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3 hours ago, Krimpayero said:

I think we cannot conclude right away that anyone who goes permanent with a thera/GRO/walker is ugly and rich. It's all about the circumstances...I have a really wealthy half German friend who is UP educated, relatively good looking and who used to date one of the hottest chicks in our dorm. Yet, later on, he went into a relationship with a GRO from a bar in Q-Ave and they lasted for several years.  We asked him why when he can have any ordinary girl, all he said was that they clicked. And that was that. 

 

Amen! Trophy!

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2 hours ago, manoy buknoy said:

Maybe bec. TRUE love has nothing to do with money.

Oh not maybe...

IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MONEY!!!

 

True love, within or outside of this industry, involves many things including money. Unfortunately, money does buy a lot. In the case of this world, time.

Even outside MTC or the industry in general, money is still important because of a person's natural instinct to survive and improve their situation. Outside of MTC, we look for a person who can complement or improve us. That takes the form of their looks, education, career, upbringing, etc. It's a two-way street everywhere.

I have met many women who have BFs or sponsors. Some even call their sponsors BF but in their minds, that sponsor is already a BF. They fall for the one that can help them fulfill their needs (and in a lot of their cases, the family's as well). They find it hard na bumaklas regardless of the kind of support (and in a lot of cases, amount) they get.

Money can finance our education, car, dream home, etc. If you see that fact that it goes both ways, then, we'd be in a better position this FFAT/FFAG that we delve into. 

Just think of the basic foundation of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and we'd understand their situation better.

 

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11 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

Kung kasing yaman mo yung nag garahe kay jaira, sobrang pangit mo ba para di ka makakuha ng partner with all that money?

Xaat last resort nalang ang pag garahe ng thera pag walang wala na talaga at syempre kung bigatin ba ang bulsa mo hehehe

Answer is, yes, one who is very rich (and old) with all that money, they can get the hottest person in the room (world).

I know one entrepreneur who's probably pushing into early 70s, short, (barely 5 feet tall), not good looking. I was in his office 3x and each of those times, his wife who is hot as hell, in her 30s, and sounds intelligent, has 2 kids with him. 

I was wondering those meetings if he was doing that in person to test me as on the 2nd time, he asked me to come to his house in Valle and meet daw kami poolside. All I kept telling myself was that I hope the missus is there when we meet.

Hahaha!

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10 hours ago, Krimpayero said:

I think we cannot conclude right away that anyone who goes permanent with a thera/GRO/walker is ugly and rich. It's all about the circumstances...I have a really wealthy half German friend who is UP educated, relatively good looking and who used to date one of the hottest chicks in our dorm. Yet, later on, he went into a relationship with a GRO from a bar in Q-Ave and they lasted for several years.  We asked him why when he can have any ordinary girl, all he said was that they clicked. And that was that. 

 

Majority of men kasi  don't care about the social status or job ng babae basta chix or nagclick sila,they will bite the bullet

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7 hours ago, ilustrisimokolakes7 said:

Majority of men kasi  don't care about the social status or job ng babae basta chix or nagclick sila,they will bite the bullet

For those who go to these places as an escape, a break from real world responsibilities, at times you go in there really vulnerable and trying to fill some sort of void.

Basically, you're exposed and vulnerable.. then you walk straight into the lion's den.. and these lions they all look oh so majestic, in your mind, you have tamed them.. as they slowly nibble at you. 

Again, @AngGwapo said it best..

A GM will believe what he wants to believe..

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15 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

True love, within or outside of this industry, involves many things including money. Unfortunately, money does buy a lot. In the case of this world, time.

Even outside MTC or the industry in general, money is still important because of a person's natural instinct to survive and improve their situation. Outside of MTC, we look for a person who can complement or improve us. That takes the form of their looks, education, career, upbringing, etc. It's a two-way street everywhere.

I have met many women who have BFs or sponsors. Some even call their sponsors BF but in their minds, that sponsor is already a BF. They fall for the one that can help them fulfill their needs (and in a lot of their cases, the family's as well). They find it hard na bumaklas regardless of the kind of support (and in a lot of cases, amount) they get.

Money can finance our education, car, dream home, etc. If you see that fact that it goes both ways, then, we'd be in a better position this FFAT/FFAG that we delve into. 

Just think of the basic foundation of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and we'd understand their situation better.

 

When I speak of TRUE LOVE  ang tinutukoy ko Yung Nararamdaman natin sa sarili natin hiwalay sa usapin ng pakikipagrelasyon.

