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Minsan nalulungkot ako pag nalalaman kong nag-aaway ang Friend ko at ang kanyang Thera Wife kung saan sila ay nagsisigawan at nagsusumbatan...

Thera Wife: KUNG ALAM KO LANG NA MAHIRAP KA HINDI NA SANA KITA PINAKASALAN!

Husband: ??? E DI BA SA UMPISA PA LANG SINABI KO NA SA 'YO IKAW ANG PINAKAMAHALAGA SA BUHAY KO?!

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On 6/16/2024 at 1:12 AM, MyFriend said:

I have fallen and its a sack of confusing emotions.

A few months ago gusto ko lang naman magpa massage and happy ending. It was supposed to be a one time escapade but apparently it wasn't. Naging regular client ako nya, I assume getting her services 3 times in a month is already considered as a regular client.Β Β During the course of Β 1 month as a regular client, I would ask her out for a date but she would say no. I would send her gifts and give small amounts of money but still she would say no to a date.Β 

We chatted every day and every hour. Pag hindi ako nagpaparamdam sa chat ng more than an hour nagtatampo sya. And in the course of us chatting incessantly an attachment between us grew. We were already liking each other on the second month although of course I still send her money, larger amounts at this time. When I told her I'll book for a session the night after tomorrow. This makes it our 4th and I was surprised what she told me, magdala daw ako ng CD.

Then she now agreed to go out with me. Nagpasundo sya sa malapit sa house nya. That first time to go out wasnt really a date kasi I asked kung may gusto ba sya puntahan or kainan. She said mag takeout na lang and we can check in a motel. Shempre di na ako tumanggi kahit na hindi yun ang ineexpect ko. This happened 3 times on the 2nd month and was pretty much transactional. We go out and eat lunch or dinner then check in a motel. Afterwards I hand her the money.

Since we go out almost every week I changed my offer. Instead of giving her money every time we go out I offered to give money on a regular basis instead. She thought about it and she agreed. Para masulit ko yun money I give regularly, we would go out twice a week. Going out means having dinner or lunch then check in a motel. Even with money involved, nagkakaroon na ng feelings maybe because of the frequency of our dates. It wasnt liking her anymore but I was falling for her already and I believe she had fallen also too. She said I love you to me.

On the 4th month wala ng weekly money nor even transactional payments. She would be the one asking me if im free so we can go out without any money involved and then have sex. Then it progressed to seeing her almost everyday for lunch, dinner or even just coffee. There will always be sex at least once a week, sometimes up to thrice.

The situation seems to be a feel-good story that will have a happy movie ending. Nope kasi may complications. She has a toddler child and a jowa houseband (palamunin), and I am twice her age.

I mentioned there is a sack of confusing emotions. There are feelings of happiness, jealousy, anger, inferiority, disgust, worry. These feelings are stressing me out and is affecting my mental and physical health. So I ask ano ang gagawin nyo kung ikaw ako?

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Karamihan talaga kasi sa thera no choice lang talaga sa ganto work ee nasa lalaki nalang talaga kung tanggap o hinde. (Actually subrang iilan nalang yung babae na walang experience hindi tulad dati)

May ganyang experience ren ako na jowa thera dati subra sila mag alaga, subra sweet basta lahat subra kahit mag mahal. iba talaga sila pag nakarelasyon niyo. kaso need to give up kasi nag kabalikan ako sa long time partner ko OFW dati.
hindi ko ren masikmura na dalawa ang jowa dahil subrang hirap ren ng buhay OFW ee.

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all i can say is ang sad ng situation mo.. i can relate kasi n fall din ako s isang streamer.. nging close kme for months but then she is now busy building her career in acting.. she got new friends and connection na to the point nag stop n sya mag message sa akin.. Β i felt that she didn’t need me anymore.. stop following her in all of her socmed acct.. and wla mn lng sya reaction.. we have plenty of times n nag c-chat more than 12 hrs before.. no calls but sometimes pag mdami sya gx2 savhin via voice recording,. she was very open before about her struggles and dreams.. talk too much about her family.. etc.. pero now n wala n lng bgla.. mhirap mag move on..😞 

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4 hours ago, bini crawford said:

all i can say is ang sad ng situation mo.. i can relate kasi n fall din ako s isang streamer.. nging close kme for months but then she is now busy building her career in acting.. she got new friends and connection na to the point nag stop n sya mag message sa akin.. Β i felt that she didn’t need me anymore.. stop following her in all of her socmed acct.. and wla mn lng sya reaction.. we have plenty of times n nag c-chat more than 12 hrs before.. no calls but sometimes pag mdami sya gx2 savhin via voice recording,. she was very open before about her struggles and dreams.. talk too much about her family.. etc.. pero now n wala n lng bgla.. mhirap mag move on..😞 

I am sorry to say this but you were just used for attention and maybe validation as well, that's okay just move on focus on you and make her regret leaving you! that's the motivation right there!

