Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Raizenne]

He's a bachelor.

Poor girl...

[Joie]

irrelevant and it shouldn't matter. imho, mas totoong tao pa nga "most" of the MPAs and PSPs i've been with kesa sa maraming nasa matitinong trabaho.

 

 

This goes both ways too.

 

From what I read about the situation that mr swithotguy is in ... seems to me as if his ex has her share of the fault in the mess that they are in.

 

Let me stress though that I think she is at fault as well NOT BECAUSE she is a PSP but because from what it appears, she has kept so many things hidden from the guy that is supposed to be her boyfriend.

 

On the other hand, swithotguy should have known and understood what he was getting himself into when he got into a relationship with a PSP. He should have been more prepared for the consequences.

 

To the ex gf and swithotguy --- look at it this way. After all that has happened, and after all the dirty linen that has been aired on this thread, do you still think a relationshp between the two of you will work? If the answer is yes then go for it ... if the answer is no, then please, part as friends and move on.

 

Enough of the dirty linen. Try to remember that at some point, you loved each other and leave it at that.

 

And to the rest of the readers of this lovestory -- quit blaming one or the other for the mess they find themselves in. Remember, it always takes two.

Edited November 1, 2006 by Joie

[kobeshaq]

I believe there's nobody to be blamed in this situation. You accepted a PSP to be your GF and falling in love with her at the same time. Falling in love means you are accepting whoever or whatever she is. Why was she a PSP in the first place? It's because of financial needs. It just so happen that she fell in love with you also but there remains her financial needs. She could be a breadwinner too to make the matter worst, and doing it is her only way to support her family needs. Understand her situation and your capability as well to support her if you insist on pushing through with your relationship. If you still can't accept her shortcomings... move on pal!

[stalker6443]

Really, this would be a very big problem for those married guys. Marriage and family relationship could be ruined. But, it's a fact that many men are experiencing. But what can we do? They say that love can move mountains... Indeed it can also ruin everything...

 

But one of the much greater problem is that, can u be sure that the one whom you will choose to stay for the rest of your life, which would ruin your marriage and family, would really stay with you for the rest of her or your life...

 

Pag sure tayo, pwd cguro... But, again, time change and people change... D kaya tayo magbagao, o d kaya siya magbago? Napakarami ng dapat nating isipin at pagnilay-nilayan bago siguro tayo pumasok sa ganito....

 

What do you thinks bros?

[swithotguy]

guys! TNX

[swithotguy]

guys! TNX sa mga tumulong sakin mag move on ng kht paonti onti.. guys tnx tlg kina RAIZENE, GENUIS8, LARRY,MR. JOHN,JOIE, ARCHITECT KHALILLE, WYLD at sa mga hnd ko nabangit, THANKS TLGA GUYS!

 

alam k maraming nag react sa problm ko, may mga nag react ng veiolently, meron din nmang mature mag isip...hnd k kayo masisisi..bsta tnx sa mga tumulong sakin..

 

mdyo nakaka move on na ako ngaun guys,,nakaka move on ako dhil sa mga tulong nyo sakin guys..tnx! tnx!!

[swithotguy]

I believe there's nobody to be blamed in this situation. You accepted a PSP to be your GF and falling in love with her at the same time. Falling in love means you are accepting whoever or whatever she is. Why was she a PSP in the first place? It's because of financial needs. It just so happen that she fell in love with you also but there remains her financial needs. She could be a breadwinner too to make the matter worst, and doing it is her only way to support her family needs. Understand her situation and your capability as well to support her if you insist on pushing through with your relationship. If you still can't accept her shortcomings... move on pal!

 

i will move on complety in due time dud....tnx!

 

i knew all her needs, and i tryd to give it all to her sa abot ng makakaya ko na isang student..pero hnd k tlg matngap na nag lie pa sya sakin..i min, my point is if gipit sya, sbhn nya sakin..wag ung itatago pa nya.db? kc ako umaasa na wla syang gngwang msama sa back ko..gets m bro? napakasakit kaya na malaman m na may gngwang bad things ang gf/bf m syo db? ikw ba wat will you feel if you found out that your gf is doing bad things behind your back? "just my opinion..im not starting an argument..ok? peace.. :mtc:

[play_boi]

yes its possible to love MPA PSP but the question is, is their a posibility for them to love you back considering they meet different guys.

[Raizenne]

But what if the reverse happens

 

they're the ones that fall for you?

 

just a hypothetical....

 

 

Nangyayari din naman yan. Yun nga lang magiging napakahirap para sa kanila ang makatagpo ng lalaking seseryosohin sila, at yung wala pang sabit.

[Joie]

i will move on complety in due time dud....tnx!

 

i knew all her needs, and i tryd to give it all to her sa abot ng makakaya ko na isang student..pero hnd k tlg matngap na nag lie pa sya sakin..i min, my point is if gipit sya, sbhn nya sakin..wag ung itatago pa nya.db? kc ako umaasa na wla syang gngwang msama sa back ko..gets m bro? napakasakit kaya na malaman m na may gngwang bad things ang gf/bf m syo db? ikw ba wat will you feel if you found out that your gf is doing bad things behind your back? "just my opinion..im not starting an argument..ok? peace.. :mtc:

 

 

Dude... first off. Its not your obligation to attend to all her needs.

