Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Mr KIM]

ako kapag walang budget i tend to love these

mpa girls sino ba namang ayaw ng libreng popoy

magdamagan pa. pero kapag meron na ming pera

back to reality get the a1 stuff girls :boo: :evil:

[AnakNiJuan]

ako kapag walang budget i tend to love these

mpa girls sino ba namang ayaw ng libreng popoy

magdamagan pa. pero kapag meron na ming pera

back to reality get the a1 stuff girls :boo: :evil:

 

you obviously do not know what love is, from wat you have sed here and your post sa mp thread:

 

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isa lang masasabi ko kung boypren boyprenan ka at buraot gaya ng mga iba dito

syempre gusto mpa madaling mauto at ma freebie. and yung mga mpa majority ng

mga yan mukhang longkatuts well di ako hypokrito kumukuha din ako ng mpa coz

dito ko nakagagawa ng mas mura na tirahin sila ng anal sex get pictures etc etc hahahahahaha

 

at kung gusto kong pakita how i spend at patunayan i can get all the girls

na maganda at medyo tapakan ang mga boypren boyprenan pupunta na ko sa ktv

to f#&k and enjoy plus ma meet mo mga tunay mong ka level btw classmate lang

gusto dahil pricey at walang pretenders na boypren boyprenan

 

ayoko maging siryus boypren nila, madali kang masaktan kung ganun. buti pa kaibiganin lang, mas safe pa. ang ayoko lang yung gumagago sa kanila,

[Mr KIM]

tama naman post ko sarcastic version lang yung isa di ba

[markvl3]

It happened to me and is still happening to me. I work as a sales specialist in one of the top property firms in the philippines. Bored to death in work two years ago, i invited a friend to visit stardust for some fun. Little did I know that it would be a night that will change my life forever.

 

There I met S_a_n_. One of the model there. There is someting about here that attracted me. Words are not enough to describe how I felt when I first saw her. it transcended physical attraction. I am old enough to appreciate a woman's body and their other physical attributes (she has a great body and a pretty face with expressive eyes.) but those are not the things that got my attention. There is something mysterious about her that I felt have to know. Needless to say we had sex. It was one of the greatest I had. You can just feel it. Its more than just satisfying lust. Mine and her's. There was no haggling about the price. We felt that we have known each other for a very long time already. There was an emotional attraction.

 

Letting go the following morning is diffifult for both of us. Complicating further the situation is the fact that i was married at that time and every law know to God and to man and to society dictates that I should get hold of myself.

 

My phonebill skyrocketed for the nex month skyrocketed. Major portions of money she fleeced on her guest went towards buying prepaid cards that were used to call me. I make it a point to visit her almost everyday in her home.

 

Then reality bit.

 

she found out that I was already married. the sight of her crying almost broke my heart. It was not a hysterical type of crying we often see in movies but rather a cry of the one betrayed by the one they love. A few day later my wife also find out about our relatioship and demand that i end it or leave our home and its relative comfort.

 

Deaf to all advices, I decided to cast my lot with S_a_n_. I heard all the deregatory words attributed to someone in her profession but i never changed my decision. We started anew, I left my car to my wife and went out of the door almost nothing but the shirt on my back.

 

Our belief in our love is being severy tested. We decided that she should stop working as a GRO/model. Whatever saving we had is soon depleted (she insisted that I even surrender my money to my wife). We have to sell our mobile phones in order for us to make both end meet. We had been evicted from the house that we are renting for non-payment. Those are just the easy trials and we know that there is even more forthcoming. but we will overcome them because the ties that bind us are strong. it is made of sterner stuff.

 

my advice to those experiencing what we are undergoing right now is that they shoud REALLY ask theirselves if what they are feeling is truly love. that is the only foundation that your relationship will have. You should also be totally honest toward each other. It is very often that somebody mentions S_a_ n_ in some threads. You know, what I dont care. trully I dont. Whatever she is during those time have ceased already.

 

Now we have a handsome 8-month old baby boy and another one coming soon. we never had any regrets about the paths we have chosen.

[lomex32]

Life is ALL about choices ....

 

A Wise Man Said :

 

Watch your thoughts, for they become words

Choose your words for they become actions

Understand you actions for they become habits

Study your habits for they become your character

Develop you character for they become your destiny

 

Have a great Life with a destiny of your choice

 

==========================

 

My share

 

I have several close encounters with PSPs ..... i have nothing more to offer than friendly advise

 

If she has a problem and needs advise .... i will give her advise

If she has a problem and needs money .... i will give her ..... more... advise

 

 

my advice to those experiencing what we are undergoing right now is that they shoud REALLY ask theirselves if what they are feeling is truly love. that is the only foundation that your relationship will have. You should also be totally honest toward each other. It is very often that somebody mentions S_a_ n_ in some threads. You know, what I dont care. trully I dont. Whatever she is during those time have ceased already.

[icis]

Please do share your comments about this case that is happening to me right now.

 

 

After a meeting I went to this videoke bar - club. It was Dec. by then. There I met this girl, I was dumb founded about her.

She was like 19 to be exact and had just started the job last Sept. or Oct last year.

She was relatively new to the job and I found myself doing most of the talking.

Telling my life and work. Kinda serious or so. I'm a serious guy, blame it on me he he.

Anyway I found myself visiting her 2 to 3 times again within the week.

 

Then on one occasion my colleague at work invited me to the same place. I of course denied

the fact that I am going there. When we arrived, he was very well known at the place and he

just mentioned to the waiter to get this same girl for me. A coincidence if I can say.

He says were kinda meant for each other. Like some similarities in conversing like too much English or so.

