Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Julio777]

13 hours ago, twelfth said:

damn, speaking from experience ka pala sir hahaha. if it’s ok to pry a bit, how did the split happen? amicable naman, stayed as friends / gm-thera setup? regardless, hope the two of you are ok!

It was civil naman bro. We talked things out. We just try to avoid seeing each other because our feelings takes over when we do. We are both ok.

[rtz]

On 7/28/2024 at 12:22 PM, Julio777 said:

Very well said on this statement sir @twelfth. Been in one before and this is very relatable and somewhat accurate. The first phase which is the honeymoon phase. Both sides will see and feel that they long for each others company and ramdam ang happiness pag magkasama sila. Once this phase is over, and the first real disagreement happens especially if it involves a lie, everything will be in question. Mapapaisip ka na if totoo bang sayo lang sya ganito, na ikaw lang tlaga ang gusto nya makasama at purely trabaho lang ba talaga para sa kanya yung pagiging thera? Malawak na panguunawa ang kailangan at kung hindi ka handa ibigay yun at hindi ka handa masaktan, wag ka na pumasok sa relasyon. Madami ka makikita at mababasa tungkol sa thera mo since trabaho nya to. Kaya mo ba basahin na hindi maapektuhan ang relasyon nyo? Hindi madali

Ibang klaseng saya din ang makukuha mo pag ok kayo (can't deny), pero ibang klaseng sakit din ang mararamdaman mo along the way (kaya mo ba isustain). 

In the end mas ok pa din to just keep everything professional. Service availment lang, wag na pasukin ang relasyon. Mas magiging masaya ang lahat.

Trophy. Well effin' said bro 

[plug]

On 7/24/2024 at 12:08 PM, AngGwapo said:

Wow Sir @plug

Bilib ako sa inyo.

Ano po ang monetary costs on your end if okay lang mag share?

 

 

On 7/27/2024 at 11:33 PM, twelfth said:

Assuming pinapantayan nya rate ng nakukuha sa spa or more, pretty big? Nasa hundreds yan a month. 

I think the cost will depend kung may usapan kayo like pre conditions or if involve ka na sa kanya and accepted her as your responsibility.

A year ata before the pandemic, once may nagalok sa akin na thera from a Pasig spa with downpayment of 250k and a 50k monthly allowance at siya daw ay magiging akin lang. Biro or not hindi ko din naman makakayanan pero ipinasalat niya to convince me. She only offers hj, b2b, daty and bj. Ang alam ko nag layas siya sa kanilang pamilya.

She disappeared and later said to have been an fhm model. When she appeared in a spa, she then also offered atw.

In my case, five months before the pandemic nakursunadahan at napagbigyan ko nang nangailangan si thera para sa mother niya. Naging close kami at naging dependent sa akin para sa kanyang pagaaral. Nakapagtrabaho siya sa spa for a mere 8 months pero pasulpot sulpot lang dahil nagaaral at pag enrollment. Nadevelope until she suggested to help her put up a business for her to leave the spa. But that business later was closed due to pandemic. Provided her some assistance kaya lang napilitan tumigil sa pagaaral para mag concentrate sa bagong food business. Presently, quite financially independent from me yun nga lang medyo nabawasan ang time para sa akin. Kaya medyo active pa rin ako sa bisyo para mapunuan ang kulang.

Pangalawa siya sa thera na aking inilabas ng spa.

Yung una was an 18 year old newbie in a Makati spa. Kailangan ko ng isang katulad niya so I offered her monthly allowances for her to continue her studies. Quite inexperienced kaya walang luho at hindi mapaghanap. Putting her back in school and some additional help were just enough for her. Pero after a little more than two years biglang bumalik sa spa. Her reason gusto raw din niyang pagaralin ang nakakabatang dalawang kapatid. I lied to her and stopped communicating with her dahil itinapon ko yung sim card. Six years after I left her naging curious ako so I checked her fb and saw she has a decent job sa far north.

Just I can honestly tell or maybe proud of them kasi both were virgins when I had them left the spa. Seloso kasi ako.

And above all of these, bisyo lang talaga and as my policy alam ko most information even families of these theras pero kilala nila ako sa aking false nickname only nothing more.

At dahil bisyo one should never count the cost. Basta doon ka lang sa makakayanan mo at hwag manghinayang.    

[AbdulBudul]

On 7/9/2024 at 10:28 AM, Aphrodites said:

I wanna share something 😜

Weh?? Hahaha @Aphrodites

[mightyone]

Done that....me business na sila ngayon

[jondc]

pa fall ka na sana tapos lagi ka ng hihingian ng pera. turn off. pass nalang. 

[TitoKaloy]

15 hours ago, Dutyengineer said:

It seems mukang need mo na ala Chavit ang resources to fall for a thera..

thats part of the risk you take... pero di naman lahat... magtataka ka nga bakit may mga jowa sila na hindi din naman kaya silang sustentuhan pero pinipili pa din nila... sincerity, comfort, acceptance... yan daw dahilan kung bakit sabi nung thera na nabook ko dati... 

