Seeing Your Ex With Someone New

[Nestor Avila]

On 11/27/2022 at 7:17 AM, handsomebob said:

Question for everyone,

let us say you had an ex you shared years wtih, you kinda fell out of love both and you separated, you remained in contact but not friends nor enemies...

you promised to her or him that you will always love him/her and choose her when both of you are ready to love again (you agreed to this both FYI) and reconnect with each other..

my question is, when you find someone that is truly special and your ex comes back to you, what do you do?

assuming you have strong feelings for the woman/man??

but you know you are secure and the new relationship with the ex becomes stronger??

what would you guys / ladies do if this would happen??

Stay 

[handsomebob]

3 minutes ago, Nestor Avila said:

Stay 

STAY? with whom? the current relationship??

[Nestor Avila]

Just now, handsomebob said:

STAY? with whom? the current relationship??

Current. 

I'm a selfish guy. But when it comes to my GF i'm selfless

Because instead of reminiscing the feelings i had with my ex. I would rather cherish and grow the feelings that i have while she (ex) was gone.

 

 

[handsomebob]

3 minutes ago, Nestor Avila said:

Current. 

I'm a selfish guy. But when it comes to my GF i'm selfless

Because instead of reminiscing the feelings i had with my ex. I would rather cherish and grow the feelings that i have while she (ex) was gone.

Thanks for the reply sir, great point actually!

appreciated!

 

[Asterisk and Ampersand]

Not affected.

[SunsetDaze]

Lol my ex cheated on me with a guy that looks like me but just taller. 6 years down the drain haha

[Gerald Bourne]

No hard feelings

[menyeks]

Good

[Jojodancer]

Oks lang

[Miyabi1992]

I dont care im not affected

[FidelTorres]

kasal na sila good to know happy na sya better place and better life ang result ng hiwalayan if you come to realize din in the future

[lank]

I always make sure ako nauuna sa ex ko Kaya my age range for girlfriend is 18-24 only. I just feel sorry for the next guy as I already got the lion’s share. All of my ex girlfriend are special but I eject them once they commit a fatal mistake 

[iluvstrongwomen]

I’m sure feelings will still be there so there would be a little bit of sting but I can be genuinely happy for her.

[troyachilles]

Who cares?

[SDMNXIX]

Nagbreak kme early Feb. Sobrang miserable ako nung naghiwalay kme. Hnd ako sure kung makaka recover pako pero kung mka move on man ako, alam ko sobrang tagal pa bago mangyari yun.

Sometime June/July, late night and matutulog nko nun, may nakita akong story sa messenger ng isang common friend nmen. May picture ni common friend, ex ko, at isa png tao. Lalake. Na-recognize ko ung mukha kse nakita ko na un before nung kme pa. Nsa circle ng ex ko un.

Nabasa ko ung caption nung photo: "*something-something* with these lovebirds..."

Sumakit ung dibdib ko. Sobrang sama sa pakiramdam. Tapos umaangat ung sakit. Umabot sa lalamunan ko, prang gs2 lumabas. Feeling ko naduduwal nko sa sakit.

Yun pla ung feeling ng napapanood ko lng dati sa mga palabas kapag may mga nangyayari na intense tapos bigla nlng susuka ung bida sa palabas.

Prang may blackhole sa dibdib ko nun.