Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[scorpioklein]

Talo tlga lalo nat seloso ka, yun ginagawa nya sayo, ginagawa nya rin sa iba kung wala ka. Kahit ano pa napag usapan nyo, move on nlng. DFK pa more 🤣

Edited September 30 by scorpioklein

[Polyphia]

10 minutes ago, scorpioklein said:

Talo tlga lalo nat seloso ka, yun ginagawa nya sayo, ginagawa nya rin sa iba kung wala ka. Kahit ano pa napag usapan nyo, move on nlng. DFK pa more 🤣

Parang ibong adarna, naiputan ka na tigas na tigas ka pa 🤣

[Truthbetold]

On 8/8/2024 at 10:47 AM, blast3r said:

Long Post ahead 😃 

Hi fellow GMs, share ko lang din yung story ko dito (more like update na din). I’m at my mid-30s,. I just started this hobby, if you will, nito lang March 2024. Matagal ko na gusto talaga itry ko since maaga ako nagkaroon ng anak at the age of 21 and since 18y/o ako eh wala na ako ibang naging partner, one-woman man ako noon eh. Hopeless romantic din, pero hindi ko alam pero naging curious talaga ako and naisip ko na kung hindi ko to gagawin ngayon eh kelan pa? kung kelan nsa 50s na ako? So, I finally bit the bullet and tried, kumuha ako nung un ana walker sa fb, ok naman, discreet lang xa, tapos ndiscover ko yung mga online personal services like itong massage with ES, parang blunt yung experience ko, something was missing, and usually disappointed at malayo yung pics sa personal, until I met this thera, maganda sya sa pics, pero hindi ko inexpect na mas maganda sa personal. I was stunned when I opened the door for her nung unang meet namin, parang I found the girl of my dreams, until now, malinaw yung memory na yun.. The massage was great, and yung deed was short pero I felt something different,. After ilang days lang, I booked her again, this time mas longer period, we had lunch and watched a movie, and nsundan agad din yun, I was booking her not less than twice a week,.. she has kids, separated sa partner. And ako naman eh may family din,.. I did not expect na mgugustuhan ko xa kasi kaya nga ako ngtry  ng ganito kasi ayaw ko ng may emotion or commitment involved eh..

Hindi sya sweet kahit sa chats, “sir” lagi tawag nya and completely transactional, kahit magsabi ako ng kung anu-anu like miss ko na sya, eh wala akong reciprocal na message na nkukuha, ok lang or smiley lang, and that was fine with me, mas ok yung honest lang.. Madami din xa restrictions pero ok lang din sa akin yun, lahat ng thera na nakuha ko noon (I just had 4 that time) eh ayun agad ang una kong tinatanong, yung don’ts nila. Isa sa mga restrictions nya eh yung kissing, I tried minsan pero smack lang or minsan umiiwas xa so di ko na din sinubukan ulit.  Pero may restrictions din naman akong naunlocked. During our meet ups, mas nakilala naming yung isa’t isa, yung story ng buhay, etc..

Ito yung isang turning point, nainvite nya ako dun sa apartment where she stays, wala kasi yung housemate nya, we had drinks, mahina lang ako uminom pero tumagal ako nung time na yun, kwentuhan kami, tawanan, until nagyaya na xa magpahinga, eh ako naman xympre akala ko tulog na lang talaga. haha. pero that time, xa na yung nag-initiate, she DFK me, and nung time na yun ayun yung “best sex” na naexperience ko with her, nafeel ko na naenjoy nya din talaga. Tapos umuwi din ako ng early morning kinabukasan, hindi ko alam kung mag-iiwan ba ako ng payment o hindi, kasi baka maoffend naman xa or baka hindi naman na ako makaulit kung hindi, pero nag-iwan pa din ako ng money kasi alam ko she needed it that time, and nung nkita nya yun, sabi nya “baliw ka talaga”. So sa isip ko, ay wala palang dapat fee yun, and ang saya ko that time. Ibig sabihin that was more than service/sex for her.

Tapos medyo na-busy sa work and hindi kami nakapagmeet, then one day I surprised her, sabi ko magpadeliver ako ng cake using Grab, pero ako tlaga yung pumunta, and I brought flowers! Di ko naman ineexpect na maappreciate nya yun kasi sa isip ko eh baka madami naman na ngbigay sa knya nun. Pero natuwa naman pala xa. May times na dumadaan lang ako sa apartment tapos uwi din agad.  Nag-iba na din yung chats nya, naging sweet na, parang bf na.

Mula noon, hindi na ulit kami nakapagbook sa hotel, dun na lagi sa apartment, inom with her friends, tapos we have sex kahit andun mates nya, loft type yung apartment at walang divider or door yung room sa taas, and that adds dun sa excitement and thrill para sa akin, feeling ko exhibitionist na kami haha...  wala na din yun term na “book”, iniinvite na lang nya ako sa place nya, wala na din amount, nagbibigay na lang ako or she ask kung kailangan nya ng “advance” minsan,..

Kaso gaya nga din ng sabi ng majority dito, magastos itong bisyo na to, dumating yung time na need nya ng “advance” pero sabi ko, wala na akong savings, mabigyan ko xa pero kukuhain ko na yun sa credit line ko.. and ayun na nga, dati pa naman nya sinasabi sa akin na hesitant talaga xa dahil may family ako. Tapos dahil nga dun, she decided na mag “lay low” muna kami dahil nakokonsensya xa na nababawasan ko na yung budget for family and nakikihati pa xa.. Iniisip nya din xympre na family ako, ako lang din kasi talaga yung makulit.

