Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[DareDevil22]

I think I'm in love with a thera now. It's pretty hard, but she's really different from the others.

[Kanan05]

Hirap neto. Kasi magiging issue yung madami syang client. Syempre diba, iba padin kung ikaw lang nakakakita sa kanya at nakakahaplos ng may pag mamahal.

[Justeen]

I think if you fell inlove with a thera, she did a great job na naparamdam nya sayo yung GFE.. But think about it.. You paid her to do her job and she did well. Walang personalan.

[haroots2]

I think I'm in love with a thera now. It's pretty hard, but she's really different from the others.

 

Everyone thinks that way when your in love. Pero kapag naging sour na sasabihin pare pareho lang kayong mga ...

[JavaChipCookie]

if you want to know that she has genuine feeling and genuinely loyal and faithful then try to get her out of this business. If she obliged then she's genuinely yours. It doesn't matter kung yun lang ang pinagkakakitaan nya but i believe that love will conquer all

siya na mismo magiisip na maghanap ng ibang work even you can help her to find a decent job.You guys should talk it over and weight things.

bottomline lang kung mahal ka nung girl at ayaw ka nya maparanoid at masaktan siya na mismo ang aalis. maiisip nya na syempre sino ba naman ang bf na may gusto na may ibang humahawak sa gf nya dba.

[haroots2]

if you want to know that she has genuine feeling and genuinely loyal and faithful then try to get her out of this business. If she obliged then she's genuinely yours. It doesn't matter kung yun lang ang pinagkakakitaan nya but i believe that love will conquer all

siya na mismo magiisip na maghanap ng ibang work even you can help her to find a decent job.You guys should talk it over and weight things.

 

bottomline lang kung mahal ka nung girl at ayaw ka nya maparanoid at masaktan siya na mismo ang aalis. maiisip nya na syempre sino ba naman ang bf na may gusto na may ibang humahawak sa gf nya dba.

 

This is easier said than done. Remember there are also love of the family which is the main reason why they are in this industry. Blood is thicker than water lalo na naguumpisa pa lang kayo. Its even more complicated kung MILF na yung thera. If the guy is filthy rich and willing to sacrifice the burden of financial needs of her family then by all means. Madali kasing sabihin na get her out of the industry pero karamihan sa mga iyan ay HS graduate or under graduate so finding a descent job is difficult. I think one alternative is working on a legit spa but maraming GMs na rin ang naghahanap ng YMMV sa mga legits.

[Major Z]

I really can relate to the discussion, I fell for a thera, she obliged to leave the job but as I am a family man, providing more time has been a problem so she's back into it and I am trying to understand now her situation...

[Stipi]

I think priority ng mga thera is more on sa financial side kaya din sila cguro sumabak sila sa ganitong profession. but if you can provide her financial needs i think willing naman sila magquit.

[BlackMamba08]

yes mga sir financial talaga ang main reason kaya sila pumasok sa industry na yan, kadalasan kasi sila bread winner at yung iba single mom pa. Aalis mag quit sila diyan kung kaya ng gm tustusan lahat ng gm ang gastos pangangailangan ng thera at once na hindi na kayanin ng gm diyan mangyayayari yung babalik sa spa si thera and ofcourse mag lead sa away yan, worst sumbatan break up. Kaya mahirap talaga ang ganyang relationship. Just my two cents.

[Cool Fool]

I'm glad that my beta boy days are over. i've been in a situation like this and when I remember I cant believe it until now. Piece of advice most of the time it is the wrong move, A long term relationship should be with someone who has the ATTRIBUTES and CHARACTER for long term commitment.

[BlackMamba08]

I'm glad that my beta boy days are over. i've been in a situation like this and when I remember I cant believe it until now. Piece of advice most of the time it is the wrong move, A long term relationship should be with someone who has the ATTRIBUTES and CHARACTER for long term commitment.

