Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[bbaymax]

Sabi ko d na ako papasok sa cubicle. Yesterday pumunta nnmn ako. Just looking at her smile made my heart melt.

[revo20012000]

I am inlove with a thera right now, trying to set my expectations low kc malabo tlga specially kung ako lng cguru may ganung feelings sknya, sasabhin ko sa sarili ko wala ako karapatan mag selos dahil s line of work pero nung nkakita ako FR sknya lately parang dinudurog puso ko

Mahirap din talaga hays

[MidKnight Train]

ist. of all. i would like to thank everyone who had voiced their comments and opinions on this matter. whether it is positive or a negative response i assure you it is highly appreciated. 2nd i do love this this mpa. and does she love me? after meeting for third time, when she came back from the province, we became more attached to each other. the calls and text messages became more frequent. at work, it became more absenses and lest work. resulting in warnings from the management. and the things she said she doesn't do to other guest and absenses are true. because i do check up on her. i call the mp if she is really absent, i ask around if she does this or do that. things do fall in place. altough we always have great sex together nowadays it wasn't at ist. because she doesn't have the rep*tation for doing things for the guest and never have i read a thread here in mtc of her performances. she is not even assured of a guest when at work meaning zero. she's not so bad, if only i could show the picture of her in the nude inside my cp you would be impressed. so after a few days i ask her to stop working, which she did. i don't give her a lot of money. just for her needs. but sometimes had to shell out more for emergency family matters which is ok with me. she had already stop working when her last period came, so after three weeks of being together she complained of breast pains and recurring fevers. we both had a conclusion that she might be pregnant. being single it was fine by me and so too to her. but she had to travel to the province to attend to some matters. being new to the situation did not think that it would be bad for the baby. she travelled with the breast pains and slight fevers for the 18 hr. trip. the ist few days at the province it was still the breast pains and occasional fevers. but the other day she complained of stomach pains which got us both worried. and then the following morning she was bleeding. she text me around noon saying she had a miscarriage. we were both devastated. i really wanted this child and so does she. she got scolded by her father not because she got pregnant but because of travelling knowing that she is already on the way. we were not aware of the danger to the child. besides, the trip was already scheduled 1 week before. she is now resting in the province, she'll be back after the bleeding's stop and fully rested. meanwhile i asked her to file her birth certificate. i would like to marry her in the near future, so the birth certificate is a must. when she comes back i'm going to bring her home, to cut on the expenses. she agreed to this. i've already told her what to expect , i told her what she sees is what she'll get. i told her i don't have a job right now so we have to try keep the expenses down. i told her that we cannot always help her family. we must save for ourselves and our future family. all of this she said she understood. which made her more dear to me. i know that some of you guys think i am nuts. but we should also think that these persons (mpas/gros/escorts/others) are not really bad persons. they just got into the business for the quick buck which we gladly give. i know for a fact that many of these girls are supporting their child. which is worst, she being a whore or the person who got her pregnant and then abandoning their child. sorry for being brunt but this is a fact of life. i too, got someone pregnant not knowingly, but tried my best to help the child in her time of need. she was born with hole in her heart and had to be operated before her ist birthday. she is 4 years old yesterday and is now in canada. but that's another story.

 

We can only give each others advises and opinions but from spa or sauna is she from?

[Justeen]

I might be a victim of this...

[bbaymax]

I tried a different thera and also tried dating someone pero sya pa dn naiisip ko

[Takuma6]

I believe I have found the therapist to end all therapists.

I think she is the one who will make me not look for other therapists anymore.

And I'm gonna say this - yes, finally, I found the one.

[Pestee]

It looks like you have a natural immunity to therapists' charms. At ginastusan ka pa.

 

On a serious note, you made an excellent rationalization that her work will be an impediment to a potential future with her or with any other therapist for that matter.

Actually not sure if anyone else has been treated outside by a thera. But i think if any thera will do that, even in small amounts, it's a sign that she really, really likes you. Lately we had lunch at a fancy resto and she shouldered the whole bill, around 3k. Offered to pay but she refused. I think she wants to get over being felt like a "bayaran" lang, which I assume most theras would also not want to be anymore. Or i dunno maybe this girl is really crazy ) in any case, id also avoid having a relationship with anyone who, from the start, feels that each moment with you is transactional.

