Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[kikomatsingmatos]

50 minutes ago, Midlurker2005 said:

Hahahha…matagal na ito bro. Too late. 

The NTP still exists but she left some years back. Nakahanap ng puti na ex-US Navy pero may bumulong sakin na hindi rin raw totoo rin yun. May matandang GM na nagbigay ng pangkabuhayan showcase kaya tumigil daw. Hindi ko na tinangkang i-verify. 
 

Puno’t dulo, magulo buhay nila. Kung magulo din buhay mo, pag pumatol ka, hindi siya doble kung di exponential. Kung galing ka sa “normal” na buhay o mainstream set of values and norms, magugulat ka kung gaano kaiba yung kanila. Don’t get me wrong we’re all fundamentally the same as we are all humans. Pero dun natatapos yun. Halimbawa na lang: ang normal na tao, hindi napaghiniwalay ang value system kahit hindi ka perpketo. Meaning, kahit wala ka sa katinuan, nasa isang value set ka lang. Normal ka eh. Sila hindi. Kaya nilang magkaroon ng split personality na parang switch lang. Yung split na yun may kanya kanyan set of values yun. To simplify: normal na GF mo siya kung kayo ang magkasama o magkausap. Matimtiman. Romantic. Normal.
 

Pero once na nasa mundo na sila ng trabaho nila, nagbabago na sila ng anyo. Syota na sila ng bayan. At tandaan mo, mas nauna sila sa trabaho nila kesa sayo. Mas malapit sa katotohanang value set nila kung ano sila sa work. Nobody lasts long in their work in this industry by accident. It formed them on who or what they are. Kaya yung nakikita ng mga romantiko nating kasama dito na naiinlove, produkto yun ng pagiging bihasa nila sa pagiging syota ng bayan. Hindi kayo pareho. Superficial lang yun. Kasama pang FAMAS na acting. Remember: Its a scientific fact that couples are couples because they have at least 85% of their interests are the shared or the same. Pero dito, magkaiba kayo ng mundo. So what you see as compatibility is an illusion brought about by professional work. Alam mo ba alternative word nila sa client or guest? Gawa (Work). 

Kaya, iwas iwas na lang. Live the temporary minutes as your grand illusion. But remember: its still is an illusion. Its mind-boggling $3X, I know. But keep it that way. 
 

Happy Hunting!  

+1 dito par.

makakarelate at maiintindihan ito ng mga taong namumuhay na may ibat ibang anyo rin. alam ko na may iilan rin sa atin na mga hindi thera ang ganyan.

[MagikMike]

59 minutes ago, darwin2k4 said:

Thanks for the reply bro.. Nice analysis.. 

Para hindi naman off-topic d2, I think nag-fallout of love ako sa Thera ko ever since nakita ko kinakagat nya ang kuko nya 😒 I know some of u will say na ambabaw ko naman, nail biter lang na turnoff na ko agad.. E I think it's a good thing na din kc sa mga stories d2, ilan lang ang masasabing success stories.. besides, mahirap na nasa McDonald's kayo, magkasama, tapos kinakagat nya kuko nya in public, OK lng sana kung sa kamay e kaya lang sa paa 😭😭😭 haaayss 😂😂😂

You almost had me there bro 🤣

[AngGwapo]

14 minutes ago, LookingOswald said:

Yes, which is why I find it so disturbing when I read flowery FRs then come to find out that they are actually married! Its a useless pursuit to be emotionally invested when life dictates otherwise! 

That goes both ways and even more interesting when both parties are married, regardless of emotional investment.

You wouldn't know what people are going through unless you are in their shoes...

@LookingOswald

[Paul Westford]

On 9/16/2023 at 5:58 AM, darwin2k4 said:

Saang NTP Spa ito bro? Ano ang name ng Thera at kelan daw kayo mag-aaway ulit? Asking for a friend 😂😂😂

up contact rin for research purposes lang

Edited September 17, 2023 by Paul Westford

[Harding]

On 9/16/2023 at 7:40 AM, Midlurker2005 said:

Hahahaha

Sums up my personal experience.

Worse, I found out that every time we argued, she lets herself get f(){€3d by her regulars. As in around the world. NTP eto ah (No truth in advertising  )

Even worse. Nung tuluyang kaming naghiwalay, nag out of town kagad siya kasama ang isang regular niya. Daig pa palit kotse. Para lang nagpalit ng panty. 

Never again. Kaya fair warning. Tao lang kaya marupok. Pero matanggap mo kay kung anong parte siya marna lasa kaya bumabalik sa dupok?

