Piaggio Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I was introduced to the new bf. It was like a bad dream. Never thought that day would come Quote Link to comment
sabs2000 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Sasabihan ko siya ng "alam mo ba ung 3 month rule????" hahaha! For real, if I was the one who let go, I'd nod, smile and even say hi. Walk away and be happy for them. If I was the one left w/o closure or an answer to my why? It'll sting a bit and memories would torment me for a while but at the end of the day I keep my heads up and move on. Quote Link to comment
ronnie_hommie Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 ayos lang tuloy ang buhay Quote Link to comment
Cap™ Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Sasabihan ko siya ng "alam mo ba ung 3 month rule????" hahaha! For real, if I was the one who let go, I'd nod, smile and even say hi. Walk away and be happy for them. If I was the one left w/o closure or an answer to my why? It'll sting a bit and memories would torment me for a while but at the end of the day I keep my heads up and move on. I never believed in that three-month rule. Victim ako niyan nung undergrad ako and she was my first heartbreak. I think they're getting married na which is kinda worse if you thought of it but I was a wee 18-year old back then so I've managed to move on. I think I'd say "kailan ang kasal niyo?" without feeling bitter when I see them Pero tama yung idea mo sabs. Na iba pag ikaw kasi ang bumitaw at mas iba yung ikaw ang binitawan. been almost 3 years. pero may akward feeling parin pag naiisip kong baka magkasalubong kami. Part of me wishes sana hindi mangyari yung. or kung mangyari man ako lang sana yung makakita sa kanya kung may kasama mang syang iba. i dont think hurt is the right word. no one really moves on pag alam mong minahal mo yung taong iniwan mo. iniwan mo for a reason at di mo narin babalikan for a reason. Still cant find a word for it. pero alam mong something is there that cant be explained Time heals all wounds daw, ika nga. Pero minsan iisipin ko nalang na more than the time, it's about accepting realities. Na baka iba lang ang gusto niya sa buhay niya. That I ought to learn to be happy with myself first Tama din kasi yung mahalin mo muna yung sarili mo ng sobra sobra, ibigay mo nalang sa iba yung matitira. Siguro ganun ako. Ewan ko kung tira yung binigay ko na pagmamahal pero alam ko meron pa ding puwang sa puso ko na minamahal ko ang sarili ko kaya di ako magpapakain sa lungkot ng pang-iiwan niya Quote Link to comment
benjie_addalino81 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Ouch namga Quote Link to comment
Mahabaging Nilalang Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 Ayos lang. Kaya nga ex, move on. No turning back. Quote Link to comment
haplogs Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 this really depends if a closure ever happened Quote Link to comment
EspaSouL Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 Its okay and play it cool. Quote Link to comment
dirk.diggler Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 I think reaction would depend if you were the "breaker" or the "breakee". In my case, it hurt when I was the "breakee", but I was ok when I was the "breaker". Quote Link to comment
Walang4ever Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 walang problemos... Quote Link to comment
maninmotion Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 If you know that you have given all your best to a relationship but still failed, then you can only take the higher road. I'll shake the new guy's hand and congratulate him and wish HIM (not THEM) good luck. Because deep in your heart you know, that you never failed.. Quote Link to comment
clandestinecuddles Posted January 16, 2016 Share Posted January 16, 2016 It hurts more if you see your CURRENT / PRESENT with someone new!! Quote Link to comment
Hari ng Spakol Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 I'm happy for her Quote Link to comment
t3sla Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 I'm happy for her but syempre di maiwasan na hindi masaktan. Most likely hindi na to love but ego na lang. The guy is more successful, european and everything na hinahanap ng ex ko. Panlaban ko lang mas pogi ako sa kanya at iba magmahal ang pinoy haha! Kidding aside, masakit in a way na I should've paid more attention to our relationship, and paid more attention to her. I became selfish and a wreck. She left and moved to another country. Yeah I miss her, 6 years din yun ng buhay ko but I accepted the fact na if it's meant to be, it will be. Quote Link to comment
P-I-A Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 Mas ok na mgkaibigan nlang kmi. Quote Link to comment
madruff Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 nung hindi pa nakakamove on " dene date mo pero nalawayan ko na" hehe Quote Link to comment
Halowizme Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 If she's with someone better than you and you can clearly see that's she's happy. The why bother? Un lg nmn hanap ng tao.. Happiness Good morning mtc! Quote Link to comment
syowx999 Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 meh, it's okay. I've made peace with what has happened.first thought that comes to mind is what she is doing now and if i could maybe partner with her for a sideline or something hehe.friends, nothing more. Quote Link to comment
Sweetluccy.luu Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 just smile" Quote Link to comment
wife on call Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 I just did last christmas. When i saw him , I lowered my blouse para makita nya cleavage ko dahil mas flat chested pa yung kasama nya kaysa sa kin. 1 Quote Link to comment
Gravity05 Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 Ok lang, happy for her. Quote Link to comment
SpaceGrey Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 i dont care.. i dont wanna waste my time with a thrash or else.. more likely.. alm mo kng ano masarap tahahh Quote Link to comment
Ricardio Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 It hurts. I sometimes ask myself what I could have done better, or what I could have said to make her stay. we remained good friends, akala ko my chance pa bumalik pero too late na pala, hahaha my nka lagay na na ring sa daliri nya.Last time we talked I wished her the best and smiledNever attended the wedding although invited ako hahah wtf, too awkward tsaka out of respect na rin dun sa husband nya.I hope she's happy with her life right now. If she's happy then I'm happy for her. Quote Link to comment
Piaggio Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 Painful but necessary to be able to move on. Eventually you'll find peace. Quote Link to comment
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