$uddenly $ingle : Feeling Lonely Or Free Again?

[KillTheDEVIL]

Lonely and crying

[draxxm]

suddenly felt empty just now... need a cold one tonight...

[KillTheDEVIL]

i just got suddenly single and i feel tormented... what should i do?

 

can i celebrate right away? or take a month or two to sober the pain?

 

Celebrate the pain first, relish the memories until you're able to unload all the hurts.

[KillTheDEVIL]

its really lonely to be alone...ouch!

 

So painful especially for women because of their mental and physical make-up.

[draxxm]

Celebrate the pain first, relish the memories until you're able to unload all the hurts.

 

Master k*ll, i think i'm getting over the pain now... anger is making its way in... i do believe i need to keep anger for a longer time so i wont go back to pain.

 

thanks for the tought

[revi]

Both.

 

But sometimes loneliness is just a state of mind. I'd rather feel free!

[bata]

a couple of months ago i would have said lonely

both now im feeling free =)

there is nothing wrong if you feel lonely

we are human beings

we become lonely

but that shouldn't bother us

 

[vanillaLatte]

Being single is the best decision I've made this year! Oh my. It took me two years of bargaining, denial, negotiating and fighting for a relationship that I thought would work, but has been making me unhappy. I am very much better now. It's not exactly about dating others, but more of the high of getting out of limbo. It was the easiest break-up ever, no tears, no drama. I was over before it's over. Probably because I got tired of making it work. I've shed enough tears in those years that left me dry of emotions. It is a wonder that I am not even missing being with someone, perhaps it was that bad. A trauma you shouldn't miss.

 

It was like resigning from a job that have been burning you out, but you wanted because it was promising, so you stayed; but upon getting out of it, you realize there are better things worth your time, effort and commitment.

Edited September 1, 2011 by vanillaLatte

[EikichiOnizuka]

the most natural reaction would be to feel the lonesome. But it passes rather quickly, then you feel free since nothing seems to hold you back; until such time you see your friends all in relationships then that's the time you feel the pangs of coldness wrap through your being. When you wished someone was there to hold you, and make you feel secured.

 

how I wish to be in a relationship again, to be able to take care of someone, and know that someone will be there when I get home tired from the daily grind. Just have to get on with life and hope to meet a girl who can be all that and more.

[crazyman]

Sometimes lonely somethings free.. Pag naiisip mo yung good times ninyo nakakalungkot... Pero paminsan free ka na gumawa ng kahit ano wala na pipigil sayo and pag iniisip mo mgs problema niyo dati iisipin mo na lang "Hay sa wakas wala na..."

 

Sometimes lonely somethings free.. Pag naiisip mo yung good times ninyo nakakalungkot... Pero paminsan free ka na gumawa ng kahit ano wala na pipigil sayo and pag iniisip mo mgs problema niyo dati iisipin mo na lang "Hay sa wakas wala na..."

[malisyosa_ako]

lonely................ ok lang...............

[devilgodspeed]

at first its always LONELINESS but afterwards I'M FREE!!!

[Mr.Hardman]

hi malisyosa ur free pla at lonely

[chopiters]

it feels more like freedom. una akala ko lonely e pero it gave me time to catch up with friends. of course hahanap-hanapin pa din yung ganung special person in life so may butas sa puso.

 

so both but more on the freedom side. pero most definitely it made me feel richer. hahaha!

[Quinn]

Ahhh being single.

 

All those Women. So little time

 

 

 

Pero syempre not all the time is spent on screwing and fooling around.

 

For me being single means having enough time to find that one single Girl whom you'll be happy to surrender your singlehood