[Chris P Bacon]

If it doesn’t work out falling for a therapist try searching in the outside world, ganun din naman kasi susugal ka din naman. 

[Sheena of Angel Touch]

6 hours ago, TitoKaloy said:

thats part of the risk you take... pero di naman lahat... magtataka ka nga bakit may mga jowa sila na hindi din naman kaya silang sustentuhan pero pinipili pa din nila... sincerity, comfort, acceptance... yan daw dahilan kung bakit sabi nung thera na nabook ko dati... 

Yes tama ka po dyan . wag nyo lahatin ang thera di kame pare parehas . nung naging kame ng client ko kilala kame both sides. Tinigil ko pag tethera di ako nag pa sustento sakanya . yung sariling ipon ko pa ginagamit ko non para maka survive sa araw araw . ako pa nga madalas mag regalo at manlibre sa labas. Pag nag mahal kameng mga thera kaya namen mag sacrifice kaya namen bitawan lahat.

[shibuya109]

20 minutes ago, Yumi of XO said:

Yes tama ka po dyan . wag nyo lahatin ang thera di kame pare parehas . nung naging kame ng client ko kilala kame both sides. Tinigil ko pag tethera di ako nag pa sustento sakanya . yung sariling ipon ko pa ginagamit ko non para maka survive sa araw araw . ako pa nga madalas mag regalo at manlibre sa labas. Pag nag mahal kameng mga thera kaya namen mag sacrifice kaya namen bitawan lahat.

Nambabae pa talga idol?

[VivaForever2005]

I fell for a thera before and we went on dating for 3 months, the usual gf/bf thing we do every weekends.Go out, dinner date, malls, party while always fucking whenever we had the urge because that's how we met anyway. ☺️

[ElectricFan]

On 8/4/2024 at 9:59 PM, jondc said:

pa fall ka na sana tapos lagi ka ng hihingian ng pera. turn off. pass nalang. 

Hahaha. At least you won’t ever feel guilty pag ganyan na. 

On 8/4/2024 at 9:46 PM, Dutyengineer said:

It seems mukang need mo na ala Chavit ang resources to fall for a thera.. you don't know their lifestyle.. too many sponsorships with benefits of course, nagagamit nla yung charisma and beauty na meron sila and the question is how long

Para kang naka Cheat mode pag ala Chavit. Choose and Take all. 

On 8/5/2024 at 8:10 PM, Yumi of XO said:

Yes tama ka po dyan . wag nyo lahatin ang thera di kame pare parehas . nung naging kame ng client ko kilala kame both sides. Tinigil ko pag tethera di ako nag pa sustento sakanya . yung sariling ipon ko pa ginagamit ko non para maka survive sa araw araw . ako pa nga madalas mag regalo at manlibre sa labas. Pag nag mahal kameng mga thera kaya namen mag sacrifice kaya namen bitawan lahat.

Well if ikaw na po gumagastos Di na din sya tama. Pero ayun nga ganun talaga ang pag Ibig Mapagbigay. 

[Max Pervert]

5 hours ago, Dutyengineer said:

 

shut the fuck up or i'll make a windchime out of all your bones and hang it on the tree beside your grave    

[blast3r]

Long Post ahead 😃 

Hi fellow GMs, share ko lang din yung story ko dito (more like update na din). I’m at my mid-30s,. I just started this hobby, if you will, nito lang March 2024. Matagal ko na gusto talaga itry ko since maaga ako nagkaroon ng anak at the age of 21 and since 18y/o ako eh wala na ako ibang naging partner, one-woman man ako noon eh. Hopeless romantic din, pero hindi ko alam pero naging curious talaga ako and naisip ko na kung hindi ko to gagawin ngayon eh kelan pa? kung kelan nsa 50s na ako? So, I finally bit the bullet and tried, kumuha ako nung un ana walker sa fb, ok naman, discreet lang xa, tapos ndiscover ko yung mga online personal services like itong massage with ES, parang blunt yung experience ko, something was missing, and usually disappointed at malayo yung pics sa personal, until I met this thera, maganda sya sa pics, pero hindi ko inexpect na mas maganda sa personal. I was stunned when I opened the door for her nung unang meet namin, parang I found the girl of my dreams, until now, malinaw yung memory na yun.. The massage was great, and yung deed was short pero I felt something different,. After ilang days lang, I booked her again, this time mas longer period, we had lunch and watched a movie, and nsundan agad din yun, I was booking her not less than twice a week,.. she has kids, separated sa partner. And ako naman eh may family din,.. I did not expect na mgugustuhan ko xa kasi kaya nga ako ngtry  ng ganito kasi ayaw ko ng may emotion or commitment involved eh..

