Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[StoicVampire]

In economics, it's known as opportunity cost, what you're giving up by making the choice you made. As for the question "Are these signs that I shouldn't have pursued the relationship with my 'angel'...," all I can say is who knows where the road not taken will lead?

 

From what you've said sir, it seems like I should've taken both opportunities?

[Rasc]

From what you've said sir, it seems like I should've taken both opportunities?

 

what he means, bro you should weight your options... and think about it first, before deciding what's best for you, lets put it this way, if you heard the music of "the one you love"

 

Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you

Or are you goin' back to the one you love? or vice versa...

 

either way you have to choose one...

[StoicVampire]

what he means, bro you should weight your options... and think about it first, before deciding what's best for you, lets put it this way, if you heard the music of "the one you love"

 

Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you

Or are you goin' back to the one you love? or vice versa...

 

either way you have to choose one...

 

I weighed all the options bro before I decided to make a decision. I decided to stay with the one I loved. Hard for me to say but I got burned there pretty badly. Too late for me to be sourgraping now cause it already happened. I took a gamble that did not pay off. Either way, I learned from it which is good. Sabi nga nila "It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all". Right?

 

On a lighter note, iwas muna sa mga PSP's hehe! :upside:

[Rasc]

I weighed all the options bro before I decided to make a decision. I decided to stay with the one I loved. Hard for me to say but I got burned there pretty badly. Too late for me to be sourgraping now cause it already happened. I took a gamble that did not pay off. Either way, I learned from it which is good. Sabi nga nila "It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all". Right?

 

On a lighter note, iwas muna sa mga PSP's hehe! :upside:

 

 

for me i already chosen to fight for it a little longer... since I want to prove to myself also that I can. but I already put in mind, anything could happen and I don't need to expect something in return. Either way she has changed me a lot, to be a better person that's all I could say even though wala pa naman commitment at magulo pa din yung situation. given the chance hindi naman nila pinili ang ganitong trabaho eh, but they had to face the reality...

 

 

still the results that I'm thankful that I met someone like her in a place like this.

[FortunateSon]

Madaling ma-inlove sa mga GRO/MPA dahil sa kanilang kakaibang lambing at asikaso pag tinamaan din sa iyo. Ilan beses na din akong nag ka gf ng Gro at MPA. iba silang magmahal, halos paalipin na sa yo. Kaya lang isang bagay lang ang laging sumisira dito, ang "Selos". either ikaw ang magseselos o ang gf mo ang selosa. ewan ko kung sa kin lang nagyayari to, pero halos lahat na naging gf ko na Gro/MPA eh laging insecure at laging takot sila sa ibang babae na malapit sa yo kaya napaka mga possessive at selosa dahil kaya sa trabaho nila kaya mababa ang self esteem nila? kaya ng nag asawa na ako umiwas na akong mag ka regular na Gro/MPA kasi ang dali mong mahulog ang loob sa kanila.

[evagt9292]

Mahirap mahulog sa isang gro. Right now baliw na baliw ako sa isang gro. Kahit wala akong nakukuha in return (alam niyo na yun) iba talaga yung tama niya sakin. Dumating sa point na gusto ko na siyang paalisin dun dahil nakwento niyo na ayaw din niya ng ganun buhay & she's planing na bumalik sa school. Kung gagawin niya yun siguro dahil sa ibang tama ko sa kanya eh susuportahan ko yun pag-aaral niya hanggat makakaya ko. Makita ko lang na umayos ang buhay niya. Ang ayoko lang kasi yung parang gagawin kang sugar daddy na hingi lang. Naispire ako sa kanya dahil kinuwento niya yun mga plano niya sa buhay.

[revi]

^Dude, the girl is into you. Pero swerte ka if she's into you coz she will do things to you that she doesn't do with her other guests.

 

I was not able to reply to this quote on what I have written before coz I haven't gone to see my regular MPA again. I went there a few hours ago, I even waited for her to finish off a client. I actually waited for barely under an hour. A male counter receptionist told me that she already informed my gal that I came by but he also said I left coz she was taken. Sumimangot daw at sabi na tatawagan niya ako. Eh bawal dahil papasok na siya sa room nila nung guest niya, hahaha.

