pipoysupot Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 a) choose your heart and be happy. choose jer-jer and get naughty. c) choose your brain and save yourself the trouble. i chose c... should have gone with a or b. Quote Link to comment
gulaman Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 natural brain, sino naman ba kasi may pakana na pag love eh heart agad ang inuugnay...taga bomba lang naman ng dugo ang puso, Quote Link to comment
Jourdan Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 let's all be honest...Homo sapiens sapiens are animals. some things are just built in to our systems. hence, taking out all the rationalizations people often resort to, it's plain and simple: sexual attraction, then conscious interactions, then finally idealization. in lay terms: sexual urge -> brain -> proverbial heart. Quote Link to comment
bababoom Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 for me para masabing in love ako...dapat he occupies my mind....i feel that we have connections...yung tipong nararamdaman ko if he has problem kahit di niya sabihin....i feel his presence kahit malayo siya...at higit sa lahat.....may lust akong dapat na nararamdaman everytime i think of him or im with him. sabi nga ng tropa...pag walang lust...wag na ibf... friends na lang Quote Link to comment
bigay_hilig Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 (edited) of course the HEART! siya ang sisira sa bait mo and it will dictate your brain to think of that person more than anything. ur brain will process the strategy on how to get near her, how to win her, how to get close with her and the likes. sex for me is just a bonus since falling in love for me means having the right intentions for her. pag kinalabit niya ako, WHY NOT? i wont make the first move pero i will listen to body language - kse torpe po ako! takot ako ma-reject! Edited October 2, 2007 by bigay_hilig Quote Link to comment
mistere57 Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 i think its not a question of the Brain vs the Heart vs Sexual Urges to determine whether you are in love or not... it should be the Brain + the Heart + Sexual Urges!!! if all 3 exists then you have a winner (weaner??? )... sex will always be a part of any intimate relationship... love is the most intimate relationship of all kasi it transcends the physical.... goes into the emotional... and crosses over to the spiritual.... remember... sexual incompatability is grounds for annulment... so make sure you got all the bases covered or uncovered.... :cool: Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 (edited) it must be the cycle of the moon...the cycle of my bills...and the cycle of my period... Edited October 2, 2007 by iwalkalone Quote Link to comment
chelly Posted October 3, 2007 Share Posted October 3, 2007 biologically, when your body releases endorphins (hormones secreted by the brain) you will feel the sensation of "falling in love" such as euphoria (happiness, giddy, light). whenever you feel this sensation...you most often would say "im in love" with whomever you are associating those sensations with. emotionally, whenever you feel a sense of "attachment" to a certain person...you begin to equate that with falling in love with that person. You begin to want to be with that particular individual more than others. sexually, you feel attraction for the person...a strong urge to swap fluids. Hahahhahha. sexual attraction could happen without emotional attachment thus some people could just walk away after the act of coupling has taken place since the sexual urge has been satisfied. so how do most people determine if they're in love? it should really a battle between the brain and the heart. Personally, I have been relying on my heart to help me decide on how i handle relationships in the past. Does it work? For me...sadly it does not. Now im approaching relationships ...and potential relationships...with both my brain and heart. As for the sexual urges...those come and go but once i start feeling a sense of "attachment" to a specific individual...i now consciously stand back a bit and listen to what my brain is telling me before i take a plunge. So far, my brain has kept me from making the same mistakes i have done in the past. Quote Link to comment
princeal007 Posted October 3, 2007 Share Posted October 3, 2007 (edited) interms of love, I want my brain to function, but usually what happens is that my heart overcomes logic >_< Edited October 3, 2007 by princeal007 Quote Link to comment
TonyLeung Posted October 17, 2007 Share Posted October 17, 2007 Sometimes it's really hard to differentiate. Quote Link to comment
DonImus Posted October 17, 2007 Share Posted October 17, 2007 The heart usually tells the brain and tames the urges Quote Link to comment
pointzero Posted October 18, 2007 Author Share Posted October 18, 2007 so basically... anu nga? is it the brain? the heart? or just plain sexual urge? Quote Link to comment
