Kentmarlo Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 Honestly in my view pag nainlove ka you cannot use your head above, sa huli mo marealize yan sabi ko nga habang masaya ka at nag eenjoy ka kahit alam mong mali, hindi mo dati ginagawa gagawin mo habang masaya ka. Pero alam mong mali, ayaw mong gawin pero gagawin mo, pag hindi nangyayari yung gusto mong direction ng pagbabago sa babae at unti unti nakikita mo o nakakaramdam ka na parang one sided, thats the start na mawawalan kana ng gana at marealize mo lahat. Quote Link to comment
pendongpeace Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 meron akong kilala (si thera yung kilala ko), nagkatuluyan sila guest at si thera. last i checked sila pa din at nag-stop na sa spa si thera.. mahirap, pero possible Quote Link to comment
haroots2 Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 Honestly in my view pag nainlove ka you cannot use your head above, sa huli mo marealize yan sabi ko nga habang masaya ka at nag eenjoy ka kahit alam mong mali, hindi mo dati ginagawa gagawin mo habang masaya ka. Pero alam mong mali, ayaw mong gawin pero gagawin mo, pag hindi nangyayari yung gusto mong direction ng pagbabago sa babae at unti unti nakikita mo o nakakaramdam ka na parang one sided, thats the start na mawawalan kana ng gana at marealize mo lahat.Totally agree. Mas prone ang GMs ma inlove sa thera than other way around. Ang problem most theras are too young and still immature on having serious relationships but the GM are dead serious on it. Quote Link to comment
Gits Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 (edited) Totally agree. Mas prone ang GMs ma inlove sa thera than other way around. Ang problem most theras are too young and still immature on having serious relationships but the GM are dead serious on it.tama! isama mo na din yung dahilan na paiba iba kasing GM ang na memeet nila sa ganyang trabaho, tapos may mga gm pa na magaling gumawa ng storya tipong binabaliktad ang storya para masira yung isa para sya naman ang mapalapit kay thera. posible naman talaga na magkatuluyan yun nga lang mababa ang successful rate compare sa failed relationship. Edited August 27, 2015 by Gits 1 Quote Link to comment
Kentmarlo Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 tama! isama mo na din yung dahilan na paiba iba kasing GM ang na memeet nila sa ganyang trabaho, tapos may mga gm pa na magaling gumawa ng storya tipong binabaliktad ang storya para masira yung isa para sya naman ang mapalapit kay thera. posible naman talaga na magkatuluyan yun nga lang mababa ang successful rate compare sa failed relationship. Malaki ang posibilidad magkatuluyan. Para sa akin nasa babae dapat ang mas malaking effort after nya maramdaman at makitang totoo ang GM sa kanya at susuportahan sya magiba ng trabaho o bigyan ng pagkakakitaan. Ipakita rin nya na kaya nyang magbago at kalimutan ang nakaraan nya, at maging totoo. Yan naman eh sakin lang, dahil tingin ko napakalaking decision din sa lalaki na magbigay ng chance sa isang babae na hindi ka sigurado. Quote Link to comment
silvio.blackwater Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 it just won't work... at least in my experience hehe.. i thought i can disprove it myself but after several attempts with different girls, I was finally convinced that the girls' "past" is something that will haunt us both and prevent us from engaging in a positive and emotionally stable relationship. Granted that I too have issues and baggage, these girls are either too "broken' ' or hardened by engaging in this profession that any normal dude cannot just let go of the knowledge that she is/was a therapist.. those who are looking for love in an espa is looking at the wrong place... what I did,.. I stopped going to espas, shifted my attention to other girls who worked in different professions and made myself a happy dude who doesnt have to worry that his girl is being enjoyed by other guys on a daily basis.. Sobrang hindi ko kayo masisisi sir. Isipin nga lang nagawa nung gf mo sa ex nya mabigat na sa loob, pano pa yung marami siyang experience sa iba. Bilib ako sa GMs na kayang makahanap ng tunay na relationship dito. Quote Link to comment
Kentmarlo Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 Talagang napakahirap nyan tanggapin pero pag na inlove ka lulunokin mo lahat. Kaya nasabi ko rin na dapat yata mas maraming effort ang babae para maging happy ending kasi kung si lalaki na nga na nagbibigay ng chance for her para magbagong buhay at gagastusan kapa tapos wala ka pang makuhang pagmamahal kahit anong inlove sa bandang huli magsasawa din kahit siguro sino. Quote Link to comment