 

I agree sir

[w3pa]

There are going to be a lot of hurdles along the way. But if she's worth it, just power thru, and hope it works out... I can say that I'm in a very similar situation right now. I think she's worth it.

Edited October 5, 2016 by w3pa

[DareDevil22]

I don't mean to burst your bubble but how sure are you that you are the only one that she goes atw with?

 

Well I guess there's really room for doubt in this situation but I think one indication is that she doesn't even make me singil when we do it.

[haroots2]

Well I guess there's really room for doubt in this situation but I think one indication is that she doesn't even make me singil when we do it.

 

But she does it with pay for others. her threat only proves that she have done it before.

[BlackMamba08]

This is an indication that she likes you but this is not an indication that you are the only one she does it with.

yeah i agree sir, and also the fact that she threatened you to do it with others clearly states that she will do it again.

[FleurDeLune]

Special thanks to the one thera who reached out to me yesterday via fb messenger and who have understood me and has already forgiven me.

 

Goodbye MTC.

 

Request will be granted shortly. Good luck.

Edited October 7, 2016 by FleurDeLune

[Darthmark2]

I think you better jave due diligence if totoo ba talaga and hindi ka niloloko lang

[PREVIOUS ACCOUNT BANNED]

crystal/tala and ametrine may have won my eyes, but out of all 80 theras that i got so far, only 1 got my heart. the only one i got 3 times in a week. well, i usually dont give my no. or ask for someones no. she asked for mine, actually, shes kinda crazy nga, malambing etc, sa aken lang daw sya ganon, not to others, nagseselos if i get someone else, anyways that was before, my favorite thera so far, but alam ko hangang dun lang talaga.. secret nalang kung cno sya. my favorite so far, always, cannot be replaced kahit i go for another 80. ingat ka.. bye...

[tressaiyo]

Nahihirapan na ako

[LunarSun]

crystal/tala and ametrine may have won my eyes, but out of all 80 theras that i got so far, only 1 got my heart. the only one i got 3 times in a week. well, i usually dont give my no. or ask for someones no. she asked for mine, actually, shes kinda crazy nga, malambing etc, sa aken lang daw sya ganon, not to others, nagseselos if i get someone else, anyways that was before, my favorite thera so far, but alam ko hangang dun lang talaga.. secret nalang kung cno sya. my favorite so far, always, cannot be replaced kahit i go for another 80. ingat ka.. bye...

Sobrang interesting naman niyan sir hehe swerte niyo. Good thing you didnt fall for her though

[JegaJega]

I had the same exact scenario and situation...i thought the feelings were real. Then, one day she said she needed some money and I told her I would support...however, nagpatong patong mga kamalasan and my funds were spent on other matters (family -- dad). Tapos nagalit sya and sinumbatan na ko ng katakot takot...i tried to woo her pa rin, but she said sa pera pa daw kami amgaaway, i was telling myself, "my point exactly".

 

I had the same sad/bad experience with a thera. Doon siya dati nagwork sa Executive, then lumipat sa Grandeur, then nabuntis ng bf niya. Tinulungan ko siya magbagong buhay and gave her a budget of Php28,000 a month para hindi na siya mag-thera. Pero kulang pa rin sa kanya. Yung puhunan namin na Php250,000 para sa pa-utang business inubus niya. Humiran din ng Php80,000 para sa mga kapati niya pero hindi na binalik. Pina-aral ko pa ng hairstyling at make-up at binilhan ng mga gamit for hairstying and make-up.