 

Needless to say, I waited. Hindi niya alam ito at nakita niya ako sa lobby dahil sumilip siya after her service. Sinigurado lang daw niya na hindi talaga ako naghintay. hahaha.. Kilala na niya talaga ako.

 

When I was in the room already. She came in and said to wait lang coz she need to wash herself first daw. I waited but I left after a minute to order some water. Nakita ko siya nakikipagdaldalan sa labas, I smiled at her and touched her hair. Nakangiti lahat ng kausap niya. And she was smiling at me like they were not there. Sandali lang, sabi niya.

 

So, to cut the story short, she came in. And dali-daling tumabi sa akin. She quickly informed me na nagbakasyon daw siya with her friends and with someone that she really likes. I did not utter a word. I just smiled. Tapos sabi niya, di ba pumunta ka din sa malapit dun nung Holy Week, i-te-text nga sana kita eh kaso baka sumunod ka. I smirked and told her that even though she did text me, I can't go coz I was with my parents. But the thing is, she still remembers that I would be in my folks' province on Holy Week. Eh isang linggo yun bago ang Holy Week. At natatandaan niya ako habang nagsasaya siya? Eh wala man lang akong text sa kanya for over a week since our last session. That made me smile.

 

Kwento kwento kung ano ang ginawa nila dun. Kwento din ako kung ano ginawa ko during Holy Week.

 

During the deed, she was still sweet as usual. Maybe even sweeter ng konti. And when I told her, "nakarami ka na yata eh, baka pagod ka na." She said, "hindi naman ako nag-cu-cum sa iba eh, sa iyo lang. Kasi nakakapagod yun at hindi ako makakadami." Told her, "Owz? Tutoo? Di yan stir ha?" She was not smiling back and she told me that, "tutoo yun." Eh bakit sa akin lang? She replied, "Basta.." This is the first she told me that. Sa akin daw, everytime, kahit pagod siya. Sa iba daw, masarap din kaso ayaw niya mag-cum. Although I know for a fact that she cums whenever we do it especially sa DATY. Alam mo naman kung fake o hindi eh. And I also know that when she has come once, medyo lupaypay siya and ayaw na niya magpakain ulit. Masakit na daw. Sana nga tutoo. I was touched and humbed at the same time.

 

Maybe she is lying, maybe she is not. I don't want to expect anything, but I am inclined to believe what she told me. Hindi kasi siya bolera eh. Kapag gwapo ka. Gwapo ka. Kung pangit ka, pangit ka. And then she said something that made me really think, "Ayaw kita i-text kasi baka isipin mo na kung ano-ano lang ang sinasabi ko, baka isipin mo hindi naman tutoo. Basta ayaw kita i-text. Naiilang ako." Embraced her after she said that and she escorted me to the lobby. Dun pa lang, alam mo na hindi niya ako tinatrato na customer eh. Ni minsan hindi yan nangulit sa akin. Nung una siguro, but not now.

 

Again, I am sharing this because I feel that our relationship is good and I am just taking a day at a time. She often tells me that she is happy when I visit her and sabi ko nga sa kanya, BF mo ako kapag andito ako. She smiles back and says yes. I feel that this girl does not want to complicate things with us but I do feel what she feels. Alam ko na ayaw niya masaktan dahil alam niya that I can only offer so much. She even said that there are times that she thinks that I will not come back there because of those complications in my life.

 

Before she escorted me pala. Sabi ko, baka naman may kasama ka dun sa bakasyon mo. BF na new? She said, "ayaw ko nga magka-BF eh. Di pa ako ready." Smiles back and I smile back at her too. Its really nice being with her. Minsan nga kahit walang sex, ok lang eh. Kaso syempre, malabo yun na mangyari. haha.. Basta kulang time namin parati to talk.

 

Siguro, in time, I would be able to offer her something. And I hope if and when that time comes, it is not too late. Sabi ko nga parati sa buhay ko, "kung uukol, bubukol." haha.. Ang sa akin lang, wag tayong magmadali. In any relationship, sa GRO/MPA or normal na babae man, we need to use our mind and heart. And it should be in that order all the time. :-)

Edited April 5, 2010 by revi

[Guest megalodon]

^I guess she's into you but then again, you'll never know. Pero malalaman mo naman if she treats you in a special way by reading the reviews that are being written here.