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On 7/5/2024 at 6:28 AM, bini crawford said:

all i can say is ang sad ng situation mo.. i can relate kasi n fall din ako s isang streamer.. nging close kme for months but then she is now busy building her career in acting.. she got new friends and connection na to the point nag stop n sya mag message sa akin.. Β i felt that she didn’t need me anymore.. stop following her in all of her socmed acct.. and wla mn lng sya reaction.. we have plenty of times n nag c-chat more than 12 hrs before.. no calls but sometimes pag mdami sya gx2 savhin via voice recording,. she was very open before about her struggles and dreams.. talk too much about her family.. etc.. pero now n wala n lng bgla.. mhirap mag move on..😞 

ang sakit nyan pre ah.. ok lang sana kung ngmessage man lang bago, pero ayun nga ghosted.. masabi mo talaga na ungrateful xa,.. kung sa akin to mangyare, sakit din nito, kasi hindi lang naman sa pera ka ng-invest cguro sa kanya, time, effort, love? ... magiging masaya cguro ako dahil naging ok xa pero xympre, masakit talaga, lalo na kung wala man lang parang "closure" or "thank you" man lang,..Β 

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On 7/5/2024 at 11:20 AM, handsomebob said:

I am sorry to say this but you were just used for attention and maybe validation as well, that's okay just move on focus on you and make her regret leaving you! that's the motivation right there!

agree.. feeling ko kya ako na s-sad or n hihirapan mag move on kasi na iisip ku ung hirap mag build ng relationship and mka hanap ng new girl, which should not matter if mgging pogi ako or macho + successful.. as a man, hndi tlga dpt tyu ung nag hahabol s mga chx.. reason why I also unfollow her s mga socmed pra iwas view & like ng mga stories nya.. we need to be worthy pra chx mag habol sa atin.. so tma k brad.. tnx s advice..Β 

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have nothing against her nman.. in fairness she do reply nman pero hndi gya ng dti.. di ko alam if nag o-overthink ako.. pero meron ksing feeling n andun n ung avoid nya.. mtgal n sya mag reply.. the one liner reply.. and unlike before, hndi n sya nag i-initiate to chat.. will just focus on my work n lng cguro and on improving my self.. at s pag tingin ng mga chx dito..πŸ˜… i still believe prin nman ksi na hndi mawawala ang mga tao at bgay n nka tadha pra sayo.. Β all of us are governed by fate sabi ng ilng kasabihan.. pero sabi rin ng iba, pag nging mas cool ka, m kkaya mo n i manage or controlin ung fate mo..β˜πŸ»πŸ˜…

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On 7/7/2024 at 4:43 AM, bini crawford said:

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@blast3r

have nothing against her nman.. in fairness she do reply nman pero hndi gya ng dti.. di ko alam if nag o-overthink ako.. pero meron ksing feeling n andun n ung avoid nya.. mtgal n sya mag reply.. the one liner reply.. and unlike before, hndi n sya nag i-initiate to chat.. will just focus on my work n lng cguro and on improving my self.. at s pag tingin ng mga chx dito..πŸ˜… i still believe prin nman ksi na hndi mawawala ang mga tao at bgay n nka tadha pra sayo.. Β all of us are governed by fate sabi ng ilng kasabihan.. pero sabi rin ng iba, pag nging mas cool ka, m kkaya mo n i manage or controlin ung fate mo..β˜πŸ»πŸ˜…

Yan yan idol..self improvement sabi nga ni master @handsomebob let them fall for you..pagnag-away sya ng partner nya. Tulungan mo na lang gumanti..haha

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21 hours ago, bini crawford said:

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@blast3r

have nothing against her nman.. in fairness she do reply nman pero hndi gya ng dti.. di ko alam if nag o-overthink ako.. pero meron ksing feeling n andun n ung avoid nya.. mtgal n sya mag reply.. the one liner reply.. and unlike before, hndi n sya nag i-initiate to chat.. will just focus on my work n lng cguro and on improving my self.. at s pag tingin ng mga chx dito..πŸ˜… i still believe prin nman ksi na hndi mawawala ang mga tao at bgay n nka tadha pra sayo.. Β all of us are governed by fate sabi ng ilng kasabihan.. pero sabi rin ng iba, pag nging mas cool ka, m kkaya mo n i manage or controlin ung fate mo..β˜πŸ»πŸ˜…

ah ok, akala ko kasi as in no reply... pero ayun nga, wala talagang magagawa. at least nasa mas ok na xang industry kahit papano.

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