Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Chocolates]

Fall from therapist its not big mistake

,,coz being therapy in spakol..at npka hard...kailangan gwin pra sa family ...pero totoo kme mgmahal...lalo n sa lalaking my malawak na kaisipan at pang unawa....

 

 

I belived in you, Ms. Sweet_Apple. Do not lose faith in humanity. There are still men who understand the situations.

[CardingTigas]

I totally understand you bro, been there and you don't think of what is happening sa loob ng workplace. As long as you feel secured sa relationship and trust one another. Solve na dapat yun. But very few men can do that.

 

One more thing, just a piece of advice to those who are in this situation, "What happens inside the room, stays inside the room" wala ng tanungan, wag na natin dagdagan un stress na nararamdaman ng mga thera... not unless if they asked you to do an FR for them, then that's a different story, you can get romantically involved or you could remain good friends, still your choice....

Edited September 15, 2014 by cardingtigas

[Verna of Oasis]

Iilan lang po ang mga GM's na may respeto at nakakaintindi sa sitwasyon ng mga theras...nakita at na feel ko ung pain nila khit sabihin mo mag ingat kung maiinlove sa mga GM's hndi nila maiwasan kc they long for someone who will understand their situation. May mga gm's din nmn n nkakaawa din kc may mga thera din na trabaho lang at pera ang gusto nila. Disappointed khit gusto nila tlungan ung thera. May mga thera tin na ngagamit lang din ng mga GM's pra mkalibre hehehe minsan kung sino ung mabait na gm or thera sila pa naloloko...masarap magmahal kapag parehas kayo totoo sa feelings nyo... ♥♥♥

[CardingTigas]

Iilan lang po ang mga GM's na may respeto at nakakaintindi sa sitwasyon ng mga theras...nakita at na feel ko ung pain nila khit sabihin mo mag ingat kung maiinlove sa mga GM's hndi nila maiwasan kc they long for someone who will understand their situation. May mga gm's din nmn n nkakaawa din kc may mga thera din na trabaho lang at pera ang gusto nila. Disappointed khit gusto nila tlungan ung thera. May mga thera tin na ngagamit lang din ng mga GM's pra mkalibre hehehe minsan kung sino ung mabait na gm or thera sila pa naloloko...masarap magmahal kapag parehas kayo totoo sa feelings nyo... ♥♥♥

 

Exactly!!! kung sino pa un sincere yun pa ang nasa loosing end madalas

[markjoycehailey]

Bakit ba kailangang mag-alaga ng baboy kung puwede namang bumili ng por kilo? Isip isip lang...

[RichardCo]

ask her out...wag sa work place nya, dun mo malalaman kung totoo sya sa mga gestures nya sayo. the more na nasa workplace ka nya the more n vulnerable ka

 

 

Sir GM. Try ko suggestion mo. Thanks.

[RichardCo]

this is the most dangerous kind of women youll ever meet. the one that invests in you. one that uses her brain more than her heart. im not saying that she that but if she really falls for you, you have a gem in her. a rare gem

 

may i ask, are you a catch?

 

 

Sir GM. I don't see me as a catch. I consider myself old (going 50) and just give room rate as tip. But I am respectful and treating them good and true to my feelings for them.

[CardingTigas]

I have no doubt that you will have a very very long and "successful" so-called "career" in the spa business. Spa owners, managers and therapists salivate at the prospect of having a loyal customer like you who defend the honor and dignity of these damsels in distress(???).

 

Viva, Don Quixote de la Mancha!

 

hindi ko naman kina-career to, I'm just saying, tulad din ng babae yan, marunong din magmahal, marunong din masaktan pag nakaka dinig ng hindi maganda tungkol sa kanila, lalo na sa mga ganitong bagay. they should also be treated with respect like other women outside this industry. Mahirap ba gawin yun???