Edited April 6, 2010 by megalodon

[revi]

^I guess she's into you but then again, you'll never know. Pero malalaman mo naman if she treats you in a special way by reading the reviews that are being written here.

 

Tama ka diyan, tol. I am not being judgmental, but I always try to think twice before I get into a relationship with MPAs/GROs. Kungsabagay, sa edad ko na ito, I always try to use my head and my heart, before I jump into anything. Never liked pretentious people, and huli naman kaagad ang mga ito kung ano lang talaga ang gusto.

 

Unfortunately, FR's on her come in trickles (halos wala nga eh), at hindi siya #1 sa place niya. At sa tutoo lang, madami ding FR's na fake. Well, apparently, on the handful of FR's I've read, the guys who had her never said that she did cum. Kaya inclined ako na maniwala sa sinabi niya. But as you said, who knows.

 

Well, for now, when I am there, we are really okay. She treats me like I am her BF. I won't go into details, but I feel special and no one has treated me that way in MP's (several times sa KTVs). Kaya nga minsan nakakasawa din kasi minsan I don't get my rocks off coz I am looking for a PSE experience wag naman puros GFE. hahaha..

 

Let us see where this goes. If my complications and hers do get lessened, then maybe a relationship can be worked out. But right now, we enjoy each other's company, and I think no one has really fallen pa naman. So, wala pang masasaktan ng sobra sobra if nothing really happens in the future (well, I can speak for myself - I hope ganun din sya). As I've said, one day at a time.

 

She also said before sa akin, "bakit ang dami mong condoms sa bulsa mo?" Hindi siguro nakatiis na hindi magtanong. Told her, "Emergencies." hahaha.. "Siguro nga may inaano ka na iba ano?" Just smiled back and said, "Regalo lang yan sa akin ng mga friends ko na doctor." "Oo na," sabi niya. Natawa ako. She knows she can ask but she can't stop me from doing the jiggy with other women. We don't have a relationship eh.

 

Haay. Hmmm. Kailan kaya ako babalik dun? Naisip ko na naman siya bigla. haha.

[Guest megalodon]

^Actually ok talaga pag type ka ng MPA. She'll do things to you that she doesn't do to others. I'm talking from personal experience. I know coz I read reviews about her. Hehe.

Edited April 7, 2010 by megalodon

[maverick88]

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[TanglewoodBoy]

^Actually ok talaga pag type ka ng MPA. She'll do things to you that she doesn't do to others. I'm talking from personal experience. I know coz I read reviews about her. Hehe.

 

yes this is true and di ka titipirin sa oras....there are some attendants na after niyo, she will get dressed or at least give you a hint na tapos na.....

 

if she really likes you, you will feel that...

 

[revi]

yes this is true and di ka titipirin sa oras....there are some attendants na after niyo, she will get dressed or at least give you a hint na tapos na.....

 

if she really likes you, you will feel that...

 

 

If this is the case then all I can say is this ---> :thumbsupsmiley:

 

Most of the attendants that I have taken usually spends time with me until na katukin na kami. The girl that is the subject of my posts, usually goes beyond an hour and we wait hanggang sa katukin na kami. I remember nung nakalimutan na kami, umabot kami ng 2 hours. Kwento, kulitan.. Wala pa nga nangyari sa amin noon eh. So, sabi ko extend ko ng 1 more hour para lang may mangyari dahil yun naman pinunta ko dun. Isipin mo yun, bro, 3 hours kami sa loob ng room. Kahit na kasi siya, nakaligtaan na daw niya ang oras. hahaha..

[markus_cruzade]

Easy for them to fall. Problem is when they part from you... That hurts so much. Especially when you fell too deep. :cry:

[monazario]

they all fall sometime...

how to let them fall, is up to you..

[dudecrush09]

it is unbelievable the expertise of them to flirt and charm you well.. sobrang lambing. just one night and i already fell in love with the GRO. she was so sweet and i could not get her out of my mind for 4 days. i then realize its just business since the only time she replies my texts is when the club is about to open and asks me to come over. i almost broke up with my real gf for 9 yrs because of her.