Often we get girls with a little less on the manners and of the language. But this girl have good

qualities that can be shown in her upbringing.

 

 

So what happened next I tried my best to court her sincerely.

One time we went out for shopping, like I promised her that I give her a Christmas gift

We went to a nearby mall and bought new clothes from top to bottom. Almost 4 thou I think

Then afterwards I

ended up this Christmas dropping by at her place and giving her a bouquet of flower and gifts

She was sleeping when I dropped by. Its kinda a surprise that is.

Yet on the same day, I didn't even have one text message like thanks or so.

Feeling hurt, justifying she lost her cellphone although she has my num.

But who am I to expect anything just yet. Maybe I'm being tested. And she told me beforehand she isn't much of a texter

The following day 26, we went to Enchanted Kingdom. I agreed beforehand that she could have

escorts with s that is. Like 2 additional making 3 including her. One is her cousin and a close friend.

She texted my the gig will push through but she also told me that there is another one who needs to

go to. Making 4 of them. First I texted her to shoulder the damage. For the additional and she

said yes that she would cover for it.

When we arrived at EK, feeling generous whatsoever. I paid for the whole group plus the food and everything

inside. It was all on me he he. The gimmick was fun and tiring we have a lot of good memorable

pictures.

Going home we went to a fast food store and she insisted to pay for it.

I did not agree but we settled for a 50: 50

The pictures was hilarous and when I developed it and shared it to them. It was a lot of laughs.

So January came, we went out in the pyro olympics in MOA. The fireworks was excellent the traffic was not.

I managed to get her to wear those red horns and enjoyed some laughs. He he. :cool:

 

After that I went one to two times a week in the club to visit and talk to her.

I went there at Tues or Thurs in which not so many people.

She was always asked for and I found myself in many many instances waiting for her and waiting for her

guest to leave. I guess that’s a lot of patience on my part. I didn’t get any other ladies while waiting for

her so you could just imagine the feelings I have while looking at her guests make a move on her.

 

So the stories goes on, I learn every bit of her like her high school and stuff.

Other intimate parts she does not want to share. Like ideas to win her heart or the like.

Last Saturday I managed to get a gimmick on her and gave all of the girls flowers (the club has a place - for all of them to stay

like an apartment) and lastly gave her a bouquet. So I got all of my guts and while all of the ladies looking at me. I gave her

the flowers. The moment was special. I almost see her light in tears although she remove them away. She said thanks

in a cute manner or so that made my heart leap. Afterwards I got to treat them all with pizza. Mind you there were

like 12 of them. 12 ladies versus one guy. Hu hu. Hey I just wanted to prove that I'm sincere. Stupid me. :flowers:

 

After 3 days I went to the club and secretly gave the waiter, - cards for her and a small pillow.

I confess my love for her in the cards saying it was late and should have given it sooner.

Then yesterday I found myself there at the same place but I am accompanied by my coworkers.

They don't know what I have been doing like courting her or what.

I asked her about the cards if she read it. She said yes though I could not read if they are a go or a no.

We were drinking too much by then. She sang a lot … more than the previous times I had gone there.

I was looking at her eye if there is something. Cannot say too hard.

I asked her that if she have a regular guest on that day. She said yes so I asked her to promise to me

that if she will get one. She would ask for juice instead. I left the bar with my friends around 10:30.

 

 

I'm kinda lost right now. I don't know if I would continue it or not.

I ask her to go out again but like ice skating for Feb. next Sunday though she told me that she

check her sched.

 

 

 

Positive Points after the flower gig

 

She texted me twice this week asking for my condition. She used her friends cp.

previously nothing at all.

I think she isn't much to texting.

She isn't the type who would ask that I go to the club or visit her.

She never asked or demanded about anything. NOt like those other ladies

asking for one ld after another.

She told me one secret habit she has recently developed

Smoking that is even though her cousin don't know it.

I secretly told her cousin about it.

BTW I'm a non smoker, it’s a turn off for me.

One time when were drinking she got my beer and add it up her ladies drink

Concerned about me drinking too much.

She often scolds me for drinking too much and tells me I should go home.

 

One time while waiting for her I got pissed and went home. The following day

when I went there again she sharply remarked why did I go home and not

have waited for her.

 

 

Negative Points

 

She do not ask about me. Or maybe I had told her too much stories about my life.

One time during a conversation her birth date stirred up and suddenly she asked my birthday to

I told her that if it wasn't the topic she would not have asked about it.

So Interest in knowing me and my background is not so much

 

She is careful not to tell ideas to win her heart or get points on her.

Like dream dates other girls would want. Or maybe too careful.

 

She always says secret in some matters about her heart.

 

 

Others

The bar is kinda wholesome, nothing has happended intimately. I really respected her.

Not even touching or flirting too much with her.

I asked the waiter her background. He says she treats her guests with kinda a wall.

Does not go into VIP. I honestly think she's still intact. U know.

 

 

 

 

 

So what do u think? Should I continue or not.

or other gimmicks to test her if she's leading me or not.

[chubCHINITAforHIRE]

i had a client hir n ngng bf ko... and he loved me for hu i am...

 

wla n kmi now and its quite SAD... nkkapanibago lng tlg... :*

 

its vry pocble na ma-fall and mga clients hir... lalo n if pretty un gurl... and wid brains pa.... hehehe..... :hypocritesmiley:

[Mr.Whiteguy]

Please do share your comments about this case that is happening to me right now.

After a meeting I went to this videoke bar - club. It was Dec. by then. There I met this girl, I was dumb founded about her.

She was like 19 to be exact and had just started the job last Sept. or Oct last year.

