vanillaLatte Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 (edited) at first i was lonely and needy. now i feel i'm at the peak of my life. i did so many things since we broke up, did stuff for the first time, traveled to places, met new and interesting people, worked hard, partied big time, gone sporty, been up and about and all over the place. it's not that he was hindering me before to do the things i wanted to do. but i'd rather be with him than do Other Things. now i've realized how small his world was and remembered when he said it was (just) me who spiced it up. he's a good guy, but i would never grow up in my own pace with him. or he would have had a hard time catching up with (if ever). i don't want to call it being free. i was never tied. but it's very liberating to be on my own. Edited April 2, 2009 by vanillaLatte Quote Link to comment
bigj37 Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 at first i was lonely and needy. now i feel i'm at the peak of my life. i did so many things since we broke up, did stuff for the first time, traveled to places, met new and interesting people, worked hard, partied big time, gone sporty, been up and about and all over the place. it's not that he was hindering me before to do the things i wanted to do. but i'd rather be with him than do Other Things. now i've realized how small his world was and remembered when he said it was (just) me who spiced it up. he's a good guy, but i would never grow up in my own pace with him. or he would have had a hard time catching up with (if ever). i don't want to call it being free. i was never tied. but it's very liberating to be on my own.I feel you sis, I am separated from my wife for 4 1/2 years now and I can say, I have moved on. I don't see my singleness as a failure but rather I now embrace it as a blessing in disguise. I can do what I want when I want. Of course there was the feeling sad and lonely stage at first but as soon as I realized that things are not so bad after all, I started to enjoy the things I missed doing when we were still together. Mabuhay tayong mga FREE AGAIN!!! :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
antonhachirocku Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 SINGLE??? ang hirap ata nun, malungkot na buhay mo, sariling sikap ka pa... YUN NGA LANG... LIBRE KANG GAWIN LAHAT... hehehe Quote Link to comment
Leyna Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I guess I feel more lonely than free... I was young and so much in love at seventeen. Now after 10 years... I've almost forgotten how it feels to be unattached...to be alone...to have no one to make you smile after a long tiring day just by holding your hand... Quote Link to comment
hunterkiller007 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Same here leyna... But we dont loose hope at all... there is so much reasons to be happy... and soon... to be in love Quote Link to comment
QTkolehiyala Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 the feeling of loneliness is always normal after a break up. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
dakkon blackblade Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 heck it's lonely... cellphone ko parang wala ng silbi, i mean i could leave it at home and come back na walang papasok na message of any significance... and yet youre free to do anything and go anywhere without worrying bout someone na magagalit at magn-nag sau for doing something or goin somewhere na di mo naipaalam... Quote Link to comment
kentx5494 Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Being single... It has its ups and downs. But if you just came from a very long relationship lets say 2,3,4 years.. its not that easy to move on Yes!! you maybe enjoying the freedom of a thousand doves but deep inside you just cant deny the feeling.. The questions that will haunt you.. Will I ever find someone like him/her?? Im again back to the "getting to know you" stage?? Whats it for me after all of this?? Simply so hard to explain.. All that you could do is hope and pray to GOD that hopefully that faithfull day will come and give you that special someone who will love you and take you in his/her arms.. Quote Link to comment
JustInnCase Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 free again! exciting ang maghanap ng bagong maliligawan Quote Link to comment
Chiq Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Im single for over a year now and I have learned alot about myself and what I want my future self to be. I started going out on dates recently pero wala pa ko makitang guy na parang may potential. Im not super picky but after going through several relationships, I want my next one to be the right one. It's nice being single but it get's tiring and lonely after awhile. Quote Link to comment
Guest Riveria Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 Feeling Lonely of course. When I sleep I see him in my dreams. When I'm awake I think of him. Time will come that I'll be able to see..FREE AT LAST..but for now...I'm so lonely. I miss him. Quote Link to comment
GrandLurker Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 Uncomfortable because when I see a cute girl sa bar or a joint flirting with me. parang hindi ko magawang ligawan or aabot lang sa point na intorductions, then I get the number, then I give up because parang wala kang maramdaman Quote Link to comment
OnCall Posted June 22, 2009 Share Posted June 22, 2009 9 months ng sober and counting. HEHE Quote Link to comment
wyette Posted June 22, 2009 Share Posted June 22, 2009 Lonely tonight. But looking forward to Future nights. Quote Link to comment
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