Hindi sya sweet kahit sa chats, “sir” lagi tawag nya and completely transactional, kahit magsabi ako ng kung anu-anu like miss ko na sya, eh wala akong reciprocal na message na nkukuha, ok lang or smiley lang, and that was fine with me, mas ok yung honest lang.. Madami din xa restrictions pero ok lang din sa akin yun, lahat ng thera na nakuha ko noon (I just had 4 that time) eh ayun agad ang una kong tinatanong, yung don’ts nila. Isa sa mga restrictions nya eh yung kissing, I tried minsan pero smack lang or minsan umiiwas xa so di ko na din sinubukan ulit.  Pero may restrictions din naman akong naunlocked. During our meet ups, mas nakilala naming yung isa’t isa, yung story ng buhay, etc..

Ito yung isang turning point, nainvite nya ako dun sa apartment where she stays, wala kasi yung housemate nya, we had drinks, mahina lang ako uminom pero tumagal ako nung time na yun, kwentuhan kami, tawanan, until nagyaya na xa magpahinga, eh ako naman xympre akala ko tulog na lang talaga. haha. pero that time, xa na yung nag-initiate, she DFK me, and nung time na yun ayun yung “best sex” na naexperience ko with her, nafeel ko na naenjoy nya din talaga. Tapos umuwi din ako ng early morning kinabukasan, hindi ko alam kung mag-iiwan ba ako ng payment o hindi, kasi baka maoffend naman xa or baka hindi naman na ako makaulit kung hindi, pero nag-iwan pa din ako ng money kasi alam ko she needed it that time, and nung nkita nya yun, sabi nya “baliw ka talaga”. So sa isip ko, ay wala palang dapat fee yun, and ang saya ko that time. Ibig sabihin that was more than service/sex for her.

Tapos medyo na-busy sa work and hindi kami nakapagmeet, then one day I surprised her, sabi ko magpadeliver ako ng cake using Grab, pero ako tlaga yung pumunta, and I brought flowers! Di ko naman ineexpect na maappreciate nya yun kasi sa isip ko eh baka madami naman na ngbigay sa knya nun. Pero natuwa naman pala xa. May times na dumadaan lang ako sa apartment tapos uwi din agad.  Nag-iba na din yung chats nya, naging sweet na, parang bf na.

Mula noon, hindi na ulit kami nakapagbook sa hotel, dun na lagi sa apartment, inom with her friends, tapos we have sex kahit andun mates nya, loft type yung apartment at walang divider or door yung room sa taas, and that adds dun sa excitement and thrill para sa akin, feeling ko exhibitionist na kami haha...  wala na din yun term na “book”, iniinvite na lang nya ako sa place nya, wala na din amount, nagbibigay na lang ako or she ask kung kailangan nya ng “advance” minsan,..

Kaso gaya nga din ng sabi ng majority dito, magastos itong bisyo na to, dumating yung time na need nya ng “advance” pero sabi ko, wala na akong savings, mabigyan ko xa pero kukuhain ko na yun sa credit line ko.. and ayun na nga, dati pa naman nya sinasabi sa akin na hesitant talaga xa dahil may family ako. Tapos dahil nga dun, she decided na mag “lay low” muna kami dahil nakokonsensya xa na nababawasan ko na yung budget for family and nakikihati pa xa.. Iniisip nya din xympre na family ako, ako lang din kasi talaga yung makulit.

I completely understand it.. Alam ko yung ibig nya sabihin, and naka mindset naman na talaga ako na lalayo at mag distance din kung sakaling dumating na yung time na to kasi alam ko naman na hindi naman pwedeng puro landi lang, kaya nga pinasok ng theras tong line of work na to eh kasi they needed the money..

Ngayon, ito nga “lay low”, chats lang muna kami sa ngayon, and I really miss her. Kahit na naisip ko  na to noon, eh mahirap pa din talaga... Don’t get me wrong, I may be infidel or anumang demonyo sa tingin ng iba pero hindi ibig sabihin nun eh hindi totoo yung nramdaman ko dito, nung una tingin ko libog or “lust” lang talaga, pero hindi naman cguro.

Someday, hindi natin masabi eh, pero I’m hoping na baka that time, pwede na ako, at sana ready and pwede pa din xa.. Hindi ako 100% sure na kung talagang gusto nya rin ako ksama, xympre part nun eh baka dahil kailangan nya din ako that time. Pero I get it, wala xang assurance sa akin at may family ako, takot din xa xympre masaktan at umasa.

Pero kung mababalik ko lang, I will still choose to treat her like I did. I will still take the risk.

Sa ngayon, ito lang cguro yung kailangan namin. Mahirap pala talaga. Feeling ko xa yung “The One That Got Away”..

[Max Pervert]

23 hours ago, Dutyengineer said:

 

shut the fuck up or i'll shove a coin underneath your eyelid and tape your eye shut