 

Yes I do F.R.'s but it is with their consent. pinapabasa ko muna sa kanya bago ko I-post. at least sigurado ako na i'm not crossing the line and hindi ko sya ma offend, I do FR's relative to her standards, making sure na hindi ko sya ma offend and I only play with those who wants to play with me, but with limitations.

 

Yes I'm having fun and at the same time making friends within this industry. but I do it "Responsibly" making sure I am not hurting anyone.

 

 

Edited September 16, 2014 by cardingtigas

[haroots2]

Still, it is better to love and lost than not to feel love at all. IMHO lang po.

 

I agree there but sometimes it really hurts especially kung later on malaman mo na hindi naman deserving yung girl.

[Verna of Oasis]

I agree there but sometimes it really hurts especially kung later on malaman mo na hindi naman deserving yung girl.

therapists & GM's parehas lang kayo may pkiramdam at nasasaktan ang pinagkaiba lang eh pera po kasi ang invest nyo and sa mga theras skills at pagkatao nila binibigay nila sa inyo. Parang susugal k din kpag nagmahal ka. Minsan jackpot pa nga eh!

Kaya wala nmn masama kung magmahal ng thera nakakahiya man ang naging past nya or kung saan mo man sya nakuha kung ikaw magging reason ng ikagaganda ng buhay nya gumawa ka ng way para iwasan nya na ganyang trabaho nakatulong kpa s knya. Basta open kayo sa isa't isa at honest kayo...both of will live a happy life and happy ending ang love story nya...hehehe!

[Chocolates]

I agree there but sometimes it really hurts especially kung later on malaman mo na hindi naman deserving yung girl.

 

 

Yap you are right. Then what we can do is to move on.

[paulwalking]

Pag dating sa pera diyan magkakalaman, pag ikaw gastos ng gastos magisip ka na..pero pag ikaw na ginagastosan ibang level na yun..

 

Sa totoo lang malaki kita nila kumpara sa mga typical na empleyado like entry level call center agents or bank employees na sumusuweldo lang ng 25-30k/mo..

 

on average nasa mga 30k kita ng thera pataas per month, meron mas mababa siguro yung mga di mebenta pero pagusapan natin yung good to average looking.

 

Sa MPAs naman pag top ten nasa mga more or less 80k/month. I've seen the kitchen and pantrys of top mpas before punong puno ng imported canned goods at pagkain.

 

pero pano nila kinita yun? baka di mo masikmura kung pano... sa ibat ibang lalaki, matanda, mataba, maitim, panget may amoy..

 

So para magastusan ka ng regalong pabango o t shirt o kung ano mang bagay, medyo ibang level na yun..matinding paghihirap at pagtitiis yun..

 

kaya for me the ultimate test is the money issue. pag balewala na yan, mahal ka na niyan.

 

At talgang nangyayari yan, ang alat lang itong mga to they always fall for the badboy or ungas types, yung lolokohin lang sila tapos in the

 

end sila rin kawawa. Pano kasi ang good boy sa iba sa kanila walang challenge, boring at corny, I've even encountered one who told me iba

 

raw kasi magmahal ang may asawa kaya laging nag fofall sa may sabit. yari ka talaga diyan.

Edited September 16, 2014 by paulwalking

[b0ybackup]

As I've said earlier, when a woman monetizes love and sex and uses it for a living, mahirap mahalin yan. The ultimate make or break nyan probably is pag magdesisyon ang thera na magquit sa spa industry for the guy, then get another job entirely not related. Guy accepts her past and voila!

[markjoycehailey]

hindi pendejo pangalan ko. kupsako hindi mo ba tinignan name ko bawabawa2. bakit kaya hindi yung bawabawa2 gamitin mo? ayaw mo makilala, alam naman nila na ikaw yan

 

Alam naman pala nila eh bakit kailangan ko pa gamitin yon? Eh di tawagin mo kung ano gusto mong itawag sa akin.

