month as a regular client, I would ask her out for a date but she would say no. I would send her gifts and give small amounts of money but still she would say no to a date. 

We chatted every day and every hour. Pag hindi ako nagpaparamdam sa chat ng more than an hour nagtatampo sya. And in the course of us chatting incessantly an attachment between us grew. We were already liking each other on the second month although of course I still send her money, larger amounts at this time. When I told her I'll book for a session the night after tomorrow. This makes it our 4th and I was surprised what she told me, magdala daw ako ng CD.

Then she now agreed to go out with me. Nagpasundo sya sa malapit sa house nya. That first time to go out wasnt really a date kasi I asked kung may gusto ba sya puntahan or kainan. She said mag takeout na lang and we can check in a motel. Shempre di na ako tumanggi kahit na hindi yun ang ineexpect ko. This happened 3 times on the 2nd month and was pretty much transactional. We go out and eat lunch or dinner then check in a motel. Afterwards I hand her the money.

Since we go out almost every week I changed my offer. Instead of giving her money every time we go out I offered to give money on a regular basis instead. She thought about it and she agreed. Para masulit ko yun money I give regularly, we would go out twice a week. Going out means having dinner or lunch then check in a motel. Even with money involved, nagkakaroon na ng feelings maybe because of the frequency of our dates. It wasnt liking her anymore but I was falling for her already and I believe she had fallen also too. She said I love you to me.

On the 4th month wala ng weekly money nor even transactional payments. She would be the one asking me if im free so we can go out without any money involved and then have sex. Then it progressed to seeing her almost everyday for lunch, dinner or even just coffee. There will always be sex at least once a week, sometimes up to thrice.

The situation seems to be a feel-good story that will have a happy movie ending. Nope kasi may complications. She has a toddler child and a jowa houseband (palamunin), and I am twice her age.

I mentioned there is a sack of confusing emotions. There are feelings of happiness, jealousy, anger, inferiority, disgust, worry. These feelings are stressing me out and is affecting my mental and physical health. So I ask ano ang gagawin nyo kung ikaw ako?

 

to be continued...

Putulin na kaagad ang relasyon or kung hanap mo yung kanyang companionship at sex hwag hayaan madevelope pa. Sayang din yung ibinibigay mong financial na sa di tamang individual ang nakikinabang.

In my opinion the very best candidate sa ganito ay nmilf na thera walang kargada kung pwede virgin pa. Wala kang magagawa kung may magulang at kapatid kasi siguradong kasama talaga yan pag na involve ka kay thera.

7 hours ago, handsomebob said:

@MyFriend

the last statement did it for me, may anak and a partner....it might be bad for you once malaman yung relasyon niyo., my suggestion is to try more fishes in the sea. you have the resources as what you said and her saying i love you was just in the moment.

baka pag malaman ng asawa nya saktan ka pa, not worth the risk sir!

good luck

 

[Amour]

On 6/13/2024 at 3:04 PM, Animatrix said:

Nice story, thanks for sharing and congrats on what u've become and what u have coz u seem genuinely happy

Thanks ☺️ 

[Mang Ricky]

On 6/16/2024 at 1:12 AM, MyFriend said:

I have fallen and its a sack of confusing emotions.

A few months ago gusto ko lang naman magpa massage and happy ending. It was supposed to be a one time escapade but apparently it wasn't. Naging regular client ako nya, I assume getting her services 3 times in a month is already considered as a regular client.  During the course of  1 month as a regular client, I would ask her out for a date but she would say no. I would send her gifts and give small amounts of money but still she would say no to a date. 

We chatted every day and every hour. Pag hindi ako nagpaparamdam sa chat ng more than an hour nagtatampo sya. And in the course of us chatting incessantly an attachment between us grew. We were already liking each other on the second month although of course I still send her money, larger amounts at this time. When I told her I'll book for a session the night after tomorrow. This makes it our 4th and I was surprised what she told me, magdala daw ako ng CD.

Then she now agreed to go out with me. Nagpasundo sya sa malapit sa house nya. That first time to go out wasnt really a date kasi I asked kung may gusto ba sya puntahan or kainan. She said mag takeout na lang and we can check in a motel. Shempre di na ako tumanggi kahit na hindi yun ang ineexpect ko. This happened 3 times on the 2nd month and was pretty much transactional. We go out and eat lunch or dinner then check in a motel. Afterwards I hand her the money.

Since we go out almost every week I changed my offer. Instead of giving her money every time we go out I offered to give money on a regular basis instead. She thought about it and she agreed. Para masulit ko yun money I give regularly, we would go out twice a week. Going out means having dinner or lunch then check in a motel. Even with money involved, nagkakaroon na ng feelings maybe because of the frequency of our dates. It wasnt liking her anymore but I was falling for her already and I believe she had fallen also too. She said I love you to me.

On the 4th month wala ng weekly money nor even transactional payments. She would be the one asking me if im free so we can go out without any money involved and then have sex. Then it progressed to seeing her almost everyday for lunch, dinner or even just coffee. There will always be sex at least once a week, sometimes up to thrice.

The situation seems to be a feel-good story that will have a happy movie ending. Nope kasi may complications. She has a toddler child and a jowa houseband (palamunin), and I am twice her age.

I mentioned there is a sack of confusing emotions. There are feelings of happiness, jealousy, anger, inferiority, disgust, worry. These feelings are stressing me out and is affecting my mental and physical health. So I ask ano ang gagawin nyo kung ikaw ako?

 

to be continued...

Maging satisfied ka na lang sa situation ninyo. Wag mo na isipin yon houseband at anak. Ganyan ang situation pag nag fall ka sa thera. Wag mag expect na level up pa ang relasyon. Level up ka na sa ngayon. Bihirang bihira sa mga thera ang magbigay sa GM ng ganyang klaseng kaligayahan at panahon. Malaking bagay na yan.  Isa pa, pag kayo mgkasama, wag nyo pag usapan ang houseband at anak nya.