Bad Boy Or Good Guy!

[caramelkisses]

to waterbearer: maybe you just didn't notice the good girls looking for good guys in your life because we're sometimes we're not all that noticeable. we're not usually flashy or sexy or drop dead gorgeous so we don't tend to turn the average guy's head, and let's face it, attraction usually starts with one's eyes, right? maybe we just seem plain and boring to you men, but we know that we do have a lot to offer, and some of us are willing to hold out till we find someone who can appreciate us for what we are.

 

well, such is life. as you said, "i guess our fates dicatate otherwise."

 

peace.

[iwalkalone]

A good heart will help you to a bonny face, my lad and a bad one will turn the bonniest into something worse than ugly.

 

Live not as though there were a thousand years ahead of you. Fate is at your elbow; make yourself good while life and power are still yours.

 

In goodness there are all kinds of wisdom.

 

 

Goodness is uneventful. It does not flash, it glows.

 

On the whole, human beings want to be good, but not too good, and not quite all the time

 

Beauty endures only for as long as it can be seen; goodness, beautiful today, will remain so tomorrow.

 

 

Goodness is the only investment which never fails.

 

 

Look for no reward in goodness but goodness itself.

[sir_boss_master]

bro preacher, pasingit lang ha...

 

i personally believe girls are attracted to bad boys who has a good side. than good guys who do bad. alam mo yun? its like a bad boy who has his soft side. yung naiintindihan niya whatever the girl is going through. astigin ang dating pero pag malungkot ang girl nila or kahit friend lang nila, hindi na kelangan sabihan pa na he is needed to be on his girl's side. he will give himself agad. offer a shoulder to cry on, a body to lean on, ears that will listen to them, eyes that will cry with them, and a heart that understands and doesn't judge. o kaya yung type ng guy na makikinig lang sa sama ng loob na nilalabas ng girl sa kanya and will not even tell her na "sus ok lang yan..." or "wala yan, maliit na bagay lang yan..." making the girl feel even worse. sabi ng mga female friends ko ganun daw yung hanap nilang guy.

 

Robin Padilla comes to mind pag napaguusapan ang topic na ito eh.

[sir_boss_master]

A good heart will help you to a bonny face, my lad and a bad one will turn the bonniest into something worse than ugly.

 

Live not as though there were a thousand years ahead of you. Fate is at your elbow; make yourself good while life and power are still yours.

 

In goodness there are all kinds of wisdom.

Goodness is uneventful. It does not flash, it glows.

 

On the whole, human beings want to be good, but not too good, and not quite all the time

 

Beauty endures only for as long as it can be seen; goodness, beautiful today, will remain so tomorrow.

Goodness is the only investment which never fails.

Look for no reward in goodness but goodness itself.

 

 

know what miss kara, i typed this already kaso akala ko lumalayo na ako sa topic eh. pero since na raise mo na, let me add something up lang.

 

doing good, specially service to other people is a privilege. it is not a responsibility as not everyone is capable or has the means to do it. minsan lang medyo masakit na gumawa ka na ng mabuti sa ibang tao pero napagisipan ka pa ng masama. kesyo may pinaplano lang na masama or worse, habol lang freebie or maka score. whenever something good was done to you, its always nice to acknowledge the person. whether it was unsolicited or asked. in my case, madalas napagiisipan din ng ganito. but i don't let it stop me from helping others. kasi masaya din ako na nakakatulong sa iba eh. i just hope someday, when i die, people will remember me, for the goodness in me. mamamatay akong masaya. at hindi na kita mumultuhin hehehe.

[mizuno882004]

Women ideally wants good guys but subconsciously likes bad guys especially the robin padilla like magalang pero medyo bastos! Am i right girls???

[Larry]

Yama is bringing all sorts of correct into this thread

 

It's not about being good/bad guys

 

it's confidence

 

it's having balls

 

women like men

 

not boys

 

men have backbones and stand up for what they believe in, and says screw the man when he has to. A real man will not put the pussy on a pedestal, but not be an a$$hole to his wife, but will be more of a partner, who has equal say on anything

 

"nice" guys are often those guys who are at their lady's beck and call

 

cuckold is what it's called

[Dr_PepPeR]

know what miss kara, i typed this already kaso akala ko lumalayo na ako sa topic eh. pero since na raise mo na, let me add something up lang.

 

doing good, specially service to other people is a privilege. it is not a responsibility as not everyone is capable or has the means to do it. minsan lang medyo masakit na gumawa ka na ng mabuti sa ibang tao pero napagisipan ka pa ng masama. kesyo may pinaplano lang na masama or worse, habol lang freebie or maka score. whenever something good was done to you, its always nice to acknowledge the person. whether it was unsolicited or asked. in my case, madalas napagiisipan din ng ganito. but i don't let it stop me from helping others. kasi masaya din ako na nakakatulong sa iba eh. i just hope someday, when i die, people will remember me, for the goodness in me. mamamatay akong masaya. at hindi na kita mumultuhin hehehe.

 

Nakuhhh asa ka pa Master! Don't expect to be acknowledged, even after you're six feet under. You do something that's 'good' because you know you are doing the right thing. Kung mapagisipan ka pa ng masama, well PI nila! You do it for yourself, not because you want to be perceived in a certain way. Let me misquote a famous line by Shakespeare: The evil that men do live after them. The good is oft interred with their bones.' Pakshet!

Edited November 6, 2006 by Dr_PepPeR

[Joie]

I dont think we can control who we fall in love with. Whether we fall in love with the good guy or the bad guy, I guess we just ...fall. Its up to us to make that person the RIGHT guy for us.

[preacher]

Thanks for all the input ladies and gents.

 

Just like Yama said, it's about confidence. But just because nice guys don't look the part don't mean they're spineless.

[iwalkalone]

Women ideally wants good guys but subconsciously likes bad guys especially the robin padilla like magalang pero medyo bastos! Am i right girls???

 

 

Hindi bastos si Robin..

 

Basta kami para sa....Good guy na hindi immature ang isip...at kilos. Good guy who knows when to stand up for himself and for the people he cares about.

[deep_blow]

naughty boys for some naughty spankin'

and good boys are the ones we bring home for keeps

[preacher]

naughty boys for some naughty spankin'

and good boys are the ones we bring home for keeps

 

what, the nice guys don't spank you enough before you bring him home to momma?

[transcience]

bad guy or not, people in general look for somebody who would fulfill what seems to be lacking in himself/herself.

 

it goes with age. - true. and a whole lot more i.e. social status, culture, etc.

 

men and women alike have their own complexities.

[preacher]

bad guy or not, people in general look for somebody who would fulfill what seems to be lacking in himself/herself.

 

it goes with age. - true. and a whole lot more i.e. social status, culture, etc.

 

men and women alike have their own complexities.

 

nice retort mam, keep on posting! :thumbsupsmiley:

[preacher]

up! up! up!