I completely understand it.. Alam ko yung ibig nya sabihin, and naka mindset naman na talaga ako na lalayo at mag distance din kung sakaling dumating na yung time na to kasi alam ko naman na hindi naman pwedeng puro landi lang, kaya nga pinasok ng theras tong line of work na to eh kasi they needed the money..

Ngayon, ito nga “lay low”, chats lang muna kami sa ngayon, and I really miss her. Kahit na naisip ko  na to noon, eh mahirap pa din talaga... Don’t get me wrong, I may be infidel or anumang demonyo sa tingin ng iba pero hindi ibig sabihin nun eh hindi totoo yung nramdaman ko dito, nung una tingin ko libog or “lust” lang talaga, pero hindi naman cguro.

Someday, hindi natin masabi eh, pero I’m hoping na baka that time, pwede na ako, at sana ready and pwede pa din xa.. Hindi ako 100% sure na kung talagang gusto nya rin ako ksama, xympre part nun eh baka dahil kailangan nya din ako that time. Pero I get it, wala xang assurance sa akin at may family ako, takot din xa xympre masaktan at umasa.

Pero kung mababalik ko lang, I will still choose to treat her like I did. I will still take the risk.

Sa ngayon, ito lang cguro yung kailangan namin. Mahirap pala talaga. Feeling ko xa yung “The One That Got Away”..

Nice post, @blast3r. Di ka nag-iisa sa ganitong kwento. Nice to read other people's experience. 

[Gagambuboy]

unang warning ng nagmulat sakin sa industry na to, huwag na huwag mong gagawing mundo yung pang kama lang ng iba

Edited October 3 by Gagambuboy

[BrosTayoDito]

Theras are beautiful, paano kung ikaw ang mauuna dahil sa sakit? 🤣

[Rolf.go.06]

Mag mahalan kayo lahat. hehe

[grizzly148]

Realizations that you cannot live a life of tolerance knowing she's doing or done it with others... No matter how hard you try even if she retires in the industry. The thoughts will seep in one day.... Sooner or later.

[VivaForever2005]

For most of you guys, this is a no no. but what if you got interested in one and fell in love with. and also found out that the lady really love you. to yuo married guys this is not feasible, it can ruin your marriage. but to the unmarried and seperated ones. you have to weight the pros and cons for such a relationship. are you willing to accept the past of your loved one, can shoulder the financial burden that will be put upon you once she quits the job? or be willing to sacrifice relatives, friends or even lovers in order to have this relationship work out. pls. share your views with me as i discover her true feelings for me.

[glc69]

17 hours ago, VivaForever2005 said:

For most of you guys, this is a no no. but what if you got interested in one and fell in love with. and also found out that the lady really love you. to yuo married guys this is not feasible, it can ruin your marriage. but to the unmarried and seperated ones. you have to weight the pros and cons for such a relationship. are you willing to accept the past of your loved one, can shoulder the financial burden that will be put upon you once she quits the job? or be willing to sacrifice relatives, friends or even lovers in order to have this relationship work out. pls. share your views with me as i discover her true feelings for me.

Been there and done that. It was one of the best thing that happened to me, it's fun while it lasts.... however, sometimes we need to do some reality check.

Firstly, we need to check our Financial Capacity, it's costly, because of the burden that they carry that soon, would be yours to carry too.

Second, make sure that the girl is willing to make compromises with you, lifestyle changes, seeking new job or business opportunities  and etc...

Saying "i love you" alone won't be enough, at the end of the action still speaks louder than words.

Ika-nga if gusto may paraan, if ayaw lageng may dahilan. 

Goodluck bro! 

[trainlancer]

Been there, May Naging gustong gusto ako na Thera until napapayag ko pa lumabas. Invest talaga ... Food, Dining, pero umabot na sa to the point na after ko maka ONS, parang namemera nalang.

Well, mali din namam ako, na ako nag pahulog ng loob haha Hopeless Romantic pero super High Libido naman ang Koya nyo haha

 

So far, may nabasa ako dito, try other theras every now and then. I'll try na gawin yun. My GF kasi doesn't want to have Sex often. Like from 1 per month Tops. 

 

May side na ayoko naman gawin to, pero di naman ako inaalagaan hehe. Hanap nalang ng Alaga ng mga mahuhusay na Thera

[courtesanhunter]

yung 2nd choice talaga ang solusyon bro para hindi na mabiktima ng FFAT. or better para tumigil na ng tuluyan sa ganitong bisyo. LOL.

[Maykeee]

not falling in love but getting addicted to a thera

[leighscheps]

On 10/7/2024 at 12:45 PM, trainlancer said:

Been there, May Naging gustong gusto ako na Thera until napapayag ko pa lumabas. Invest talaga ... Food, Dining, pero umabot na sa to the point na after ko maka ONS, parang namemera nalang.

Well, mali din namam ako, na ako nag pahulog ng loob haha Hopeless Romantic pero super High Libido naman ang Koya nyo haha

 

So far, may nabasa ako dito, try other theras every now and then. I'll try na gawin yun. My GF kasi doesn't want to have Sex often. Like from 1 per month Tops. 

 

May side na ayoko naman gawin to, pero di naman ako inaalagaan hehe. Hanap nalang ng Alaga ng mga mahuhusay na Thera

I feel ya there brother. With the Whole partner situation. This hobby is just to keep me sane. Goodluck sa iyo papi. Remember this is our Lust talking hahahah

[MyFriend]

Im not sure if this is the right topic to post this question.

 

Sa mga FR nabasa ko there are a number of clients na binabalik balikan ang thera nila. Mag FR pero they would always say after the massage sila na lang ng ng thera nya nakakaalam what happens next. How do GMs get convinced that they have a thing with their thera? Is it the GFE thing that the client gets to feel they have genuine intimacy and care despite its a paid service?

[normantheforeman]

Damn I feel this brother