LawKo Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 it depends... ikaw na bahala...sometimes your mind say no but your body is telling you yes...or the other way around... Quote Link to comment
TheIceMan Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 The Brains tells you what's right from wrong, the body satisfies your sexual urges, but only the heart can tell you your in-love. :heart: Quote Link to comment
bc917 Posted November 29, 2007 Share Posted November 29, 2007 i've gotten to that point in my life where the main driver is the urge. once i get connected and intimacy sets in, the heart takes over. finally the brain when it starts asking if the relationship, which started with urge in the first place, is worth going the distance. usually, in my case, the brain kicks in when i start feeling the urge for somebody new it is regrettable because i used to be driven by heart Quote Link to comment
frankiboi Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 its always the heart... you dont think when you are inlove... you feel... Quote Link to comment
yellowmoon Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 heart... :heart: :heart: :heart: and it's the only one who can feel the excitement of being inlove... and the pain... :cry: Quote Link to comment
mysogynist1020 Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 scintifically speaking its ur brain that tells u ur inlove its just hta yung heart ang naging symbol nung love.... now the sexual urges pops up pag love mo n yung tao...well wait kahit di mo pala love e my sexual urges ka pa din ... Quote Link to comment
ilb4u2nyt Posted December 13, 2007 Share Posted December 13, 2007 lately my brain then my heart :heart: ... urge has come and gone Quote Link to comment
blow_gobi Posted December 13, 2007 Share Posted December 13, 2007 It's the heart. But the brain tells me how to handle it while the sexual urge keeps the flame of passion alive. Quote Link to comment
Mobius Stripper Posted December 15, 2007 Share Posted December 15, 2007 Starts & ends with the heart. Quote Link to comment
kiara Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 biologically, when your body releases endorphins (hormones secreted by the brain) you will feel the sensation of "falling in love" such as euphoria (happiness, giddy, light). whenever you feel this sensation...you most often would say "im in love" with whomever you are associating those sensations with. emotionally, whenever you feel a sense of "attachment" to a certain person...you begin to equate that with falling in love with that person. You begin to want to be with that particular individual more than others. sexually, you feel attraction for the person...a strong urge to swap fluids. Hahahhahha. sexual attraction could happen without emotional attachment thus some people could just walk away after the act of coupling has taken place since the sexual urge has been satisfied. so how do most people determine if they're in love? it should really a battle between the brain and the heart. Personally, I have been relying on my heart to help me decide on how i handle relationships in the past. Does it work? For me...sadly it does not. Now im approaching relationships ...and potential relationships...with both my brain and heart. As for the sexual urges...those come and go but once i start feeling a sense of "attachment" to a specific individual...i now consciously stand back a bit and listen to what my brain is telling me before i take a plunge. So far, my brain has kept me from making the same mistakes i have done in the past. well said.. Quote Link to comment
uaeboy25 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 hindi porket mahilig tau sa sexy ibig sabihin libog lang yun. ok tinuro lang to ng prof ko sa psyco 101. sabi nya based sa study ni sigmund frued maari daw na ang human desires a attractive a sexy person. pero in thier unconsious mind it just happen na exited lang sila kasi gusto nila ng healthy na offspring. my mga guy na sobrang desire sa women in power kasi naniniwala sila na those women can produce a good offspring. sinasabi nila na nasarapan sila sa girl na sexy(commonly sabi nila sexual urge lang) pero sa unconsious mind nila they desire to have a good kids like them. sa mga tao na gusto naman is brain nagkataon they value it to much andun ang pagpapahalaga nila. not all is sexual urge. heart ang pinaka complicated. madaling magmahal, madaling mabigo, madaling makarecover at madaling magmahal ulit. cycle lang lang. nagkakataon lang na yung iba mabagal ang cycle ng love nila. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
pla2nicguy Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 agree................. :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
alteclansing Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 usually 2 out of the 3 choices works just fine. Mahirap kung love lang tapos hindi naman kayo compatible sa kama. Hindi pwedeng lust lang kasi kailangan mo rin magmahal at mahalin. Utak hmm never really thought about this one Quote Link to comment
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