 

i found this article helps put things into perspective:

http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_400/4...hip_expert.html

[monazario]

it is unbelievable the expertise of them to flirt and charm you well.. sobrang lambing. just one night and i already fell in love with the GRO. she was so sweet and i could not get her out of my mind for 4 days. i then realize its just business since the only time she replies my texts is when the club is about to open and asks me to come over. i almost broke up with my real gf for 9 yrs because of her.

 

i found this article helps put things into perspective:

http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_400/4...hip_expert.html

good job!

the longer it takes for you to be enlightened,

the deeper you get yourself into the rabbit hole

then you wont realize that you are already inside the looking glass...

[shootpogi24]

^Actually ok talaga pag type ka ng MPA. She'll do things to you that she doesn't do to others. I'm talking from personal experience. I know coz I read reviews about her. Hehe.

 

Hindi totoo yan. Ang mga MPA na yan malambing sa lahat ng client nila syempre para maging regular nila. At pag regular ka na mahuhulog ka na at anytime pwede ka patulan ng MPA mo. Lagot ka na dahil nahulog ka nga sa kanya. At pag gf mo na makakalibre ka na nga at mailalabas mo sya. Pero tandaan mo na pwede rin nya patulan ang iba nyang regular guest, maging bf nya rin at mailabas ng iba. Pera ang kailangan nila at iba pang mapapakinabangan sayo.

[shootpogi24]

^Dude, the girl is into you. Pero swerte ka if she's into you coz she will do things to you that she doesn't do with her other guests.

 

You'll never know. Trabaho nila yan para balik balikan mo sila. Sasabihin ikaw lang ang LIVE sa kanya pero ang totoo lahat kayong regular guest nya pwede mag LIVE. Kahit first encounter nyo lang LIVE agad. Wala nang takot ang mga yan. Pera ang kailangan nila sa atin mga guest kaya malalambing yan mga yan.

[TanglewoodBoy]

You'll never know. Trabaho nila yan para balik balikan mo sila. Sasabihin ikaw lang ang LIVE sa kanya pero ang totoo lahat kayong regular guest nya pwede mag LIVE. Kahit first encounter nyo lang LIVE agad. Wala nang takot ang mga yan. Pera ang kailangan nila sa atin mga guest kaya malalambing yan mga yan.

 

IMHO bro, sa lahat naman ng relasyon, ganun talaga, if the girl finds a fault in you, pagpapalit at pagpapalit ka nyan...tama ka minsan pera pera labanan but do not generalize people....di naman lahat sa ganun mukhang pera din, of course there are still some who value a true person inspite of their job...

 

 

thanks and good day bro!

[Rasc]

I agree with Master Tanglewood, hindi lahat ng babae nag work GRO or MPA man pinili ang ganitong work, in a world were livin they need to survive, maybe eto lang ang alam nilang work na madaling kumita, meron talaga mapag-malabis given na talaga yun... but generally hindi lahat. tao lang din tayo may pagkakamali din.

[StoicVampire]

susuportahan ko hanggat makakaya ko. Makita ko lang na umayos ang buhay niya. Ang ayoko lang kasi yung parang gagawin kang sugar daddy na hingi lang.

 

Exact things that I told my "angel" before. It's been months since we parted and there are times she comes into my mind and I'm thinking where did I go wrong. Actually every kita namin laging kailangan ng pera. Dun pa lang I should've already realized. Sa akin ok lang naman kung materialistic ang gf ko. At least alam ko kung san napupunta yung pera. Yun di ko alam kung talagang saan napupunta yung binibigay ko sa kanya. I gave her a lot of options but she wants an easy way out. Lahat tayo gusto nating umayos ang buhay nila. Nasa sa kanila na yun bro kung gusto nilang magbago. As long as you did your part, no need to blame yourself. Cheers!

 

Ang masakit sa kin, I just knew that she's still doing the "service". I wonder now where will she end up?......... :cry:

[btdeadlock]

I agree with Master Tanglewood, hindi lahat ng babae nag work GRO or MPA man pinili ang ganitong work, in a world were livin they need to survive, maybe eto lang ang alam nilang work na madaling kumita, meron talaga mapag-malabis given na talaga yun... but generally hindi lahat. tao lang din tayo may pagkakamali din.

Unless they were dragged into the industry at gun point, I beg to disagree that they didn't have a choice. They chose to get into this, they can choose to get out. The choice may not be an easy one, but it's their choice nonetheless, and it's a choice only they can make.

 

I guess it's a good time for an update on the GRO I've been writing about. Late last month, she sent me a text message asking if I could find her a job at the company I work for no matter how low the salary. She didn't want to work as a GRO / Solo Performer anymore. Now some of you are thinking that's she's leaving the club because she's over the hill. Nope. She's the highest paid performer at the club and guests line up to time her in. She's arguably at her peak right now.

 

The problem is, she's not qualified for any position at the company I work for, so I decided to approach my Dad for help since he has lots of connections. Of course, I had to come clean and tell him I fell for a GRO and she's asking for help. My Dad offered her a job on one of his projects which involve typing a hell of a lot of paperwork. He offered her a monthly salary equivalent to what she can make in 2-3 nights working at the club. She asked my Dad if should could still work part-time at the club since she still had other obligations to meet. My dad was understanding enough to allow her to do so.

 

I was working overtime last night when I received a text message from her that she actually found the work my dad gave her quite interesting and she was actually learning something. She spending the night at home doing the work my Dad gave her instead of working at the club on a Friday night after payday. She gave up a chance to earn around P3000 for one night doing nothing but drinking and dancing for a typing job that pays a small fraction of that.

 

She made a choice. She decided to take the hard way.

 

Some of you may say that to her, I'm just a walking Peso sign on legs. And maybe people may be right in saying that she took advantage of my affections for her to get out of her old job. If I helped get her out of the industry in a decent and honorable manner, I couldn't care less if she used me or not. I proud of the road she's taking and her family is too.

[RIP32M]

Some of you may say that to her, I'm just a walking Peso sign on legs. And maybe people may be right in saying that she took advantage of my affections for her to get out of her old job. If I helped get her out of the industry in a decent and honorable manner, I couldn't care less if she used me or not. I proud of the road she's taking and her family is too.

 

congrats, if she is indeed using u, at least she's using u to get away from the ktv life, count urself lucky, some girls will just use u for the financial support without even considerin getting away from the mpa/gro lifestyle

[Itto Ogami]

Unless they were dragged into the industry at gun point, I beg to disagree that they didn't have a choice. They chose to get into this, they can choose to get out. The choice may not be an easy one, but it's their choice nonetheless, and it's a choice only they can make.

 

I guess it's a good time for an update on the GRO I've been writing about. Late last month, she sent me a text message asking if I could find her a job at the company I work for no matter how low the salary. She didn't want to work as a GRO / Solo Performer anymore. Now some of you are thinking that's she's leaving the club because she's over the hill. Nope. She's the highest paid performer at the club and guests line up to time her in. She's arguably at her peak right now.

 

The problem is, she's not qualified for any position at the company I work for, so I decided to approach my Dad for help since he has lots of connections. Of course, I had to come clean and tell him I fell for a GRO and she's asking for help. My Dad offered her a job on one of his projects which involve typing a hell of a lot of paperwork. He offered her a monthly salary equivalent to what she can make in 2-3 nights working at the club. She asked my Dad if should could still work part-time at the club since she still had other obligations to meet. My dad was understanding enough to allow her to do so.

 

I was working overtime last night when I received a text message from her that she actually found the work my dad gave her quite interesting and she was actually learning something. She spending the night at home doing the work my Dad gave her instead of working at the club on a Friday night after payday. She gave up a chance to earn around P3000 for one night doing nothing but drinking and dancing for a typing job that pays a small fraction of that.

 

She made a choice. She decided to take the hard way.

 

Some of you may say that to her, I'm just a walking Peso sign on legs. And maybe people may be right in saying that she took advantage of my affections for her to get out of her old job. If I helped get her out of the industry in a decent and honorable manner, I couldn't care less if she used me or not. I proud of the road she's taking and her family is too.

+1, saer.

 

you will generate good karma with what you did.

hope she doesn't eventually squander the chance you gave her.