Gits Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 (edited) Malaki ang posibilidad magkatuluyan. Para sa akin nasa babae dapat ang mas malaking effort after nya maramdaman at makitang totoo ang GM sa kanya at susuportahan sya magiba ng trabaho o bigyan ng pagkakakitaan. Ipakita rin nya na kaya nyang magbago at kalimutan ang nakaraan nya, at maging totoo. Yan naman eh sakin lang, dahil tingin ko napakalaking decision din sa lalaki na magbigay ng chance sa isang babae na hindi ka sigurado. dapat naman talaga maging seryoso at mag effort din kasi yung girl hindi yung lalaki lang. May experience na rin naman ako ng ganitong situation. may naging ex ako na thera dati. infact dalawang beses ako nakapagligaw ng thera. 3 years ang pagitan at single ako ng mga time na yun. Sila ang mga thera na naging kaibigan at naging kaclose ko noon. may balita pa ako sa isa pero things has changed i'm more on self love now. work is my priority. Edited August 27, 2015 by Gits Quote Link to comment
Gits Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 Why do i have this feeling na majority na nag post dito sa thread eh either in a relationship or have a past relationship with a thera. Mabuti naka move on na ako.... but I can never tell lalo na pag may matipuhan ulit kaya iniiwasan ko ang spa sa d. tuazon. just sharing some insights and opinions from what we had experienced in the past. anyway marami talaga don sa may spa sa d. tuazon. ingat lang be mindful of your feelings guard your heart. hehehe... Quote Link to comment
Bravo15 Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 Talagang mahirap maiwasan ma fall lalo na kung maganda at mabait. I have 3 times relationship sa thera kaya lang hindi nagprosper. Quote Link to comment
Gits Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 Talagang mahirap maiwasan ma fall lalo na kung maganda at mabait. I have 3 times relationship sa thera kaya lang hindi nagprosper. twice i courted 2 therapist (hindi sabay) the first 1 became my gf but we broke up after 11 months. the other 1 did not work at all. (hindi naging kami) Quote Link to comment
manananggol Posted August 28, 2015 Share Posted August 28, 2015 Why do i have this feeling na majority na nag post dito sa thread eh either in a relationship or have a past relationship with a thera. Mabuti naka move on na ako.... but I can never tell lalo na pag may matipuhan ulit kaya iniiwasan ko ang spa sa d. tuazon. I think sir, madali kasing maghanap ng maliligawan sa espa or KTV or even MPs..... girls are conveniently available since naka hilera na sila everyday sa lineup, sa pics pa lang at sa frs makakahanap ka na ng kursunada mo haha..sabi nga ng isang vetaran MTC member noon, ang manligaw sa isang spa, MP or KTV is like "hunting in a farm" ... now whether she really likes/loves you is another matter...some girls do fall but a lot more are just playing along din. masrap manligaw sa spa or MP or KTV kasi wala silang choice dahil nagbabayad tayo:)those who chose to make the girls their gfs outside the joint actually side stepped and bypassed a lot of stages like getting to know them, courtship, etc...kumbaga hubad na kayo pareho at nagagawa na yung gusto eh mag-iinarte pa ba?hehe.. kaya hats off ako sa mga guys who know their gfs' colorful past and still choose to stay with them and help her turn a new leaf , I myself can never be that noble as I knew about myself after my failed relships...we may call those guys "pendeho/suckers/masochists, etc" but those who stick with them through it all exemplify genuine unconditional love. 2 Quote Link to comment
global4 Posted August 28, 2015 Share Posted August 28, 2015 You have to make sure that the woman is really seriously in love with you and not just pretending. Quote Link to comment
***SUPREMO*** Posted August 28, 2015 Share Posted August 28, 2015 its not impossible especially if you're attracted to each other and you already spent time together. Quote Link to comment
Kentmarlo Posted August 28, 2015 Share Posted August 28, 2015 Tingin ko walang pupunta dyan para maghanap ng maliligawan, nagkakataon lang na may nagugustuhan at nakakagaanan ng loob mo at naiinlove. Hirap isize up ng mga yan kung totoong inlove hanggang marealize mo na hindi pala. Sabi ko nga habang masaya ka at enjoy ka you dont care if they are serious or not, habang tumatagal pag hindi mo nakita o naramdaman ang tamang dapat na nangyayari thats the time u will end the story. Honestly merOn kasing tingin mo pa lang gusto mo na, pag natikman mo na lalo na, hindi rin totoong pare pareho lang sila, may differences lalo na depende sa taste mo. Pag nahuli pa ang kiliti mo eh sabit na. Quote Link to comment
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