Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[AngGwapo]

11 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

Kung kasing yaman mo yung nag garahe kay jaira, sobrang pangit mo ba para di ka makakuha ng partner with all that money?

Xaat last resort nalang ang pag garahe ng thera pag walang wala na talaga at syempre kung bigatin ba ang bulsa mo hehehe

Answer is, yes, one who is very rich (and old) with all that money, they can get the hottest person in the room (world).

I know one entrepreneur who's probably pushing into early 70s, short, (barely 5 feet tall), not good looking. I was in his office 3x and each of those times, his wife who is hot as hell, in her 30s, and sounds intelligent, has 2 kids with him. 

I was wondering those meetings if he was doing that in person to test me as on the 2nd time, he asked me to come to his house in Valle and meet daw kami poolside. All I kept telling myself was that I hope the missus is there when we meet.

Hahaha!

[ilustrisimokolakes7]

10 hours ago, Krimpayero said:

I think we cannot conclude right away that anyone who goes permanent with a thera/GRO/walker is ugly and rich. It's all about the circumstances...I have a really wealthy half German friend who is UP educated, relatively good looking and who used to date one of the hottest chicks in our dorm. Yet, later on, he went into a relationship with a GRO from a bar in Q-Ave and they lasted for several years.  We asked him why when he can have any ordinary girl, all he said was that they clicked. And that was that. 

 

Majority of men kasi  don't care about the social status or job ng babae basta chix or nagclick sila,they will bite the bullet

[BlackDiamond]

7 hours ago, ilustrisimokolakes7 said:

Majority of men kasi  don't care about the social status or job ng babae basta chix or nagclick sila,they will bite the bullet

For those who go to these places as an escape, a break from real world responsibilities, at times you go in there really vulnerable and trying to fill some sort of void.

Basically, you're exposed and vulnerable.. then you walk straight into the lion's den.. and these lions they all look oh so majestic, in your mind, you have tamed them.. as they slowly nibble at you. 

Again, @AngGwapo said it best..

A GM will believe what he wants to believe..

Edited December 15, 2023 by BlackDiamond

[manoy buknoy]

15 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

True love, within or outside of this industry, involves many things including money. Unfortunately, money does buy a lot. In the case of this world, time.

Even outside MTC or the industry in general, money is still important because of a person's natural instinct to survive and improve their situation. Outside of MTC, we look for a person who can complement or improve us. That takes the form of their looks, education, career, upbringing, etc. It's a two-way street everywhere.

I have met many women who have BFs or sponsors. Some even call their sponsors BF but in their minds, that sponsor is already a BF. They fall for the one that can help them fulfill their needs (and in a lot of their cases, the family's as well). They find it hard na bumaklas regardless of the kind of support (and in a lot of cases, amount) they get.

Money can finance our education, car, dream home, etc. If you see that fact that it goes both ways, then, we'd be in a better position this FFAT/FFAG that we delve into. 

Just think of the basic foundation of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and we'd understand their situation better.

 

When I speak of TRUE LOVE  ang tinutukoy ko Yung Nararamdaman natin sa sarili natin hiwalay sa usapin ng pakikipagrelasyon.

We can love someone even if ur not in a relationship with that person. In fact, u can love that person even if he or she is having a relationship with someone else,true? Sabi nga ng kanta,it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along dba nga. 
 
Sa pakikipagrelasyon importante Ang pera syempre. It can make or break a relationship. Pero Kung nakikipagrelasyon ka for financial security then Ang minamahal mo Yung pera nya,correct? 
 
Kaya nga c Iceman7 takang taka Kung bakit maraming mga thera Ang mga totoong boyfriend mga tambay mga walang trabaho. Ganun Ang totoong pag ibig eh. Tama tong si florante eh...hahamakin ang lahat masunod ka lamang. Love is blind nga dba that's why I said money has nothing to do with it.
 
Now,that's TRUE LOVE for u. TRUE being the operative word.