She was relatively new to the job and I found myself doing most of the talking.

Telling my life and work. Kinda serious or so. I'm a serious guy, blame it on me he he.

Anyway I found myself visiting her 2 to 3 times again within the week.

 

Then on one occasion my colleague at work invited me to the same place. I of course denied

the fact that I am going there. When we arrived, he was very well known at the place and he

just mentioned to the waiter to get this same girl for me. A coincidence if I can say.

He says were kinda meant for each other. Like some similarities in conversing like too much English or so.

Often we get girls with a little less on the manners and of the language. But this girl have good

qualities that can be shown in her upbringing.

So what happened next I tried my best to court her sincerely.

One time we went out for shopping, like I promised her that I give her a Christmas gift

We went to a nearby mall and bought new clothes from top to bottom. Almost 4 thou I think

Then afterwards I

ended up this Christmas dropping by at her place and giving her a bouquet of flower and gifts

She was sleeping when I dropped by. Its kinda a surprise that is.

Yet on the same day, I didn't even have one text message like thanks or so.

Feeling hurt, justifying she lost her cellphone although she has my num.

But who am I to expect anything just yet. Maybe I'm being tested. And she told me beforehand she isn't much of a texter

The following day 26, we went to Enchanted Kingdom. I agreed beforehand that she could have

escorts with s that is. Like 2 additional making 3 including her. One is her cousin and a close friend.

She texted my the gig will push through but she also told me that there is another one who needs to

go to. Making 4 of them. First I texted her to shoulder the damage. For the additional and she

said yes that she would cover for it.

When we arrived at EK, feeling generous whatsoever. I paid for the whole group plus the food and everything

inside. It was all on me he he. The gimmick was fun and tiring we have a lot of good memorable

pictures.

Going home we went to a fast food store and she insisted to pay for it.

I did not agree but we settled for a 50: 50

The pictures was hilarous and when I developed it and shared it to them. It was a lot of laughs.

So January came, we went out in the pyro olympics in MOA. The fireworks was excellent the traffic was not.

I managed to get her to wear those red horns and enjoyed some laughs. He he. :cool:

 

After that I went one to two times a week in the club to visit and talk to her.

I went there at Tues or Thurs in which not so many people.

She was always asked for and I found myself in many many instances waiting for her and waiting for her

guest to leave. I guess that’s a lot of patience on my part. I didn’t get any other ladies while waiting for

her so you could just imagine the feelings I have while looking at her guests make a move on her.

 

So the stories goes on, I learn every bit of her like her high school and stuff.

Other intimate parts she does not want to share. Like ideas to win her heart or the like.

Last Saturday I managed to get a gimmick on her and gave all of the girls flowers (the club has a place - for all of them to stay

like an apartment) and lastly gave her a bouquet. So I got all of my guts and while all of the ladies looking at me. I gave her

the flowers. The moment was special. I almost see her light in tears although she remove them away. She said thanks

in a cute manner or so that made my heart leap. Afterwards I got to treat them all with pizza. Mind you there were

like 12 of them. 12 ladies versus one guy. Hu hu. Hey I just wanted to prove that I'm sincere. Stupid me. :flowers:

 

After 3 days I went to the club and secretly gave the waiter, - cards for her and a small pillow.

I confess my love for her in the cards saying it was late and should have given it sooner.

Then yesterday I found myself there at the same place but I am accompanied by my coworkers.

They don't know what I have been doing like courting her or what.

I asked her about the cards if she read it. She said yes though I could not read if they are a go or a no.

We were drinking too much by then. She sang a lot … more than the previous times I had gone there.

I was looking at her eye if there is something. Cannot say too hard.

I asked her that if she have a regular guest on that day. She said yes so I asked her to promise to me

that if she will get one. She would ask for juice instead. I left the bar with my friends around 10:30.

I'm kinda lost right now. I don't know if I would continue it or not.

I ask her to go out again but like ice skating for Feb. next Sunday though she told me that she

check her sched.

Positive Points after the flower gig

 

She texted me twice this week asking for my condition. She used her friends cp.

previously nothing at all.

I think she isn't much to texting.

She isn't the type who would ask that I go to the club or visit her.

She never asked or demanded about anything. NOt like those other ladies

asking for one ld after another.

She told me one secret habit she has recently developed

Smoking that is even though her cousin don't know it.

I secretly told her cousin about it.

BTW I'm a non smoker, it’s a turn off for me.

One time when were drinking she got my beer and add it up her ladies drink

Concerned about me drinking too much.

She often scolds me for drinking too much and tells me I should go home.

 

One time while waiting for her I got pissed and went home. The following day

when I went there again she sharply remarked why did I go home and not

have waited for her.

Negative Points

 

She do not ask about me. Or maybe I had told her too much stories about my life.

One time during a conversation her birth date stirred up and suddenly she asked my birthday to

I told her that if it wasn't the topic she would not have asked about it.

So Interest in knowing me and my background is not so much

 

She is careful not to tell ideas to win her heart or get points on her.

Like dream dates other girls would want. Or maybe too careful.

 

She always says secret in some matters about her heart.

Others

The bar is kinda wholesome, nothing has happended intimately. I really respected her.

Not even touching or flirting too much with her.

I asked the waiter her background. He says she treats her guests with kinda a wall.

Does not go into VIP. I honestly think she's still intact. U know.

So what do u think? Should I continue or not.

or other gimmicks to test her if she's leading me or not.

 

I THINK

that u should ask here about here feeling that u convesed ur love to here...when i read it right, she didn't really give a reply to youabout that one..

before u spend more time and money...you need to now here point of vieuw about the fact u r in love...ofcourse you can't force hee to say she will love u to, but ask here for a sincere answer..