 

Kung gusto mo pa iba, puwede mo din ako tawagin na Kantoteri Superior;).

[markjoycehailey]

Pag dating sa pera diyan magkakalaman, pag ikaw gastos ng gastos magisip ka na..pero pag ikaw na ginagastosan ibang level na yun..

 

Sa totoo lang malaki kita nila kumpara sa mga typical na empleyado like entry level call center agents or bank employees na sumusuweldo lang ng 25-30k/mo..

 

on average nasa mga 30k kita ng thera pataas per month, meron mas mababa siguro yung mga di mebenta pero pagusapan natin yung good to average looking.

 

Sa MPAs naman pag top ten nasa mga more or less 80k/month. I've seen the kitchen and pantrys of top mpas before punong puno ng imported canned goods at pagkain.

 

pero pano nila kinita yun? baka di mo masikmura kung pano... sa ibat ibang lalaki, matanda, mataba, maitim, panget may amoy..

 

So para magastusan ka ng regalong pabango o t shirt o kung ano mang bagay, medyo ibang level na yun..matinding paghihirap at pagtitiis yun..

 

kaya for me the ultimate test is the money issue. pag balewala na yan, mahal ka na niyan.

 

At talgang nangyayari yan, ang alat lang itong mga to they always fall for the badboy or ungas types, yung lolokohin lang sila tapos in the

 

end sila rin kawawa. Pano kasi ang good boy sa iba sa kanila walang challenge, boring at corny, I've even encountered one who told me iba

 

raw kasi magmahal ang may asawa kaya laging nag fofall sa may sabit. yari ka talaga diyan.

 

There was a time when popular therapists easily broke 6 figures monthly. I know of one thera who regularly made 15k daily.

Edited September 17, 2014 by markjoycehailey

[Edmund Dantes]

As I've said earlier, when a woman monetizes love and sex and uses it for a living, mahirap mahalin yan. The ultimate make or break nyan probably is pag magdesisyon ang thera na magquit sa spa industry for the guy, then get another job entirely not related. Guy accepts her past and voila!

 

 

Finally someones making a lot of sense! Ito ang matagal ko ng sinasabi kasi na hindi maintindihan ng mga resident white knights dito. Wala naman siguro nagsasabi dito na walang karapatan mga babaeng ganito na magbago, magmahal, at mahalin. Ang sinasabi ko dito na matagal na, mas maganda kung gawin ito pag wala na sa trabahong ganyan di ba? Kasi dehado naman lalake dyan ng sobra. Now after makalabas sa ganyang trabaho, at least she can that its already a past that she will permanently leave behind. If the guy can accept her past and is willing to trust, di ok. At least di ba, walang sikreto walang dahilan para mainsecure.

 

 

Dont even start with the whole, "it takes someone with a heart to understand crap". Lahat naman tayo dito may puso. Pero ginagamit yan ng tama at sinasamahan ng pagiisip isip. Sabagay, lahat naman siguro din tayo dumadating sa punto na nadadala ng sobrang emosyon, hangang ang emosyon na magdidikta ng pagiisip at kinikilos.

 

 

 

 

And thunmbs down votes from the white knights in 10……9…….8……..7

 

 

[CardingTigas]

Finally someones making a lot of sense! Ito ang matagal ko ng sinasabi kasi na hindi maintindihan ng mga resident white knights dito. Wala naman siguro nagsasabi dito na walang karapatan mga babaeng ganito na magbago, magmahal, at mahalin. Ang sinasabi ko dito na matagal na, mas maganda kung gawin ito pag wala na sa trabahong ganyan di ba? Kasi dehado naman lalake dyan ng sobra. Now after makalabas sa ganyang trabaho, at least she can that its already a past that she will permanently leave behind. If the guy can accept her past and is willing to trust, di ok. At least di ba, walang sikreto walang dahilan para mainsecure.