[manoy buknoy]

Now bro etong "true love" na to it's very tricky bro. Just bec. u fell in love with someone doesn't mean u'll stay feeling that way forever. Nope. Because just as one can fall IN love, he can also fall OUT of it. Mararamdaman mo na lng Yun e.We all share that experience as a human being dba? Yung tipong u fall head over heels with someone u meet along the way, thera or not then magigising ka na lng Isang Araw and u realized you've lost that loving feeling na pala haha mapapakanta kna lng tlga. And even having an obcene amount of money is no guarantee na Hindi mararamdaman to ng asawa o girlfriend mo. Bakit kamo? bec. MONEY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. That's it bro.dig it. And I'm not even talking about relationships. Ang tinutukoy ko Yung Nararamdaman naten bec anyone can choose to stay in a relationship with u kahit di ka na nya mahal. Pag dating sa true love pre it really moves in mysterious ways. Sinong nu wave band ba kumanta nun haha. It's not really money that makes the world go round. It's true love bro. It's true love.  

Edited December 16, 2023 by manoy buknoy

[dominickcruise]

1 hour ago, manoy buknoy said:

Now bro etong "true love" na to it's very tricky bro. Just bec. u fell in love with someone doesn't mean u'll stay feeling that way forever. Nope. Because just as one can fall IN love, he can also fall OUT of it. Mararamdaman mo na lng Yun e.We all share that experience as a human being dba? Yung tipong u fall head over heels with someone u meet along the way, thera or not then magigising ka na lng Isang Araw and u realized you've lost that loving feeling na pala haha mapapakanta kna lng tlga. And even having an obcene amount of money is no guarantee na Hindi mararamdaman to ng asawa o girlfriend mo. Bakit kamo? bec. MONEY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. That's it bro.dig it. And I'm not even talking about relationships. Ang tinutukoy ko Yung Nararamdaman naten bec anyone can choose to stay in a relationship with u kahit di ka na nya mahal. Pag dating sa true love pre it really moves in misterious ways. Sinong nu wave band ba kumanta nun haha. It's not really money that makes the world go round. It's true love bro. It's true love.  

JULIA FORDHAM has a song "LOVE MOVES IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS!" one of my favorite singers as well..

regarding sa topic, If a woman shares money with you or treats you from time to time (with her hard earned money of course and hindi galing sa iyo, LOL) then you can say that she has a lot of affection sa iyo specially now with a lot of MODERN WOMEN being all money and stuff.

[manoy buknoy]

5 hours ago, dominickcruise said:

JULIA FORDHAM has a song "LOVE MOVES IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS!" one of my favorite singers as well..

regarding sa topic, If a woman shares money with you or treats you from time to time (with her hard earned money of course and hindi galing sa iyo, LOL) then you can say that she has a lot of affection sa iyo specially now with a lot of MODERN WOMEN being all money and stuff.

I think Yung MYMP may kanta rin na ganun.Anyway,Yung pag treat sayo ni thera using her money ( maybe galing Kay Iceman Yung pera di naten alam haha joke lng pre) maybe thats one way of telling it. Yung mga nararamdaman Kase naten just like intentions reside in the deepest recesses of our hearts and minds o dba but that's a gud sign Kung lage ka  ginagastusan ni thera haha. 

... Syempre she can always manifest what she feels through her actuations like treating u with her own money. Dun mo rin mababasa. Magkakaproblema lng if what's being manifested is just a "front" and not really showing her true feelings. U can misread her that way. Just like sa mga politicians. Sino ba mag aakala na c erap na inakalang para sa mahihirap e Hinde talaga para sa mahirap haha. The opposite is also true. Sometimes it's just not enough to be transparent. It's equally important that u "appear" to be transparent para walang duda.But of course Ibang topic na yang mga politiko. Just used them as an analogy haha

Edited December 16, 2023 by manoy buknoy

[Prinsloo]

Sky high body count and ocean deep traumas. You decide

Edited December 16, 2023 by Prinsloo

[Prinsloo]

Nagkakalabasan na ng lyrics ng kanta ah. Basta ako mga thera naiisip ko pag naririning yung "greedy" by tate mcrae hahaha

 

Edited December 16, 2023 by Prinsloo

[dominickcruise]

27 minutes ago, Prinsloo said:

Sky high body count and ocean deep traumas. You decide

add to this the ability to bond on a more intimate level...the high body count removes all of this factor.