 

In one of your posts you mentioned "napag sho shopping mo pa sya...."

 

I mean ... if being a PSP is the only way she knows (or wants to) to earn a living - so be it. There are always options open to everyone but if she wont take those options, you cant force her.

 

If you cant handle that then just let go.

 

If she loved you enough to make the relationship work, she would tell you the truth and make enough adjustments on her part. Obviously, she doesnt.

 

So there. Plain and simple.

 

Use this time to recover and make a life for yourself. She obviously has.

[Mr KIM]

opinion lang ito wala sanang magagalit. mahirap buhay ngayon as a psp...gro mpa

sa dami ng binubuhay nila nakakalimutan nila minsan sarili nilang happiness just

to help their family. yung word na love di nila nakikita yun sa araw araw mahirap sa

kanila umibig and to gain trust

 

sino ba namang babae iibig na sa araw araw ginawa ng diyos sila ay parausan

ng mga may kaya sa lipunan. and if they quit kadalasan na garahe na sila

 

for them money first then garahe and love later yan ang cycle sa buhay ng isang

psp...gro....or mpa :boo:

[Mr KIM]

i will move on complety in due time dud....tnx!

 

i knew all her needs, and i tryd to give it all to her sa abot ng makakaya ko na isang student..pero hnd k tlg matngap na nag lie pa sya sakin..i min, my point is if gipit sya, sbhn nya sakin..wag ung itatago pa nya.db? kc ako umaasa na wla syang gngwang msama sa back ko..gets m bro? napakasakit kaya na malaman m na may gngwang bad things ang gf/bf m syo db? ikw ba wat will you feel if you found out that your gf is doing bad things behind your back? "just my opinion..im not starting an argument..ok? peace.. :mtc:

 

dude dont get angry opinion lang. you are a student well you are lowest sa food chain

wen it cums in loving them coz your resources are limited to compete and tagilid ka. maganda

gawin mo study then get a high paying job then after that if you still love her habulin mo na sya

siguro naman kaya mo na syang i provide ng more than the ordinary :boo: :cool:

[play_boi]

tama si mr kim bro. take it from the expert. hehehe joke!

 

bro this time pag aaral mo muna asikasuhin mo. thik about this.. kung yun MP ang bread winner sa bahay nila you cannot blame her na gumawa ng pera. now kun di man nya sabihin sayo na gagawa sya ng pera dahil siguro ayaw nya masaktan feeling mo habang gngawa nya yun.

 

ako i used to have a gro GF but since student din ako that time at hindi ko sya kaya bantayan pag gabi i make it the point na she'll enjoy the best dayoff of her life pag mag kasama kami. with that, na fall din sya talaga at nag decide mag quit sa work.. yun nga lang d sya ang bread winner sa kanila gngwa nya lang dahil parang na illegal recruit sya na sabi model sya sa manila (dahil taga davao sya) yun pala GRO. shes from classmate bytheway.. hehehe baka bumalik sya dun kasi wala na kami. hihihi

[swithotguy]

tama si mr kim bro. take it from the expert. hehehe joke!

 

bro this time pag aaral mo muna asikasuhin mo. thik about this.. kung yun MP ang bread winner sa bahay nila you cannot blame her na gumawa ng pera. now kun di man nya sabihin sayo na gagawa sya ng pera dahil siguro ayaw nya masaktan feeling mo habang gngawa nya yun.

 

ako i used to have a gro GF but since student din ako that time at hindi ko sya kaya bantayan pag gabi i make it the point na she'll enjoy the best dayoff of her life pag mag kasama kami. with that, na fall din sya talaga at nag decide mag quit sa work.. yun nga lang d sya ang bread winner sa kanila gngwa nya lang dahil parang na illegal recruit sya na sabi model sya sa manila (dahil taga davao sya) yun pala GRO. shes from classmate bytheway.. hehehe baka bumalik sya dun kasi wala na kami. hihihi

 

tnx sa advice dud...tnx sa inyong lahat na nakaka intindi sakin

[swithotguy]

Dude... first off. Its not your obligation to attend to all her needs.

 

In one of your posts you mentioned "napag sho shopping mo pa sya...."

 

I mean ... if being a PSP is the only way she knows (or wants to) to earn a living - so be it. There are always options open to everyone but if she wont take those options, you cant force her.

 

If you cant handle that then just let go.

 

If she loved you enough to make the relationship work, she would tell you the truth and make enough adjustments on her part. Obviously, she doesnt.

 

So there. Plain and simple.

 

Use this time to recover and make a life for yourself. She obviously has.

 

tnx JOIE! i will realy try to move on and recover and pick up the pieces..nadurog tlg ako.. THANK YOU sa laht ng mga naitulong nyo sakin...tnx! pag may prblm din kyo, dont hesitate to pm me..im more dan wiling to help sa abot ng aking makakya..tnx..ingat kayo laht and GODBLESS to all and to your family..