 

I know from first hand...(my asawa now) that it is very important for them to give there clients a feeling the girls like them, and for us guys it is difficult to seperate the buisness from our true feelings. I remember the time me and my wife where still dating, ans she didn't retired yet...I felled so jealous about the way she was threating here clients, it seems she was in love with every one of them, but she told me she needed that attitutude for here buisness...

 

so ask here, about here feelings for you...and ask here to answer sinceree...

 

hope i helped you a little bit...

 

ingatz

[maginoo]

Please do share your comments about this case that is happening to me right now.

After a meeting I went to this videoke bar - club. It was Dec. by then. There I met this girl, I was dumb founded about her.

She was like 19 to be exact and had just started the job last Sept. or Oct last year.

She was relatively new to the job and I found myself doing most of the talking.

Telling my life and work. Kinda serious or so. I'm a serious guy, blame it on me he he.

Anyway I found myself visiting her 2 to 3 times again within the week.

 

Then on one occasion my colleague at work invited me to the same place. I of course denied

the fact that I am going there. When we arrived, he was very well known at the place and he

just mentioned to the waiter to get this same girl for me. A coincidence if I can say.

He says were kinda meant for each other. Like some similarities in conversing like too much English or so.

Often we get girls with a little less on the manners and of the language. But this girl have good

qualities that can be shown in her upbringing.

So what happened next I tried my best to court her sincerely.

One time we went out for shopping, like I promised her that I give her a Christmas gift

We went to a nearby mall and bought new clothes from top to bottom. Almost 4 thou I think

Then afterwards I

ended up this Christmas dropping by at her place and giving her a bouquet of flower and gifts

She was sleeping when I dropped by. Its kinda a surprise that is.

Yet on the same day, I didn't even have one text message like thanks or so.

Feeling hurt, justifying she lost her cellphone although she has my num.

But who am I to expect anything just yet. Maybe I'm being tested. And she told me beforehand she isn't much of a texter

The following day 26, we went to Enchanted Kingdom. I agreed beforehand that she could have

escorts with s that is. Like 2 additional making 3 including her. One is her cousin and a close friend.

She texted my the gig will push through but she also told me that there is another one who needs to

go to. Making 4 of them. First I texted her to shoulder the damage. For the additional and she

said yes that she would cover for it.

When we arrived at EK, feeling generous whatsoever. I paid for the whole group plus the food and everything

inside. It was all on me he he. The gimmick was fun and tiring we have a lot of good memorable

pictures.

Going home we went to a fast food store and she insisted to pay for it.

I did not agree but we settled for a 50: 50

The pictures was hilarous and when I developed it and shared it to them. It was a lot of laughs.

So January came, we went out in the pyro olympics in MOA. The fireworks was excellent the traffic was not.

I managed to get her to wear those red horns and enjoyed some laughs. He he. :cool:

 

After that I went one to two times a week in the club to visit and talk to her.

I went there at Tues or Thurs in which not so many people.

She was always asked for and I found myself in many many instances waiting for her and waiting for her

guest to leave. I guess that’s a lot of patience on my part. I didn’t get any other ladies while waiting for

her so you could just imagine the feelings I have while looking at her guests make a move on her.

 

So the stories goes on, I learn every bit of her like her high school and stuff.

Other intimate parts she does not want to share. Like ideas to win her heart or the like.

Last Saturday I managed to get a gimmick on her and gave all of the girls flowers (the club has a place - for all of them to stay

like an apartment) and lastly gave her a bouquet. So I got all of my guts and while all of the ladies looking at me. I gave her

the flowers. The moment was special. I almost see her light in tears although she remove them away. She said thanks

in a cute manner or so that made my heart leap. Afterwards I got to treat them all with pizza. Mind you there were

like 12 of them. 12 ladies versus one guy. Hu hu. Hey I just wanted to prove that I'm sincere. Stupid me. :flowers:

 

After 3 days I went to the club and secretly gave the waiter, - cards for her and a small pillow.

I confess my love for her in the cards saying it was late and should have given it sooner.

Then yesterday I found myself there at the same place but I am accompanied by my coworkers.

They don't know what I have been doing like courting her or what.

I asked her about the cards if she read it. She said yes though I could not read if they are a go or a no.

We were drinking too much by then. She sang a lot … more than the previous times I had gone there.

I was looking at her eye if there is something. Cannot say too hard.

I asked her that if she have a regular guest on that day. She said yes so I asked her to promise to me

that if she will get one. She would ask for juice instead. I left the bar with my friends around 10:30.

I'm kinda lost right now. I don't know if I would continue it or not.

I ask her to go out again but like ice skating for Feb. next Sunday though she told me that she

check her sched.

Positive Points after the flower gig

 

She texted me twice this week asking for my condition. She used her friends cp.

previously nothing at all.

I think she isn't much to texting.

She isn't the type who would ask that I go to the club or visit her.

She never asked or demanded about anything. NOt like those other ladies

asking for one ld after another.

She told me one secret habit she has recently developed

Smoking that is even though her cousin don't know it.

I secretly told her cousin about it.

BTW I'm a non smoker, it’s a turn off for me.

One time when were drinking she got my beer and add it up her ladies drink

Concerned about me drinking too much.

She often scolds me for drinking too much and tells me I should go home.

 

One time while waiting for her I got pissed and went home. The following day

when I went there again she sharply remarked why did I go home and not

have waited for her.

Negative Points

 

She do not ask about me. Or maybe I had told her too much stories about my life.