[papagur0]

More song recommendation mga sir.. I'm building a playlist for this lol

 

[scorpioklein]

 

[AngGwapo]

2 hours ago, LookingOswald said:

Trophy for you - this is a great entry from yourself. Unlike what John Lennon claims, love is not all you need. Exceptional chemistry or being able to outcall isn't equivalent to love, it just means you are highly preferred. It's good to enjoy that for what it is and not look at it with rose-tinted glasses and believe that it is something more. Sometimes we get so caught up in the moment that we mistake which is which - even after many years in this diversion I still make this mistake occasionally. Great treatment from a lady within the bounds of transactional work is no different than a person that they enjoy looking forward to working with in the corporate setting. In reality, it is just a good working relationship.

 

As said in our private discourse, if you're not sustaining or taking the girl out of the industry, it's a meaningless venture to entertain these misplaced feelings. To believe otherwise would be placing yourself voluntarily in a state of cognitive dissonance. See you around AG and have a great holiday season.

See you around @LookingOswald.

Happy holidays.

[AngGwapo]

Has anyone here in a relationship where you are the real BF and the girl you met has had a sponsor for years? Sponsor who provides support to the partner and her family.

Curious to know how you and your partner handled things - not the part between yourselves but the girl and her sponsor?

Would appreciate insights.

Salamat!

 

[Prinsloo]

8 hours ago, dominickcruise said:

add to this the ability to bond on a more intimate level...the high body count removes all of this factor.

A popular thera here seems to be happy and contented with her bf. Flexing him in her fb stories with a lot of dinnerdates, mall dates, tattoo sessions, and bed shots where the dude is passed out due to fatigue hahahaha

[chnky]

Mahirap idefine ang true love. Minsan nga nag asawa ka na lahat lahat d pa rin pala un ang true love mo.

[papagur0]

Yun prend ko nga may isang beses na book na thera. Nakailang bookings na sya ibang thera. Hindi pa rin nya makalimutan yun thera. In that moment daw parang time stopped sila lang dalawa at hanggang ngaun nakaburn sa memory yun moment na yun. Sinubukan nya daw try sa ibang thera kaso wala daw yun"magic". Sabi ko try ulet ibook baka post nut clarity eklavuh lang yun. Ayun di pa rin nya mabook, ayaw ma-fall. Mainam naman utak ang pinakagana.

[Prinsloo]

Minsan talaga you have to look elsewhere muna.

I tried flirting with a ypung doctor parang kakagat pa at papayag na lumabas hahaha. Good luck kung may papayag lumabas ng libre sa current generation of theras hahsha

[manoy buknoy]

22 hours ago, scorpioklein said:

 

You can actually die of a broken heart. Karaniwan to sa mga matagal ng mag asawa pag namatay Yung Isa after a few days Bigla na lng din mamamatay Yung naiwan na asawa.

[Prinsloo]

On 12/16/2023 at 7:52 AM, manoy buknoy said:

When I speak of TRUE LOVE  ang tinutukoy ko Yung Nararamdaman natin sa sarili natin hiwalay sa usapin ng pakikipagrelasyon.

We can love someone even if ur not in a relationship with that person. In fact, u can love that person even if he or she is having a relationship with someone else,true? Sabi nga ng kanta,it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along dba nga. 
 
Sa pakikipagrelasyon importante Ang pera syempre. It can make or break a relationship. Pero Kung nakikipagrelasyon ka for financial security then Ang minamahal mo Yung pera nya,correct? 
 
Kaya nga c Iceman7 takang taka Kung bakit maraming mga thera Ang mga totoong boyfriend mga tambay mga walang trabaho. Ganun Ang totoong pag ibig eh. Tama tong si florante eh...hahamakin ang lahat masunod ka lamang. Love is blind nga dba that's why I said money has nothing to do with it.
 
Now,that's TRUE LOVE for u. TRUE being the operative word.

I have several thories on why theras ho for broke boys.

*They always mention to me ( theras.from the early 2010s,  before the pandemic, and present day) that they dont want to fall for their guests. This could mean that they go for men with no financial capability to sample the flesh trade. Even with the consequence of having very low or even zero income for their man.