Happy Hunting! 

marami din babae gusto ibat ibang klaseng lasa ng lalaki.  kaya dont fall to these kind of girls.

[AngGwapo]

4 hours ago, LookingOswald said:

Yes, very messy indeed and definitely not a one way street. Often the heart makes its own plans. Its less of a judgement but more of a cautionary reminder to keep ourselves at bay! 

For those who easily fall, GM or ladies, best to not get involved in the industry @LookingOswald.

[SDMNXIX]

I wrote her off for the tenth time today
And practiced all the things I would say
But she came over, I lost my nerve
I took her back and made her dessert
Now I know I'm being used
That's okay, man, 'cause I like the abuse
I know she's playing with me
That's okay 'cause I've got no self-esteem

We make plans to go out at night
I wait 'til two, then I turn out the light
This rejection's got me so low
If she keeps it up, I just might tell her so

When she's saying, oh, that she wants only me
Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
When she's saying, oh, that I'm like a disease
Then I wonder how much more I can spend
Well, I guess I should stick up for myself
But I really think it's better this way
The more you suffer
The more it shows you really care
Right? Yeah, yeah, yeah

Now I'll relate this little bit
It happens more than I'd like to admit
Late at night, she knocks on my door
She's drunk again and looking to score
Now I know I should say no
But it's kind of hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb, but I'm not a dweeb
I'm just a sucker with no self-esteem

 

Self Esteem (originally by The Offspring pero mas gusto ko ung version ng 311)

 

[handsomebob]

9 hours ago, LookingOswald said:

Yes, which is why I find it so disturbing when I read flowery FRs then come to find out that they are actually married! Its a useless pursuit to be emotionally invested when life dictates otherwise! 

feeling gwapo eh panget naman tama ba my brother?? hahaha 

pango na pandak? ooppss na post! haha erase erase..🤣🤣🤣🤐

[BaileyG]

4 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

For those who easily fall, GM or ladies, best to not get involved in the industry @LookingOswald.

No lie.🥃

[Rolf.go.06]

May thera ako na avail na pina fall ng GM kaso pamilyado na pala si GM.

Hirap ren talaga mapa thera o GM pag na fall. 

 

[kikomatsingmatos]

3 minutes ago, Rolf.go.06 said:

May thera ako na avail na pina fall ng GM kaso pamilyado na pala si GM.

Hirap ren talaga mapa thera o GM pag na fall. 

 

kawawa naman si thera.

[markjoycehailey]

20 hours ago, LookingOswald said:

Yes, which is why I find it so disturbing when I read flowery FRs then come to find out that they are actually married! Its a useless pursuit to be emotionally invested when life dictates otherwise! 

You gave the perfect description for the delusional Professor "Desert Fox Of The World".😁😁😁

[Prinsloo]

yung thera dati na nakipag flirt sakin tapos lumayo. nagretire noong 2013. Moving fast forward 2023 36 na sya ngayun. as dry as a raisin. 

Sobrang sandali lang prime ng mga babae hayaan nyo silang mag pa yummy. pag walang sumeryoso sa kanila problema at kasalanan nila yun. 

Samantalang tayong mga lalaki hanggang 40s to 50s may asim pa basta maganda ang social standing.

wag masilaw sa ganda ng mukha at katawan sandali lang matutuyot din mga yan. or worse pag nabuntis ng maaga at lumobo at naging balyena 

baka ikaw mismo mandiri sa itsura nila after lol.

Im in my 40s and that means the chicks during my teens and 20s are also middle aged already. 

Nasabi ko na lang sa sarili ko buti na lang di kami nagkatuluyan pag nakikita ko sila sa social media nowadays lol.

Edited September 20, 2023 by Prinsloo

[Midlurker2005]

On 9/16/2023 at 12:45 PM, courtesanhunter said:

matindi pala ang naging girlfriend mo sir. bawal magalit. NTP pero mahilig sa revenge s*x.

Happy Hunting na nga lang talaga.

