Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[plug]

As long as gusto mo pa si thera nasa iyo na yon kung gusto mong ipagpatuloy at gastusan. Kadalasan nagpapabaya si lover kay thera in terms of money para hwag lang mawala sa kanya si thera. Yung nagsasabi ng been there done that are only part of their past and it is not always the same to others kahit gaanong kaliit ang chance of what can be called a success and most failures. So, still not discouraging to fall.

[BrosTayoDito]

Haaaays mga newbie "first time in the industry" talaga mahirap ispelengin.. 🤨

so ayun na nga, nag-fa-fall na si Bro nyo... sa isang newbie "first time in the industry", syempre medyo close na at dahil bago nga e hindi pa nya naayos ang mga necessary arrangements like housing near the spa base of operations, pang-deposit, advance, rolling funds etc.. so ayun na nga, nangutang...

Pinautang ko naman, sabi ko pa "SAKA MO NA BAYARAN KAPAG MALUWANG KA NA" 😇

Abe e sinampal ako?! hays.. ako na nagpautang ako pa ang nasampal 🤪 🤪 🤪

 

[kikomatsingmatos]

Just now, BrosTayoDito said:

Haaaays mga newbie "first time in the industry" talaga mahirap ispelengin.. 🤨

so ayun na nga, nag-fa-fall na si Bro nyo... sa isang newbie "first time in the industry", syempre medyo close na at dahil bago nga e hindi pa nya naayos ang mga necessary arrangements like housing near the spa base of operations, pang-deposit, advance, rolling funds etc.. so ayun na nga, nangutang...

Pinautang ko naman, sabi ko pa "SAKA MO NA BAYARAN KAPAG MALUWANG KA NA" 😇

Abe e sinampal ako?! hays.. ako na nagpautang ako pa ang nasampal 🤪 🤪 🤪

 

hahahaha baka naman first time din umutang lodi par

[BrosTayoDito]

1 hour ago, kikomatsingmatos said:

hahahaha baka naman first time din umutang lodi par

it hurts bro 🥺

[kikomatsingmatos]

28 minutes ago, BrosTayoDito said:

it hurts bro 🥺

isang bagay ang sigurado par, hindi nya first time sumampal hahahaha

[YouDeserveBetter]

22 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

my theory on why theras go for broke boys (thru their socials, they go for no name rappers, service crews or just full blooded bums)is that broke boys will never make sumbat or belittle them since they are the ones earning the money. whereas if they go for the corporate executive ones, lagi silang susumbatan nito pag may issue. narinig ko rin ito sa mga thera hat they will not settle with someone na parokyano ng flesh industry. 

May kilala ako rapper din type. Tapos yung bagong jowa now sobrang downgrade mas malapit lang sa place of work nya

Tapos gusto nya ako singilin ng 15k-50k dahil kaka 18 lang daw nya. Pero dalawa na anak 

 

[Tipreth]

20 hours ago, plug said:

As long as gusto mo pa si thera nasa iyo na yon kung gusto mong ipagpatuloy at gastusan. Kadalasan nagpapabaya si lover kay thera in terms of money para hwag lang mawala sa kanya si thera. Yung nagsasabi ng been there done that are only part of their past and it is not always the same to others kahit gaanong kaliit ang chance of what can be called a success and most failures. So, still not discouraging to fall.

Nice words of encouragement master! Hahaha

P.S. Kala ko tinago mo na si VC ng LB hindi ko na nakikita sa lineup . Baka may nag sponsor or nag garahe na hahaha

[BaileyG]

4 hours ago, BrosTayoDito said:

Haaaays mga newbie "first time in the industry" talaga mahirap ispelengin.. 🤨

so ayun na nga, nag-fa-fall na si Bro nyo... sa isang newbie "first time in the industry", syempre medyo close na at dahil bago nga e hindi pa nya naayos ang mga necessary arrangements like housing near the spa base of operations, pang-deposit, advance, rolling funds etc.. so ayun na nga, nangutang...

Pinautang ko naman, sabi ko pa "SAKA MO NA BAYARAN KAPAG MALUWANG KA NA" 😇

Abe e sinampal ako?! hays.. ako na nagpautang ako pa ang nasampal 🤪 🤪 🤪

 

🤣🤣🤣

[BaileyG]

17 minutes ago, LookingOswald said:

Here are some nuggets of introspection that have come from exchanges, both through private messages with experienced members of the community, as well as a few service providers over the past few months, and what I can surmise, while not new information, is this:

Try your best to be emotionally hygienic, but as much as possible, don't do it. Unless you're ready to take her out of that life or make the conscious choice to sustain her, place your expectations aside. Service providers already have enough to deal with on a day-to-day basis, and to add to the job description is to continually fulfill fantasies that are so out of touch with reality. 