[mahaderong_maldito]

tnx JOIE! i will realy try to move on and recover and pick up the pieces..nadurog tlg ako.. THANK YOU sa laht ng mga naitulong nyo sakin...tnx! pag may prblm din kyo, dont hesitate to pm me..im more dan wiling to help sa abot ng aking makakya..tnx..ingat kayo laht and GODBLESS to all and to your family..

 

 

 

muka naman kawawa un girl!!!!! bro dapat be fair to ur ex kalalaki mong tao!!!! :goatee:

[pulis_pangkalawakan]

tnx JOIE! i will realy try to move on and recover and pick up the pieces..nadurog tlg ako.. THANK YOU sa laht ng mga naitulong nyo sakin...tnx! pag may prblm din kyo, dont hesitate to pm me..im more dan wiling to help sa abot ng aking makakya..tnx..ingat kayo laht and GODBLESS to all and to your family..

 

 

 

 

ehem pasabat lang alam mo kung gusto mo pahintuin un gf mo kailangan kaya mo na sya tulungan saka bakit parang ikaw ang mukang kawawa dito??? mali ata yun ha kahit di ko pa namemeet yung gf mo alam ko na mabuti syang tao!!

[swithotguy]

dude dont get angry opinion lang. you are a student well you are lowest sa food chain

wen it cums in loving them coz your resources are limited to compete and tagilid ka. maganda

gawin mo study then get a high paying job then after that if you still love her habulin mo na sya

siguro naman kaya mo na syang i provide ng more than the ordinary :boo: :cool:

 

 

tnx mr kim..will take ur addvices..study muna..tnx

[swithotguy]

guys/gals, ganun pala tlg ang love..tama nga sla..masarap magmhal pero mas msarap kpg mahal ka din tlg na mhal m..db? loving makes our life complicated pero masarap din feeling kpg nagmamhal kyo..db?

[cool_kojie]

its a pretty damn complicated thing to get into. So far I am lucky enough na di ako mainlove. Its easy sometimes to fall in love with them they are like regular girls remove the job part (PSP, MP Escort) they are regular women, just like your ate your sister, your wife, your friend. You have to look beyond what they do if you really fell for one. Its hard kaya i dont wanna be in that situation. I am a married man so guys out there na single, its their right to love and be loved. Cant take that away from them. But if you cannot retun the favor to them and its just a "sex thing", dont play with their feelings. You dont wanna be treated the same way right.

 

Married Men Stay with your Wife!!!! Its okey to play but Hanngang don lang!!!!!

[assasin]

opinion lang ito wala sanang magagalit. mahirap buhay ngayon as a psp...gro mpa

sa dami ng binubuhay nila nakakalimutan nila minsan sarili nilang happiness just

to help their family. yung word na love di nila nakikita yun sa araw araw mahirap sa

kanila umibig and to gain trust

 

sino ba namang babae iibig na sa araw araw ginawa ng diyos sila ay parausan

ng mga may kaya sa lipunan. and if they quit kadalasan na garahe na sila

 

for them money first then garahe and love later yan ang cycle sa buhay ng isang

psp...gro....or mpa :boo:

yeah i agree mr kim :cool:

[iwalkalone]

yes its possible to love MPA PSP but the question is, is their a posibility for them to love you back considering they meet different guys.

 

ano ba namang tanong po yaan? ikaw ba sa lahat ng nameet mo o naka sex mo na inlove ka?...syempre po...di rin kami ganun...iba ang sex sa work...nakahiwalay dun ang puso...para lang kaming robot...programmed to please atsaka bakit naman walang possibilty na mainlove kami e tao lang din naman kami at may puso...actually mas madali nga kaming mapa inlove e...kase feeling namin... kami ang mahirap mahalin...kaya...pag may type kami tapos nagpakita ng sobrang care and affection...we tend to fall agad....

Sa case ni swithotguy....parehas lang silang victim ng situation....malaki siguro pag asa kung sakaling kaya ni swithotguy sana na iahon yung girl at suportahan all the way pati family nya. Mahirap yun...pero it's the only way...kaya for a student like him...tsk tsk tsk....doomed talaga ang relationsgip nila from the start.

[Dirty_Harry]

"Sex is the man's weakness".

 

This is the best ploy or tactic for a woman to get you. I think we, the men are fool enough to be trapped with this called LOVE but we have been blinded by LUST once we see a naked a woman we feel the hardons in our c*cks.

 

Reality Check better think a million times is she really meant for you or else you fail. Weigh in the consequences of your actions and be cautious on making this decision.

 

PSP/MPAs, KTV girl a.k.a. W*ores/ho*kers/prostit*tes are humans too.

[jake_romp]

mahirap yan and masakit sa ulo.

[iwalkalone]

mahirap yan and masakit sa ulo.

 

agree ako, mga gaya kase namin...psychologically and emotionally disturbed na....kaw ba namn magkaganito di ka mawiwindang?...kaya....kahit nagmamahal kami...mahirap talaga kaming makasama.