We can love someone even if ur not in a relationship with that person. In fact, u can love that person even if he or she is having a relationship with someone else,true? Sabi nga ng kanta,it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along dba nga. 
 
Sa pakikipagrelasyon importante Ang pera syempre. It can make or break a relationship. Pero Kung nakikipagrelasyon ka for financial security then Ang minamahal mo Yung pera nya,correct? 
 
Kaya nga c Iceman7 takang taka Kung bakit maraming mga thera Ang mga totoong boyfriend mga tambay mga walang trabaho. Ganun Ang totoong pag ibig eh. Tama tong si florante eh...hahamakin ang lahat masunod ka lamang. Love is blind nga dba that's why I said money has nothing to do with it.
 
Now,that's TRUE LOVE for u. TRUE being the operative word.

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Now bro etong "true love" na to it's very tricky bro. Just bec. u fell in love with someone doesn't mean u'll stay feeling that way forever. Nope. Because just as one can fall IN love, he can also fall OUT of it. Mararamdaman mo na lng Yun e.We all share that experience as a human being dba? Yung tipong u fall head over heels with someone u meet along the way, thera or not then magigising ka na lng Isang Araw and u realized you've lost that loving feeling na pala haha mapapakanta kna lng tlga. And even having an obcene amount of money is no guarantee na Hindi mararamdaman to ng asawa o girlfriend mo. Bakit kamo? bec. MONEY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. That's it bro.dig it. And I'm not even talking about relationships. Ang tinutukoy ko Yung Nararamdaman naten bec anyone can choose to stay in a relationship with u kahit di ka na nya mahal. Pag dating sa true love pre it really moves in mysterious ways. Sinong nu wave band ba kumanta nun haha. It's not really money that makes the world go round. It's true love bro. It's true love.  

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1 hour ago, manoy buknoy said:

Now bro etong "true love" na to it's very tricky bro. Just bec. u fell in love with someone doesn't mean u'll stay feeling that way forever. Nope. Because just as one can fall IN love, he can also fall OUT of it. Mararamdaman mo na lng Yun e.We all share that experience as a human being dba? Yung tipong u fall head over heels with someone u meet along the way, thera or not then magigising ka na lng Isang Araw and u realized you've lost that loving feeling na pala haha mapapakanta kna lng tlga. And even having an obcene amount of money is no guarantee na Hindi mararamdaman to ng asawa o girlfriend mo. Bakit kamo? bec. MONEY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. That's it bro.dig it. And I'm not even talking about relationships. Ang tinutukoy ko Yung Nararamdaman naten bec anyone can choose to stay in a relationship with u kahit di ka na nya mahal. Pag dating sa true love pre it really moves in misterious ways. Sinong nu wave band ba kumanta nun haha. It's not really money that makes the world go round. It's true love bro. It's true love.  

JULIA FORDHAM has a song "LOVE MOVES IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS!" one of my favorite singers as well..

regarding sa topic, If a woman shares money with you or treats you from time to time (with her hard earned money of course and hindi galing sa iyo, LOL) then you can say that she has a lot of affection sa iyo specially now with a lot of MODERN WOMEN being all money and stuff.

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5 hours ago, dominickcruise said:

JULIA FORDHAM has a song "LOVE MOVES IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS!" one of my favorite singers as well..

regarding sa topic, If a woman shares money with you or treats you from time to time (with her hard earned money of course and hindi galing sa iyo, LOL) then you can say that she has a lot of affection sa iyo specially now with a lot of MODERN WOMEN being all money and stuff.

I think Yung MYMP may kanta rin na ganun.Anyway,Yung pag treat sayo ni thera using her money ( maybe galing Kay Iceman Yung pera di naten alam haha joke lng pre) maybe thats one way of telling it. Yung mga nararamdaman Kase naten just like intentions reside in the deepest recesses of our hearts and minds o dba but that's a gud sign Kung lage ka  ginagastusan ni thera haha. 

... Syempre she can always manifest what she feels through her actuations like treating u with her own money. Dun mo rin mababasa. Magkakaproblema lng if what's being manifested is just a "front" and not really showing her true feelings. U can misread her that way. Just like sa mga politicians. Sino ba mag aakala na c erap na inakalang para sa mahihirap e Hinde talaga para sa mahirap haha. The opposite is also true. Sometimes it's just not enough to be transparent. It's equally important that u "appear" to be transparent para walang duda.But of course Ibang topic na yang mga politiko. Just used them as an analogy haha

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