Closeness and intimacy beyond the paid service add to the experience and are one of the perks of being a returning regular, but it's best to not burden them with an overly demanding attitude to begin with. Don't put too much meaning on the developed chemistry over time. Some even consider the thought of having a second pop, or not even paying to be "love". That's not love, that's manipulation. Binebenta nga nila kaluluwa nila, tas gusto mo pa sila isahan. Mahiya ka naman sa sarili mo - hindi yan pagmamahal.

What you experience with them inside the confines of the room, the fantasy that is provided is far from the reality that they have to deal with when they get home - utility bills, supporting a family, financing a family member's education, etc. Some of them are the ones who are solely bringing their families out of poverty. Behind the seduction is a hidden Calvary that only a few are willing to truly empathize with, or even do something about. 

If you love, or enjoy a certain level of fidelity with your provider, this is what I can say - don't burden them. Treat them with respect. Understand that boundaries exist. Recognizing their humanity IS an act of love. Be a guest that they look forward to servicing, instead of them internally going, "Oh God, here comes the fake boyfriend again." Misplaced male jealousy - oh dear, nothing makes a vagina dryer. Of course, they wouldn't ruin the fantasy, it would just create drama and a potential loss of a recurring source of income. 

The only success story that is continually ongoing that I am super proud to say that I've seen firsthand was back in Kremlin 2016, with my first regular TEON. Her exit plan with her boyfriend/sponsor was one of the most intelligent exits that I've ever seen. They've used all the income gathered from her time in the industry and started a gluta distribution business, that eventually blossomed into a full-on string of dermatology clinics around NCR - ang galing, they even use social media managers and all that to run the business. Sobrang pulido. Not only was the man able to take her out of that life, but they've built a life in such a way that it is almost impossible for her to come back to this industry. They have just celebrated their 5th anniversary together, she's living her best life, just bought a Lexus IS, and I couldn't be happier for them. That's love, but God, the hell that they had to go through for the past 7 years - that's not for everyone. I know for certain that it is not for me. 

Reminds me of a post on this thread where there’s a fictional thera who wrote a letter that said it was far more taxing to fulfill the emotional fantasies of men than to just provide their physical ones. After reading that, I sometimes candidly ask new ones I meet which they prefer more: to go straight to the deed within the first few minutes or if they prefer the prelude that is conversational foreplay. Whichever they choose, I go with.

Happy to read about your past regular. We may never get to imagine exactly the hell they have to go through depending on how bad and deep their personal/family needs are, but very inspiring to meet ones who get out of this with a good exit strat that they’re actually able to pull off. I know of a few I think, pero mukhang “almost there” palang sila and not fully out. Hope they’re as successful as your Teon, eventually.

[Prinsloo]

3 hours ago, YouDeserveBetter said:

May kilala ako rapper din type. Tapos yung bagong jowa now sobrang downgrade mas malapit lang sa place of work nya

Tapos gusto nya ako singilin ng 15k-50k dahil kaka 18 lang daw nya. Pero dalawa na anak 

 

That makes 4 theras lol. Kasi yung 3 theras na kakilala kong rapper ang gusto hindi nagfifit sa description ng.kakilala mo lol.

Makapag rapper na nga lang:

 

Pagpasok ni thera banatan ko ng: 

Ikaw ba yung thera na galing probinsya?

Anak ka ba ni Apple d App kay Aling Diyonisya?

😹

[Emigen]

Loving the wrong person.

So many people are suffering in relationships today because they refuse to let go of the person they are currently in a relationship with.

They know the relationship isn't working, but they refuse to leave because they feel they might be able to change the person.

They believe they are willing to go to any length to ensure that the person continues to "love them".

The hardest aspect is that they are doing everything in the hopes that the person would change, even when the person has no intention of changing in the first place. 

If you're in a relationship right now where the person is causing you more grief than happiness, then it's time to let them go. 

Accepting that things aren't working is the best approach to avoid getting hurt more in this type of relationship. 

It's crucial to admit to yourself that the relationship is in disrepair.

I see so many people that are suffering in their current relationships because they refuse to face the reality of its true nature.

If your current relationship isn't working, do me a favor and don't force it, the more you force it, the more you will end up hurting yourself in the long run. 

Nobody can take your happiness away if you don't want it taken away. Your happiness is in your hands; your happiness is dependent on you.

If you don't want others to continue to mistreat you... you have the power to stop them. 

Take my advice and have the courage to leave the table when respect is no longer being served.

- Cody Bret

[plug]

On 10/28/2023 at 11:03 PM, Tipreth said:

Nice words of encouragement master! Hahaha

P.S. Kala ko tinago mo na si VC ng LB hindi ko na nakikita sa lineup . Baka may nag sponsor or nag garahe na hahaha

Thanks sa pagsangayon. Ganoon naman talaga pag kursunada mo si thera/mpa responsibilidad mo na iyon.