One time during a conversation her birth date stirred up and suddenly she asked my birthday to

I told her that if it wasn't the topic she would not have asked about it.

So Interest in knowing me and my background is not so much

 

She is careful not to tell ideas to win her heart or get points on her.

Like dream dates other girls would want. Or maybe too careful.

 

She always says secret in some matters about her heart.

Others

The bar is kinda wholesome, nothing has happended intimately. I really respected her.

Not even touching or flirting too much with her.

I asked the waiter her background. He says she treats her guests with kinda a wall.

Does not go into VIP. I honestly think she's still intact. U know.

So what do u think? Should I continue or not.

or other gimmicks to test her if she's leading me or not.

 

 

follow your heart.... just make sure it won't creep up your head!

[MasturVader]

Yeah, accepting what they do is pretty hard. We went out on a date at MoA one time, and a guest called. Had to sit there for 5 minutes while she entertained him. I really felt like hitting something then.

[iwalkalone]

Please do share your comments about this case that is happening to me right now.

After a meeting I went to this videoke bar - club. It was Dec. by then. There I met this girl, I was dumb founded about her.

She was like 19 to be exact and had just started the job last Sept. or Oct last year.

She was relatively new to the job and I found myself doing most of the talking.

Telling my life and work. Kinda serious or so. I'm a serious guy, blame it on me he he.

Anyway I found myself visiting her 2 to 3 times again within the week.

 

Then on one occasion my colleague at work invited me to the same place. I of course denied

the fact that I am going there. When we arrived, he was very well known at the place and he

just mentioned to the waiter to get this same girl for me. A coincidence if I can say.

He says were kinda meant for each other. Like some similarities in conversing like too much English or so.

Often we get girls with a little less on the manners and of the language. But this girl have good

qualities that can be shown in her upbringing.

So what happened next I tried my best to court her sincerely.

One time we went out for shopping, like I promised her that I give her a Christmas gift

We went to a nearby mall and bought new clothes from top to bottom. Almost 4 thou I think

Then afterwards I

ended up this Christmas dropping by at her place and giving her a bouquet of flower and gifts

She was sleeping when I dropped by. Its kinda a surprise that is.

Yet on the same day, I didn't even have one text message like thanks or so.

Feeling hurt, justifying she lost her cellphone although she has my num.

But who am I to expect anything just yet. Maybe I'm being tested. And she told me beforehand she isn't much of a texter

The following day 26, we went to Enchanted Kingdom. I agreed beforehand that she could have

escorts with s that is. Like 2 additional making 3 including her. One is her cousin and a close friend.

She texted my the gig will push through but she also told me that there is another one who needs to

go to. Making 4 of them. First I texted her to shoulder the damage. For the additional and she

said yes that she would cover for it.

When we arrived at EK, feeling generous whatsoever. I paid for the whole group plus the food and everything

inside. It was all on me he he. The gimmick was fun and tiring we have a lot of good memorable

pictures.

Going home we went to a fast food store and she insisted to pay for it.

I did not agree but we settled for a 50: 50

The pictures was hilarous and when I developed it and shared it to them. It was a lot of laughs.

So January came, we went out in the pyro olympics in MOA. The fireworks was excellent the traffic was not.

I managed to get her to wear those red horns and enjoyed some laughs. He he. :cool:

 

After that I went one to two times a week in the club to visit and talk to her.

I went there at Tues or Thurs in which not so many people.

She was always asked for and I found myself in many many instances waiting for her and waiting for her

guest to leave. I guess that’s a lot of patience on my part. I didn’t get any other ladies while waiting for

her so you could just imagine the feelings I have while looking at her guests make a move on her.

 

So the stories goes on, I learn every bit of her like her high school and stuff.

Other intimate parts she does not want to share. Like ideas to win her heart or the like.

Last Saturday I managed to get a gimmick on her and gave all of the girls flowers (the club has a place - for all of them to stay

like an apartment) and lastly gave her a bouquet. So I got all of my guts and while all of the ladies looking at me. I gave her

the flowers. The moment was special. I almost see her light in tears although she remove them away. She said thanks

in a cute manner or so that made my heart leap. Afterwards I got to treat them all with pizza. Mind you there were

like 12 of them. 12 ladies versus one guy. Hu hu. Hey I just wanted to prove that I'm sincere. Stupid me. :flowers:

 

After 3 days I went to the club and secretly gave the waiter, - cards for her and a small pillow.

I confess my love for her in the cards saying it was late and should have given it sooner.

Then yesterday I found myself there at the same place but I am accompanied by my coworkers.

They don't know what I have been doing like courting her or what.

I asked her about the cards if she read it. She said yes though I could not read if they are a go or a no.

We were drinking too much by then. She sang a lot … more than the previous times I had gone there.

I was looking at her eye if there is something. Cannot say too hard.

I asked her that if she have a regular guest on that day. She said yes so I asked her to promise to me

that if she will get one. She would ask for juice instead. I left the bar with my friends around 10:30.

I'm kinda lost right now. I don't know if I would continue it or not.

I ask her to go out again but like ice skating for Feb. next Sunday though she told me that she

check her sched.

Positive Points after the flower gig

 

She texted me twice this week asking for my condition. She used her friends cp.

previously nothing at all.

I think she isn't much to texting.

She isn't the type who would ask that I go to the club or visit her.

She never asked or demanded about anything. NOt like those other ladies

asking for one ld after another.

She told me one secret habit she has recently developed

Smoking that is even though her cousin don't know it.

I secretly told her cousin about it.

BTW I'm a non smoker, it’s a turn off for me.

One time when were drinking she got my beer and add it up her ladies drink

Concerned about me drinking too much.