*They are avoiding the "sumbat" from partners who are former clients. I have heard this from a handfull of theras and stories here at MTC.

*They want a man that is a houseboy or homedad type that will guide their kids, clean their house, or feed their pets while they grind (No pun intended). They dont want to deal with the household BS upon arriving home.

Edited December 18, 2023 by Prinsloo

[Bonked]

yung magkasama kayo sa room ng gf mo na thera... then habang nag kkwentuhan kayo na bangit nya isa nyang client. biglang nagbago mukha eh, biglang nag apologize sya sa iyo dahil na bangit nya work nya.

then na realize mo hindi ka parin ang nag iisa sa buhay nya. 

[manoy buknoy]

20 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

I have several thories on why theras ho for broke boys.

*They always mention to me ( theras.from the early 2010s,  before the pandemic, and present day) that they dont want to fall for their guests. This could mean that they go for men witj no financial capability to sample the flesh trade. Even with the consequence of having very low and even zero invome for their man.

*They are avoiding the "sumbat" from partners who are former clients. I have heard this from a handfull of theras and.stories here at MTC.

*They want a man that is a houseboy or homedad type that will guide their kids, clean their house, or feed their pets while they grind (No pun intended). They dont want to deal with the household BS upon arriving at home.

Gusto ko Yung pangatlong theory mo Yung naghahanap Sila ng kasambahay for a bf haha.
Ako I just go by what Iceman said and used it to emphasize a point. Whether that holds true for the majority of the theras or just for a handful of cases is not for me to say. You need a statistician for that haha...and hard empirical data!
Naniniwala ako sa nasabi sayo ng mga therang nakausap mo na nandun Yung takot nilang makipagrelasyon sa mga gm. (But I don't think there's a conscious effort to look for "broke boys" as much as they just want to avoid any sort of entanglements with gms in general) Alam nila Yung kalakaran eh being in the same industry. Our reputation precedes us, pero naniniwala rin ako pag tinamaan ka talaga ng matindi magagawa mo Yung mga bagay na Hindi mo maiisip na magagawa mo.

We get into relationships for a variety of reasons, from the sublime to the mundane to the downright filthy, the whole nine yards. Intentions can be inferred from anyone's actuations but u can have ur most educated guess and still be wrong because appearances can be deceiving lalo na sa industry na to where intentions are not always what they appear to be on the surface, where not everything is at it seems most of the time.
 

Edited December 18, 2023 by manoy buknoy

[AngGwapo]

On 12/16/2023 at 5:15 AM, BlackDiamond said:

For those who go to these places as an escape, a break from real world responsibilities, at times you go in there really vulnerable and trying to fill some sort of void.

Basically, you're exposed and vulnerable.. then you walk straight into the lion's den.. and these lions they all look oh so majestic, in your mind, you have tamed them.. as they slowly nibble at you. 

Again, @AngGwapo said it best..

A GM will believe what he wants to believe..

Yes, and I will keep repeating that since it has come from a former regular after I asked her what happened to us @BlackDiamond

If one thinks we're the only ones In their eyes, so be it.

If we think we're one of dozens, so be it.

[Midlurker2005]

This thread is such an entertainment. Where can you find a place where you rationalize orgasm as an exercise of altruism? Or virtue signal after a paid s3xua1 activity? Or mask egoism as social responsibility?
 

The reason why their profession is considered the oldest: It fills the void brought about by illusion (or delusion) that starts from the head above and ends at the tip of the head below. 
 

Just keep on hunting. If you’re serious, marry her. Otherwise, bawasan ang katol.  

Edited December 19, 2023 by Midlurker2005

[papagur0]

32 minutes ago, Midlurker2005 said:

This thread is such an entertainment. Where can you find a place where you rationalize orgasm as an exercise of altruism? Or virtue signal after a paid s3xua1 activity? Or mask egoism as social responsibility?
 

The reason why their profession is considered the oldest. It fills the void brought about by illusion (or delusion) that starts from the head above and ends at the tip of the head below. 
 

Just keep on hunting. If you’re serious, marry her. Otherwise, bawasan ang katol.  

Fueling our deepest delusion..haha