Haha..oh yeah. And that’s not the whole story. It gets worse. Mahirap na lang i-kwento lahat sa sobrang dami. But its all hindsight now. Bulag ka sa pag-ibig eh. Sincerely, you both want it to work. Eto yung mga gusto mong ihinga sa inuman pero hindi nga kasi normal, hindi mo rin pwede i-kwento sa tropa mo. Lol

Halimbawa ng detalye: Kasi nga alam mo NTP kaya simula pa lang alam mo na pinapasok mo diba? Tebats lang sa guest. Sige ayos lang, tuloy lang at may balak ka naman ialis siya sa industriya kasi nga mahal mo eh. Kaya mong lunukin panandalian. Yun pala, may nilulunok din siya. Hahaha 😝 Nung bago pa lang kami, tuloy pa rin pala ang paglunok niya ng punla ng kanyang mga regular! (Think: Nakipaglaplapan ako sa kanya pagkatapos ng shift niya! I know…ewwww). Hindi mo naman masisi, pera yun eh. Besides, as I mentioned in my post to this, they do have a switch embedded in their brains that when flipped, they become who they are when you found them. She wanted to keep her regulars happy too (best in customer engagement and retention award?).  Oo nga naman. “ Lalaki ka lang. Hindi ikaw ang una. Love kita, pero malamang hindi ikaw ang huli.” 
 

Kaya iwas ng kaunti. Except for Pretty Woman, there’s not a lot of love stories involving these characters, GM and thera, that do end up as happy stories in pop culture. There’s a reason to that. Your love story (fine. Lets call it that) is that space when your world and hers overlap. But its a small space compared to your respective individual worlds.

Dont get me wrong. Its been years but I still think fondly of her. Lampas dekada na pero may kurot pa rin ng kaunti. Daig pa perslab kasi nga naman, matindi yung kondisyon ng pagmamahalan niyo. Yun lang pag naalala mo yung mga detalye, natatawa ka na lang sa kabaliwan mo. Kaya nga fair warning sa mga kapatid na parokyano. Iwas iwas. 

Oh speaking of Pretty Woman, the original screenplay was supposed to end tragically. It wasn’t a fairy tale. 
 

Happy Hunting!   

Edited September 18, 2023 by Midlurker2005

[courtesanhunter]

2 hours ago, Midlurker2005 said:

Haha..oh yeah. And that’s not the whole story. It gets worse. Mahirap na lang i-kwento lahat sa sobrang dami. But its all hindsight now. Bulag ka sa pag-ibig eh. Sincerely, you both want it to work. Eto yung mga gusto mong ihinga sa inuman pero hindi nga kasi normal, hindi mo rin pwede i-kwento sa tropa mo. Lol

Halimbawa ng detalye: Kasi nga alam mo NTP kaya simula pa lang alam mo na pinapasok mo diba? Tebats lang sa guest. Sige ayos lang, tuloy lang at may balak ka naman ialis siya sa industriya kasi nga mahal mo eh. Kaya mong lunukin panandalian. Yun pala, may nilulunok din siya. Hahaha 😝 Nung bago pa lang kami, tuloy pa rin ang paglunok niya ng punla ng kanyang mga regular! (Think: Nakipaglaplapan ako sa kanya pagkatapos ng shift niya! I know…ewwww) Hindi mo naman masisi, pera yun eh. Besides, as I mentioned in my post to this, they do have a switch embedded in their brains that when flipped, they become who they are when you found them. She wanted to keep her regulars happy too (best in customer engagement and retention award?).  Oo nga naman. “ Lalaki ka lang. Hindi ikaw ang una. Love kita, pero malamang hindi ikaw ang huli.” 
 

Kaya iwas ng kaunti. Except for Pretty Woman, there’s not a lot of love stories involving these characters, GM and thera, that do end up as happy stories in pop culture. There’s a reason to that. Your love story (fine. Lets call it that) is that space when your world and hers overlap. But its a small space compared to your respective individual worlds.

Dont get me wrong. Its been years but I still think fondly of her. Lampas dekada na pero may kurot pa rin ng kaunti. Daig pa perslab kasi nga naman, matindi yung kondisyon ng pagmamahalan niyo. Yun lang pag naalala mo yung mga detalye, natatawa ka na lang sa kabaliwan mo. Kaya nga fair warning sa mga kapatid na parokyano. Iwas iwas. 

Oh speaking of Pretty Woman, the original screenplay was supposed to end tragically. It wasn’t a fairy tale. 
 

Happy Hunting!   

in a way i can relate sa story mo sir. at talagang matatawa ka na lang kapag naaalala mo yung mga pagkakamali sa nakaraan.

siguradong karamihan ng mga boyfriend masasaktan sa ganung klase ng sitwasyon. although on a client's perspective i must admit na i find that ladies' trait interesting. o siguro yun ay dahil wala naman akong experience sa mga no touch policy. exciting isipin na may package pala ang babae na pwede mong maunlock dahil lang sa may tampuhan sila ng karelasyon niya.