She often scolds me for drinking too much and tells me I should go home.

 

One time while waiting for her I got pissed and went home. The following day

when I went there again she sharply remarked why did I go home and not

have waited for her.

Negative Points

 

She do not ask about me. Or maybe I had told her too much stories about my life.

One time during a conversation her birth date stirred up and suddenly she asked my birthday to

I told her that if it wasn't the topic she would not have asked about it.

So Interest in knowing me and my background is not so much

 

She is careful not to tell ideas to win her heart or get points on her.

Like dream dates other girls would want. Or maybe too careful.

 

She always says secret in some matters about her heart.

Others

The bar is kinda wholesome, nothing has happended intimately. I really respected her.

Not even touching or flirting too much with her.

I asked the waiter her background. He says she treats her guests with kinda a wall.

Does not go into VIP. I honestly think she's still intact. U know.

So what do u think? Should I continue or not.

or other gimmicks to test her if she's leading me or not.

 

hate to break this to you...the way i see it...she treats you like a "guest"...well..a special guest coz you're generous...she's being kind to you...coz you're being really nice to her...and her friends. You fall in the "good and loyal guest" category. If she's the kind who maintains this kind of "wall"...chances are...she's already taken...( or maybe her heart is already set on someone). Are you sure she doesn't have a live in partner...a hubby or a bf out of the club?...a child perhaps?...i think you better do some background checking...if you're that persistent.

[Larry]

for some reason I can't leave this thread.

 

it's like a trainwreck, there's nothing I can do to not look.

[FastAndTheCurious]

My point of view, during the flower thing that you did, she shed a tear because that was really sweet. Advice to you do not overdo this romantic thing, it is very tiring on a girls point of view. And one thing please do not be too serious when with her, your throwing yourself to much, one day she'll think that she doesn't deserve you because your to good that it scares her. Girls need fun. And when girls are happy they will miss your company. Now ask yourself if everytime you are with her is she happy?

 

 

Here are my opinions on her behavior and your behavior:

 

1. You know why she doesn't ask about you too much because you overdid it.

 

2. Do not ask matters of the heart, your forcing her.

 

3. There is no signal for a go or a no, you just feel it's ok

 

4. Remember the saying Treat a lady like a whore and whore like a lady. You overdid the lady thing, be balanced.

 

5. And please do not test her, it's kind of unmanly, your the one courting anyway.

 

6. Try to know what cracks her up... joke around, make her laugh a lot... then she'll spill anything you want to know without asking her.

 

Diskarte pa pre, kulang pa...

 

 

Please do share your comments about this case that is happening to me right now.

After a meeting I went to this videoke bar - club. It was Dec. by then. There I met this girl, I was dumb founded about her.

She was like 19 to be exact and had just started the job last Sept. or Oct last year.

She was relatively new to the job and I found myself doing most of the talking.

Telling my life and work. Kinda serious or so. I'm a serious guy, blame it on me he he.

Anyway I found myself visiting her 2 to 3 times again within the week.

 

Then on one occasion my colleague at work invited me to the same place. I of course denied

the fact that I am going there. When we arrived, he was very well known at the place and he

just mentioned to the waiter to get this same girl for me. A coincidence if I can say.

He says were kinda meant for each other. Like some similarities in conversing like too much English or so.

Often we get girls with a little less on the manners and of the language. But this girl have good

qualities that can be shown in her upbringing.

So what happened next I tried my best to court her sincerely.

One time we went out for shopping, like I promised her that I give her a Christmas gift

We went to a nearby mall and bought new clothes from top to bottom. Almost 4 thou I think

Then afterwards I

ended up this Christmas dropping by at her place and giving her a bouquet of flower and gifts

She was sleeping when I dropped by. Its kinda a surprise that is.

Yet on the same day, I didn't even have one text message like thanks or so.

Feeling hurt, justifying she lost her cellphone although she has my num.

But who am I to expect anything just yet. Maybe I'm being tested. And she told me beforehand she isn't much of a texter

The following day 26, we went to Enchanted Kingdom. I agreed beforehand that she could have

escorts with s that is. Like 2 additional making 3 including her. One is her cousin and a close friend.

She texted my the gig will push through but she also told me that there is another one who needs to

go to. Making 4 of them. First I texted her to shoulder the damage. For the additional and she

said yes that she would cover for it.

When we arrived at EK, feeling generous whatsoever. I paid for the whole group plus the food and everything

inside. It was all on me he he. The gimmick was fun and tiring we have a lot of good memorable

pictures.

Going home we went to a fast food store and she insisted to pay for it.

I did not agree but we settled for a 50: 50

The pictures was hilarous and when I developed it and shared it to them. It was a lot of laughs.

So January came, we went out in the pyro olympics in MOA. The fireworks was excellent the traffic was not.

I managed to get her to wear those red horns and enjoyed some laughs. He he. :cool:

 

After that I went one to two times a week in the club to visit and talk to her.

I went there at Tues or Thurs in which not so many people.

She was always asked for and I found myself in many many instances waiting for her and waiting for her

guest to leave. I guess that’s a lot of patience on my part. I didn’t get any other ladies while waiting for

her so you could just imagine the feelings I have while looking at her guests make a move on her.

 

So the stories goes on, I learn every bit of her like her high school and stuff.

Other intimate parts she does not want to share. Like ideas to win her heart or the like.

