A Complicated Relationship

[cande]

communication is always key

[IntoTheNewWorld]

Communication will be the key.

Any issues could be talked, and be solved.

[cHinitababe86]

complicated kasi magkaiba kame ng lifestyle, magkaiba ng mundo..

iba ang trip niya, iba din ang saken. messed up. hehe

siguro mas malala, d ko naiimagine na isang tulad niya

ang makakasama ko sa hinaharap. so sabi ko, friends nalang.

anyway doon naman kame nagsimula. ayoko pilitin.

mas better kasi kame nung magkaibigan lang eh. kesa nung

time na naisip namen i-take ng next level ung meron kame.

we talk from time-to-time parin, and i can feel na

ayaw niya ung idea ko na maging friends, pero thats it.

kesa naman makipaglokohan ako, nagpakahonest nalang ako..

ayoko din naman mas makasakit. yes. makasakit. kasi alam

ko naman deciding about being friends already pained him.

in the end, alam ko maiintindihan niya din ako bandang huli.

[sniper_wolf]

mas masaya sana kung hindi complicated

[powerdude46]

I agree. Good communication solves it all.

[fornie]

hassle pero it keeps adding spice to the relationship.

[romanticlove]

hindi ko na tinapos basahin, not because its too long but i lost my interest. first of all, bullsh*t yang babae na yan for me, parang sinagot ka lang nya masabi lang na kayo na, or no offense pero baka nakulitan lang sayo at matahimik ka lang, becoz honestly speaking first few months of a relationship ang pinaka masaya, intense, kilig moments, ktxt mo lang or kachat mo lang sya kinikilig ka agad. pag nagkikita kayo mas lalo na... pero kung mahilig sya makipag chat kung kani kanino, expect the worst syempre, again no offense pero these are the people na all out pagdating sa online stuffs, sending out pictures to random people, talking to them, cam 2 cam, etc. i think she is doing those things para lang mawala ung isipan nya sa ex nya thats why she entertained random people. ok lang naman na pagusapan nyo ang ex nya kung hindi pa kayo since wala ka naman karapatan para magalit e, you should be a friend first na alam nyang pwde nyang sandalan sa mga problema nya at dadamayan mo sya. once na let go na nya lahat dun ka palang nya dapat sinagot. so technically speaking parehas kayong mali. before going to a relationship, dapat handa na kayong parehas... handa nyo ng tanggapin ang isat isa, at tanggapin din ang nakaraan ng isat isa...

[scam]

 

- What do you guys think? Is this about the ex, age gap, she’s a player coz she likes to chat minsan she doesn't let me know that she's chatting maybe coz she knows super seloso ako o may ginagawa lang siya kalokohan, or case of parents too strict? Can you say she really loves me? I hope she’s not a player coz wala sa itsura niya and she has a good reputation in school coz masipag magaral but looks can be deceiving as they say. Any advice or suggestions?

 

- Mali ba ako na sinabi ko sa kanya yung concern ko sa relationship like she’s not into me at nagiging one sided yung relationship? Or tama lang since serious relationship naman ito?

 

- Does the cool off make any sense at all? For me parang walang sense, since she said she really loves me then why not fix the problem ASAP rather than isipin niya na baka umangal ulit ako.

 

What the f#&k is so complicated with this??? Ang conplicated relationship ay sa mga may asawa lang dahil meron batas na kaakibat sa kasal.

Itong mga ganitong love story pang radio eh walang complication. Why don't you just screw her & keep on screwing her until she figures out what her problem. So what kung meron cyang bf, bakit hindi ka makipagsabayan. you don't hold anything legal to take her as your own property so just keep screwing while it last.

[gentle_maniac]

i don't want to judge, coz i am not in your situation, but in an objective point of view, i would say that you should stick with your PRIDE, have some self respect. She is just using you as an anchor, to build her own ego. I am sure u know what i am talking about, becoz guys do this too

[maxiev]

if it is a one sided love

Agreed! Unrequited love always hurts. Especially kung mahal na mahal mo na yung tao...

[sonnyt111]

It's hard to be in a one-sided relationship. You love her. She loves him. Siguradong talo ka. There's a point where you have to let go or risk going crazy. But what happens if you don't have the will-power to stay away? That's when your life will definitely become extremely complicated.

[sexy_sabby]

reciprocating doesn't occur.

[friendly0603]

Confused on the definition of complicated here

 

I would say complicated is closer to Dolphy's, Erap's, FPJ's or those with lots of children outside wedlock or with multiple gfs/wives.

 

One sided relationships shouldn't be complicated unless your involvement is with someone who's married, has a kid, or living with someone else.

Please add the conditions for your complicated relationship and not just say it's one-sided.

Edited January 9, 2013 by friendly0603

[pedron]

hindi ko na tinapos basahin, not because its too long but i lost my interest. first of all, bullsh*t yang babae na yan for me, parang sinagot ka lang nya masabi lang na kayo na, or no offense pero baka nakulitan lang sayo at matahimik ka lang, becoz honestly speaking first few months of a relationship ang pinaka masaya, intense, kilig moments, ktxt mo lang or kachat mo lang sya kinikilig ka agad. pag nagkikita kayo mas lalo na... pero kung mahilig sya makipag chat kung kani kanino, expect the worst syempre, again no offense pero these are the people na all out pagdating sa online stuffs, sending out pictures to random people, talking to them, cam 2 cam, etc. i think she is doing those things para lang mawala ung isipan nya sa ex nya thats why she entertained random people. ok lang naman na pagusapan nyo ang ex nya kung hindi pa kayo since wala ka naman karapatan para magalit e, you should be a friend first na alam nyang pwde nyang sandalan sa mga problema nya at dadamayan mo sya. once na let go na nya lahat dun ka palang nya dapat sinagot. so technically speaking parehas kayong mali. before going to a relationship, dapat handa na kayong parehas... handa nyo ng tanggapin ang isat isa, at tanggapin din ang nakaraan ng isat isa...

 

well said, amen to this.

[dibdba]

he is married. he loves his wife that he can't forget telling u this. however he whispers he loves u too. then u believed him. that's complicated and stupidity.

 

it's complicated. it's stupid. and it's all-too-common.