Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[manong bola]

Falling for a thera is not a bad thing....we are humans too and we have emotions as well...you guys should just understand what the job entails...After all, isn't love about acceptance?

 

agree.

[manong bola]

I once fell in love with a thera. She is so sweet. so kind and the most beautiful girl I ever met.

We talk to each other like a there's is no thera work thing. She talks to me like we know each other for a long time.

Sometimes we had a dinner after our deed because she dosent want to have a client anymore. Maybe because of the tip I am giving to her is enough for that day.

I like the way she tells her life to me. Like a sister telling a story to her bigger brother like a family.

 

But everything changes when I saw her walking out with the client, I don't know why I felt different.

because she even told me wait for a hour coz she still has a client. I know it's her work but I just accidentally fall in love.

I don't know why I felt that way. It's like a pain in chest that I could now release.

But still I choose her during that time.

Then I felt different, It's like the fantasy has been over.

When I look at her picture, the feeling of being inlove with her is gone.

So I realize, maybe I was just obsess on how beautiful and lovely her face.

Then I never go back to her work again. Because of what I saw when she is with her client.

I can still remember, she said goodbye to me.

She knows I felt bad, waiting for her with the client.

Sometimes I can receive a text from her, but I realize all the text she sent was a random text for all of her client.

I thought it was just for me. But still it's just her work.

 

To all who love a thera, it's not bad because we need some love to keep on going.

But we also need to think that we can find a true love if we will love ourselves so that others will love us too.

Let's not look for a love cause love will find a way to love us.

We will see it in a proper time at a right place.

agree also

[wheeljack]

As others had said, theras are just like us. They are humans and not machines, have feelings and get hurt too.

They are there for different reasons but I had met several whom I can say have more character and principle than

the so called "decent". They are worth to fall in love too just like anyone of us.

Yes because when they open up they show their real selves. They have no illusions or maintain air about who they are.

[chefcurry]

how can you know if thera showing different to you and from the others and how can you prove to them that you are serious and not just lust or something

[GingGangNamStyle]

Wow. Parang ansarap uminom pagkatapos basahin ang thread na 'to. Daming feels! Salamat sa pag share ng mga karanasan nyo. Sadyang kapupulutan ng aral. Cheers GMs! 🍻

[LunarSun]

Wow. Parang ansarap uminom pagkatapos basahin ang thread na 'to. Daming feels! Salamat sa pag share ng mga karanasan nyo. Sadyang kapupulutan ng aral. Cheers GMs!

Dapat meron magarrange ng inuman para sa lahat ng GM's na na-fall para sa thera

[meiji]

Falling for a thera is not a bad thing....we are humans too and we have emotions as well...you guys should just understand what the job entails...After all, isn't love about acceptance?

[mr robot]

how can you know if thera showing different to you and from the others and how can you prove to them that you are serious and not just lust or something

Here's the problem, if you are trying to compare your treatment to you and the other GM's probably you will end up in jealousy,anger, etc. Proving to them that we are serious will take time, a lots of time specially if the thera already experienced too many heartaches. Actually it starts with the lust and eventually it will evolve if you see them in a different light. If you feel that you really love the thera just pursue it and have patience with her.

[curvermay]

@Solaryan i agree on this. Maybe tell her how you feel so she can help you cope with it. If you get rejected, at least it's what you've been trying to do in the first place, which is stop having feelings for her. If you tells you something else more favorable, then it's a bonus for you

 

So do you have a story to share about this, ms may?

 

@Solaryan i agree on this. Maybe tell her how you feel so she can help you cope with it. If you get rejected, at least it's what you've been trying to do in the first place, which is stop having feelings for her. If you tells you something else more favorable, then it's a bonus for you

 

So do you have a story to share about this, ms may?

 

Maybe I might. Stay tuned.

[LunarSun]

Ok idea pre. Pasig ka rin pala, haha. Saan?

 

Kahit saan near ortigas pre magkakwentuhan na nang malupit. haha

[-DELETED-]

Maraming thera ang decent, they just experience too much heartaches and problems in life. They were hurt too much that gave them trust issues. While I don't disagree with this, but another problem starts with this, when you start thinking about them, and start forgetting about you.

 

More of us would feel that, their happiness is our top priority, as long as they are happy, we will be happy. But were not. Love is nothing like that. While their happiness is important, same as ours. Relationship wouldnt work if its imbalance.

[chefcurry]

Here's the problem, if you are trying to compare your treatment to you and the other GM's probably you will end up in jealousy,anger, etc. Proving to them that we are serious will take time, a lots of time specially if the thera already experienced too many heartaches. Actually it starts with the lust and eventually it will evolve if you see them in a different light. If you feel that you really love the thera just pursue it and have patience with her.

yup talagang mahirap lalo na kapag naka basa ka ng fr para sakaniya mapapaisip ka na lang talaga...then its hard to confess what you feel to her kasi di naman basta basta maniniwala sila dahil malamang marami nadin silang na experience na nag cconfess sa kanila na akala nila tunay then hindi pala talaga you gonna need to build trust but the problem is how long you can wait

[wheeljack]

but the problem is how long you can wait

So how is it different from any other lady who isn't in the industry? The only way to really know is to invest time and effort to make her understand that your intentions are real.

There are no sure things except the fact that you are getting something with her because of the nature of her job. So if you are really serious about her then go for it. Just ignore her job and treat her like any other lady

[kramenalexis]

I've never thought of falling in love with a thera because I'm afraid that her work will always be a hindrance in our relationship. It would be one thing that I would always bring up every time we fight and I'm afraid of hurting her due to that. Maybe because I have a foul mouth especially when I'm angry.

[Solaryan]

 

Kahit saan near ortigas pre magkakwentuhan na nang malupit. haha

 

 

haha bro CatMan sama ako dyan!