 

 

Dont even start with the whole, "it takes someone with a heart to understand crap". Lahat naman tayo dito may puso. Pero ginagamit yan ng tama at sinasamahan ng pagiisip isip. Sabagay, lahat naman siguro din tayo dumadating sa punto na nadadala ng sobrang emosyon, hangang ang emosyon na magdidikta ng pagiisip at kinikilos.

 

 

 

 

And thunmbs down votes from the white knights in 10……9…….8……..7

 

 

 

So Sir ang point mo eh, pwede lang sila mahalin once na totally out of the industry sila? Sir, i don't think that's fair. infact, during their time in this industry nga sila pinaka vulnerable and these are the times na talagang kailangan nila ng taong iintindi at mag mamahal sa kanila, what if the guy is not that financially well off, what if the guy can't do anything financially to help her out of this situation "PERO mahal nila talaga un isa't isa and may tiwala sila sa isa't isa, at alam ng guy un limitations ng babae, and the girl is true to her limitations with her clients...let's just say na sa ganun environment sila nagkakilala, hindi na pwede mahalin un girl???.." hindi naman impossible yan ganun scenario dba?

isn't it a true test kung malampasan nila un ganun sitution???

...hindi natin kailangan ng mga negative votes...

Edited September 18, 2014 by cardingtigas

[great_escape]

I can only say- to each his own. Take your own biases with you and keep it to yourself. If it would work for others and not you, then just LEARN HOW TO RESPECT.

[CardingTigas]

I can only say- to each his own. Take your own biases with you and keep it to yourself. If it would work for others and not you, then just LEARN HOW TO RESPECT.

 

Exactly, I agree with you Sir. kung nag work out naman sa ibang tao un ganun klaseng set up, bakit natin kkwestyonin un integrity nung samahan ng dalawang tao dba???

 

 

 

[markjoycehailey]

Exactly, I agree with you Sir. kung nag work out naman sa ibang tao un ganun klaseng set up, bakit natin kkwestyonin un integrity nung samahan ng dalawang tao dba???

 

Just be deaf, dumb & mute and youll live happily ever after.

[sweet_savannah]

Thnx po...gnyan kc sitwasyon q ngaun,..I have a bf n kilala q as client q..super lawak ng pg iisip nya plge nyang cnsabi skin..na naiintindhan nya aq... at sobra nya q nrerespeto..he always says na khit nkilala kita sa ganyan... tanggap kita..kc gngawa u eto sake of ur family.. saka iba nmn ungpgkatao u sa lbas ng spa.. say q lng khit gnito work nmen we cn be deserves TRUE love...totoong lalaki na mgmamahal at iintindi sa amen.. by the way im alexa)..thnx for the good comment..

[sweet_savannah]

Saka d lhat ng ng thera

Kailangan ng pera pg ngmamahal... we only need TRUE love and respect acceptance.. unghindi kme lolokohin porket gnito kme... not material thing or money...

[markjoycehailey]

Saka d lhat ng ng thera

Kailangan ng pera pg ngmamahal... we only need TRUE love and respect acceptance.. unghindi kme lolokohin porket gnito kme... not material thing or money...

 

Naku maraming ma-iinlove lalo sa iyo dahil sa mga sinusulat mo dito . Liligawan na rin kita para pag naging tayo, LIBRE NA AKO.

[b0ybackup]

Naku maraming ma-iinlove lalo sa iyo dahil sa mga sinusulat mo dito . Liligawan na rin kita para pag naging tayo, LIBRE NA AKO.

 

Hahaha iba ka talaga, ginoong mark! Idol! Iyong ibang kabalyerong nakaputi, hirap na hirap mag-ninja sa mga sinusuyong thera... Ikaw, walang tago-tago at patumpik-tumpik sa pagdiskarte! Isa kang TNL!

[CardingTigas]

Just be deaf, dumb & mute and youll live happily ever after.

 

- i respect your opinion, but I would rather call it "Pag Unawa"