[悟飯]

First post in this thread: before, I luckily stumbled onto a thera who isn't really into money. She treats her spa time as her past time because she has other benefactors, and she spends money like crazy. We got close, and now she even treats me for dinners and pays for everything else outside the spa (really not kidding). Mas malaki na ata nagastos niya sakin kaysa nagastos ko sa kanya sa spa haha, although I try to reward her naman. But I know that even though she's not in it for the money, I'd still rather keep a safe distance. We enjoy each other's company but the nature of her work will never be okay, even if you feel it or pretend that will be okay. Most (not all) of the theras have very deep, broken, pasts, and their self worth is very low. Id rather be with someone who will be with me in the long run.

theras who spend for the GM are rare. we share a common thing. lucky are those who find these diamonds in the rough. only difference is i don't spend money for her massage. i spend money on the date or movie or whatever. sometimes i pay sometimes she insists on paying

Edited September 14, 2016 by impala67

[Koko_Crunch]

LOL

[悟飯]

theras who spend for the GM are rare. we share a common thing. lucky are those who find these diamonds in the rough. only difference is i don't spend money for her massage. i spend money on the date or movie or whatever. sometimes i pay sometimes she insists on paying

let me clarify myself. what i meant by not spending on massage. i don't get her services anymore. going out feels natural and on a personal level.

[Pestee]

If you ask me, I think she likes you. Ikaw pa lang narinig ko, at least as far as this thread is concerned, na ginastusan ng therapist.

I think she does. But sadly I won't be able to reciprocate that. I enjoy our time together but I know she'll be leaving soon for another country anyway. So I really try to take it as it is - just two people enjoying each other's company. Just really lucky that money is really no biggie for both of us. I wouldn't want to be in a sugar daddy sort of thing, not really the best way to start a relationship IMHO.

[John Puruntong]

Masakit di n tanggapin ang katotohanan na ikaw ay pinaglalaruan lang

[Takuma6]

In a perfect world, it would be great if your favorite thera doesn't give the same attention, the same care, the same love, to others the way she does to you.

 

Masakit isipin na nangyayari din with other guys ang nangyayari sa inyong dalawa inside the room. I don't want to even entertain those thoughts.

 

But, in the real world, it doesn't happen. Sabi nga ng mahal kong thera: kailangan ko magtrabaho eh.

[Kunehong_babaero]

Sa ganda, kaseksihan, kabaitan, kalambingan ng ibang thera.. sino ba ang hindi maiinlove

[bbaymax]

In a perfect world, it would be great if your favorite thera doesn't give the same attention, the same care, the same love, to others the way she does to you.

 

Masakit isipin na nangyayari din with other guys ang nangyayari sa inyong dalawa inside the room. I don't want to even entertain those thoughts.

 

But, in the real world, it doesn't happen. Sabi nga ng mahal kong thera: kailangan ko magtrabaho eh.

[Takuma6]

Yesterday was extra special. She gave me a kiss on the lips. It may be just a little peck but it was so sweet and it really meant a lot to me.

 

She really is the sweetest.

 

I hope she stays that way. Only to me.

[bbaymax]

Yesterday was extra special. She gave me a kiss on the lips. It may be just a little peck but it was so sweet and it really meant a lot to me.

 

She really is the sweetest.

 

I hope she stays that way. Only to me.

 

When u really love some one, a peck on the lips is better than a full service from another thera (at least for me).

[Takuma6]

When u really love some one, a peck on the lips is better than a full service from another thera (at least for me).

I agree. Definitely. It was so pure and sincere.

That was, so far, the highlight since I got to know her.

[jbo2007]

hirap talaga ng sitwasyon na ganito masasaktan k prin s huli hay buhay

[chegang12]

Stick to one time policy, and uphold it even in your horniest hours......

[bbaymax]

TL (thera love) is not for the faint hearted it requires alot of understanding and respect. But if she is worth it. Just go for it

[-DELETED-]

Yesterday was extra special. She gave me a kiss on the lips. It may be just a little peck but it was so sweet and it really meant a lot to me.

 

She really is the sweetest.

 

I hope she stays that way. Only to me.

 

A friendly advice. Don't expect too much. Unless she is worth the pain.

[Takuma6]

A friendly advice. Don't expect too much. Unless she is worth the pain.

I know and I understand.

That's why it hurts.

[rumpshaker]

There is this thera that I am 100% sure that I am falling. There's this spa near my house in Cubao, and everytime I would visit I would always pick her. Of all the years na pumupunta ako sa mga spa's, I would go there to a) get a massage get ES. Pero with her, ilang sessions na kami na walang ES. We just talked. Is it love? Maybe. Pero kung hindi, then papunta na doon eh.

[Pestee]

Finally had to "break up" with one of my theras lately.

 

It was a short, sweet two months. We hit it off immediately during our first session as thera and guest, and she obliged with extremely far mileage. She said she liked me daw, so she accepted. Kept doing it over and over almost every other day, to the point where she no longer asked for money in return. We went out quite a lot as well, and talked for long hours. However, we both felt that it wasn't going to work anyway, since she's a pretty popular thera in her spa and I also visit other spas in my spare time (mainly just to keep up with the guests she had). To me, the breakup wasn't as painful, because I knew what was going to happen anyway. We're not idiots, and let's not pretend that these types of things will work. Not being bitter or anything, but just really manage your expectations. Also, break it off as quickly as possible to not hurt the other person.