Medyo sumuko na ako kay VC of LB. She has been a big challenge medyo nakapuntos lang ng kaunti noon sa Primero. But very far from what I really wanted. In my opinion di na siya better candidate para igarahe because she has aged already. Most likely older people would prefer her as a partner or escort. She probably looks stunning pa rin, may tindig, looks decent and disciplined. Missed those enticing whispers and soft voices. 

May nag post that maybe he still has contact with her and other theras from her first spa. I think he is reliable. 

While for me on FFAT I thought I should have ended the relation dahil tumatagal na pero di ko ata gustong mawala pa siya. She still fits in my need as the other girl. She was a former thera sa Pasig/Ortigas area na di gaanong kilala dahil marahil sa kanyang irregular duty for nearly 8 months. Her facial expression or looks can be compared to that of Russian  tennis player Maria Sharapova, white complexion, stands 5-4 and an nmilf. Marahil sa tabas ng mukha quite similar to Mint of Classic and former Maria of TVS ito rin ata si Noami of Daje. She will be 25 before the year ends. Marahil I feel safer kung imaintain ko. I don’t want to tell more on her baka I may sound defensive. Holidays are coming at least mayroon akong kahit isa at sana ako lang.

[barneystinson62390]

On 10/29/2023 at 3:16 PM, Emigen said:

Loving the wrong person.

So many people are suffering in relationships today because they refuse to let go of the person they are currently in a relationship with.

They know the relationship isn't working, but they refuse to leave because they feel they might be able to change the person.

They believe they are willing to go to any length to ensure that the person continues to "love them".

The hardest aspect is that they are doing everything in the hopes that the person would change, even when the person has no intention of changing in the first place. 

If you're in a relationship right now where the person is causing you more grief than happiness, then it's time to let them go. 

Accepting that things aren't working is the best approach to avoid getting hurt more in this type of relationship. 

It's crucial to admit to yourself that the relationship is in disrepair.

I see so many people that are suffering in their current relationships because they refuse to face the reality of its true nature.

If your current relationship isn't working, do me a favor and don't force it, the more you force it, the more you will end up hurting yourself in the long run. 

Nobody can take your happiness away if you don't want it taken away. Your happiness is in your hands; your happiness is dependent on you.

If you don't want others to continue to mistreat you... you have the power to stop them. 

Take my advice and have the courage to leave the table when respect is no longer being served.

- Cody Bret

 

Edited November 1, 2023 by barneystinson62390

[manoy buknoy]

Ako naniniwala ang pag ibig basta mo na lng mararamdaman yan.Kahit na yung pinakaka babaero at salbaheng GM pwede makaramdam nyan.Kahit yung attendant sa mp na 5 o higit pang gm ang ka sex araw araw pwedeng makaramdam nyan.But if love has to be true then it has to be honest,right? Hindi nmn pwede sabihin mong inlove kna sa isang thera tapos araw araw ka pa rin sa pag sa shopping mo ng mga thera at gagawa kpa ng fr para ideyalye kung nilunok ba niya o dinog style mo ba. It's a cruel world, no doubt.Hindi rin pwede Sabihin ni thera inlove na sya sa karelasyon nyang gm tapos araw araw iba ibang gm pa rin ka sex nya. True love doesn't work that way.True love is honest and it endures no matter what. Hindi mo pwedeng Sabihin mahal mo na sya pero kailangan mo pa ring ituloy yung trabaho mo. Kung totoo yung nararamdaman mo, isusugal mo lahat and hope that it works. If you're all in and willing to lose it all then dun mo na malalaman totoong pag ibig na nga ang tumama sayo.😊

[kikomatsingmatos]

47 minutes ago, manoy buknoy said:

Ako naniniwala ang pag ibig basta mo na lng mararamdaman yan.Kahit na yung pinakaka babaero at salbaheng GM pwede makaramdam nyan.Kahit yung attendant sa mp na 5 o higit pang gm ang ka sex araw araw pwedeng makaramdam nyan.But if love has to be true then it has to be honest,right? Hindi nmn pwede sabihin mong inlove kna sa isang thera tapos araw araw ka pa rin sa pag sa shopping mo ng mga thera at gagawa kpa ng fr para ideyalye kung nilunok ba niya o dinog style mo ba. It's a cruel world, no doubt.Hindi rin pwede Sabihin ni thera inlove na sya sa karelasyon nyang gm tapos araw araw iba ibang gm pa rin ka sex nya. True love doesn't work that way.True love is honest and it endures no matter what. Hindi mo pwedeng Sabihin mahal mo na sya pero kailangan mo pa ring ituloy yung trabaho mo. Kung totoo yung nararamdaman mo, isusugal mo lahat and hope that it works. If you're all in and willing to lose it all then dun mo na malalaman totoong pag ibig na nga ang tumama sayo.😊

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