Last Saturday I managed to get a gimmick on her and gave all of the girls flowers (the club has a place - for all of them to stay

like an apartment) and lastly gave her a bouquet. So I got all of my guts and while all of the ladies looking at me. I gave her

the flowers. The moment was special. I almost see her light in tears although she remove them away. She said thanks

in a cute manner or so that made my heart leap. Afterwards I got to treat them all with pizza. Mind you there were

like 12 of them. 12 ladies versus one guy. Hu hu. Hey I just wanted to prove that I'm sincere. Stupid me. :flowers:

 

After 3 days I went to the club and secretly gave the waiter, - cards for her and a small pillow.

I confess my love for her in the cards saying it was late and should have given it sooner.

Then yesterday I found myself there at the same place but I am accompanied by my coworkers.

They don't know what I have been doing like courting her or what.

I asked her about the cards if she read it. She said yes though I could not read if they are a go or a no.

We were drinking too much by then. She sang a lot … more than the previous times I had gone there.

I was looking at her eye if there is something. Cannot say too hard.

I asked her that if she have a regular guest on that day. She said yes so I asked her to promise to me

that if she will get one. She would ask for juice instead. I left the bar with my friends around 10:30.

I'm kinda lost right now. I don't know if I would continue it or not.

I ask her to go out again but like ice skating for Feb. next Sunday though she told me that she

check her sched.

Positive Points after the flower gig

 

She texted me twice this week asking for my condition. She used her friends cp.

previously nothing at all.

I think she isn't much to texting.

She isn't the type who would ask that I go to the club or visit her.

She never asked or demanded about anything. NOt like those other ladies

asking for one ld after another.

She told me one secret habit she has recently developed

Smoking that is even though her cousin don't know it.

I secretly told her cousin about it.

BTW I'm a non smoker, it’s a turn off for me.

One time when were drinking she got my beer and add it up her ladies drink

Concerned about me drinking too much.

She often scolds me for drinking too much and tells me I should go home.

 

One time while waiting for her I got pissed and went home. The following day

when I went there again she sharply remarked why did I go home and not

have waited for her.

Negative Points

 

She do not ask about me. Or maybe I had told her too much stories about my life.

One time during a conversation her birth date stirred up and suddenly she asked my birthday to

I told her that if it wasn't the topic she would not have asked about it.

So Interest in knowing me and my background is not so much

 

She is careful not to tell ideas to win her heart or get points on her.

Like dream dates other girls would want. Or maybe too careful.

 

She always says secret in some matters about her heart.

Others

The bar is kinda wholesome, nothing has happended intimately. I really respected her.

Not even touching or flirting too much with her.

I asked the waiter her background. He says she treats her guests with kinda a wall.

Does not go into VIP. I honestly think she's still intact. U know.

So what do u think? Should I continue or not.

or other gimmicks to test her if she's leading me or not.

Edited January 30, 2007 by FastAndTheCurious

[lomex32]

Nicely said ...... FandC is right diskarte pa .... and to how .... balance daw ng lady and whore thing

 

ehto na lang share ko:

 

As the you and the lady go along, tell tale signs that she is on it

 

1. She allows you to accompany her even in those simple and private na lakad, like from getting her haid/nails done.....

 

2. You are able to know the closest or important people to her e.g. best friend, a relative(s) closest to her, her confidante

.... this is somehow a preparation for you as you are already closing in, to her inner circle ....

Sooner you just might meet them ..... she might or might not tell you

 

3 .... She narates the day that passed by/passes by without you

 

4. She starts to compare the day without you and the time you and her are together

 

5. She says she misses you and will miss you

 

My point of view, during the flower thing that you did, she shed a tear because that was really sweet. Advice to you do not overdo this romantic thing, it is very tiring on a girls point of view. And one thing please do not be too serious when with her, your throwing yourself to much, one day she'll think that she doesn't deserve you because your to good that it scares her. Girls need fun. And when girls are happy they will miss your company. Now ask yourself if everytime you are with her is she happy?

Here are my opinions on her behavior and your behavior:

 

1. You know why she doesn't ask about you too much because you overdid it.

 

2. Do not ask matters of the heart, your forcing her.

 

3. There is no signal for a go or a no, you just feel it's ok

 

4. Remember the saying Treat a lady like a whore and whore like a lady. You overdid the lady thing, be balanced.

 

5. And please do not test her, it's kind of unmanly, your the one courting anyway.

 

6. Try to know what cracks her up... joke around, make her laugh a lot... then she'll spill anything you want to know without asking her.

 

Diskarte pa pre, kulang pa...

[Larry]

Nicely said ...... FandC is right diskarte pa .... and to how .... balance daw ng lady and whore thing

 

ehto na lang share ko:

 

As the you and the lady go along, tell tale signs that she is on it

 

1. She allows you to accompany her even in those simple and private na lakad, like from getting her haid/nails done.....

 

2. You are able to know the closest or important people to her e.g. best friend, a relative(s) closest to her, her confidante

.... this is somehow a preparation for you as you are already closing in, to her inner circle ....

Sooner you just might meet them ..... she might or might not tell you

 

3 .... She narates the day that passed by/passes by without you

 

4. She starts to compare the day without you and the time you and her are together

 

5. She says she misses you and will miss you

 

be careful of this though.

 

Once you start doing things that she does with her girlfriends (going to the salon, etc.) that takes you one step closer to the dreaded Friend Zone.

 

Once you're in the Friend Zone there's no getting out

[lomex32]

Right u are Larry:

 

My fault, though forgot to say, during the course of such, try to lobby bits and pieces of the "whore" stuff

... this will tell also if you are directed to what Larry says the Friend Zone

 

 

be careful of this though.

 

Once you start doing things that she does with her girlfriends (going to the salon, etc.) that takes you one step closer to the dreaded Friend Zone.