 

Yung pinaka-masakit ay habang ngapaka-damulag ako sa trabaho para matulunga siya, nahuli ko siya na gumimik. with her tropa, na may kasama na mga boylets. Until 3am yung gimikan nila, while she was wearing a very sexy outfit; lasingan yung gimik at pinatayan pa ako ng cp. Nang pinutul ko yung budget niya, humiram ng Php60,000 sa ex-bf niya. Dito nagtapos yung relasyon naming. Ako na mizmo yung nag-surrender. Bumalik na rin ako sa dating bisyo - sa pagpunta ng mga MP. Sa inis at galit ko, at least tatlong MP yung pinupuntahan ko sa isang araw, sunud sunud yung pagkuha ko ng girls. Yung budget na nak-laan para sa kanya, dun ko na ginagamit sa mga MPs. Mahirap makipag-relasyon sa Theras. Most likely papalpak lang yung relasyon kasi iba yung priorities nila. Nakakapagod din kasi magwowork ka para matustusan siya, kelangan mo pa ring bantayan siya, then mahuhuli mo na linoloko ka lang.

 

Hay Buhays......

[LunarSun]

^sakit naman ng nangyari dyan paps. Mahirap nga talaga pag mukhang pera talaga yung thera. Pero siguro naman sa simula palang makikita mo na rin kung pera talaga habol o iba.

 

Atsaka kung papasok man sa ganito, dapat ikaw ang pinaka-hindi selosong tao sa mundo.

[Mindy of MeteoraSpa]

 

I had the same sad/bad experience with a thera. Doon siya dati nagwork sa Executive, then lumipat sa Grandeur, then nabuntis ng bf niya. Tinulungan ko siya magbagong buhay and gave her a budget of Php28,000 a month para hindi na siya mag-thera. Pero kulang pa rin sa kanya. Yung puhunan namin na Php250,000 para sa pa-utang business inubus niya. Humiran din ng Php80,000 para sa mga kapati niya pero hindi na binalik. Pina-aral ko pa ng hairstyling at make-up at binilhan ng mga gamit for hairstying and make-up.

 

Yung pinaka-masakit ay habang ngapaka-damulag ako sa trabaho para matulunga siya, nahuli ko siya na gumimik. with her tropa, na may kasama na mga boylets. Until 3am yung gimikan nila, while she was wearing a very sexy outfit; lasingan yung gimik at pinatayan pa ako ng cp. Nang pinutul ko yung budget niya, humiram ng Php60,000 sa ex-bf niya. Dito nagtapos yung relasyon naming. Ako na mizmo yung nag-surrender. Bumalik na rin ako sa dating bisyo - sa pagpunta ng mga MP. Sa inis at galit ko, at least tatlong MP yung pinupuntahan ko sa isang araw, sunud sunud yung pagkuha ko ng girls. Yung budget na nak-laan para sa kanya, dun ko na ginagamit sa mga MPs. Mahirap makipag-relasyon sa Theras. Most likely papalpak lang yung relasyon kasi iba yung priorities nila. Nakakapagod din kasi magwowork ka para matustusan siya, kelangan mo pa ring bantayan siya, then mahuhuli mo na linoloko ka lang.

 

Hay Buhays......

 

Donor Fatigue

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^sakit naman ng nangyari dyan paps. Mahirap nga talaga pag mukhang pera talaga yung thera. Pero siguro naman sa simula palang makikita mo na rin kung pera talaga habol o iba.

 

Atsaka kung papasok man sa ganito, dapat ikaw ang pinaka-hindi selosong tao sa mundo.

 

Ang hirap lang talagang hindi iwasang mag selos. Kung sa labas nga ng industry nag seselos ka pa eh, dito pa kaya. Pero I believe na malaking factor din yung efforts from both party para maiwasan ang pag seselos. Kasi may magagawa naman both sides eh. But yeah, mahirap, masakit sa ulo, nakakalungkot, nakakabaliw, lahat lahat na, so choose someone who is worth the pain.

[Chuckoo]

^sakit naman ng nangyari dyan paps. Mahirap nga talaga pag mukhang pera talaga yung thera. Pero siguro naman sa simula palang makikita mo na rin kung pera talaga habol o iba.

 

Atsaka kung papasok man sa ganito, dapat ikaw ang pinaka-hindi selosong tao sa mundo.

 

Sad nga...pang MMK yung kwento.

Edited October 12, 2016 by Chuckoo