 

Once you're in the Friend Zone there's no getting out

[Larry]

Right u are Larry:

 

My fault, though forgot to say, during the course of such, try to lobby bits and pieces of the "whore" stuff

... this will tell also if you are directed to what Larry says the Friend Zone

 

correctamundo

 

do not put the pussy on a pedestal

[icis]

Wow so many he he,

 

Thanks for all the advice!

 

I think diskarte din and I'll wait for her to respond. (Thanks TheFastandtheFurious) I'll take the advice to wait for her to respond or call for me. Its so unfortunate that is February is coming up. he he...

 

Bout the responses :

 

I crack her jokes all the time. She loves to tell stories about her life he he. I try my best to make it funny everytime I and her meet.

 

Though its really hard to tell if she likes me or not. Like one of the advices. Is it just business, love or a special guest.?

 

I tried to do special things for her to prove my sincerity. That's why I did the flower thing. To stand out cause when we first met she told me she do not believe love will not grow from those places. So I tried to court her outside the bar.

 

Anyway I think that is enough and wait for her to respond.

 

About the other stuff, the waiters, her cousin I always ask them her details. They say she's really like that. No BF, treating other guests with a wall . he he. No more other information unless I go to her homeplace.

[icis]

My point of view, during the flower thing that you did, she shed a tear because that was really sweet. Advice to you do not overdo this romantic thing, it is very tiring on a girls point of view. And one thing please do not be too serious when with her, your throwing yourself to much, one day she'll think that she doesn't deserve you because your to good that it scares her. Girls need fun. And when girls are happy they will miss your company. Now ask yourself if everytime you are with her is she happy?

Here are my opinions on her behavior and your behavior:

 

1. You know why she doesn't ask about you too much because you overdid it.

 

2. Do not ask matters of the heart, your forcing her.

 

3. There is no signal for a go or a no, you just feel it's ok

 

4. Remember the saying Treat a lady like a whore and whore like a lady. You overdid the lady thing, be balanced.

 

5. And please do not test her, it's kind of unmanly, your the one courting anyway.

 

6. Try to know what cracks her up... joke around, make her laugh a lot... then she'll spill anything you want to know without asking her.

 

Diskarte pa pre, kulang pa...

 

 

 

Yeah, I think so I overdid it. I just wanted to prove my sincerity because of what she said the first time we met. That she does not believe in falling for a guy in that kind of business.

 

I do make her laugh a lot. There's not an instance that I make her smile. Though she really has her composure not to spill the beans out even drunk.

 

WhAT kind of diskarte pa ba kulang? he he.

[muttley]

icis,

 

I think you've done enough already. Best to just move on with your life. Its not worth it. Really.

 

Even if she responds, I don't think its wise for you to pursue. As iwalkalone says, you might have been categorized as "special guest". True or not, its best for you to think it as such so that you don't get shafted in the end.

 

Maintain your perspective. You're a client. She's a PSP. If you become close, hanggang friends lang kayo, at best. That's the cold truth.

 

I've fell for one before and got really burned. The bitch played me well.

[FastAndTheCurious]

I had an experience before with a KTV chick. We both pursued with a relationship. We ended up broken, but it's nothing without experiencing it at all. Take risks... but do not overdo it. And at much as possible do not get hooked, if she's not. It's really hard if you get burned.

Edited February 2, 2007 by FastAndTheCurious

[SoulMTC]

icis bro wish you the best on this ... but to expect that she is still intact .. were you burn yesterday?? get real dude.. dont expect too much and save something for yourself..

[chabacano]

icis

para na ring circle of close friends ang mga nagpapayo sa yo dito.

and though not intending to sound kj, i'm afraid they're right.

unless plano mong siyang pakasalan at ilayo nang tuluyan, i agree

with the others na it would be wise to cut your losses and move on.

medyo bordering on the overkill na nga ang mga earnest gestures of

affection mo.

but then, i suppose that at the end of the day puso mo pa rin ang pakikinggan

mo. . if so, all the best sa inyo. whatever you decide to do, do tread carefully.

unfair din naman na saktan ang kalooban niya, lalo na kung wala naman

siyang ipinakitang masama sa 'yo.

and if all else fails, itanan mo na

[icis]

Itatanan ko na he he :cool:

 

Joke kidding aside, thanks for all the advices very much appreciated :thumbsupsmiley: :mtc:

I've been absent in the club for more than a week na and she had texted me wishing me to go there

thrice already. Di ko lang sinipot he he

 

I've texted the waiter asking if she was taken yesterday. The waiter responded "just now" and its about 9:30 already.

Usually by that time she has already a guest as early as 7:30 coz many ask for her. Un lang ngayn lg (Sat.) wala siya early guest wahaha (karma yata he he)

 

I've called her up this Sun. and told her mga March na ako pupunta wahaha.

Lets see what happens he he :hypocritesmiley:

[lomex32]

Icis

 

Does she insist that you meet @ the club?

Why not meet her outside... or at home?

 

 

Itatanan ko na he he :cool:

 

Joke kidding aside, thanks for all the advices very much appreciated :thumbsupsmiley: :mtc:

I've been absent in the club for more than a week na and she had texted me wishing me to go there

thrice already. Di ko lang sinipot he he

 

I've texted the waiter asking if she was taken yesterday. The waiter responded "just now" and its about 9:30 already.

Usually by that time she has already a guest as early as 7:30 coz many ask for her. Un lang ngayn lg (Sat.) wala siya early guest wahaha (karma yata he he)

 

I've called her up this Sun. and told her mga March na ako pupunta wahaha.

Lets see what happens he he :hypocritesmiley: